Anh anh. We are not living under the same circumstances nahh! U cant compare ur life with mine

Emmafe:
*Eyes turning red* Lack of Wetin? Do u knw ao many opp. I c everyday? Beta delete dat mentality and refresh ya mind.

owolawitola:
Ah cause i do nah. Most of the pple that are still virgins is caus of lack of opportunity. Pls dont eat me raw

stop deceiving yourself.there's nothing like opportunity here.show me a girl whom have nt been approched?

Beamborla:

My dear, you just have to ignore him. Even from his grammatical construction and his way of reasoning, it's obvious he is not worth your stress.

I knw dear just tryna tell mi it's not all abt been a virgin! U understd ryt?

@francistony

I can give you 3 strong reasons why you shouldn't marry a virgin!!


You think a virgin wouldn't stray? Big lie!! When I was in final year, A virgin got banged by a close friend on my bed on two different occassions.meanwhile,the dude that disvirgined her felt he was a lucky man and started making marriage plans immediately after their first sex. Being a virgin does not automatically mean she's a good woman.

Ohhh so ur saying sumone approachin u is an opportunitu ba? Is it on the road or wherever u are approached that u would lose the virginity? Wont u set date and time? And place sef.

booket:
stop deceiving yourself.there's nothing like opportunity here.show me a girl whom have nt been approched?

What is dis 1 saying sef?

nice post

taiocol:
Jesus was Born of a Virgin doesn't make them unique cause there's no clear evidence that the A Virgin will be able to conceive a baby (am in no way doubting your believe or the Bible )Sure The Bible advised against fornication but let's not also Forget the Same Bible(God) asked Hosea to marry a prostitute. Does that make prostitutes Unique?

He, God works in mysterious ways and because He is a merciful God then does it mean He is not a double edge sword nor a flaming firm?
He said he will favour who he wants... Put it anywhere, a true Virgin is unique both spiritually and socially, I am non but I have to stand on the truth and stop living in lies from the abyss.
Why are virgins sort for by ritualist and others if they aren't in value ahead the none?
Why is defloration a covenant that needs to be settled via marriage in the bible?
Why are the muslim crazy and crave for it if it has no unique value?
Let's teach the truth so the mistake we made can be corrected and restore morales in our society.
God bless us as we do!

FrancisTony:
I was compelled to write this, with rate at which anti-virgin bashing threads are cropping out of every nook and crannies of Nairaland romance section.

Meanwhile, i'm not trying to judge anybody but with the rate they bash Virgins, Newton third law of motion which states that to every action there is always and opposite reaction, and it's high time they started tasting the cup of their own bitter medicine. We didn't tell them to be promiscuous....

People over-rate non-virgins when it comes to experience ish as if they were born that way, not forgetting they were once a virgin and it took them numerous number of sex to adapt and have experience.

Guys should don't marry a non-virgin because they are highly promiscous and insatiable on bed.

Non virgins believe sex is their birth right, and if you end up marrying them, their EX-boyfriends would release a hit wonder on how they hammered her first just like Femi Fani Kayode and Bianca Onoh Ojukwu(Mind you, i'm not saying it happened )

Considering the fact that they have tasted all kinds of dick, when you marry them they would cheat on you even if your dick is big since they have seen a bigger ones.... They will cheat if you can't pound like their Ex-lovers.

Well, There Are Some Categories Of Non-Virgins;

*Ones that were raped at young age and has never had sex afterward -

This ones are mostly misandrist and you should run away from them because they hate men so much. Anyway, don't mistake feminism with misandry because they are two different things.


*Ones that were raped at a young age and continued having sex -

They are mostly sex maniacs with loose vagina and are insatiable--fear them because they breed all sorts of STDs.


*Ones that tasted once and stopped and Ones that tasted willingly and continued non-stop -

The former is still okay and they're a bit synonymus to virgins, but the latter are no go area.

Omotola Jalade Ekeinde husband married her as a virgin and they live happily while many actress that chop dick at a young age are still single.

***So, my brothers and sisters, virgins all the way and don't settle for less***

Need to ask u dis....... Are u a virgin?

saasala:


You should be nailed to the cross

Those words of yours are devilish and inhumane towards a well known hallmark of truth... Please, let's be civil and reasonable dear, please, it helps!

I get you op but reasoning this way doesn't make you any different from the virgin 'bashers'. There are non virgins who have decided to be chaste- they are no different from virgins because the common aim for both groups is to avoid fornication. The others are on their own.

Ishilove:

Franci, no offence intended, but how old are you? My guess is you are a teenager. It shows in this post.

You are not exactly in a position to give sound advice and opinions about love, intimacy and marriage. You still have a very long way to go, my good young man.

Once again, no offence.

Is it that obvious?

An0nimus:

Is it that obvious?

Yep. Very

pastorKosiso:
Oh you are not a virgin? Sorry...next please...

Are you a virgin? And I am but I'm asexual

ndubueze92:
may I remind u...didn't say anything!

I said i.d.i.o.t.

I am, maybe you'll be the one to disvirgin me with your level of experience.. @ your pix, shows you have finished your lips with guys and your face has never being the same....look for a better picture jooor...

pashaun:


Are you a virgin? And I am but I'm asexual

owolawitola:
Anh anh. We are not living under the same circumstances nahh! U cant compare ur life with mine

Hyumm datx true..Wud lyk to have a better chat wif u if u dnt mind.

pastorKosiso:
I am, maybe you'll be the one to disvirgin me with your level of experience.. @ your pix, shows you have finished your lips with guys and your face has never being the same....look for a better picture jooor...

