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theplanmaker:
I heard a story like that, don't know if it's true o. It may be fiction.
A guy dated a girl for 2years, both of them were students then. He loved her so much, and even offended his mother and sister just to please her. Her dad died along the way leaving her stranded. The guy in question practically extorted his well to do parents to pay her fees and keep her in school. One thing led to another, and he discovered that the girl was cheating. He broke up with her, and she kept begging and sending people to beg him. Eventually she was forgiven. The same thing happened again, this time it was with a friend of the guy. She pleaded again, and the guy was stupid enough to forgive. Infact, he introduced her to his family. He eventually graduated and left town, but kept hearing rumours that she was dating one doctor infact they were engaged. all the while she was still collecting money from him for project seminar etc. She collected close to 70k. When he came back to town he confronted her about the cheating, and this time she did not beg anymore, she just said she wanted to break up, that she has found someone that wants to marry her next year, and since the guy still has law school and service in front of him, he should look for someone else. He knelt down to plead with her, even sent the same people she sent previously to beg her. He offered to marry her after law school, but she just refused. So the guy accepted his fate. One day he went to her house, after talking they ended up having sex. She didn't know that the guy had set his phone to capture everything, and even took some pictures when he was pretending to answer a call. He sent her the video and pictures on bbm the next day. And he didn't contact her again until he left for law school. The guy isn't interested in blackmailing, or making the video public, but then as she is getting married, let her leave with the guilt that someone somewhere has secrets that could destroy her. While he is managing a broken heart, she should manage a troubled heart. Scores are level, no hard feelings.

theplanmaker:
I heard a story like that, don't know if it's true o. It may be fiction.
A guy dated a girl for 2years, both of them were students then. He loved her so much, and even offended his mother and sister just to please her. Her dad died along the way leaving her stranded. The guy in question practically extorted his well to do parents to pay her fees and keep her in school. One thing led to another, and he discovered that the girl was cheating. He broke up with her, and she kept begging and sending people to beg him. Eventually she was forgiven. The same thing happened again, this time it was with a friend of the guy. She pleaded again, and the guy was stupid enough to forgive. Infact, he introduced her to his family. He eventually graduated and left town, but kept hearing rumours that she was dating one doctor infact they were engaged. all the while she was still collecting money from him for project seminar etc. She collected close to 70k. When he came back to town he confronted her about the cheating, and this time she did not beg anymore, she just said she wanted to break up, that she has found someone that wants to marry her next year, and since the guy still has law school and service in front of him, he should look for someone else. He knelt down to plead with her, even sent the same people she sent previously to beg her. He offered to marry her after law school, but she just refused. So the guy accepted his fate. One day he went to her house, after talking they ended up having sex. She didn't know that the guy had set his phone to capture everything, and even took some pictures when he was pretending to answer a call. He sent her the video and pictures on bbm the next day. And he didn't contact her again until he left for law school. The guy isn't interested in blackmailing, or making the video public, but then as she is getting married, let her leave with the guilt that someone somewhere has secrets that could destroy her. While he is managing a broken heart, she should manage a troubled heart. Scores are level, no hard feelings.

jackpot:
i know she has hurt you, you have also put her in misery by taking her nudes without her consent. I swear, if it is me you're going down.

Do you think you have the right to destroy someone's life by recording their nudes?

The safest thing for you to do now is to call her, arrange a meeting with her and quit the relationship amicably. Apologise to her. She should apologise too. Then, delete the pics and videos in front of her. Wish her well and move on.

Ilovenigeria:
You are wicked!!!!!!
Yes very wicked!!!!!!!
Oya do your worse!!!!
Thank God man no be God.
As she no be saint oya kill her naaaa.
No be some guys dey date women for so many years even help am abort babies yet e go leave am go marry her best friend.
Wetin she do you person never hear before?
Kill am.... msteeew so much for love.
Girls una no go shine una eyes. Fvck love... fvck romance... fvck feelings..... fvck obsessions.
Girls learn una lessons oooo. .if you wan chop person money just follow the guys that offer you money for sex...no long stories....no string attached.....if you wan marry invite them, they will gladly come.
I don talk my own. quote me to insult me make thunder pieces ur balls.

Oahray:
lol. This is evil.

Guy be careful sha. I think leaving her a troubled mind isn't the best. Some people could go any length to remove a perceived threat.

Just let go. She's not worth it.

Oahray:
lol. This is evil.

Guy be careful sha. I think leaving her a troubled mind isn't the best. Some people could go any length to remove a perceived threat.

Just let go. She's not worth it.

carefreewannabe:
@Peaceemerald

Get a lawyer if you can and ask what can be done about it.

I know that in Europe some people got a lot of money after they had reported such cases to the police and taken them to court. I don't know how the law protects people from such scenarios in Nigeria so I recommend that you consult a lawyer first.

Let us know what the lawyer told you and if he / she cannot help, I will tell you what else to do.

