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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by winner37(m): 10:50am On Apr 20
Arizoner:
what really happened btw the two of u

We separated last month because she lacks manner of approach...
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by mediclife1987(m): 10:58am On Apr 20
Arizoner:
how old are you

Go and ask your father
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by advanceDNA: 11:37am On Apr 20
Arizoner:
get out. You are just advancedna for nothing. Dunce

Yawn..... !!

I'm not sure I get ur point....but I guess u are entitled to ur madness
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by idahme(m): 3:33pm On Apr 20
jeromestarks:

You have bad mouth. Haba! You wan finish the girl niii?
Nna chill small small naaa.

These ladies will never learn until they experience baby mama experience first hand and seee what it is carrying responsibilities with little or no help from any person. They see a man who is ready to work with them to make life easier they don't want him because he wants them to think like adults and then they run to the ones who want them to think like children not knowing he is taking them to the express way grin.

Thank God my sisters don't have this mentality, they are both responsible members of the society who see themselves as adults and not children.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Fredoh(m): 4:26pm On Apr 20
jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

27 is a perfect age that will make me get even more serious with her. To me, 27 is the magical number for a lady to settle down.

I think it’s not on her OP, it’s on you. You’re probably 25 or below.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 7:05pm On Apr 20
mediclife1987:


Go and ask your father
🤣🤣🤣🤣.
You're a wicked living thing.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Madups(m): 10:43pm On Apr 20
PerfectStranger:

This is delusional and misleading. You better wake up to reality coz life has pass just owning a big yansh and eating snacks all day.
I wonder where they get all these ideas from.. After now they'll start shouting gender equality.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by toujurs: 8:02am On Apr 21
27 isn't bad, i can marry a 27 year old. But you see 30/31 or 32... Ahh

27 isn't bad, i can take 28 if she is homely, respectful and doesn't reason like women who are emotionally traumatized.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Arizoner: 12:44pm On Apr 21
ukaface:
Who be this one?
make I carry you enter room 112. I know say you like that tin
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by ukaface(f): 12:58pm On Apr 21
Arizoner:
make I carry you enter room 112. I know say you like that tin
Who be this one?
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by pansophist(m): 1:05pm On Apr 21
EreluRoz:
You are just insecure that's all.

I get pissed whenever I see a man typing hardworking to describe a lady. Men of these days are just after women to drain, if not for the harsh society a woman is naturally not created to work.

Modern men are just after women that will take up their role, it's the mentality for me, so disgusting.

If a woman chooses to work, it's to take care of herself and not for any man to come leech on. Mtcheww

It's just refreshing to see that it's women who are now enforcing gender roles. You don see say equality na scam, and it favours a man that knows how to use it well grin

Because a woman can work, but a man can't be pregnant. A woman can make money, but a man cant breastfeed. A woman can be wealthy but a man can never know the pains of labour.

So with such biological restraint and set up, how can women fall for 50/50 scam? So you'll be pregnant of a man's child and still sharing bills with him

Support him sha, but don't carry his responsibilities. For some women to fall for this equality scam of 50/50 shocks me. Is she that dumb?

Abeg enforce gender roles, because if you don't, lots of irresponsible men will hide under it and use it as a reason why a woman must carry his responsibilities.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by pansophist(m): 1:12pm On Apr 21
jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

So 27 is now old. Na wa o.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 3:17pm On Apr 21
pansophist:


So 27 is now old. Na wa o.
Can you guess the number of dicksons a 27 year old lady would have swallowed?

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 3:22pm On Apr 21
Kealmin:
This is actually a lie but personally I prefer to have serious relationships with ladies of my age mate rather than going for teens, age may not necessarily be a criteria for maturity but most girls in their teens are really not as serious as ladies in their old twenties or 30s. I stand to be corrected though
Let me correct you.
A woman in her late 20s and early 30s must have made some male friends that she can not do without. These male friends must have fvcked her once or twice. Some have helped her sometimes ago and are not so attached to her and she's also attached to them.
If you get into serious relationship with such a girl, those male friends will keep fvcker her till the day she die.

