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Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Kingsasian(m): 10:22pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Op, she wasn't raped. What was she doing at his place? U called, she answered but her voice was down meaning she was either in the act or just finished the act and was cuddling with the sharp guy. The missed call u saw was as a result of the guilty conscience and that was why she switched off the phone immediately. I am used to the games ladies play, I hv been there before even recently. If u truly luv her forgive and tell her u knw she wasn't raped. Let her know that u are smarter. She wasn't a virgin, she only brought up the issue of rape because she knows that sooner than later u will find out her true status. Be wise. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Enough advice has been given. Asked yourself OP how she was raped. She even uploaded the pix of d guy on her BBM. A times gurls can be devious in their ways of luring guys. Since u have forgive her, good but let go of her. becos the rape memory will linger in ur cerebrum. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by saasala(m): 11:29pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Odillz: You are wiser than king Solomon of ancient Hebrews |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by aceswagg: 11:39pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Odillz:Gbam.!!! Straight up covered all bases. True talk right there |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Iamvictor(m): 11:54pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
diddydiva:She is a social type now...... |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by MarieSucre(f): 12:30am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Odillz:why do i feel likei know you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Jaypea98: 12:48am On Feb 13, 2015 |
seriousbabe:see who's talking about psychological problems seriousbabe:see who's talking about psychological problems |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by wildikeman(m): 1:13am On Feb 13, 2015 |
U would be a fool if u do. That was her ex or boyfriend. U were only a sub. Open ur eyes man. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by wildikeman(m): 1:21am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Maamin:na doro na...cheerful giver. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by akpumping7720(m): 1:27am On Feb 13, 2015 |
Odillz:Your intelligence is out of dis planet dude.... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by casualobserver1: 3:56am On Feb 13, 2015 |
BlackLeopard: White knight sighted. Which victim blaming BS is this one talking. When did Social Justice Warriors reach Naija sef. Abeg park well joor. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Maamin(m): 6:53am On Feb 13, 2015 |
wildikeman: No mind her, come dey lie say na rape |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Abayor7: 7:27am On Feb 13, 2015 |
she was in a bf Villa till that time? Hahahaha and she claimed she was raped?? well, I will continue wv the relationship at least I can now Bleep her too well now since Wetin she dey logically cover has been used by somebody else,.. she is a. bitch and I'll later quit the relationship after I ve done fucking her for about 12 times ni! . |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Odillz: 8:27am On Feb 13, 2015 |
akpumping7720:Babe representing. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by BlackLeopard(m): 12:37pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
casualobserver1: Bro victim blamin is anythin sayin about why she be lyin about the rape. Or 'we don't know the story'. Or... All it. SJWs are obvs needed in Naija stiiiill, and in Naija too. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by casualobserver1: 1:09pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
BlackLeopard: My guy we don't need SJWs in Nigeria o. SJWs are against any form of personal responsibility. According to SJWs a girl that goes off and gets drunk only to get raped bears no responsibility for her predicament. These are people that will say that fat people that overeat are not responsible for their health problems. If they enter Naija now, they will say that Nigeria's people are not responsible in any way for our underdevelopment, and will go and blame colonialists or something equally stupid. First off, the girl's story has K Leg. So she went somewhere and got raped, didn't talk and stayed there ALL DAY? All lies. She went to that guys place, the guy probably seduced her then threw her out leading to the infantile "I hate you" DP. The fact is that OP is a mumu guy that has been caring for the girl since but doesn't have any sense (see the whole we have been friends for long) and the girl is using this to manipulate him. The next thing she will hear is that after the rape, she doesn't like sex at all so he shouldn't ask her or aproach her with that in mind. Being a born maga, he will swallow the story and stay there. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by BlackLeopard(m): 1:23pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
