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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by ezegenigbonine: 6:30pm On Dec 29, 2023
BabaHenry:

Why are you this senseless ?
Passion over marriage ?
Passion affecting your way of life or what ?
Can you even hear yourself, did you read the part where she said, he sometimes get aggressive and depressed before giving this stupid opinion ?
All Arsenal Players and board has their own life to leave so is he, I don't see a reason why someone will be super obsessed like that.
That's a total red flag and might cause lifetime damage if not controlled on time.

It is not good to insult an already made idiots.
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by ezegenigbonine: 6:31pm On Dec 29, 2023
oneolajire:


How is that a passion? Pls explain.

Isn't that a means of depression?

Won't he return home one day and destroy things just because his team lost? What stake does he have in assets of Arsenal? Will he do that to his boss?

Arsenal doesn't even know he exist.
Rubbish dot com

It seems you don't watch football
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by ednut1(m): 6:33pm On Dec 29, 2023
Fanatics over something you dont get paid is mental sickness.
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by GboyegaD(m): 6:38pm On Dec 29, 2023
ahnie:
I use to be a staunch supporter of arsenal years ago,my heart was shattered when Chelsea then under Jose Mourinho trashed us 7 zeros I have forgotten the year

The goals were just raining like pellets non stop Asif it was Basketball.i cried my eyes out that year it was those years when Theo Walcot was in super shape


........omorr I just jejely left them before cardiac go kill my enemies.I have bn club less since then.


Arsenal is not it rara till date.support arsenal at your own risk.

Some of us have been Arsenal fans for 2 decades plus and still counting. I was disappointed yesterday but, na there my own end ooo. Dem no give me money and expect make I stress over dem? God forbid!

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by egopersonified(f): 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2023
ahnie:
I use to be a staunch supporter of arsenal years ago,my heart was shattered when Chelsea then under Jose Mourinho trashed us 7 zeros I have forgotten the year

The goals were just raining like pellets non stop Asif it was Basketball.i cried my eyes out that year it was those years when Theo Walcot was in super shape


........omorr I just jejely left them before cardiac go kill my enemies.I have bn club less since then.


Arsenal is not it rara till date.support arsenal at your own risk.

Wow, my late husband was also an arsenal fan. He said he started following because of Thierry Henry. Our second son is named Theophilus in honour of Theophilus Walcott. I hate football because he dedicated so much time to it. My kids have taken over now. I refused to subscribe for GOTV for two weeks when my kids own was getting too much. To make matters worse, one of them is a footballer and the other a basketballer. So I have to endure football, basketball and wrestling now.

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by ahnie: 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2023
GboyegaD:


Some of us have been Arsenal fans for 2 decades plus and still counting. I was disappointed yesterday but, na there my own end ooo. Dem no give me money and expect make I stress over dem? God forbid!
Lolxx I m very emotional I nor de like wetin de stress me.

Happy festive Gboski.

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by ahnie: 6:43pm On Dec 29, 2023
Nne I remember you very well.

Back then one die hard arsenal fan by name...odiawawa named his first Son fabregas....

That man is the real GOAT.
your late DH is also the real MVP.


egopersonified:


Wow, my late husband was also an arsenal fan. He said he started following because of Thierry Henry. Our second son is named Theophilus in honour of Theophilus Walcott. I hate football because he dedicated so much time to it. My kids have taken over now. I refused to subscribe for GOTV for two weeks when my kids own was getting too much. To make matters worse, one of them is a footballer and the other a basketballer. So I have to endure football, basketball and wrestling now.

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by DOptical: 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2023
MrBroke:


I'm a Man-City fan so after breaking up with him just come to me. City always make their fans happy so our relationship is going to be fun

grin

I had to laugh at man City always making their fans happy

grin

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by tunwumi: 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??


Stop pointing out that the issue is arsenal fc. Start a campaign of maturity and tell him to grow up. He cannot lead you of be the head of family when he cannot handle just a game loss of his darling club.


Ask him if he ever wonder how the players cope with their family when some of them may not even support their paying and playing club?

He is behaving immature and need to stop. It is.juat like you getting angry and sad for days if a guy in BBnaija got eliminated and you refuse to do your duties as a wife.
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by egopersonified(f): 6:46pm On Dec 29, 2023
ahnie:
Nne I remember you very well.

Back then one die hard arsenal fan by name...odiawawa named his first Son fabregas....

That man is the real GOAT.
your late DH is also the real MVP.



Fabregas grin
And I am complaining.

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by rickleye: 6:46pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??


Hi there,

I’ll start by saying your bf isn’t matured.

I am a huge New England Patriots fan and a fan of the English National Team. So much that I have yearly Super Bowl Party.

I even did a give away when we made it Euro final only for us to loose in the final against the people in blue. I was so happy when we traded Jorginho from Chelsea to Arsenal. ( I am a closet Chelsea fan ) because he scored the penalty against us ( England).

That said he has to learn to compartmentalize.

I recall during the Kobe Lakers years . I am a huge fan. I’ll be sitting down and my Gf then would say “ yes, I am happy the Lakers are loosing ” . I almost choked her and dragged her to drink water from the toilet bowl . I was brimming with anger 😡. Furious . Unapologetic. I said , would you get out of here before I do something I regret. This is life to me. It is life and death.
Same-thing when Patriots played Atlanta and we came back to win 34-28.

Just to say I am a huge sports fan.
That said , what I told my other gf was that instead of being insensitive to my plight . To give me some breathing room. I am hurt and I need time to heal . As a dude, I needed to remember that it is just a game and not to take it too serious .


It isn’t enough in my book to break up unless it becomes violent.

