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Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Redoil: 1:00pm On May 24, 2023
Temi2468:
So you think.

In fact, that's when he will put more pressure on her, on assumption that she's already sexually exposed.

The best thing is to be ready to face the consequences of your righteousness and give thanks to God. He will deliver her from the mouth of the lion. [b]she should also be sure she's not in any way causing it too. When they see the kind of friends you move with, how you dress, how different guys hug you incessantly in school etc, [/b]they sometimes also bring that nonsense. Though, I still don't exonerate them from making such foolish advance without any sexually provocative lifestyle of ladies. Some are sex addicts! God will expose him one day. Just one day!

At present, I have been able to save two girls from their claws here in my school.
you nail it right
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Redoil: 1:00pm On May 24, 2023
Temi2468:
So you think.

In fact, that's when he will put more pressure on her, on assumption that she's already sexually exposed.

The best thing is to be ready to face the consequences of your righteousness and give thanks to God. He will deliver her from the mouth of the lion. [b ]she should also be sure she's not in any way causing it too. When they see the kind of friends you move with, how you dress, how different guys hug you incessantly in school etc, [/b] they sometimes also bring that nonsense. Though, I still don't exonerate them from making such foolish advance without any sexually provocative lifestyle of ladies. Some are sex addicts! God will expose him one day. Just one day!

At present, I have been able to save two girls from their claws here in my school.
you nail it right
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by ucee64(m): 2:58pm On May 24, 2023
manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.
op if your sister is in SE send me a message let me link you guys with a Dss official. I hate nonsense
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by SaLongs1(m): 8:27am On May 25, 2023
Redoil:
and do what with the rcording
See migeria is a jungle where Such lecturers are most times above the laws of the school and the laws of the land. She should tell the lecturer that she tell the lecturer no and no should be no then dam the consequece by not graduating for ever
Are you also a lecturer? If not recording him is the best option.
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Redoil: 10:45am On May 25, 2023
i am not a lecturer but nigeria is a very big jungle that the lecturer might knows somebody who knows somebody
SaLongs1:
Are you also a lecturer? If not recording him is the best option.
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by SaLongs1(m): 3:23pm On May 25, 2023
Redoil:
i am not a lecturer but nigeria is a very big jungle that the lecturer might knows somebody who knows somebody
And you think the wider society is not above the aforementioned?
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Zedoo(m): 5:34pm On May 26, 2023
“I’m engaged, I’ve done blood oath, any of us that cheats will die on the spot”. End of story.

Or fake HIV status report.
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by iHateFraudsters: 9:23pm On May 27, 2023
Christistruth03:
And you call this a Solution ?
Yes
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by essentialone(m): 10:21pm On Jul 08
Is she a virgin? If No, then why say No?
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Enskynelson(m): 11:13pm On Jul 08
essentialone:
Is she a virgin? If No, then why say No?
I know to you, sex is like handshake
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by essentialone(m): 1:14am On Jul 09
Enskynelson:
I know to you, sex is like handshake
Somehow yeah
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by AllBlack: 2:18am On Jul 09
Joevics:
She should tell him that her boyfriend is against it. And insist that she can't cheat on him. At least that will give her some leverage, rather than just flatly rejecting his advances.
hahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaa
not even husband.
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Dzzzz: 8:12am On Jul 25
Make I forge HIV certificate for her..Tell her to call my number anytime she with the lecturer so I can tell her,she has been confirmed HIV infected so she can cause a tantrum and cry uncontrollably so the man go jakpa..
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by spiceadole(f): 5:29pm On Jul 25
Dzzzz:
Make I forge HIV certificate for her..Tell her to call my number anytime she with the lecturer so I can tell her,she has been confirmed HIV infected so she can cause a tantrum and cry uncontrollably so the man go jakpa..
You are a joke.
Obvious, you don't have much knowledge about HIV .
The man wil just end up broadcasting to all and sundry that she is HIV positive making she will suffer stigmatization.
Lecturers only go after girls who are not academically sound.
If you no Sabi book, go and learn trade
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Dzzzz: 6:07pm On Jul 25
spiceadole:
You are a joke.
Obvious, you don't have much knowledge about HIV .
The man wil just end up broadcasting to all and sundry that she is HIV positive making she will suffer stigmatization.
Lecturers only go after girls who are not academically sound.
If you no Sabi book, go and learn trade
How do you expect him to talk when he’s trying to sleep with her?..Try Dey get sense for once..
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by spiceadole(f): 6:20pm On Jul 25
Dzzzz:
How do you expect him to talk when he’s trying to sleep with her?..Try Dey get sense for once..
I have seen you that has sense.
Well done.
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Dzzzz: 7:19pm On Jul 25
spiceadole:
I have seen you that has sense.
Well done.
You have no idea of what they call PSYCHOLOGICAL WARFARE..
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