SirShymex:


Lol, Texas Orchard, you can be a tad bit difficult sometimes.

I just gave you the supreme mathematics and science behind "How Stella got her groove back" but you don't want that lol. Er, I don't think there is any other formula that can cure the boredom. Just live with it lol.

I give up!

And what gives you the impression that If THIS 'STELLA' ever wanted to get her groove back, it would be with A NIGERIAN, AN AFRICAN OR AFRICAN-AMERICAN NIGGA?

Oh boy! I don pass that stage o! Hallelujah! My pinkie finger can get more done in ALL FEMALE PARTS than any man could AT THIS PHASE IN MY LIFE. I have perfected the skills of self-pleasuration! I can work this BARRRY better than any man could my dear! Sheeeeeeeesh!!!
See?

You need to stick to your league of discussions.
This is sooooooooooooo NOT!

Soooooooooooooooo, this is all it takes to make a woman wet?

Alephilomath:


Is there a reason why your daughter can't be your best friend?

Lol, I can't do a lot of things with females, else they might start secreting excessive testosterone and turn to tomboys lol.

A lot of contact sports, brutal and sports video games, gym, guys' chat etc..

KanwuliaJara:


I give up!

And what gives you the impression that If THIS 'STELLA' ever wanted to get her groove back, it would be with A NIGERIAN, AN AFRICAN OR AFRICAN-AMERICAN NIGGA?

Oh boy! I don pass that stage o! Hallelujah! My pinkie finger can get more done in ALL FEMALE PARTS than any man could AT THIS PHASE IN MY LIFE. I have perfected the skills of self-pleasuration! I can work this BARRRY better than any man could my dear! Sheeeeeeeesh!!!
See?

You need to stick to your league of discussions.
This is sooooooooooooo NOT!

Soooooooooooooooo, this is all it takes to make a woman wet?

Lol, that's a grown ar.se midget, with short arms and legs right there lol. I guess that's why ya groove is lost forever like the Kingdom of Atlantis, messing with midgets and shiit lol.

Pleasuring yaself is the reason you're bored cos the machine has made you a loner. You better start going out more. And if you don't like nyggahs, I'm sure there are tons of rednecks out there who wouldn't mind giving you the ghetto-gaggers treatment lol.

You're a legend!!

all4naija:

Dream on,dude! Grey color hair is on the way. I didn't mean to offend you though.

Shiit - I've got the The Da Vinci Code, and any chic that ain't never gonna go vintage like Tracey Edmonds when she gets old can't wear my ring.

Bosss!!

SirShymex:


Lol, that's a grown ar.se midget, with short arms and legs right there lol. I guess that's why ya groove is lost forever like the Kingdom of Atlantis, messing with midgets and shiit lol.

Pleasuring yaself is the reason you're bored cos the machine has made you a loner. You better start going out more. And if you don't like nyggahs, I'm sure there are tons of rednecks out there who wouldn't mind giving you the ghetto-gaggers treatment lol.

You're a legend!!

Hmmmm!

Na wah!
This NL harbours all sorts I tell you!
See wahala on 2 legs!

Anyway. . . I ain't gonna go back and forth with you.
I have made my point!
Boring or not. . . I love the certificate.
Thank you sir SHYMMY!

KanwuliaJara:

Hmmmm!

Na wah!
This NL harbours all sorts I tell you!
See wahala on 2 legs!

Anyway. . . I ain't gonna go back and forth with you.
I have made my point!
Boring or not. . . I love the certificate.
Thank you sir SHYMMY!

Lmao. Just messing about witchu, the legendary Kanwulia the blazay!

Gatt luv fi you! Deya!

SirShymex:


Lmao. Just messing about witchu, the legendary Kanwulia the blazay!

Gatt luv fi you! Deya!

Thank you!

*talk of the devil himself. . .Oga is back from work. . . HE OWES ME $100. . . time to go and collect it!*

KanwuliaJara:


It does not appear that you are 'fully' present on this thread?
Are you implying that 'women' do not have any rights to express the woes of stale marriages?
That we only complain the 'MONEY' has stopped flowing. . . if indeed it ever 'flowed'!
You may be right to imply that the MAN should focus on his work. . . .AND KEEP THE DAMN MONEY FLOWING!
NO MORE SEX!
Lewinskies can do just that. . . .unless he claims to have found 'true-love' at such an advanced, opportunistic phase in life?