Haven't you heard of women who visit their ex or bestie a night before their wedding?
Check such women very well, none of them is below 23. All of them are these 25 -35 year old women.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 3:27pm On Apr 21
Truvelisback:
Why did her age turn you off? grin

A woman in her late 20s and early 30s must have made some male friends that she can not do without. These male friends must have fvcked her once or twice. Some have helped her sometimes ago and are not so attached to her and she's also attached to them.
If you get into serious relationship with such a girl, those male friends will keep fvcker her till the day she dies.

Haven't you heard of women who visit their ex or bestie a night before their wedding?
Check such women very well, none of them is below 23. All of them are these 25 -35 year old women.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 3:30pm On Apr 21
CaptainJune:


Ladies, please do not listen to this big fat lies of the devil. A lady in her late 30's and 40's or 50's is still as admirable as any other and worth making the lifelong commitment to be her forever partner. To the men, go for value and beauty, not age.
You lack coordination.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 3:32pm On Apr 21
donbenie:
His age preferences is not a crime..
Trying to project his insecurities onto others is at the very least juvenile..
He expects a working class graduate to be 18 years old?
Is that not the epitome childishness?
AdvanceDNA asked you a y. Go and answer it before I call you names.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 3:35pm On Apr 21
WantsandMore:
Dude did you seriously stalk a woman only to be sad she's 27? Damn...You're such a 10th wonder of the world. Anyways your lost, can you share her contact, want to be her friend.
I would have loved to share her contact with you but I don't trust your level of maturity.
You can tell her everything I said here. You can even share screenshots with her.
So, no. I'm not giving you her number.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by WantsandMore: 4:32pm On Apr 21
jeromestarks:

I would have loved to share her contact with you but I don't trust your level of maturity.
You can tell her everything I said here. You can even share screenshots with her.
So, no. I'm not giving you her number.
No way Bro. Why would I spill?
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by EreluRoz: 9:07pm On Apr 22
pansophist:


It's just refreshing to see that it's women who are now enforcing gender roles. You don see say equality na scam, and it favours a man that knows how to use it well grin

Because a woman can work, but a man can't be pregnant. A woman can make money, but a man cant breastfeed. A woman can be wealthy but a man can never know the pains of labour.

So with such biological restraint and set up, how can women fall for 50/50 scam? So you'll be pregnant of a man's child and still sharing bills with him

Support him sha, but don't carry his responsibilities. For some women to fall for this equality scam of 50/50 shocks me. Is she that dumb?

Abeg enforce gender roles, because if you don't, lots of irresponsible men will hide under it and use it as a reason why a woman must carry his responsibilities.
I've never been a supporter of equality, everyone should just play their role and live life. Feminism is for strong women and I'm not strong shishi. Feminism is even to the advantage of men of you look deep into it. How a woman will agree to sharing bills equally with a man still baffles me. They are really strong.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Badmashiii: 9:19pm On Apr 22
EreluRoz:
I've never been a supporter of equality, everyone should just play their role and live life. Feminism is for strong women and I'm not strong shishi. Feminism is even to the advantage of men of you look deep into it. How a woman will agree to sharing bills equally with a man still baffles me. They are really strong.

Na lie. You are a very strong woman. Share bills with your partner as a strong woman.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by EreluRoz: 9:25pm On Apr 22
Badmashiii:


Na lie. You are a very strong woman. Share bills with your partner as a strong woman.
Ewwww
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Silentgroper(m): 11:54pm On Apr 22
pansophist:


So 27 is now old. Na wa o.
Since pre-menopause has shifted up to 30yrs .. Lady at 27 is now old..

grin tongue tongue tongue
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Silentgroper(m): 11:57pm On Apr 22
pansophist:


It's just refreshing to see that it's women who are now enforcing gender roles. You don see say equality na scam, and it favours a man that knows how to use it well grin

Because a woman can work, but a man can't be pregnant. A woman can make money, but a man cant breastfeed. A woman can be wealthy but a man can never know the pains of labour.

So with such biological restraint and set up, how can women fall for 50/50 scam? So you'll be pregnant of a man's child and still sharing bills with him

Support him sha, but don't carry his responsibilities. For some women to fall for this equality scam of 50/50 shocks me. Is she that dumb?

