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Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by mannyiyke: 12:19pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04:Op, u love him 'cos he's a medical doctor. If he was d hussling type, u wldn't have even spent a month with him. I know ur type. He doesn't love you, but for d fact dat he's a medical doctor, u've stuck around for God-knows-years. Women!!! They'll never love who loves them all because of money, class, levels, education, etc. It's not that those things are not desirable or reasonable to desire, however, all their foci are on them to d detriment of d essence of true relationships. 3 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 12:22pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
casualobserver1:Getting pregnant for any guy when marriage isn't taking place is the most iidiotic thing any girl would do in this 21st century. Every woman should be able to know when a relationship isn't going anywhere yet some pretend and stick to the guy and the guy in turn uses her to pass time.Maybe in this case this guy wants to make her his concubine for life. and trust our Nigerian girls they will stay as long as the money is plenty. 2 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Moana(f): 12:27pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:the wicked people of nairaland |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by veave(f): 12:29pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04: A 38year old man is not thinking about getting married? I do not think you know the real person you've been dealing with... Get a CID, you will be shocked to find out he's already married with kids |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by faceless04: 12:30pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
mannyiyke: You are absolutely wrong |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Moana(f): 12:32pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04:Wait 1. he comes to your doorstep and workplace 2. He leaves u 20 missed calls daily 3. Threatens to kill you And you still say he is mentally stable? So they told you psychopathic behaviour is not for medical doctors? 2 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 12:37pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
My dear,this story is really making my heart drain. wat? It will be a big slap on your father's face and a disgrace on your part if u move in with him and start producing babies.He is confused,he doesn't have plans for his life,he is selfish and a thief.Talk to him again and explain things to him or Go to the police,report that he threatened your life and tell the police to make him sign an agreement that he won't harm you.Even if he was called to be a priest and decided to serve in his cathedral,tell him you were not called to be a SISTER! |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by veave(f): 12:44pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Kai! I can bet my flat behind you do not even know his family. I'm soo soo pained right now on your behalf... 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by tomzman: 12:50pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
nairabetguru:I won't totally agree with you. I don't see anything bad in a 19 year old girl being in a relationship. She can date for 5-6 yrs and get married at 24 or 25. That is what I expected the op to have done. She should have left him when she turned 25 and discovered that the guy has no plan to marry her. 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 12:50pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Truckpusher: what are you saying,? I think you fall into the league of that her boyfriend.Guys are feeble,scared of making decisions and above all confused!If a girl sees that a guy is serious with her and she doesn't want to be with him,she tells him straight up but men like you are....... ..... !!!!!!! I rest my case |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Benoxvals(m): 12:57pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Midehi: Please don't get all angry at me girl..am entitled to my opinion and my sister would have taken care of the situation on her own.Chil,contribute and don't go beyond that. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 1:01pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
reminiscing:Hello sweetheart if I'm dating you and you want out the next month trust me you are so free. Nigga got no time begging any biitch to stay - for what ? for some inconveniencies and liability? |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by wilfredomoba(m): 1:02pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Maybe u are very goood in Beg dat is Y? Pls try nd go see ur pastor very important |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Benoxvals(m): 1:05pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
faceless04: I can't say that I know how or what you feel but I still maintain my stance that leaving him is a bad idea cuz many people are going through worst problems but yours is still solvable.Talk seriously with him on the issue and respect his opinion as well,only then can a solution be carved out.what you want might not be as difficult as you you think,it's just the way you are going about it. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 1:05pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
veave:With the way you reason - you'll remain there forever and die on that diick. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by nairabetguru(m): 1:05pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
tomzman: What is the essense of a relationship? Answer: marriage What does a 19 year old know about marriage? Answer: absolutely notyn. conclusion: she just wasted 10 years of her life and now dat it has dawned on her she wants to turn it to a do or die affair |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Benoxvals(m): 1:10pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
temitak: I don't mean to get under your skin Sis...but my opinion still stands so please don't take it personal. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by freecocoa(f): 1:23pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
2sa2:Learn to read and comprehend before rushing to comment please. I'm not talking of a relationship leading to marriage as I know that not all relationships has to/ends in marriage. I'm talking about not knowing your partner's view on the subject, having been dating for eons. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by 2sa2: 1:27pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
freecocoa:what's the meaning of free cocoa, free is clear, cocoa, hmmmm could that be kitty? If yes, i'm interested, soooooooooooooooo how's it going to be |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Tashaamania(f): 1:27pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Truckpusher: I guess she was blinded by material things and didnt know when it was 10years gone. Anyone can make the same mistake she made, but definitely not me |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Tashaamania(f): 1:29pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
veave: ..jeez just maybe, damnnn!! |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by ogaofficer(m): 1:31pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
MhisIjay:lmao. . Mhizij.ay: op hw many times i call u? Op: 10 Yrs. op na olodo 1 Like |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Tobiustobius: 1:35pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
People on NL are just so unhelpful. Yesterday it was "this chicks ain't loyal", today the same people are insulting the woman who stayed for 10 years. @OP: Wanting different things is enough reason to leave. Let's agree that he doesn't believe in marriage- everyone has a right to their opinions and beliefs. However, the fact that he's threatening you takes it to another level of horrible. Run, don't walk, away from this terrible human being. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 1:39pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Could be true and again never you underestimate the power of good knacking. Some bad guys out there are using serious knacking to keep a woman like a goat tied to a tree but trust some chicks na - You no fit use their head. |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 1:42pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Benoxvals:den dwell in ur own low sef esteem |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by veave(f): 1:44pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Good day and love you too... |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 1:46pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Op, my advice is that you must stick to that guy since you are still saying that you love him despite his unwillingness to marry you. Don't carry the baggage from that relationship to another innocent man oooo. Because I know that the next thing is for you to start cheating with him after another man has come to put the ring on your finger. He's your cross, carry it! |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by CoCoLav(f): 1:47pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
nairabetguru: Please tell me you are joking. I know someone who started dating at 14, she dated the guy for 9 years and they got married last year October so warra you saying? |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Tashaamania(f): 1:48pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Omoh bleep good knacking jor! No matter how good a woman is been knacked, doesnt mean she should be blinded.. A smart lady should be able to tell when a man is in just for the knacking or something serious jare Anyways, rove is blind afterall.. 2 Likes |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 1:48pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
veave:Now you've killed me. How come you didn't get angry as usual? This is interesting |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Truckpusher(m): 1:50pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Dey there na. You sabi those kain knacking wey activate woman mumu button na? |
Re: Its Been 10yrs And He Still Doesn't Have Plans For Marriage by Nobody: 1:51pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Tashaamania: all these knacking talks sef.. Are hammers distributed here ? What is Knacking sef ? |
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