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Cos you cannot attract men with these qualities as you're not the standards they're looking for.

It's not difficult, you just have to open your eyes...

I have all the qualities listed and more.

E dey your dream o

Ok
Best of luck with your search

Women and their self-centeredness ..... When a righteous brother with this attributes come now .... The fool go say she's not my spec

Aaaaarghmed:
I dont see why I will hustle hard for money and I am not in any serious relationship and I wont womanize.maka why na.I suppose marry my European babe but we get some issues wey we never got solve.so for now,na chilling things,I have a date tomorrow and on sunday with diff women

But you expect fidelity.

This is why a lot of people don't get what they want. The contrast is too high.

One would think because she's European you would've enslaved and ingratiated yourself to her. Well, she's still got you biting the bit. You'll get there eventually.

Zonefree:
So, a man has to be all these for a broke wretched non virgin Nigerian girl?

O boy! Men don sofa in the hands of rags...

Ballzproblem2:
why is difficult to find these qualities in a woman:



independent


virgin.


accept that men are polygamous in nature.



beautiful.



have front and back.


is too much to ask?

In addition;

Fair skin

Flat tummy

Not fat but not slim

Industrious

Very rich

Highly intelligent

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Why is it difficult not find this quality in a woman

1. VIRGIN...
2. Nothin more

Thunder fire d person wey post dis rubbish....kuku go create ur own man ursef

Does your father has same qualities?

Lost me from 12 down

If we can't find it in women we can't find it in men too,but if we find it in women we can as well find it in men 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

well im not into any of these, but you wont believe me because i look like who smoke, drink and womanize...

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Hmm.......... I'm reflecting in my mind. What are your qualities that will make a man with your list go into relationship with you?

I guess the list isn't for me because I'm a proud unapologetic smoker 🚬. Any lady that has a problem with smoking should please avoid me.

And what qualities will you be bringing to the relationship? Or you think such a person wouldn't want a perfect woman too?

[quote author=labake1 post=129521677]You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.
[i dont have any of those qualities.]

You better embrace Jesus. He is the only one with such qualities you're looking for.

*WHAT A NAIJA GUY WANTS IN A LADY*

1- Faithfulness i.e not fvcking around.

2- Be financially independent such that she can pay her own bills.

3- Peace of mind.

However, an average Naija lady can't offer any single thing on that list. Yeye people with entitled mentality.

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

You need a clay so that you can mould him yourself.....

It's only hard In Nigeria.

I have all dis qualities

Even you don't possess quarter of these qualities

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

What qualities do you possess that can attract you to this kind of man?

Are you also pretty and well built with back and front?

Are you also humble,smart and funny?

Are you the type that keeps male or female besties and claim they are just friends but are secretly used to 'cool off'?

Can you make a home and are you the type that accepts responsibility?

Are you also educated and also working?

Are you also romantic and not manipulative?

Hope you do not smoke,drink or show off ur body on social media....

Hope you are not a hardcore feminist or a man hater....

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

I do not do any of this and I am sure you know this.

Because there’s no perfection on earth. You will agree with me that you are not perfect. So, pray for grace to be tolerant and to be a positive influence yourself.

eazzzy1:
The only thing I lack on that list is ‘can pay my bills’. I refuse to be saddled with the responsibilities of an able bodied adult under any guise.

The men who have these qualities are not scarce but they have their own list too, if a man returns this list to you as what he wants in a woman, how many can you strike out?

Na man you be 👌

She should list out all the qualities she has, side by side on that piece of paper, so we can compare.

Especially that "He must be tall" mindset.
Short midget 5ft2. women looking for whose lineage to spoil with their nonsense genes.
I'm 6ft 4, ever since I stopped dating short women, my neck, back and spinal cord has stopped paining me.

Modern women do not deserve traditional Men.