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Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 29, 2023
Very thoughtful answers.....
Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by MatrixReloaded: 6:58pm On Dec 29, 2023
grin grin Yes..
I'm a living witness.

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Zonefree(m): 7:00pm On Dec 29, 2023
Capital NO.

There must be coitus to legalize the friendship.

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Natbrowny: 7:03pm On Dec 29, 2023
A man and a woman relationship includes

Business Partnership
F*ck Buddies
Dating relationship
Neighbours - Just neighbors (not friends)

Once friendship don dey involve without dating/Kpenshing.

Most likely - One person will be using the other psychological, physically, mentally, without one knowing whats up until things becomes clear

Other Possible scenarios
👉 One person keeps the other by d side incase their plans fail. They have a fall back plan
👉 One person or both will develop feelings (which wont look like friends anymore)
👉 If that feeling develops and they r both friendzoned. One or both partners becomes jealous of the person's real mate.

Other people shud come with points sha o.

As a rule for me. As a man to woman strollzz.
Its either we are doing business or we r f*cking.

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Ireportlive: 7:10pm On Dec 29, 2023
Yes. Depending on your age and maturity

From your teenage years to perhaps 36years your libidos are high, you have high testosterone and you want more sex...

sometimes after 36 you have probably fvcked black white, yellow, green, fat , slim, girls.. and sex isn't your priorities

When sex is no longer your priorities you set a realistic goal of relationship

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by brain54(m): 7:45pm On Dec 29, 2023
Some of the best friendships I ever had...

Have actually been with women!

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by malaria(f): 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2023
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by SenecaTheYonger: 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2023
That’s for the woman to decide

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by CandidAdmin(m): 8:24pm On Dec 29, 2023
Yeah. Currently with one.
She's a childhood friend tho!

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Nebes: 9:14pm On Dec 29, 2023
For what?

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Palazee(m): 9:34pm On Dec 29, 2023
If you are benefitting one way or the other. Yeah

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by ItisWell22(f): 9:38pm On Dec 29, 2023
Them no dey keep goat and yam together; according to my mpa. 😮‍💨

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Vinnie2000(m): 9:50pm On Dec 29, 2023
ONLY if the Man is UGLY and BROKE and the Woman is Unattractive! sad

But once the Guy is handsome and the Lady has cute Breasts and Yanch,
One of them MUST catch Feelings. smiley smiley

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Sonnobax15(m): 10:14pm On Dec 29, 2023
lipsrsealed
Yes....But it depends on who they are and the kind of mentality they both have..

Currently,my bestie is a female........and we've been like that for years...Tho feelings were coming along the way at a certain time,but I had to control mine...

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Illegal1(m): 10:21pm On Dec 29, 2023
omoh..........my current bestie is a female

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Vinnie2000(m): 10:29pm On Dec 29, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Yes....But it depends on who they are and the kind of mentality they both have..

Currently,my bestie is a female........and we've been like that for years...Tho feelings were coming along the way at a certain time,but I had to control mine...

Do you think She has controlled hers? sad

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Vinnie2000(m): 10:34pm On Dec 29, 2023
Illegal1:
omoh..........my current bestie is a female

Make Una continue to dey Deceive unaSelves sad.

I have done this Female Bestie thingy and I can Tell you, Is a WASTE of Time. undecided

Most Female Besties of Guys Just wants to Use Them to Pass time!
They will Hug, Touch and be Rubbing you but Steadily looking for a Rich Dude for proper relationship. sad

Once they see such Guy, they will DUMP you! embarassed

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Fiscus105(m): 12:13am On Dec 30, 2023
malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.



The opposite sex you want to make ur friend, won't he/she have lover/husband or wife?
How did you want him/her to be feeling when she sees you going close to her husband?

If you think nothing is happening between you and him, will other parties think in that way too?

What about ur own lover? Do you think he/she would be comfortable with that too?

Will you because of friendship not settle down or you want ur marriage to suffer because of mere friendship with opposite gender?