You must be illiterate? Because I said I'm asexual, meaning I have no experience. And what do you look like?

Pastor's don't insult people so I'll let you pass. Your type will force a man out of the house.yeye

pashaun:


You must be illiterate? Because I said I'm asexual, meaning I have no experience. And what do you look like?

Dumbest quote !

EzePromoe:
OP, you think virgins won't cheat when they get married? Wake up from your slumber. Though I admire such resilient women who overcame all temptations to maintain their virginity till marriage but I can't place them as superiors over non-virgins. I've come to note that by generalization (though not fair), virgins are arrogant because they have this notion that their husbands were damn lucky to marry them. And again, that a virgin have not been inserted physically doesn't equate the extreme magnitude of sexual atrocities they commit in their mind. You know virgins fantasize alot about an utopian love life made in heaven and brought to earth. They do alot of kissing, romancing etc, without going close to any man. Tell me why their expectations won't be astronomically high when they get into marriages. Virgins are good honestly but 90% of them are just there due to lack of opportunity.

Emaprince:
@francistony

I can give you 3 strong reasons why you shouldn't marry a virgin!!


You think a virgin wouldn't stray? Big lie!! When I was in final year, A virgin got banged by a close friend on my bed on two different occassions.meanwhile,the dude that disvirgined her felt he was a lucky man and started making marriage plans immediately after their first sex. Being a virgin does not automatically mean she's a good woman.

do u ppl even tink b4 u type at all ? [quote author=Emaprince post=31085179]@francistony

whirlwind7:
With all due respect, sir, you can can take all your reasons and shove it........

Why am I even responding to this??

Cos e dey pain you

No wahala. Bbm okay?

Emmafe:
Hyumm datx true..Wud lyk to have a better chat wif u if u dnt mind.

pashaun:


I said i.d.i.o.t.

oh... dat i didnt see it ! so u make a simple case on the tread Virginity a curse or a blessing? wat do u think!

@OP, guess u are One of the 21million Nigerians with mental issues?

FrancisTony:
I was compelled to write this, with rate at which anti-virgin bashing threads are cropping out of every nook and crannies of Nairaland romance section.

Meanwhile, i'm not trying to judge anybody but with the rate they bash Virgins, Newton third law of motion which states that to every action there is always and opposite reaction, and it's high time they started tasting the cup of their own bitter medicine. We didn't tell them to be promiscuous....

People over-rate non-virgins when it comes to experience ish as if they were born that way, not forgetting they were once a virgin and it took them numerous number of sex to adapt and have experience.

Guys should don't marry a non-virgin because they are highly promiscous and insatiable on bed.

Non virgins believe sex is their birth right, and if you end up marrying them, their EX-boyfriends would release a hit wonder on how they hammered her first just like Femi Fani Kayode and Bianca Onoh Ojukwu(Mind you, i'm not saying it happened )

Considering the fact that they have tasted all kinds of dick, when you marry them they would cheat on you even if your dick is big since they have seen a bigger ones.... They will cheat if you can't pound like their Ex-lovers.

Well, There Are Some Categories Of Non-Virgins;

*Ones that were raped at young age and has never had sex afterward -

This ones are mostly misandrist and you should run away from them because they hate men so much. Anyway, don't mistake feminism with misandry because they are two different things.


*Ones that were raped at a young age and continued having sex -

They are mostly sex maniacs with loose vagina and are insatiable--fear them because they breed all sorts of STDs.


*Ones that tasted once and stopped and Ones that tasted willingly and continued non-stop -

The former is still okay and they're a bit synonymus to virgins, but the latter are no go area.

Omotola Jalade Ekeinde husband married her as a virgin and they live happily while many actress that chop dick at a young age are still single.

***So, my brothers and sisters, virgins all the way and don't settle for less***

owolawitola:
No wahala. Bbm okay?

Dat will bie betah...Add 7F56A4DB *sitting on d fence, expecting ya msg*

pastorKosiso:
Pastor's don't insult people so I'll let you pass. Your type will force a man out of the house.yeye

Who are you to determine MY beauty? Lol, a lot men in the U.S. from West Africa love it

Chill

Emmafe:
Dat will bie betah...Add 7F56A4DB *sitting on d fence, expecting ya msg*

owolawitola:
Chill

*in Helen Paul's voice* Alryt...

You are not beautiful so i can't even determine it whatsoever. Did i see U.s? Oh that's where you do your runs?I know your type...play on girl, play on

pashaun:


Who are you to determine MY beauty? Lol, a lot men in the U.S. from West Africa love it

cr7lomo:
Westerners are destroying the morality of this world and some foolish people like Nigerians will only copy stupid things . Countries like Saudi still maintain morality even with their great wealth and civilization .

Those saying they prefer non virgins are just livin in self denial because its hard to find a virgin as a wife these days

The truth about a man's mentality is that he can't stand or imaging his woman's previous sexual encounters and that's the truth .

The moment a man knows his woman f..uckd some men in the past b4 she met him will make him loose respect for the woman but he will just only pretend .

Men prefer virgins period , who no like brand new

My dear everyone likes brand new o, including women sef. So if you are not then pls ..............(Fill in the gap).
Most men who scream for virgins are men that have banged their lives out and pls don't tell me its men therefore it doesn't matter. We women might not carry this virginity on our heads, it doesn't mean if a woman knows a man has slept with over 20 women that she's that comfortable with it.

We just leave what's in d past in the past.