That would most tragic!

As a feminist, I get angry when women ask men for money, gush! It stinks. You have no right to ask me for money, its 50:50! For example, the inane 22 year old that killed her lord over #10 sweet. My money is mine and you have no 4kin right to it.
As a misogynist, to me, marriage is as useless and clueless as it sounds, an overhyped, inconsiderate phenomena incorporated by our fathers to make women important. In fact, tell me what a wife can do and a beautiful, educated maid can't and I will deactivate this account. Men used to focus more on their career before this crazy thing sprang up. It then got worse when some people began to spread and incorporate the false rumor of 'monogamy', which lead to the effective rise of feminism.
Women have no right to lay complaints because marriage was instituted to make them feel important. The over hyped partnership has made men loose their cash to the other humans during divorce. Apart from proponents of having a well nurtured male child that will carry on the wisdom of manliness, marriage sucks!

Misogynist2014:

Women have no right to lay complaints because marriage was instituted to make them feel important. The over hyped partnership has made men loose their cash to the other humans during divorce. Apart from proponents of having a well nurtured male child that will carry on the wisdom of manliness, marriage sucks!

.

Marriage is sure boring, I sure will go for contract marriage.
Ooo yeahhhh I can't wait to get into one.

Misogynist2014:
As a feminist, I get angry when women ask men for money, gush! It stinks. You have no right to ask me for money, its 50:50! For example, the inane 22 year old that killed her lord over #10 sweet. My money is mine and you have no 4kin right to it.
As a misogynist, to me, marriage is as useless and clueless as it sounds, an overhyped, inconsiderate phenomena incorporated by our fathers to make women important. In fact, tell me what a wife can do and a beautiful, educated maid can't and I will deactivate this account. Men used to focus more on their career before this crazy thing sprang up. It then got worse when some people began to spread and incorporate the false rumor of 'monogamy', which lead to the effective rise of feminism.
Women have no right to lay complaints because marriage was instituted to make them feel important. The over hyped partnership has made men loose their cash to the other humans during divorce. Apart from proponents of having a well nurtured male child that will carry on the wisdom of manliness, marriage sucks!

I have no doubt now. You are on a WRONG THREAD!
You are transferring your displaced emotions from another thread to this thread.
This thread is not about 'feminism'!

You are entitled to your opinions. . . but let my steer you back to the topic.

As a feminist, I get angry when women ask men for money, gush! It stinks. You have no right to ask me for money, its 50:50! For example, the inane 22 year old that killed her lord over #10 sweet. My money is mine and you have no 4kin right to it.

WRONG THREAD!

As a misogynist, to me, marriage is as useless and clueless as it sounds, an overhyped, inconsiderate phenomena incorporated by our fathers to make women important. In fact, tell me what a wife can do and a beautiful, educated maid can't and I will deactivate this account. Men used to focus more on their career before this crazy thing sprang up. It then got worse when some people began to spread and incorporate the false rumor of 'monogamy', which lead to the effective rise of feminism.

WRONG THREAD!

Women have no right to lay complaints because marriage was instituted to make them feel important. The over hyped partnership has made men loose their cash to the other humans during divorce. Apart from proponents of having a well nurtured male child that will carry on the wisdom of manliness, marriage sucks!

WRONG THREAD!

3 Strikes!
No response to any part of your post!
You are clearly DELUSIONAL!!!!!

KanwuliaJara:


When you get to an OLD marriage like mine. . . YOU ARE LEFT WITH NO CHOICE REALLY.
Just giving the 'blind-sighted' newly-weds or ever fasting and praying matrimonial warriors for 'romantic breakthroughs' on and off NL. . . a sneak-preview of what is to come!
Dem go fast and pray taya ke. . . .especially when 'the pickle' can't stand up straight in 'any jar'!