IF YOU ARE A MARRIED WOMAN AND UR HUSBAND BEAT U AND THROWN YOU OUT AS RESULT OF UR MALE FRIEND WHICH HE MISTAKEN FOR INFIDELITY, IM SURE YOU WILL STILL BLAME UR PARTNER AND CLAIM INNOCENCE, MEANWHILE, "Marriage na scam crew" WILL NOT BLAME YOU BUT MARRIAGE INSTITUTION.

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by papyjaypaul: 12:49am On Dec 30, 2023
yes. Big yes.

You attract what you think. If it's the other room that is on your mind you will eventually go there. If you are disciplined, you know where to draw the line. This idea that something must happen, sometimes I ask if these people grew up with their parents or grandparents because if they did they will see and learn a lot

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Kobojunkie: 12:52am On Dec 30, 2023
rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....
It is quite possible when you have two sexually disciplined individuals who know and value the relationship above the possible rush of hormones/chemicals through their bodies. undecided

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Olatara(f): 6:29am On Dec 30, 2023
I have two male friends and I can't have sex with them. They more beneficial to me as friends.

Sometimes, I have the thoughts like if I sleep with so and so, how do we continue being friends?

Nah!!!

I reject am!

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by BigDickProblems: 6:53am On Dec 30, 2023
Ireportlive:
Yes. Depending on your age and maturity

From your teenage years to perhaps 36years your libidos are high, you have high testosterone and you want more sex...

sometimes after 36 you have probably fvcked black white, yellow, green, fat , slim, girls.. and sex isn't your priorities

When sex is no longer your priorities you set a realistic goal of relationship

So if your wife of 36 tells you she has a a very good male friend, you'll assume she is matured? And at 36, as a guy, you start practicing celibacy because you are matured?

Most of you just open your mouth waaaaa, and spew rubbish. I wonder the mumus that liked your post sad

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Ireportlive: 6:56am On Dec 30, 2023
BigDickProblems:


So if your wife of 36 tells you she has a a very good male friend, you'll assume she is matured? And at 36, as a guy, you start practicing celibacy because you are matured?

Most of you just open your mouth waaaaa, and spew rubbish. I wonder the mumus that liked your post sad


You are still young, just look at your moniker sef, you are not worth arguing with Mr bigdick

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Quality20(m): 7:06am On Dec 30, 2023
Why can't they be? Haven't u seen many girls on campuses who have guys as best friends n they remain cool

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by BigDickProblems: 8:01am On Dec 30, 2023
Ireportlive:


You are still young, just look at your moniker sef, you are not worth arguing with Mr bigdick

Lols, you can't have a small schlong and think smart. If not, answer those questions.

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by LooneyLester: 9:54am On Dec 30, 2023
Yes




There are a lot fággots that are besties with females

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by Illegal1(m): 3:35pm On Dec 30, 2023
Vinnie2000:


Make Una continue to dey Deceive unaSelves sad.

I have done this Female Bestie thingy and I can Tell you, Is a WASTE of Time. undecided

Most Female Besties of Guys Just wants to Use Them to Pass time!
They will Hug, Touch and be Rubbing you but Steadily looking for a Rich Dude for proper relationship. sad

Once they see such Guy, they will DUMP you! embarassed


omoh...........i never told u i want to marry her

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by happney65: 10:46pm On Dec 30, 2023
Nibo, Sibo.

I can only be your friend if I want to fvck you.

Ere kini aja ba ekun shey?

undecided

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by C2Ok: 10:46pm On Dec 30, 2023
If not that we live in a morally bankrupt society, this question ought to have been ignored because it doesn’t make sense angry

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by adesegun121(m): 10:47pm On Dec 30, 2023
Ok
Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by iCauseTrouble: 10:47pm On Dec 30, 2023
Stop asking stupid questions like this in 2024

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Re: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by MrPresident1: 10:47pm On Dec 30, 2023
Pre-puberty boy and girl

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