what a shit? What is special about nickness? Did u read in the Bible that Eve fear that Adam will see her nicked? dont mind him if he post ur nude here then it means he wants to make u a super stars

j0rdannkyle:
Rather than throwing insults at her which won't solve anything...... I think we should help her beg. As this can ruin her.

So mr, hopefully you're reading this(she says u're on NL), I kindly ask that you forgive her, we're all human beings. Imagine your self in her shoes now, its quite disturbing to think that one day you'll wake up and the whole nigeria is talking about you. Yeah, I know what she did was wrong, but it doesn't justify this, am not excusing her here but am asking that u see reason, revenge never solves anything, just continues a cycle of hate... Be the bigger person, forgive and just let it go am sure you wouldn't wanna be the cause of someone else's down fall. So again, and again I ask that you forgive, not cos she deserves it, but cos its the right thing to do

May you live long

you ex is stup.id, tell him to send you a copy and then send it to me, lets work together to get him locked up

Peaceemerald:



The same state, less than an hour away

Well I did the same thing to my woman when she cheated but my intention wasn't to send it out, my intention was to get her back...when av threatened her a lot with it, at a certain point she got tayad of d threat and told me to do my mind due to the love I have 4 her n d fact dat if I leak it we now an enemy 4 life and don't even knw wen next Whr next we might meet.. I then deleted the videos, but if that dude realy love you he won't leak it...but be strong don't show him that it's ya weak point act like you don't care he will get tired and be the one to apologise to you...believe me he won't leak it, if he will he would have done it since....if you have apologised and he refused relax don't apologise again let him do the worst he will call you in future time to beg....watch out

viczing:


Well I did the same thing to my woman when she cheated but my intention wasn't to send it out, my intention was to get her back...when av threatened her a lot with it, at a certain point she got tayad of d threat and told me to do my mind due to the love I have 4 her n d fact dat if I leak it we now an enemy 4 life and don't even knw wen next Whr next we might meet.. I then deleted the videos, but if that dude realy love you he won't leak it...but be strong don't show him that it's ya weak point act like you don't care he will get tired and be the one to apologise to you...believe me he won't leak it, if he will he would have done it since....if you have apologised and he refused relax don't apologise again let him do the worst he will call you in future time to beg....watch out

if i was the guy, ill sell it to a po.rn site and make good money. next time if she wants to cheat, then she shouldn't be in a relationship.

Stop this preaching pastor. i want to see her nude

@OP, you really messed up. Are u sure u ever loved him? Or u dated with him because he was footing some bills? You are even talking of refunding him, u must be a small girl if not u should never hv mentioned that.
He really loved u, he kept taking whatever u had to dish to him even against his mum or sisters' wishes.
Hmmm, all u should continue to do is beg him, when he has seen u suffer enough, he will delete it.

emperorchedda:
Girls are avoiding this thread like a plague

1000likes! On point

As usuall everybody likes to stand with the underdog,which I know she isn't.
But trying to see this from a differnt perpective from all her post you'll realise that she is carbon copy Lola montez and deserved to be dealt with....lool.
For all those screaming he is wicked.
She cheated twice,he didn't.
She broke his heart,he didn't.
She is a narcissist and you all will be suprised how all this her pleading will turn to contempt and insult the moment she finds out he no longer has the video.
I think its only fair she has a taste her medicine although the guy is taking it to the extreme.


So,Guy there you have it..I've shown you the all the raeson for you to be angry at her but to say the truth you self be mumu..o abi na low self esteem they worry you,what is it they said about once beaten? She cheated on you twice upon that you still they beg her no to break up with you.
Guy,I know the point you are trying to prove,“we all have demons inside us“....but men forgive the chic and erase her from your memory,how you go feel if someone treat ur sister like this.
I know you feel cheated on,probably self your sis or mum warned you of her and you didn't listen so you self have you self to blame and stop acting as if you are innocent.

I feel no pity for you babe,cheating ladies get what they deserve,same goes to the guys..

Why you scared?That's a porn career for you starting,who knows he's securing a place for you at Hollywood California with your nudes..

Keep Calm!!

smh for nlanders..na this kind post una go rush go type..but if na hell is real people change..expect from the op..the place go dry like derset na that same dy you go see thread closed.. ..Fact Is He Will Use It To Threaten But Can't Do Anything Xpect Spoil Ya Rep..Why You Self Act Like A LovePeddler Na??..Keep Pleading Or Find A Close Friend Of His You Can Talk To Ta Solve The Pee Among You Both..Maybe After That He'd Delete Em All..Which I Doubt..

taryour:
@ op. Honestly I don't want to believe this your story is for real, but if its real then you are not smart at all. Hold on a minute,how old are you? Where are your parents? Do you have elder sisters,brothers,uncles and aunties? Cause really if you were to be a relative of mine I would give a very dirty hot slap first for not being wise.

How long are you going to beg for Is he your god Is he married to you or obligated to you in any way

YES you dint wrong by cheating on in while you where dating which is VERY VERY WRONG,you apologised to him and he forgave you. You said yourself that he deserved a better person than you are which means you totally know your flaws,so you left it cause your conscience wouldn't let you rest.

Now isn't it better you left than stay and he being a second fiddle You going back to him to have s3x with him makes you even less smarter than I thought.

Now the deed is done and he has your nUde pictures and a video of you having s3x. Wake up girl and take the bull by the horn. What the hell is all that? That guy must be so stup1d and a weakling, he is a big F00L.

Get up girl and regain your dignity!!! That is to personal,he has no right whatsoever on this earth to have such in his hands no matter what you have done wrong either you are married to him or not.