Looking at one woman for over 10 years is enough to cause ERRRRECTUS DYSFUNCTION I swear!
I don't know how some men manage. . . . ?
The 'GRACE' of their 'GOD' must be truly powerful!

I can't even deal with such staleness as a female. . . not to mention A MAN who get's turned on by the smell of 'fresh butt sprays'!

Oh Lordy - Lordy!

Dayummmm!!..... this is brutally honest.......... we need more sane females like you

KanwuliaJara:


I have no doubt now. You are on a WRONG THREAD!
You are transferring your displaced emotions from another thread to this thread.
This thread is not about 'feminism'!

You are entitled to your opinions. . . but let my steer you back to the topic.



WRONG THREAD!



WRONG THREAD!



WRONG THREAD!

3 Strikes!
No response to any part of your post!
You are clearly DELUSIONAL!!!!!

This allegation is very serious, a woman telling a man that he has made a mistake! You've hurt my precious ego, so I had to run through my post again because the day man makes a mistake, he becomes a WOunded MAN, I really fear being a woman.
I've read to and fro and found out that manliness has made no mistake and I'm far from being delusional. This thread isn't pro-family, consequently giving me the right to introduce anti-family movements, misogyny and feminism. In conclusion, my post answered even the minutest of question you asked, which has made your post null and void.

Misogynist2014:
This allegation is very serious, a woman telling a man that he has made a mistake! You've hurt my precious ego, so I had to run through my post again because the day man makes a mistake, he becomes a WOunded MAN, I really fear being a woman.
I've read to and fro and found out that manliness has made no mistake and I'm far from being delusional. This thread isn't pro-family, consequently giving me the right to introduce anti-family movements, misogyny and feminism. In conclusion, my post answered even the minutest of question you asked, which has made your post null and void.

Once again. . .

This thread is about BORING MARRIAGES!
In a nutshell. . . ALL MARRIAGES GET BORING.
My marriage is boring. . .not anti-family.
I still love my husband and children VERRRRRY DEARLY. . . and have never failed in my responsibilities as a wife or mother!
MY MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE IS STILL VERY VALID the last time I checked!
My husband is quite a very happy man. . . .and SHARES THE SAME DAMN SENTIMENTS I have!

Marriages are NOT USELESS according to you. I disagree!

This is not an 'anti-family' thread. A boring marriage does not mean YOUR MARRIAGE IS ANTI-FAMILY.
It only means. . . THE SPARK IS GONE! Very natural!
The futility of SPICING UP A BORING NIGERIAN/AFRICAN MARRIAGE IS THE FOCUS OF THIS THREAD.
You are wrong in introducing anti-family movements, misogyny and feminism sentiments here.

Please, stick to the topic or take your 'beaf' to the right threads. . .

Thanks!

Kanwulia, just in case I never said it out loud, I e-love you
chai! See the way she put misogynonsense back in line

alutacontinua:
Kanwulia, just in case I never said it out loud, I e-love you
chai! See the way she put misogynonsense back in line

that guy is just clueless .all the long meaningless grammar for nothing.

Since when did it become a must to marry abeg
You don't want to marry a wife but you want a female maid.
Broda just tell us you are broke and need money to pay bride price so nairaland can contribute for you.
The yapping all about is becoming stale.

Abeg I no want derail thread.

alutacontinua:
Kanwulia, just in case I never said it out loud, I e-love you
chai! See the way she put misogynonsense back in line

Thank you!
Politely too!

KanwuliaJara:


I give up!

And what gives you the impression that If THIS 'STELLA' ever wanted to get her groove back, it would be with A NIGERIAN, AN AFRICAN OR AFRICAN-AMERICAN NIGGA?

Oh boy! I don pass that stage o! Hallelujah! My pinkie finger can get more done in ALL FEMALE PARTS than any man could AT THIS PHASE IN MY LIFE. I have perfected the skills of self-pleasuration! I can work this BARRRY better than any man could my dear! Sheeeeeeeesh!!!
See?

You need to stick to your league of discussions.
This is sooooooooooooo NOT!

Soooooooooooooooo, this is all it takes to make a woman wet?

