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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Ubdavis(m): 9:17pm On Feb 06, 2024

EreluRoz:
What sort of advise is this? Was it same way you were brought into this life?
Hian

Don't mind the headless attention seeker

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Boldideas: 9:17pm On Feb 06, 2024

Auxtan:
People rarely talk about how much thinkering men go through in finding/choosing a life partner.

I'm at that point in my life and is really not an easy thing or decision.

A life without Christ, is a life filled with Crises...
Not a life without wife.

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by ednut1(m): 9:17pm On Feb 06, 2024

Lol true

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by abobote: 9:17pm On Feb 06, 2024

You won't know until you are ready to marry.
Girls are plenty, but finding a wife is difficult

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Adakintroy: 9:18pm On Feb 06, 2024

If you can't find a wife it means you are weak. If you are any where near strong. Even if you can't find a woman a woman will find you.

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Everydaylove: 9:19pm On Feb 06, 2024

Marriage is overrated. Those who are Inside are looking for a way out.

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by razzydoo(m): 9:19pm On Feb 06, 2024*

problem.

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by JustPowerApps(m): 9:19pm On Feb 06, 2024

Why you sef dey find wife?

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Ebukamatth(m): 9:19pm On Feb 06, 2024

Na you dey find Rihanna wey dey behave like Virgin mary

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by AskNgige2: 9:20pm On Feb 06, 2024

Aswearrrdaaaarwn

Especially in this fake Abuja...

I don run go east e come be like say na fire I wan kukuma enter

Chaii

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by lastkingsman: 9:20pm On Feb 06, 2024

ednut1:
Lol true

It's easy. Make I find for you? grin

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Ebukamatth(m): 9:20pm On Feb 06, 2024

As I dey now
I get like 6 girlfriends
Two of them dey ask me when I go marry them

But they don't know that my heart is bigger than the ocean

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by fabolouz1(m): 9:21pm On Feb 06, 2024

It's easy if you are not looking for a perfect being.

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Righthussle: 9:21pm On Feb 06, 2024

FalseProphet1:
I have countless spiritual daughters. If you don't mind I can give you one of them to marry. They're my daughters, I bath them every month in other to purify them, I also have intercourse with them so as to inject my anointed seed into their womb to sanctify it.

So if you marry any of them, you'll have peace of mind because they're both physically, spiritually and medically clean.

This I have seen.

😅😅😅 I don see who madt pass me

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by ThothHermes: 9:21pm On Feb 06, 2024

EreluRoz:
I'm trying to help you sef and you are shalaying. Do you really want a good woman to marry?

You are always on every thread, changing monikers. Honest question, don't you have a life huh

Even a jobless person can't be this active on just one forum. Na wa for people sha..

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by pansophist(m): 9:22pm On Feb 06, 2024

Both are not easy, either finding a wife or finding a husband.

I have always said before that good marriageable people are scarce. Until you have made money as a man, or are ready to settle down as a woman, you won't know how hard that thing is.

Then, you begin to think back on the good people you have pushed away due to your ignorance, vanity, or lack of tolerance. You were caught up in the lie that there is someone special and angelic waiting for you. And that there are many fishes in the sea.

True, there might be many fishes in the sea but do you know what's also in the sea? Trash, yes, lots of trash and plastic. Also shit, stones, sands, shells, and inedible stuff. All the rubbish you find on land is also in the sea.

Also, many of the reasons people push off good partners are because of their lack of self-consciousness. You are so imperfect, totally blind to your imperfection, but somehow, expect others to be.

When Jesus approached the men who wanted to stone the prostitute to death, he said a simple sentence to them, ''he who is without sin, throw the first stone''. They all vanish after he says that.

This sentence made them conscious of their imperfection, and that they should be easy on the prostitute. Don't kill her because she sins differently than you.

So if you are conscious of your shortcomings, you won't be out there looking for perfection in people. By tolerating imperfection, it is not character-based, but mostly physical such as what young people call ''spec''.

If someone lies, manipulates, wants to tame/conquer, is deceitful, vengeful, wicked, and just a shitty human, then dump him/her. Don't tolerate that because it's character-based. It's free to develop your character.

But if they aren't having a fat ass, not over six feet tall, a bit chubby, broke but not poor (poverty is a mindset), then these can be overlooked.

So yes, stop pushing off good people, them no plenty at all. If you are young and reading this, thinking you will just push good people off, you might not meet them again. I don't believe in karma, but only a few people escape this.

If you meet a good person that your heart accepts, who loves you and treats you right, then work with that. Otherwise, accept that you might not meet them again. Then go ahead and break up.

