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Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by sammy042(m): 1:15pm On Nov 25, 2014
1.They may take emotional,moral,physical or financial advantages of you in a daily life because you are being nice and do not have the heart to say NO.
2.They will start taking you for granted thinking "oh he's too nice,he won't say anything.Mr nice guy.
3.You may always be the one to bow down out of arguments simply because you habituated to being nice.
4.They will soon start finding you boring.
5.if you are just too nice to your partner all the time,you may find yourself doing all the work..
6.Being too nice may make you the victim of practical jokes because you will not be expected to retaliate.
7.You stop being yourself.
8.you will start living according to their expectation.friend-zone.
9.you rarely say no to request.mugu,maga etc
10.95 percent of nigerian ladies don't date mr nice guy.



Excess of anything is too bad,it's good to be nice but not uber-nice...i don't knw how true this statement is"Nice guy finish last"....be Real

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by chimerase2: 1:19pm On Nov 25, 2014
I have been frendzoned a lot angry
That was why I quite chatting be it BBM FB whatsap etc all of them closed down except nairaland wich to me is not a chatting network rada a jonzing network angry

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 1:27pm On Nov 25, 2014
Lolz..Friend zone pple ,dis na una thread oo

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 1:39pm On Nov 25, 2014
The article is more like “Disadvantages of being too nice to women you're romantically interested In”.. and not just any woman. +_+

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Lordabas: 1:53pm On Nov 25, 2014




Theres a major difference between being a nice guy & being a push over undecided

Btw confident nice guys get grabbed onto and never let go, only nice guys who are shy go unnoticed.
So shy guys finish last undecided

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Tallesty1(m): 1:58pm On Nov 25, 2014
I know from the beginning that women don't like nice guys, what they want is a gentle man, a gentleman who is stubborn, untamable, controlling, confident and independent. they don't want a man that will be nice to them all the timw (aka nice-guy). they all need a good kick in the as's somtimes and nice guys can't do that cause they pamper-women.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Cholls(m): 2:14pm On Nov 25, 2014
My brother tell them!pls tell them o



But wait a minute,my brother what is now the possible known solution to this your discovery? grin

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by englishmart(m): 2:16pm On Nov 25, 2014
I will continue to be nice to ladies. If they mess up, karma is always ready to strike

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by iceberylin(m): 2:19pm On Nov 25, 2014
Magas be like....
englishmart:
I will continue to be nice to ladies. If they mess up, karma is always ready to strike

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by sammy042(m): 2:33pm On Nov 25, 2014
Cholls:
My brother tell them!pls tell them o



But wait a minute,my brother what is now the possible known solution to this your discovery? grin
..Are u too nice to women?..dey need iron hand..dey are not royal atol..

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by englishmart(m): 2:35pm On Nov 25, 2014
iceberylin:
Magas be like....
lol. See as all of una dey copy that young man's signature......

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by sammy042(m): 2:41pm On Nov 25, 2014
chimerase2:
I have been frendzoned a lot angry
That was why I quite chatting be it BBM FB whatsap etc all of them closed down except nairaland wich to me is not a chatting network rada a jonzing network angry
oh! sorry, dat's y u quit all ur social ntwok?

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by vizboy(m): 2:44pm On Nov 25, 2014
make una leave us friendzoned guys alone now wetin we do.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Cholls(m): 2:45pm On Nov 25, 2014
sammy042:
..Are u too nice to women?..dey need iron hand..dey are not royal atol..
my brother I used this two methods nice and iron hand as ingredients to prepare a delicacy called MONEY($) wink

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Mprex(f): 2:51pm On Nov 25, 2014
Op, pls define the word;NICE
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by mecussey(m): 2:53pm On Nov 25, 2014
Just be urself but don't trim yourself to please a woman. Have it in mind that money is the power of a man. It is better to have money and be searching for love than to have love and be searching for money.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by iceberylin(m): 3:19pm On Nov 25, 2014
englishmart:
lol. See as all of una dey copy that young man's signature......

Waitn undecided

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by sammy042(m): 3:36pm On Nov 25, 2014
Mprex:
Op, pls define the word;NICE
pleasant or pleasing or agreeable in nature or apperance..usag-what a nice fellow you are and thought you so nasty..do not get me wrong.being too nice to ladies is not good but is good to be nice..am jst sain wit my experinc

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by engrtee(f): 3:41pm On Nov 25, 2014
englishmart:
I will continue to be nice to ladies. If they mess up, karma is always ready to strike


can we be friends mr nice guy?

