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Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

why is difficult to find these qualities in a woman:



independent


virgin.


accept that men are polygamous in nature.



beautiful.



have front and back.


is too much to ask?

Ballzproblem2:
why is difficult to find this qualities in a woman:



independent


virgin.


accept that men are polygamous in nature.



beautiful.



have front and back.


is too much to ask?

You need connection to see them bro

Awon werey !!!

So, a man has to be all these for a broke wretched non virgin Nigerian girl?

What are you offering Aside your rotten pussey?

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

ONILA...YOU AGAIN WIT YOR RUBBBBBBBISH THREADS....dont u hav schooool homework sir??(no oofencsece))

The only thing I lack on that list is ‘can pay my bills’. I refuse to be saddled with the responsibilities of an able bodied adult under any guise.

The men who have these qualities are not scarce but they have their own list too, if a man returns this list to you as what he wants in a woman, how many can you strike out?

Chingyyy878:
You need connection to see them bro

Awon werey !!!

Even with connection, bro you no go still see

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

There are lots of guys who are none of the above but the question is, will you find them attractive? are you ready to help them build?

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

Smoking is a choice and drinking to relax doesn't make one a drunkard. U sound like a child though. When u sef done navigate through life u go wise. Na only Jesus fit into that ur want and him no send u if u sef no pure 💯

All these daughters of Jezebel's, What does she have to offer

Damnnn

And if you go check, she's into clitocurrency business o.

All this Twitter girls with their rotten and enlarged pvssy.

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

Mention your qualities ma
Are you equally rich or you’re looking for a poverty alleviation scheme
Are you pretty and shapely ( front and back )
You shouldn’t equally drink or smoke as well
Are you a virgin or a farm tool ?

Let her realistic for once and remove that 'tall'. Handsomeness is in the eye of the beholder but I can't say the same for height

I drink like 5 times in a month,I can womanize when I want to because i am not in a serious dating now,i no get house but currently building,i am 6feet,God forbid to pay gf Bill's,i can only pay my wife Bill's.i no dey smoke.i am handsome too. I have used 3 cars in my life ,car no be my problem at all.when I enta Naija ,I am getting an Acura mdx.but take note,I am not looking for a broke woman ooo.i no really care about the love,make she just get money,then we born like 1 or 2 kids.who love epp

Ain't hard to find if you have the All-Knowing God/Holy Spirit directing you

eazzzy1:
The only thing I lack on that list is ‘can pay my bills’. I refuse to be saddled with the responsibilities of an able bodied adult under any guise.

The men who have these qualities are not scarce but they have their own list too, if a man returns this list to you as what he wants in a woman, how many can you strike out?

Men with those traits in Nigeria are indeed scarce.

1Sharon:
Men with those traits in Nigeria are indeed scarce.

yes,and it's good.everyone needs demons

I dont see why I will hustle hard for money and I am not in any serious relationship and I wont womanize.maka why na.I suppose marry my European babe but we get some issues wey we never got solve.so for now,na chilling things,I have a date tomorrow and on sunday with diff women

Continue

Ok

Tell me just one quality you ladies of today have.

Una go do ashewo, hookup, get bad character, plus beggy beggy attitude and entitlement mentality, oya cook na, una no sabi. Yet you go carry biro de write rubbish.

No let me ves for you o.

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Firstly, lets ask you, if you are a virgin?

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

I am an exception and I'm single

When you say a man, I want to believe you mean those between 25- 35 years. The prime of marriageable age.
For a man, lot of factors come into play when it comes to preparing to settle down, most of which would counter the other. Let’s look at just 3 aspects, Finance, education and Job. I will leave the moral and physical aspect because they are highly individualized.
Education: A good education takes time and dedication. A man determined to do well won’t have the time for such relationship. All his energy and resources are dedicated to this course.

Job : Except you are highly connected or favored, getting a good job right out of school is not easy. A few that make it at that point are not really or immediately financially stable. At that point, their focus is on learning this new job environment and requirements.

Finance: This one is the real determinant of a guys stability. The lack of it transcends other areas . Building financial stability is a marathon not a race. At age 25-30, a young man is still learning the ropes, figuring out the paths to stability. Saving and investment is the goal when the money start coming in. They might not be considered attractive , especially when they are not living the lavish life style that most desire .

These is why you would hear that to be a man is not days job.

Even if you find such a Man, the bigger question is: "Do you deserve such a Man"

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Lol.

You want them to start frothing and attacking everything about women, don't you?

You know quite well the forum has the dregs of society brandishing themselves as men. It won't be a nice thread.

Simply put you are looking for a fool who is willing to part with his money and sense,
Also
You can always mould one oo.

Question is
Why can't you pay your bills??
Are you handicapp??

Nigerian girls are nothing but leeches, adult parasites.
Dem forbid una to hustle pay una bills??

They are never talking about a hardworking man to build with, to support and grow together..

They want a rich man that will give them what their father can't give them...

Rubbish 🗑️

Damnnn niggar
Isoright