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by tydi(m): 9:23pm On Feb 06, 2024

See as men full this thread .. so una all dey find wife.. okay make una continue grin

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Nobody: 9:24pm On Feb 06, 2024

The point 9ja is now. If you're wise,you would be working endlessly on yourself as a man til you see your wife. A mighty Prince charming slays Dragons to get to his princess. grin

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by cybernaut(m): 9:24pm On Feb 06, 2024

Not easy but keep on searching and you will find your soulmate not just a woman but virtuous woman

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Ogakaycce(m): 9:24pm On Feb 06, 2024

Even me too.. And the worst is am the only son..

I really need to settle down this year but most girl I meet in yenagoa are not serious at all

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Goodnewsforlife: 9:25pm On Feb 06, 2024

EreluRoz:
Go to any Christ embassy branch. Join the believers love world and you'll meet your soulmate

many of them are coded olosho

I talk am with my full chest

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Bayajjidda: 9:25pm On Feb 06, 2024

EreluRoz:
Go to any Christ embassy branch. Join the believers love world and you'll meet your soulmate

Why do I think that this is laughable?
grin

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Michaelspresh(f): 9:25pm On Feb 06, 2024

Same thing as finding a man who’s gonna love you so hard,takes care of you,communicate,respect you

I’m still searching and will continue searching till i find my trophy man
And i just believe I’m gonna find him someday tho

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by TUANKU(m): 9:25pm On Feb 06, 2024

Jeon:
Why are you miserable ,crying and stressing yourself in finding a particular thing that doesn't benefit the male gender? .

Men don't need Women or have anything to do with marriage,but deep down we know the person[s] that do need it/benefits from it the most. This is why they feel so much pains if they can't get a woman's attentions,the pain can lead to brutal situations whereby killing can be involved [killing the woman ,or killing himself or killing himself and the woman ] .
And they also hate to see a single woman happy, especially if she's doing well without them ,the next tag is " She is a feminist, hoe".

You this block-head again...how is this gibberish you just posted related to the topic?

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Akalia(m): 9:26pm On Feb 06, 2024

FalseProphet1:
I have countless spiritual daughters. If you don't mind I can give you one of them to marry. They're my daughters, I bath them every month in other to purify them, I also have intercourse with them so as to inject my anointed seed into their womb to sanctify it.

So if you marry any of them, you'll have peace of mind because they're both physically, spiritually and medically clean.

This I have seen.

Human being.

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by KIDfurniture(m): 9:26pm On Feb 06, 2024

Many want to rush out while you re desperate to rush in … lol. Hope you have enough money ? Avoid liability

Auxtan:
People rarely talk about how much thinkering men go through in finding/choosing a life partner.

I'm at that point in my life and is really not an easy thing or decision.

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by linearity: 9:26pm On Feb 06, 2024*

EreluRoz:
I'm trying to help you sef and you are shalaying. Do you really want a good woman to marry?

This is the same advise they give to all these retiring and retired Ashawo them, when they pose the question…”where do I find a good husband’.

The answer 99% of the time is look for a good church, join the workers there and wait on the Lord!

And before you know it, if the OP follow your advise there is chance he will jam one of them there. Because they know that under there is a borehole and nothing to write home about. Meanwhile why you guys are dating, they will be praying and hoping that the passage of time would shrink the borehole before the wedding night. At the same time, secretly they would be running all kind of tests and drinking all kind of antibiotics and native concoction in the hope of eliminating all the accumulated Yamayama so as to ensure you don’t have a clue.

And those people can dey form no bi here and na dem go dey say ‘no sex before marriage’.

OP, if you are very unfortunate and do not have a girl you have been friend with from a very long time, go the parental introduction route, most parents would always look at for your best interest….or when you hook up with someone do your background checks!

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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by nigmarelli(m): 9:27pm On Feb 06, 2024

Greetings all. With all the talk from the females who responded isn't the Op quite right with the topic he just put here?! Aren't the females who responded here just justifying the topic. It's really quite puzzling.

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by EreluRoz: 9:27pm On Feb 06, 2024

ThothHermes:
You are always on every thread, changing monikers. Honest question, don't you have a life
Even a jobless person can't be this active on just one forum. Na wa for people sha..

For how long how you been studying me you this one minute man?

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Liamm(m): 9:27pm On Feb 06, 2024

omo

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Salubata(m): 9:28pm On Feb 06, 2024

You're right.
Good wife is rare

Auxtan:
People rarely talk about how much thinkering men go through in finding/choosing a life partner.

I'm at that point in my life and is really not an easy thing or decision.

Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by ednut1(m): 9:28pm On Feb 06, 2024

lastkingsman:
It's easy. Make I find for you?

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