fem29:


Yes oo, I know what you mean, it's an endless cycle of cooking cleaning, wiping pooeybums and snotty noses. Endless washing and food and clothes shopping for the kids, endless drudgery. I need a slave .

The endless cooking, breakfast lunch dinner, they cannot do without 1 meal. When hubby is not here I can just have toast for brekkie then microwaved meal for lunch and cooked meal for dinner. When he is here u have to be cooking endless various indigenous dishes, spending hours in the kitchen.

Then I guess I'm too old and knackered cos sex makes my body ache now and I can now do with out it . I am just tired . I cannot wait for my twins to grow up. NO MORE KIDS!. Some days I dream of breaking my leg, then I will be admitted to hospital and they will bring me food and I'll watch telly all day whist someone else looks after the kids . Just that I can't gather up enough courage to fall down the stairs, by accident on purpose, it is well

fem29:


Yes oo, I know what you mean, it's an endless cycle of cooking cleaning, wiping pooeybums and snotty noses. Endless washing and food and clothes shopping for the kids, endless drudgery. I need a slave .

The endless cooking, breakfast lunch dinner, they cannot do without 1 meal. When hubby is not here I can just have toast for brekkie then microwaved meal for lunch and cooked meal for dinner. When he is here u have to be cooking endless various indigenous dishes, spending hours in the kitchen.

Then I guess I'm too old and knackered cos sex makes my body ache now and I can now do with out it . I am just tired . I cannot wait for my twins to grow up. NO MORE KIDS!. Some days I dream of breaking my leg, then I will be admitted to hospital and they will bring me food and I'll watch telly all day whist someone else looks after the kids . Just that I can't gather up enough courage to fall down the stairs, by accident on purpose, it is well

ileobatojo:

fem29:
lol it is true oo, I have researched how to break your hand on google

KanwuliaJara:



Erm?
Whites are better o, generally-speaking.
Black women and white men in an interacial match-box have the least divorce rate o. Amen!!!
100% by far and farrrrrresst!!!!
I can list MANY REASONS WHY!
But the MOST important one is that: because A WHITE man has SOOOOOOOO much more to offer a black woman, she can NEVER be bored!!!

fem29:
lol it is true oo, I have researched how to break your hand on google

damiso:




Don't worry they will soon grow up and not want to talk to you (that's what I console myself with ) When people with older kids say 'enjoy them now they grow so fast' I roll my eyes and think to myself ' ok for you to say'.

fem29:


Yess ooo I can't wait until they are totally independent, heck then they will do all the housework whilst I rest.

Love them to bits but I spend entirely too much time with them. Cos they're twins childcare is totally out of the question, would be paying 1.5k at least monthly for the two of them. So stuck at home waiting for them to start school.

KanwuliaJara:


The GREAT UNIBEN!

fem29:


Yess ooo I can't wait until they are totally independent, heck then they will do all the housework whilst I rest.

Love them to bits but I spend entirely too much time with them. Cos they're twins childcare is totally out of the question, would be paying 1.5k at least monthly for the two of them. So stuck at home waiting for them to start school.

damiso:


I so feel you on childcare but don't worry it's all for a good cause. I will suggest though that once in a while drop them off (I know it might be a bit trickier with twins boys esp my one drives me up tge wall ) with a trusted person (not hubby ).If you can afford it maybe nursery or playgrou.p once or twice a week.It helps for them to interact with other children and also good for you to get away from them once in a while. It also helps them to settle in school a bit quicker (children are different though).

In some Boroughs you can get 15 hours free childcare for 2 year olds (its mean tested in some areas cos I know my son did not qualify)

alutacontinua:


Lol
it is well, dearie
It's all worth it

SAMBARRY:
lol.na from uniben you dey learn school as suku

tear am-tiarram
Etc. Lol

KanwuliaJara:


Yes o!
Na BINI pipo dey tok like so o!

Na "tiaaaaaH-RRRRRaN", not "tiarrrram"!

SirShymexx:
@2Catwoman

Personally, based on my experience (checked a few white chics in College and Uni) - apart from being too clingy, especially with excessive phone calls and wanting to be next to you 24/7. I'd say the average white chic has this innate "fear" when dealing with black guys, and that makes them naturally more "submissive" than black women in general. They seldom get belligerent, and all up in ya face - and even when they do - as soon as they see that you're angry, they'll just fall back. I think that has more to do with testosterone level and being true to themselves from a cultural perspective. Unlike black women who try too hard to be what they're not. Regardless, I'm not saying that they're all like that - just dealing with percentages here.

Evidently, it's a no-brainer that relationships between black men and white women will always last longer. Also, black men in general don't really care about what race of men you choose to date - apart from clowning around. It's a privilege to be a black man. And once you go on holidays to places/countries where women seldom see black men, that's when you'll know how exotic you're with the bevy of chics you'll most likely get, without putting in too much effort.

