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Re: What Can I Do About This by Charmingrascal(m): 9:35am On Dec 16, 2023
Lol

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Re: What Can I Do About This by spinna: 9:35am On Dec 16, 2023
Forget it..and don't be naive..you a cleaner, are in 'love' with a bank staff.

You have no rapport or friendship with her yet you are already in love

No be love be that

Build yourself ..if you plan to further your study do so

If you want to shoot your shot with banker lady go for friendship first..be her gee.. Have good banter ..cracking jokes with her and leave it at that until you have finished school..then if the friendship is still in place you can try to upgrade it to dating since you are now on same mental and education level

To have friends , you need to be friendly.. but be careful of making bad friends because they can easily wreck your life

But being socially awkward is a no..a man must be confident in every situation.

I advice you to go to school .you can gi for a banking related field in the higher institutions..meanwhile start learning about it now .being in the bank as a cleaner you can still become a bank MD if you work hard and believe in yourself


Foggerrabout love with the girl but try if you guys can be office buddies i.e strictly friends ..do not pressure her in any way or you will lose the job

Build yourself ..become more outgoing..know the Lord now in your youth..be involved in your church units and evangelism where you can build up your self confidence and speaking skills

Its well with you

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Re: What Can I Do About This by BigDawsNet: 9:35am On Dec 16, 2023
Its okay... love is a wonderful thing

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Re: What Can I Do About This by cenaman(m): 9:35am On Dec 16, 2023
Nollywood over to you.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Franzinni: 9:35am On Dec 16, 2023
Don't waste your time ... Go and read about hypergamy... Then you would understand why

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Jesusmystrength(f): 9:35am On Dec 16, 2023
shocked

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Michaelkelvin1(m): 9:36am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry

Please what should I do

Yor nor VA chee anything

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Sonnobax15(m): 9:36am On Dec 16, 2023
lipsrsealed
Cleaner na human being too na...

Simply because he's a cleaner today doesn't mean he will not be greater than what he's at this moment...

The nigha should shoot his shot....

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Re: What Can I Do About This by remiopash: 9:36am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry

Please what should I do

Do not let her status bother you. Go ahead and profess your love for her but have it in the back of your mind that there may be repercussions ,either positive or negative.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by ORIAYO70(m): 9:36am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?


You will be proud of him if he is a Yahoo boy. Nonsense

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Re: What Can I Do About This by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 9:37am On Dec 16, 2023
grin grin grin grin

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Sharmeenator(m): 9:37am On Dec 16, 2023
You don't love her, you are just lusting after her bro. If you chop wetin you wan chop, your eyes go clear. I will advise you focus more on your self development and leave the elderly foods for the elders

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Popeonah(m): 9:37am On Dec 16, 2023
Brother focus on your life, when the time comes you will see thousands to love. Don't love stupidly. Imagine you are sacked after they found out you are In love with her.... Use your brain bro

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Hotfreezing: 9:37am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

His salary as a cleaner is more than what your father earned when he married your mother.
Re: What Can I Do About This by Kobojunkie: 9:37am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
β–  Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.
So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.
Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry
Please what should I do
You rarely socialize, then start by doing something about that. Join a club or hang our after work at a local bar near were you live for some hours each weekend so that way you can feel less lonely. undecided

As for furthering your education, you can equally start by studying for a certification test of your liking when you are not working. Take the test when you are believe you are ready and go from there . Education no be only for 4 walls of college. Even as you dey work, you can still develop yourself. lipsrsealed

As for the lady, why not develop yourself and your self-esteem before you approach her that way even if she rejects you, you wouldn't be so crushed by it. lipsrsealed

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Re: What Can I Do About This by BloomingDale(f): 9:37am On Dec 16, 2023
ikeno:
Hypocrites and two face people full this forum.
He can't have a relationship with her cause she's a bank and he's a cleaner? But, a male banker can have a relationship with a female cleaner abi.
Try being friends with her, you can also compliment her on so many things.

Don’t shit where you eat.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by OlawaleBammie: 9:38am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry

Please what should I do
Aaaaahhh

Alaye ment or malaria??

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Re: What Can I Do About This by psalmistkakah(m): 9:38am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?
Ashame of wat...u too no be ur mate dey hold top position for govt..If d guy go steal u go condem am.now he go hustle instead of encouraging him to further his education and forget love matter...from experience u dey insult am

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Abalado(f): 9:38am On Dec 16, 2023
You go soon get sense boy

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Re: What Can I Do About This by lordnkem000(m): 9:38am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?
You must be stupid for spitting this nonsense to him, is he not a human being? Are cleaners not humans who deserves respect? Look well na jobless youth wey dey use free data

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Re: What Can I Do About This by TheFinesseKid: 9:39am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry

Please what should I do
Don't do it bro. Women don't date down. Don't disgrace your lineage please. Abort mission

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Angelfrost(m): 9:39am On Dec 16, 2023
Kingrshd3:
Broke men no dey date ..

You better learn from men's mistake and face ur work

Well, anyone can date... They should sha stay in their lanes. tongue
Re: What Can I Do About This by Armaggedon: 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
Na small pikin dey worry you tongue
Re: What Can I Do About This by Benwallt(m): 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

You're a poor specimen of a man.
Re: What Can I Do About This by campbelljosh(m): 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
Just look at the way you broke shame this Young man for doing a legit job, why not offer him a better job then. Some of you people are worse than pandemic
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

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Re: What Can I Do About This by lordnkem000(m): 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
pansophist:


Should he go and thief?

There is always someone who will do the menial jobs, and for now, it is him. His situation can change for the better, and such is life.

Dont shame a hardworking person, its disgusting.
Please help me tell that idiot

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Re: What Can I Do About This by gigabyte13: 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
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You dey carry your hand go, where e no supposed dey.....
Better face your life ambition
I no wan hear, say, na because l be cleaner, na why she insulted me.
Love is a beautiful thing but
Love sef, supposed apply sense.
Try shoot your shot sha
Anything wey your eyes and ear see and hear together.
Take am like that.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Lifestone(m): 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
pansophist:


Should he go and thief?

There is always someone who will do the menial jobs, and for now, it is him. His situation can change for the better, and such is life.

Dont shame a hardworking person, its disgusting.
Somebody already advice him to use his tongue to count his teeth, I'm sure he does not know the meaning of that.
I counsel guys to operate at their level.l, if you don't, it will end in premium tears

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Re: What Can I Do About This by ORIAYO70(m): 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
TheFreshVanilla:
This is what happens when you watch those youtube Nollywood movies like "How A Poor Cleaner Captured D Heart Of Her Banker Boss". Try your luck. Na slap you go chop.

Why laughing at ur comment if my phone fall u go pay... I cant laff harder pls
Re: What Can I Do About This by Angelfrost(m): 9:40am On Dec 16, 2023
BigDawsNet:
Its okay... love LUST is a wonderful thing

Yeah... It's truly "wonderful". tongue

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Re: What Can I Do About This by JADEK04: 9:41am On Dec 16, 2023
You didn't love u loss
Re: What Can I Do About This by money121(m): 9:41am On Dec 16, 2023
Ok

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