If the person who recorded the video is on NL, then I hope that he is aware of the possible consequences of his actions.
The girl is very desperate. Be careful you will not have to live with a bad conscience for the rest of your life if anything bad happens.

Diffdeef:
Nonsense! What your ex did was wrong!

recording the whole sex scene??

Infact,I personally want to see that video........!!





What nonsense!
Guys can be so heartless.

theplanmaker:
I heard a story like that, don't know if it's true o. It may be fiction.
A guy dated a girl for 2years, both of them were students then. He loved her so much, and even offended his mother and sister just to please her. Her dad died along the way leaving her stranded. The guy in question practically extorted his well to do parents to pay her fees and keep her in school. One thing led to another, and he discovered that the girl was cheating. He broke up with her, and she kept begging and sending people to beg him. Eventually she was forgiven. The same thing happened again, this time it was with a friend of the guy. She pleaded again, and the guy was stupid enough to forgive. Infact, he introduced her to his family. He eventually graduated and left town, but kept hearing rumours that she was dating one doctor infact they were engaged. all the while she was still collecting money from him for project seminar etc. She collected close to 70k. When he came back to town he confronted her about the cheating, and this time she did not beg anymore, she just said she wanted to break up, that she has found someone that wants to marry her next year, and since the guy still has law school and service in front of him, he should look for someone else. He knelt down to plead with her, even sent the same people she sent previously to beg her. He offered to marry her after law school, but she just refused. So the guy accepted his fate. One day he went to her house, after talking they ended up having sex. She didn't know that the guy had set his phone to capture everything, and even took some pictures when he was pretending to answer a call. He sent her the video and pictures on bbm the next day. And he didn't contact her again until he left for law school. The guy isn't interested in blackmailing, or making the video public, but then as she is getting married, let her leave with the guilt that someone somewhere has secrets that could destroy her. While he is managing a broken heart, she should manage a troubled heart. Scores are level, no hard feelings.

DukeNija:
Lmaooo! Bad conscience my butt. Dude should keep the pics, afterall he hasn't threatened her yet. Besides, there's no evidence he has the pics and videos. He will eventually delete them, not now I hope, maybe after she becomes a minister or Governor. Lol

jackpot:
You lack self esteem. You are a kid, and a low-lifer. Cheap blackmail for more sex? You're scared you can't get more holes to dig after hers? Mtcheeeew. I'm out.

DukeNija:
Leave story! That biatch cannot do nada. If I were the guy in question, all these threats will make me laugh hysterically. Pics and videos wey I go just sharply distribute to my niggahs. Lmaooo
Anyway, truth is the guy actually won't share those stuffs, he just wants to punish the biatch. But I can't do stuffs like dis sha, unecessary stress.

dBard:
I disagree. If it was consensual, then he is @liberty t do wit his wat he wants. Secondly, he can always claim it was leaked.
Point is....going t court will simply b a long ,tedious affair that may not end favorably, n @taryour, threats or force wil be d wrong way to go (esp.not in d way u suggested)


Never underestimate the lengths people r willing t go f vengeance.

carefreewannabe:
Recording such a video and keeping it is a thread in itself.

If the girl does something to herself as a result, then I hope that the law will deal with him and his conscience ruin his life.

The guy would regret having been born if I were this girl.

DukeNija:
Anyway, let's just hope he does the right thing, because honestly, when in situations like this, it becomes a completely different ballgame. One might have it all figure out, but being in the mix is something else. As for your last paragraph, I laugh because you definitely think you are the smartest or most wicked person alive. You've not met people.

DukeNija:
Leave story! That biatch cannot do nada. If I were the guy in question, all these threats will make me laugh hysterically. Pics and videos wey I go just sharply distribute to my niggahs. Lmaooo
Anyway, truth is the guy actually won't share those stuffs, he just wants to punish the biatch. But I can't do stuffs like dis sha, unecessary stress.

dicefrost:
This is the point in the story where i will bail out, and feel no pity for the op. The guy is wicked i totally agree. But his wickedness is just at the same level with the girl's own. You can take her side because she is a girl, but if you take sentiments aside you will see clearly. She never loved the guy, she was just using him to fund her education. Even when she had been engaged to someone else and was certain that she won't marry him, she still extorted 70k from him, and still slept with him, cheating on the guy she was engaged to. Afyer she was confronted, she showed no remorse. Imagine offering to pay him, as if money was the issue! This will tell you the kind of girl the op is. What she did was wicked and inhuman, and the guy responded in kind., with evil of similar magnitude. Notice that he doesn't want to blackmail her or embarass her. He just wants her to feel similar pain. I think its a fair deal. Broken heart=troubled heart. So my dear, in your opinion, it is either the girl is innocent, or the guy is wicked for extracting revenge?