Anyhoo, not throwing shots at black women (I prefer my black queens with huge badonkadonks like African chics), but I'm just saying it as it's with no chaser.

SirShymexx:


Err, the ever eccentric Texas Orchard, I had to come back from my hiatus for this one despite the fact that I'm a big fan of open marriage(s) - albeit the plausibility of it being blissful is still up in the air. I think I created a thread about it a few months ago. Ain't no one got time to be locked up for life in a fundamentally flawed institution, in need of an upgrade. Men change. Women change. And sometimes, to keep the union alive, for the sake of the children - folks should be allowed to do whatever they want. As long as it'll make them fulfilled.

However, I disagree with ya assertion that: "white men are better" - especially with using divorce rate between black women and white men as a premise. How about use the divorce rate between white men and women as a yardstick, since most white men are married to white women - and compare that to marriages between black men and black women? Can you see how flawed your assertion is?

SirShymexx:
Honestly, I think the reason why the divorce rate between white and black women might be low (that's if it's true) is because black women tend to be more subservient in interracial relationships. White men are like their trophies - and it has more to do with self-esteem issues. Also, their willingness to soak-in whatever white men might throw at them. Only black women can get ghetto-gagged by a bunch a rednecks, and still feel proud. about it. However, conversely, the same women would cry about black men objectifying them - hysterical.

SirShymexx:
Black women in general are just a confused lot with low self-esteem and a lot of self-hate, to be honest. For example: when a black guy is into White/Asian women - to black women: he's a self-hating coon. However, when a black woman is into white men - to black women: get it gurl - and it's time to put her on Oprah and front-page of magazines about black women exploring their options loool.

Stop cooning!

shinejackie:
@mgbeketoto, na u dey 4dat profile .............u look so innocent compared to what you post.......

Eshyy:

Don't u know l am a Stalker

shinejackie:
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Oh really ...

shinejackie:
@mgbeketoto, na u dey 4dat profile .............u look so innocent compared to what you post.......

oloyede252:
hello ma.giving that av read all ur post i cldnt reli deduct d meaning of the term 'open marriage'to mean a definate concept.ur help wil b greatly needed.nd pls make use of example and refrences.
Note:it for edu purposes,nd sumtin abt gender role,

oloyede252:

thks alot ma.quite intresting..i also av dis interesting question for u.nd ur explanation is most important.-examine any two feminist theories and indicate their propositions for the eradication of inequality between genders'
...there ar many theories but just pick most significant.(dat my hss113(gender studies) presentation on monday..hope am nt asking too much. Na unilag cos am.lol.thks

KanwuliaJara:


Sorry, try another thread.
You are asking too much.
Take kia!

fem29:


Yes oo, I know what you mean, it's an endless cycle of cooking cleaning, wiping pooeybums and snotty noses. Endless washing and food and clothes shopping for the kids, endless drudgery. I need a slave .

The endless cooking, breakfast lunch dinner, they cannot do without 1 meal. When hubby is not here I can just have toast for brekkie then microwaved meal for lunch and cooked meal for dinner. When he is here u have to be cooking endless various indigenous dishes, spending hours in the kitchen.

Then I guess I'm too old and knackered cos sex makes my body ache now and I can now do with out it . I am just tired . I cannot wait for my twins to grow up. NO MORE KIDS!. Some days I dream of breaking my leg, then I will be admitted to hospital and they will bring me food and I'll watch telly all day whist someone else looks after the kids . Just that I can't gather up enough courage to fall down the stairs, by accident on purpose, it is well

SirShymexx:


Personally, based on my experience (checked a few white chics in College and Uni) - apart from being too clingy, especially with excessive phone calls and wanting to be next to you 24/7.

SirShymexx:
I'd say the average white chic has this innate "fear" when dealing with black guys, and that makes them naturally more "submissive" than black women in general. They seldom get belligerent, and all up in ya face - and even when they do - as soon as they see that you're angry, they'll just fall back. I think that has more to do with testosterone level and being true to themselves from a cultural perspective. Unlike black women who try too hard to be what they're not. Regardless, I'm not saying that they're all like that - just dealing with percentages here.

SirShymexx:
Evidently, it's a no-brainer that relationships between black men and white women will always last longer.

SirShymexx:
Also, black men in general don't really care about what race of men you choose to date - apart from clowning around. It's a privilege to be a black man. And once you go on holidays to places/countries where women seldom see black men, that's when you'll know how exotic you're with the bevy of chics you'll most likely get, without putting in too much effort.

Anyhoo, not throwing shots at black women (I prefer my black queens with huge badonkadonks like African chics), but I'm just saying it as it's with no chaser.

fem29:


Yes o they are 3 and get 15hrs a week, 3 hrs a day. And I do have a babysitter and family help out once in a while. But I have a clothing business so I have to do a lot of rushing about for that. It a balancing act but light is at the end of the tunnel, they start school in september . So either go to work or REALLY have the time and energy to grow my business. Thanks hun