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by englishmart(m): 3:58pm On Nov 25, 2014
engrtee:



can we be friends mr nice guy?
what exactly do you want?
My Money? Or my friendship?

Lol
sad
grin

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Ethereal0110(f): 4:09pm On Nov 25, 2014
WISE 1 , Dont mind those infidels
englishmart:
I will continue to be nice to ladies. If they mess up, karma is always ready to strike

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Ethereal0110(f): 4:11pm On Nov 25, 2014
the opposite of NICE is RUDE, so start being rude 2 them and see if they will stay na sad

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by will1am: 4:33pm On Nov 25, 2014
Don't ever go beyond your limits to please any lady undecided

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by will1am: 4:36pm On Nov 25, 2014
iceberylin:
Magas be like....
cheesy

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Lordabas: 4:38pm On Nov 25, 2014





Some women will mistake your kindness for weakness! angry

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by passionate88: 4:40pm On Nov 25, 2014
10.95 percent of nigerian ladies don't date mr nice guy.
Excess of anything is too bad,it's good to be nice but not uber-nice...i don't knw how true this statement is"Nice guy finish last"....be Real
So true

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by PAINGAIN: 5:05pm On Nov 25, 2014
Na so I took my coleague to one eatery to buy lunch bcus she asked me (southy girls dey always dey broke). I must say d girl set well well and I been don dey eye am and I know she somehow likes me. After buying take away for her, na so she carry d food wan give me make I carry for her. I say shoo,I buy food for u and u wan make I carry am for u,if I woos u slap now. She carry her food enter office but her behaviour towards me changed after dat incident. Its like I'm d guy she's been waiting for. She knows her boundaries cus she's realized dat I no b moi moi. We don share our first,second,third kisses. She go come my house this weekend, make I tear dat waist,chai!. And believe me,if southy girls dey come ur house na to nack u be dat o, dem no dey for first or second coming like naija babes wey dey too form. I say to my fellow guys,be nice but don't be too nice to dem ladies. Know when to say NO. Ka odikwa nu.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by PAINGAIN: 5:09pm On Nov 25, 2014
Ethereal0110:
the opposite of NICE is RUDE, so start being rude 2 them and see if they will stay na sad
liar! D opposite of nice(when it comes to women) is olodo. Even u no fit date mr nice guy.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Afrok(m): 5:19pm On Nov 25, 2014
One thing i know is, THERE IS ALWAYS TIME TO STOP IN EVERYTHING. So guys shouldn't overlook the signs and symptoms the who*es that ain't loyal shows them for being nice, it means it's time to stop being the Mr. Nice Guy cool.

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 5:19pm On Nov 25, 2014
The problem with "nice" in this context is that most times its fake. If you are actually nice its you living your life so you cannot be bothered as against being "nice' to get a a woman and when she does not respond to your fake niceness you start screaming of the evil of being friendzoned. So yes be real some one will take you as you are.

The Authentic nice guys don't finish last because it is who they are. wink

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by tosyne2much(m): 5:20pm On Nov 25, 2014
Just observing things from a palm tree

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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by sammy042(m): 5:24pm On Nov 25, 2014
Ethereal0110:
the opposite of NICE is RUDE, so start being rude 2 them and see if they will stay na sad
..hahaha..1 girl like dat in my area borrow me money,dat she will pay me in 2 weks tim..2Weks don reach,i dd ask her abt d moni goin to 3 wek..
me.nkechi,have u forgetn u're owin me?

nkechi.sam, i kwn nah.i will still pay u..

me.it has pass the tim u promis to pay me?

nkechi..sam,u are a v NICE GUY dat's y i like u eenh,sam sam..

going to a month and d girl never pay me am jst tryin to main10 my nicenes.6 weeks later she boght a new phone and am broke den..how d i collect my 5k from dis gel ok,lemme me meet her best friend and tell her wot's going on..her frd told me dat she is away of it dat am too nice dat's y she dn't want to pay me back my money..mayb she thinkin i wnt d anytin 2 her..

d nxt day i want 2 her rum witout knokin nd i collectd her new fone from her..
nkechi.sam,wat ar u tryin todo?
me.i want my moni, wheneva u pay me my money i wil giv u ur fone back.
nkechi.ok,i will pay u ur money on sunday,pls .
me.no am going bye
nkechi.i though u're a nice guy have patient wit me nah.sam u hav changd,u re no more d sam i knw before..
me.am no more a nice guy i ve changd,ok.

dat day she gv me my moni back...dis hapnd in my scondry skul time..being too nice to ladies is a taboo

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