Tashaamania:

Girl, no offence buh are you crazy

A dude who did something like this should be your worst enemy..

Daresh:


Babe you don enter one chance. You need to find a way to leave him and go o. If you have to change state or country then so be it. That guy is one insane muthafuka!

faceless04:



We started when I was 19 and he was 28

faceless04:



I think you are the only one who have really understood the picture. We have a happy relationship, he want babies. BUT I WANT THE SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY. And that's why I'm leaving him.

chibarbie:
10 years Now dats sth I cnt do

faceless04:
I read a story here where an angry guy shot a couple at their wedding reception because the bride left him for another man and this kept me wondering if my boyfriend can actually do same...........here is my story.

I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10years nw (yes, 10years). It all started in 2005 when we met, fell in love. He was and is still my first and only love. I was enjoying the relationship until 2years ago(though we've had our share of misunderstanding, I wldnt want to go into that) when I started thinking of settling down. I indirectly asked him if he had any plan of marrying me and I was shocked by the response I got. He said he doesn't believe in marriage, that everything is about understanding. I can move in,start producing babies for him but he can never carryout any marriage rites.

I thought he wasn't serious until last year when I asked him thesame question, he gave me thesame answer. But this time, I told him that I don't Share thesame view with him and that we need to go our separate ways. Since then he has been warning me that he will kill any man I get married to, that he cannt stand seeing me with another man........


Infact, I can't write down how the past year has been. I still love him and there is no doubt that he loves me too. But the big problem is that we are so so different, our views and vision are wide apart. I knw I can just forget about him and move on with my life but he wldnt let me be. He is always there at my door step, my office, giving 20 missed calls. Sometimes, I just wish I can relocate and start a new life, but I can't leave my job,not with this high rate of unemployment.

I forgot to mention that he is not the faithful type, though he doent flaunt it to my face but I just get to know about it one way or the other.
I really need advice on what to do,because even though I still have a soft spot for him, I don't want to continue with the relationship.

freecocoa:
One of those made up stories, I guess.

faceless04:



I said that 7years ago

ileobatojo:



Certifiably insane!

Someone that's pretty much stalking her and using threats of violence to keep her with him is "100% mentally stable"? The OP must be in denial.

If you read about someone going on a murderous shooting spree and it makes you think your bf can do the same, something is seriously wrong somewhere. Once the OP is ready to truthfully examine why she thought of her bf, she'll see why she needs to run, like yesterday.

By the way, the guy is probably married with kids somewhere like others have said.

faceless04:
I read a story here where an angry guy shot a couple at their wedding reception because the bride left him for another man and this kept me wondering if my boyfriend can actually do same...........here is my story.

I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10years nw (yes, 10years). It all started in 2005 when we met, fell in love. He was and is still my first and only love. I was enjoying the relationship until 2years ago(though we've had our share of misunderstanding, I wldnt want to go into that) when I started thinking of settling down. I indirectly asked him if he had any plan of marrying me and I was shocked by the response I got. He said he doesn't believe in marriage, that everything is about understanding. I can move in,start producing babies for him but he can never carryout any marriage rites.

I thought he wasn't serious until last year when I asked him thesame question, he gave me thesame answer. But this time, I told him that I don't Share thesame view with him and that we need to go our separate ways. Since then he has been warning me that he will kill any man I get married to, that he cannt stand seeing me with another man........


Infact, I can't write down how the past year has been. I still love him and there is no doubt that he loves me too. But the big problem is that we are so so different, our views and vision are wide apart. I knw I can just forget about him and move on with my life but he wldnt let me be. He is always there at my door step, my office, giving 20 missed calls. Sometimes, I just wish I can relocate and start a new life, but I can't leave my job,not with this high rate of unemployment.

I forgot to mention that he is not the faithful type, though he doent flaunt it to my face but I just get to know about it one way or the other.
I really need advice on what to do,because even though I still have a soft spot for him, I don't want to continue with the relationship.

Gaidenk:
Didn't read but I have one advice for you,collect your pension and retire.

2sa2:
i'm sure you stayed this long with the hope things would change.
It's just unfortunate you wasted your youth on someone not willing to spend the rest of his life with you, brake off, some else would come for you.
Send me a pm let's discuss privately

Gaidenk:
Didn't read but I have one advice for you,collect your pension and retire.

nairabetguru:


@ 19 you had no business being in a relationship if not for oju kokoro wey dey worry u @ that tyme..... The bros @ 28 den shld be employed and had sum cash to splash........ Now I see where the problem is

#Guiltypleasurez

nairabetguru:


@ 19 you had no business being in a relationship if not for oju kokoro wey dey worry u @ that tyme..... The bros @ 28 den shld be employed and had sum cash to splash........ Now I see where the problem is

#Guiltypleasurez

faceless04:
I read a story here where an angry guy shot a couple at their wedding reception because the bride left him for another man and this kept me wondering if my boyfriend can actually do same...........here is my story.

I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10years nw (yes, 10years). It all started in 2005 when we met, fell in love. He was and is still my first and only love. I was enjoying the relationship until 2years ago(though we've had our share of misunderstanding, I wldnt want to go into that) when I started thinking of settling down. I indirectly asked him if he had any plan of marrying me and I was shocked by the response I got. He said he doesn't believe in marriage, that everything is about understanding. I can move in,start producing babies for him but he can never carryout any marriage rites.

I thought he wasn't serious until last year when I asked him thesame question, he gave me thesame answer. But this time, I told him that I don't Share thesame view with him and that we need to go our separate ways. Since then he has been warning me that he will kill any man I get married to, that he cannt stand seeing me with another man........


Infact, I can't write down how the past year has been. I still love him and there is no doubt that he loves me too. But the big problem is that we are so so different, our views and vision are wide apart. I knw I can just forget about him and move on with my life but he wldnt let me be. He is always there at my door step, my office, giving 20 missed calls. Sometimes, I just wish I can relocate and start a new life, but I can't leave my job,not with this high rate of unemployment.

I forgot to mention that he is not the faithful type, though he doent flaunt it to my face but I just get to know about it one way or the other.
I really need advice on what to do,because even though I still have a soft spot for him, I don't want to continue with the relationship.

Ujujoan:


Wasted her youth?

She is 29YO for God's sakes . . she's is still a very young woman and has her youth ahead of her!

faceless04:



We started when I was 19 and he was 28

Its Now I knew He's Nothing But a time waster.. You are already of age and he's enjoying the free-bangs before now, more than he wanted.. You've made a good choice since you believe in marriage. You've got enof advice. Find love, let the law enforcement know about his treats and my 50cents Never accept his plea when he come begging.. he will never change

Truckpusher:
Lmao ......She's not qualified for any pension and she did all that manual labour without any paper work.

Op dun see paya for that guy hand.

jewel1993:
I dnt knw which part of you this is coming frm, but am guessing it frm ur anus....so its ojukokoro 4 smbdy to be in a relationship? Haven't u hrd of ladies dat got married at age 16? So wats d biggy in being in a relationship at 19?

faceless04:


Our heart doesn't ask who we want to fall inlove with. Love is not something we can control else I wld have left him years back. I'm ready to leave him now but my body is willing but my heart Is weak. I know I can do without him but I can't help it when he comes around begging. I really need a relocation where I will never set my eyes on him again but that is totally out of the question.

moreeni:
Baby hang in there for another decade...he may change his mind after you hit menopause

Franknigga:
mine is 13year now but no sex

Truckpusher:
Lmao ......She's not qualified for any pension and she did all that manual labour without any paper work.

Op dun see paya for that guy hand.