If you think dealing with tge guy is an option, then you aren't thinking constructively. The guy in question is not poor, he is rich and educated (he could afford to sponsor her education) his dad is iinfluential according to op. So he is not exactly the type you just 'deal with'. You think he doesn't have it figured out? ......... In all, op screwed with the wrong guy, since he said he won't make it public, just let him be and live the troubled heart. If you push him, he could release the video, and it's your life on the line..... My 2 kobo

Ceedarlin:
if u r d dude dts hrtless of u after all d ple...... She did u gud by letting go off u instead of toying with ur emotions...... D Karma dt ll visit u is doing IT in Hell. Girl if i where u i wont giv a middle finger if someone i know c's d video n says she looks like me i ll deny it with all i v.... Afteraall i don c person Wey resemble me(wella).

AbuMikey:
Best Believe, You Mad Bro!

Real Guys don't act this Way Dawg!

You won't gain nothing on the long run, its on better You confiscate the Video and Pics ASAP, before even Your friends lay their hands on it!!


My 2 Kwacha!

Livingwalker:
if you release it finally .....all I will just do is smile and count you among the foolish once it shows you were never wise at all ....you dull die ....release am na you go dey on the loosing end and everything you did for will be wash.....mtchewwwww I think say you wise before but honestly you are just acting on emotion like a lady

SeverusSnape:
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marquiseT:
Initially my thought were,why re guys like always trying to take advantage of girls,why wud he betray her trust bcz she trusted him with her body, no matter what she did he has no right to her nudes, but then I read his side of the story the op is wicked,inhumane and calculative,since she was sleeping around wyl dating him that she was caught twice means she did much more,she cheated on him and later cheated on the other,she aint loyal and she didn't feel guilty until she realized he has her nudes...
Am a lady but I won't support her she was wrong on every level,It seems she got served(usain bolt karma) but wish he would be the bigger person by been magnanimous enough to let it slide and rejoice coz he didn't marry the serial cheat

Etetejake:
Guy, na u code pass. wen others they take me seriouse u still get that designing spirit. Na God go blx u for me. U ar truely a true Niaralander

taryour:
@ op. Honestly I don't want to believe this your story is for real, but if its real then you are not smart at all. Hold on a minute,how old are you? Where are your parents? Do you have elder sisters,brothers,uncles and aunties? Cause really if you were to be a relative of mine I would give a very dirty hot slap first for not being wise.

How long are you going to beg for Is he your god Is he married to you or obligated to you in any way

YES you dint wrong by cheating on in while you where dating which is VERY VERY WRONG,you apologised to him and he forgave you. You said yourself that he deserved a better person than you are which means you totally know your flaws,so you left it cause your conscience wouldn't let you rest.

Now isn't it better you left than stay and he being a second fiddle You going back to him to have s3x with him makes you even less smarter than I thought.

Now the deed is done and he has your nUde pictures and a video of you having s3x. Wake up girl and take the bull by the horn. What the hell is all that? That guy must be so stup1d and a weakling, he is a big F00L.

Get up girl and regain your dignity!!! That is to personal,he has no right whatsoever on this earth to have such in his hands no matter what you have done wrong either you are married to him or not.

Stop begging him abeg, you making him feel what he did is right. Here is what to do.

Bear the shame and report the incidence to your parents, go with soldiers to his parents house and give then strict warning,if possible HE or his PARENTS to should write an understatement, For no reason whatsoever should your nude pictures and videos bee seen anywhere, not only on social media but also any other phone except his. If he wants to keep it,let him fantasize on it even to his grave.

Not just that alone o, if anything as liitle as an insect bite comes your way as vengance from his side,either he double crosses you or send friends or touts to hit you then he is in a deep sh11t.

You need to be very serious about this o, this souldnt be a treat but a strict warning cause this can tarnish your future and your image. GO with soldiers. Nothing should happen to you, not even a mosquito bite.

Quit the begging abeg, you cheated on him so!! He isn't your hubby yet oo,and do you know what he has also done

WTH that guy must be so silly in his brain and you are so DuMb to have go meet him to have sEx again after breaking up.

Arrant nonsense.

jackpot:
You lack self esteem. You are a kid, and a low-lifer. Cheap blackmail for more sex? You're scared you can't get more holes to dig after hers? Mtcheeeew. I'm out.

Livingwalker:
you have just ended up insulting the wrong guy .....the guy made himself known yesterday and promised to release the video no matter what...just be careful before you post next time

Davvymavvy:
Dz Op just dey vex person sef. Continue to torment and frustrate her existence, I feel ur pain man, don't succumb to e-threat and intimidation. wtf was she thinking when she was messing around? Cox of nude thingy, u are now begging, without d s€x t.ape u for dey form sharp and baddest bi.tch ever liveth, Mtcheew.

She's feeling bad and insecure Cox she had already lied to the new mugu of her sainthood and how she lost her virginity during a marathon race. torment her, frustrate her and do wateva makes u Hapi wt d s€x ta.pe but dnt release it into cyberspace

Diffdeef: Nonsense! What your ex did was wrong!

recording the whole sex scene??

Infact,I personally want to see that video........!!





What nonsense!
Guys can be so heartless.