Jesus loves you, give your life to Him and repent from your all wrong perception of what God have ordain.

alutacontinua:
Kanwulia, just in case I never said it out loud, I e-love you
chai! See the way she put misogynonsense back in line

Cool down! I just didn't want to comment further.

zeb04:
that guy is just clueless .all the long meaningless grammar for nothing.

Since when did it become a must to marry abeg
You don't want to marry a wife but you want a female maid.
Broda just tell us you are broke and need money to pay bride price so nairaland can contribute for you.
The yapping all about is becoming stale.

Abeg I no want derail thread.

Emillie:
Marriage is sure boring, I sure will go for contract marriage.
Ooo yeahhhh I can't wait to get into one.

You guys will not kill somebody on nairaland....

Some people have it lucky....they get the soulmate/bestfriend/greatestlover package...

Others are not.....

Kanwulia you are too funny . you're right too

stanprexy:

Jesus loves you, give your life to Him and repent from your all wrong perception of what God have ordain.

Tomorrow you will blame the 'WEST' for enslaving you.
Is JESUS FROM AFRICA?

^^^^^^^^

KanwuliaJara:


Tomorrow you will blame the 'WEST' for enslaving you.
Is JESUS FROM AFRICA?

Sorry, never knew you were a free thinker, but that doesn't change what I said earlier. Jesus loves you.

KanwuliaJara:


Na CHILLISAUCE you go ask o!

WAKA JUGBE!!!!

Now we are talking!

Waka jugbe? It's wakadukpe jor. Kanwulia wia you learn your engrish

Misogynist2014:

alutacontinua:
Kanwulia, just in case I never said it out loud, I e-love you
chai! See the way she put misogynonsense back in line

That was highly enjoyable...

As i understand, you said, your marriage is boring as do all marriage with time. Your focus is "The futilility of spicing up a boring Nigerian/Africa American marriage".
Your experience and general observations, is not limited to marriage. Life, indeed, can be boring.
However, the monotonies of life routines can, and are spiced with dynamic personal dimensions.
The futility of spicing marriage, and indeed life is not limited to Nigerians/Africa Americans. Is the human experience.
The less economical endowed, think money is all the need to happiness. Actually the most unhappy and boring people are the wealthy, especially those who had wealth thrusted on their laps without the distraction and satisfactions of productive engagements to earn, and protect them from the idleness of affleuncesia.
As our physical body depends on active living to enhance our circulatory patency, so does our changes in active focuses promotes emotional health and growth from expectional satisfactions and divergent perspectives. A one dimentional mind quickly get stale and unhealthy.
Has life/marriage always been like this? Do the ease of the mechanisation and digitalisation contribute to this predicament, by leaving us with much more idle time than we need?
I cannot pretend to have answers to these existential questions or problems.
However, a look into our forebearers polygamous system had dynamic subgroups competitions and coperations, wether expressed or implied. Matrimonial boredom and patriachial erotism must had be mitigated by varieties and time off. Off times, gives the wives space, and desires to maximize her turn when it comes around. Also the possibity of getting laid on their parthners time(internal cheating) cannot be ruled out as a spicing experience. In fact what is obtained in the macro-world, were possible in their nucleus polygamous unit. That is internal dynamism that keep the family humming, and interest prime.

^^^^
Na wetin be all dati grama wey you write for up dia so?

Life is boring? Abeg tok for yasef o!
My life is NOT BORING AT ALL.
Na ALL my relationship with NIGERIAN DUDES dey SUPER BORRRRRRING!
Please, take note!
I'd rather play on NL than spend more than 1 hour in the same room with a NIGERIAN man!
Simple!

Polygamy only favors AFRICAN GIGOLOS!
Even if I were to have the opportunity of having more than one husband, IT WOULD ONLY MAKE ME MORE MISERABLE.
Dealing with more than one EMOTIONAL NOMAD in my life is worse than HELL FIRE!
Hell NO! Good RRRRRRRRIDANCE to them all!

I did not say life is boring. I said " it can be boring".
Just like marriage can be boring. Not everybody's marriage is boring.