Sorry it’s long

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Taiwo20(m): 6:47pm On Dec 29, 2023
Tell him to enjoy football without sentiment.
If he has been involved in sport betting he should reduce it or bet without sentiment
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by 1phone(m): 6:49pm On Dec 29, 2023
Why won't you breakup with him when ladies need nothing to get the next available guy?

Just a little make up and red lipstick 💋, half-dressed and smiles-thats all

But men have to work, beg, persuade, convince to get a girl to spend on

Nonsense

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by ahnie: 6:49pm On Dec 29, 2023
Yes o...He has a beer tavern in Kano state new road by Court road sabongari...he even decorated his bar with arsenal regalia.

Just ask of odiawawa....lolz such a crazy man.



My neighbors son in my compound now he's an undergrad of university of agbor his name is ROONEY.


lolxx
egopersonified:


Fabregas grin
And I am complaining.

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by EmekaBlue(m): 6:52pm On Dec 29, 2023
Maybe he gambles big when Arsenal plays...So loosing alot of money is also involved in the attitude

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by 2goodbobo(m): 6:55pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??

Check carefully he plays bet and is possible he played Arsenal to win and they lost. Hence, his outburst
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by MAYOWAAK: 7:01pm On Dec 29, 2023
RECYCLING is what relationship is all about these days.
No one is actually Single.
You dump him and he becomes your EX.
You take over the one dumped by someone and treat him as your new man while another person takes over your own EX too.
So life goes on...

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by vikkogg: 7:04pm On Dec 29, 2023
If you're based in Lagos, let me be your new man. I don't watch football, neither do I support any club.

FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??

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Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Wizpa(m): 7:04pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
How can someone lock door refuse to talk or eat his food just because of a football match??
Even threaten to throw padlock at me for disturbing him because his team lost
I'm done!! Can't be dealing with a child that calls himself a man. Very childish attitude

Both of you fit each other!

You will see responsible men out there to be with, you will refuse and give them hard time and follow a baby (football fanatic) that doesn't understand that life has up and downs just like forex (you win some and lose some) then you come here and start crying all over the place.

You never start!
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Enculer2: 7:06pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??

Valid reason to drop him.
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by GboyegaD(m): 7:07pm On Dec 29, 2023
ahnie:

Lolxx I m very emotional I nor de like wetin de stress me.

Happy festive Gboski.

Same to you. I guess I no too care reach dat one sha naim make e no fit stress me.
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by EnterpriseMan: 7:10pm On Dec 29, 2023
He's supporting Arsenal and you're still dating him grin grin Trouble dey sleep yanga go wake am! Carry your leg and run madam. Don't date Arsenal fans grin cheesy
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Engrchoko: 7:11pm On Dec 29, 2023
ahnie:
I use to be a staunch supporter of arsenal years ago,my heart was shattered when Chelsea then under Jose Mourinho trashed us 7 zeros I have forgotten the year

The goals were just raining like pellets non stop Asif it was Basketball.i cried my eyes out that year it was those years when Theo Walcot was in super shape


........omorr I just jejely left them before cardiac go kill my enemies.I have bn club less since then.


Arsenal is not it rara till date.support arsenal at your own risk.

This same match made me stop fanning Arsenal and joined Chelsea.
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by doneback04: 7:17pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
How can someone lock door refuse to talk or eat his food just because of a football match??
Even threaten to throw padlock at me for disturbing him because his team lost
I'm done!! Can't be dealing with a child that calls himself a man. Very childish attitude


If it has gotten to this extend, you just have to be careful because it affecting his emotions naturally
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by SweetDipBenny(m): 7:22pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??
Maybe he's a gambler, and he keep losing money. Have you thought of that?
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by saintnegroid(m): 7:26pm On Dec 29, 2023
ezegenigbonine:


You want to take away his passion because he want to marry you? Bullshit
you no make sense at all ..... I hope say no be this kind brain you dey carry cross road o
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Downey(f): 7:31pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:

God knows how much I tried to overlook this behavior. Thanks I think I will break up tomorrow



Mumu you! Just because of football... Abi you don dey reason another man for conner?
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Aruwe1(m): 7:36pm On Dec 29, 2023
You are being funny if you say you want to break up with your man because he loves his football team and get depressed whenever they lose, you better sit yourself down and rethink...... football lovers get sad and depressed whenever their team lose , me sef no like to dey see Manchester United lose 😂, if that's the only issue he's having u better calm down sis so you won't choose the wrong partner.please rethink sis
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Oluwadare316(m): 7:45pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??
He should calm down, no be by force for elephant to sit on the tree 🌲 🤣 it's cool to love ur football club or anything to that extent but he should find/learn to control himself. Some people dey loose on sport betting regularly**customer dada🤣 and they are managing their self. The owners of the club still dey breathe despite the loss, life goes on. They can still bounce back, make he no give himself depression on top football.
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by shineeye1: 7:45pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??

Your village people de worry you? You never tire to waka from preek to preek? You wan quit again because a man has passion for his club! [b]Was he abusive or violent on you [/b]when he was depressed by his club's loss?! You even confessed he is a cool guy!
Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by Csami(m): 7:48pm On Dec 29, 2023
FeliciaOja:
How can someone lock door refuse to talk or eat his food just because of a football match??
Even threaten to throw padlock at me for disturbing him because his team lost
I'm done!! Can't be dealing with a child that calls himself a man. Very childish attitude

For real, you were disturbing him. He’s a grown man. He knows what’s good and bad for him. When he’s happy, be happy with him. When he’s frustrated like last night, let him be!
People are not that difficult to understand but you choose to ignore those little things.
As long as he didn’t hit you, he’s fine.

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