Abeg enforce gender roles, because if you don't, lots of irresponsible men will hide under it and use it as a reason why a woman must carry his responsibilities.
but they are the one saying " what a man can do, a woman can do better "


Baba let them work oo ...
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Gerrard59(m): 3:22am On Apr 23
Dennisochampa:
How would u feel if ladies asked me how much they are worth on a first date??

There are certain impressions u don't create in a first date especially with a lady u wanna get serious with...

Never give her the impression that whatever you claim to feel for her is conditional......
If I'm a lady and u ask for my age on a first date... I'll sure tell you but that will also be the last date!

That is you. Nothing wrong with telling someone you meet your age. In Japan, it is perfectly normal. In fact, it is one of the first questions people ask each other. When I was in Nigeria, I was free to let anyone know my age. I don't see why I should lie. I ask ladies in Nigeria their ages and they respond honestly.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Gerrard59(m): 3:27am On Apr 23
obaidan:


Y'all want the privilege a woman gets in traditional marriage/home dynamics but want to deprive the man of the privilege of traditional marriage.
the reason a woman will work is to take care of herself, the reason a man will work is to take of the whole family... yet u people cry that women are deprived in the workplace based on gender. Should the person who is expected to carry the whole family not be given some privileges in pay, growth and all of that?


Na my argument with modern day women be this. You want a traditional man with traditional privileges, but fought so hard to reduce his privileges in the workforce. Then, act surprised that the same man cannot provide those traditional benefits you long for, and those who can are very few in society. Also, they are stunned that men now demand that women contribute financially to the household. Why wouldn't they?

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Gerrard59(m): 3:31am On Apr 23
Nothing wrong with a 27 year old lady. Even 30 sef, nothing wrong as long she is healthy; mentally, nutritionally, psychologically and otherwise. But I don't expect much from a man who ate fufu and stew!

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Dennisochampa: 8:25am On Apr 23
Gerrard59:


That is you. Nothing wrong with telling someone you meet your age. In Japan, it is perfectly normal. In fact, it is one of the first questions people ask each other. When I was in Nigeria, I was free to let anyone know my age. I don't see why I should lie. I ask ladies in Nigeria their ages and they respond honestly.

Have u heard of the saying that it's wrong to ask a woman her age??

It's a popular saying for a reason
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jattopeter(m): 11:09am On Apr 23
Different people with mindset , the same question that made you ran was the same question I asked and the young lady told me her real age. I was surprised because all the lady i met all lied about their age , most will not even tell you their age. 6 months late , we are legally married . As i chat now , we are already Blessed with a Handsome son. Why will somebody be scared to tell somebody their real age.
All ladies should be proud of their age , continue to walk on you self , dont make any body to demean you because of age. Always know that you are wonderfully made. Shalom
Your thinking was very primitive and your summation is very low.
jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

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Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by jeromestarks: 7:01pm On Apr 23
jattopeter:
Different people with mindset , the same question that made you ran was the same question I asked and the young lady told me her real age. I was surprised because all the lady i met all lied about their age , most will not even tell you their age. 6 months late , we are legally married . As i chat now , we are already Blessed with a Handsome son. Why will somebody be scared to tell somebody their real age.
All ladies should be proud of their age , continue to walk on you self , dont make any body to demean you because of age. Always know that you are wonderfully made. Shalom
Your thinking was very primitive and your summation is very low.
Hmmm
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Gerrard59(m): 2:22am On Apr 24
Dennisochampa:


Have u heard of the saying that it's wrong to ask a woman her age??

It's a popular saying for a reason

Well, if it warrants me asking someone, man or woman, his or her age, I will do it. I expect an honest response. Thankfully, the folks I have asked so far have responded honestly.
Re: Avoid Telling Men Your Age Until... by Dennisochampa: 4:03am On Apr 24
Gerrard59:


Well, if it warrants me asking someone, man or woman, his or her age, I will do it. I expect an honest response. Thankfully, the folks I have asked so far have responded honestly.
Quick one, if u meet a lady on a first date and she asks you how much you're worth, be honest.... What will be your thoughts towards such a lady

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