casualobserver1: Prejudice and propaganda but alright, you have addressed me in depth and in politeness and I'm going to return that even if we don't have similar starting position and I can already see we probably won't have any similar ending position to our talks either, as you seem to come from different mindset and experience - and that is nothing one can well argue with, because it's your life, jus as my stance comes from mine and our lives b different. I wouldn't say anything of social movements is against personal responsibility. The contrary; about looking who is responsible for what level of harm and to whom, where the problems start, how they develop, and what can be dealt to keep them to a minimum. That's urging responsibility, and not avoiding it. If a person gets robbed, are they to be faulted for them robbery? Of course they're not. The robber is to be blamed for robbing them. That they did something risky like holding expensive items on display may be something to tell them to not do the next time, but that still doesn't move the responsibility off the robber, because in an ideal case, people should be free to move through any space they please to without losing what is rightfully theirs. And rape isn't a crime like that. Rape is a crime that has long term devastating effects on every facet of a person's life. There's enough research to prove that, if nothing else; if someone believes that or not doesn't factor into this, it's simply a fact, not an opinion. And it's perfectly possible (back to the original story we're talking here) to stay somewhere even when not alright there. (Ever heard of Stockholm syndrome? Basically that was a situation in Sweden a while back where hostages defended their kidnappers and cooperated with them instead of the rescue forces that came for them, and then that happening any time got named ba the Stockholm group. Talks about people's tendency to be with people that hurt them, even hurt them a lot, because of other factors mattering. It's a super common and big deal thing, and never having to do with people being 'simply stupid' or anything.) It's also totally common to not like sex after one's violently sexually assaulted. That wouldn't be a lie. That wouldn't be for manipulating that guy. That's simply how some people react to violence done against them. Again. Well documented and well making sense in the context of what happened to them. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by ivyT(f): 3:08pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
EzeeYFB:*throws hot eba on ur 4head* |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by ivyT(f): 3:11pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
tope24:*whistles* |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by ivyT(f): 3:12pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
anonym0us:*runs away* from u |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Nobody: 3:41pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
transit4:How can she be raped if she had the time to snap the guy's picture during the incident. Something isn't true about this story. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by slimpresh(f): 7:28pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
transit4:why on Earth will your girlfriend go to another guy's house and stay till 6:30?. Even if the so-called" guy is her very close friend like they usually say. It's very uncalled for. She's lying |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by EzeeYFB(m): 9:52pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
ivyT:chai i dodge am..back to sender |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by jaywee(m): 11:37am On Feb 14, 2015 |
Twice beaten, thrice shy. Wake up bro |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Danhumprey: 8:42pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
Odillz:Here you are again. This is the third time. What exactly is going on with you? I don't want it to look like I'm stalking you,so I give up! |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by cho25bc(f): 4:55pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
;Dhahahahahahahahahahahahaha! She was raped by a guy,yet she still stayed dere n even av d gut 2 put up his pix on her bbm?like seriously? and u believed HER?? u amuse me!a girl who is raped will not even av strength 2 ping or report trash!don't believe her!u don enter one chance.d girl don give away her totO while she don mugu u.better leave her n move on.she's so cheap dt she even carry her toto go meet d guy 4 uyo!u hate a guy who raped u yet u av d guts to stil go dere n upload his pix?aRe u sure she is,sorry,was a V?I DEY LAUGH O ;Dhahahahahahahahahahahahah |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by ebyy(f): 9:37am On Jun 26, 2015 |
guy dis story of urs is complicated cuz no responsible lady would be raped by a guy nd she would still be staying in dat ur gal needs some questioning |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Orikinla(m): 9:59am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Odillz:Best advice. She went to her lover who had his way with her. Majority of immature and insecure Nigerian girls are like her. Guys for k them like dogs since they behave like dogs. They are promiscuous girls and you call it socializing. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Orikinla(m): 10:00am On Jun 26, 2015 |
cho25bc: |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Orikinla(m): 10:01am On Jun 26, 2015 |
jaywee: She was never his girlfriend. |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Orikinla(m): 10:02am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Kingsasian:1000 Likes. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Was Raped by Orikinla(m): 10:07am On Jun 26, 2015 |
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