Stop begging him abeg, you making him feel what he did is right. Here is what to do.

Bear the shame and report the incidence to your parents, go with soldiers to his parents house and give then strict warning,if possible HE or his PARENTS to should write an understatement, For no reason whatsoever should your nude pictures and videos bee seen anywhere, not only on social media but also any other phone except his. If he wants to keep it,let him fantasize on it even to his grave.

Not just that alone o, if anything as liitle as an insect bite comes your way as vengance from his side,either he double crosses you or send friends or touts to hit you then he is in a deep sh11t.

You need to be very serious about this o, this souldnt be a treat but a strict warning cause this can tarnish your future and your image. GO with soldiers. Nothing should happen to you, not even a mosquito bite.

Quit the begging abeg, you cheated on him so!! He isn't your hubby yet oo,and do you know what he has also done

WTH that guy must be so silly in his brain and you are so DuMb to have go meet him to have sEx again after breaking up.

Arrant nonsense.

I love your strict voice. solutions don't work that way. she's going to suffer that for the rest of his life.

I have been following this thread since yesterday but I can't comment coz I was banned.
I don't know why people are taking cheating as some new or taboo(though d girl bleeped),but am sure at least 60% of people commenting on this thread had cheated before.@ theplanmaker,please forgive and forget what she has done,and expect this from any girl,about 70% naija girl do what she did(you are not a thief until you are caught in the act)
Just forgive

donnypool:


if i was the guy, ill sell it to a po.rn site and make good money. next time if she wants to cheat, then she shouldn't be in a relationship.

Some girls punany no dey like one prick

Menh! Thank God for showing me people to avoid on nairaland.

mynairatime:
Stop this preaching pastor. i want to see her nude

Those in support say Aye!

Ilovenigeria:
Menh! Thank God for showing me people to avoid on nairaland.

He showed me mine too n is still showing me

Evina:


@ the highlighted on what grounds? He is the one that would be sued.

After he must have been beaten black and blue by security operatives without Any evidence? Last last the whole issue would go stale and be forgotten.

saaedlee:


He showed me mine too n is still showing me

I thank God for you.

Op you'll get married and he will show it to ur husband or he will tell you to sleep with him so that he won't show it to ur hubby, you'll fearfully agree, this one na double wahala on top dead body. I feel for u. If i were you, i'll let him do his worse rather than holding you to ransom, trust me and be wise!!

zeb04:
Op you better brace yourself up and stop this pleading bs
Don't belive it even when he says has deleted it. Because from his post online,I can see he is evil and childish.

To the ex
You have to be sure you are ready to finish what you have started
Very soon this won't be between both of you alone.
It will involve lawyers,your friends,your family and don't for once think you are tanishing only her image but yours also.so be very ready most times things don't go the way we plan and am very sure yours won't go your way.

zeb04:
Op you better brace yourself up and stop this pleading bs
Don't belive it even when he says has deleted it. Because from his post online,I can see he is evil and childish.

To the ex
You have to be sure you are ready to finish what you have started
Very soon this won't be between both of you alone.
It will involve lawyers,your friends,your family and don't for once think you are tanishing only her image but yours also.so be very ready most times things don't go the way we plan and am very sure yours won't go your way.

Abeg if anyone get the download link make him pm me.
Just in case he decides to upload it today

zeb04:
I think the boy in question is really stooppid and senseles.
It was a bf/gf nonsense not marriage
Are you the first to be cheated on....what nonsense
If I were you op,I would stop beggin and better plan a way to bring him down also if he decides to carry out his childish act.

heeeeey, I don't believe sometin lik this cud come out of ur mouth.cos she was d one dat cheat nw nothing is wrong wit it buh if nah d guy.............

Ipledge:
I have been following this thread since yesterday but I can't comment coz I was banned.
I don't know why people are taking cheating as some new or taboo(though d girl bleeped),but am sure at least 60% of people commenting on this thread had cheated before.@ theplanmaker,please forgive and forget what she has done,and expect this from any girl,about 70% naija girl do what she did(you are not a thief until you are caught in the act)
Just forgive

You say 60%......I say 90%......and they're here claiming holier than thou attitude.....
Gentleman in question pls forgive her for what she did to you and sincerely get rid of those nudes.....Thanks

The guy isnt a man enough. if not by now we would have been copying & pasting his unfaithful ex nudity

ITbomb:
Abeg if anyone get the download link make him pm me.
Just in case he decides to upload it today

Lol, funny you

charijee:
You say 60%......I say 90%......and they're here claiming holier than thou attitude.....
Gentleman in question pls forgive her for what she did to you and sincerely get rid of those nudes.....Thanks

I no just wan generalize,my ex cheated on me and the only person she could tell is me,she cant even tell her closest friend

#openheart

OP, just beg him, and forget, pray he doesn't upload it.



and more especially, tell your husband before you marry him.

If he loves you, he'd overlook it, so that in future, if he tries black mailing you, your hubby would have known about it.


My opinion

ITbomb dont mind him he doest hav the zeal no the shap beib played on him

U cause everything. U gona reap what u sow NOW. Since u seens u refuse to chnage for gud. Its time for a negetive change.......

kuderrich:
heeeeey, I don't believe sometin lik this cud come out of ur mouth.cos she was d one dat cheat nw nothing is wrong wit it buh if nah d guy.............

you dey mind them? The same set of persons who would have a field day in any thread that claims all men are cheats and women are always the victims. Double standards no be news.

Well at this point its pretty serious tho*
If you'r a christian gon pray about it. ..

*yawns* got to sleep will check back if I got any other more solutions