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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Mar 09, 2015
Beamborla:

Tell them!
I would drink one chilled can malt on your behalf cheesy

Powerpuff girls! Kikikiki
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Emdeejay: 10:23pm On Mar 09, 2015
I'm not sure how many independent women you've met but I think you haven't met enough. Some women are rude, while others are not. I generally cannot speak for the nigerian society so I apologize if this is not what you're referring to. As a young lady, I noticed several things while I was in college but thinking back at it, it also happened to me in high school. I was a member of several clubs and organizations in school. The most common scenario is when i give a suggestion it is not usually accepted but when a David/ John repeats the same I said, he was commended for giving such a brilliant idea. This also continued while I began working. For the people around me to give me credit and appreciate my talent, I had to be more aggressive. The office is a place of survival, not somewhere to be complacent about the little you're given. But then some men can't take the challenge or some of my subordinates doesnt want a woman to give them direction. I am an independent person and when it comes to the office, if you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. I also accept criticism of my work, its to make me better. But outside of work we can still be friends. We don't need to be rude to each other.
Note: Maybe that's why I'm not married or engaged lol undecided

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by cao(f): 10:26pm On Mar 09, 2015
bee444:


Not really dear. It's a new world order thing. This trend of women becoming more and more independent is as a result of evil rulers who have sold their soul to the devil and are hereby mandated to disrupt and reverse the responsibility God has ordained men to do.

Take the queen of England as a perfect example. Since she's become the queen, she has reversed the purpose of marriage. She gave women more power and has ridiculed men. This trend was then copied and practised in virtually every advanced country. They want to defeat the purpose of marriage and man as a whole. They've succeeded in the west but not in Africa.

You do know that the Queen of England is a ceremonial position, right? The British monarchy have not had any real power in a long time. The British government make the rules, go quietly sit down and re-Google that shtako real quick. Abeg, don't make me laugh with all this false nonsense. The only thing they really do is grant the honours (MBE, OBE, CBE etc) and the government actually gives them a recommended list for that one.

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Mar 09, 2015
Logicalmind:

Sorry to say; That you revere marriage, doesn't mean other people do the same.
Many women are happily single. Kill yourself.

Yes! Lesbians fùck theirselves and some women use Love Machine. Kini big deal?

It's not as if you are the only man on this earth. Atleast you are doing a favour to only a girl, abi you wan marry 50wives?.


Carry the matter for head....minister of independent woman....

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by winner01(m): 10:27pm On Mar 09, 2015
ajebuter:
Your definition of arrogance is just beyond comprehension.

So because i'm independent and earn very good salary means i should act sub servient and become a man's doormat because its the 'in- thing' in África?

Grow up chauvinist.
A woman is not defined by marriage or motherhood.
If a woman chooses to be alone, its not a biggie and if she desires motherhood, she can go for sperm donation, intro fertilization or just get preggie and keep your child.

Im not saying a woman should be proud or arrogant, but being independent doesnt mean u should accept shit from any fucktad simply bcs u need to get married and please the society
what is a woman defined by?

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by efonat(m): 10:27pm On Mar 09, 2015
No matter d amount of money a woman has, a virtuous woman will always submit to her husband. It is ind Bible that the man is the head of a home and wives submit to Urr husbands! !!!
PunkyBrewster:
The times are changing, so well, keep up or shut up.

I can't believe that some men are complaining about spending either cheesy

The woman of days long gone used to be submissive, docile etc because the man of that time took care of his responsibilities, so there was really no need for her to be bitchy or whatever. Some men today just whine & whine about the same things that their forefathers did without much coaxing. Who can not be bitchy to a bytch grin?

Women have taken more responsibility with the years eg.building careers of their own etc, while some of the men have become poor, pathetic nags who groan & moan about every single thing that the gentleman of the past would have done without the extra lip service given by some "men" today.

So deal. Or go find a boyfriend tongue
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by babeface3: 10:32pm On Mar 09, 2015
My guy's single parent boss just fired him yesterday. So much stories but the guy is in real anguish. this post just reminded me of the bitchy ar&ol that did that. Tracing her history showed that she was once engaged to a guy that got her impregnated way back in college. The guy later left her due to some unruly behaviour. Also the ex husby happens to be an Ibo man.

Ever since then this bi%C& has developed two attitudes which she exhibits to the extreme: she is a tribalist against her ex's tribe and she is a feminist. Too bad.

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Mar 09, 2015
Orijin101:

grin grin grin...... Bros, shebi you dey pay to watch movie for cinema? Oya, drop #1,500 recharge card if you want make we continue grin....... Isn't so @sinaj?
Your eye don tear o. Na ontop my head you wan load 1500 card. grin

#whenthegeneralisswornin.
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by winner01(m): 10:35pm On Mar 09, 2015
DollyParton1:


Here they come with their "submissive theory".
Arrant nonsense.
its the only way relationships can work dear, ask your mother....the husband is the head of the home and anything that has two heads is a monster.
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by hedonistic: 10:35pm On Mar 09, 2015
Their so-called bitchiness or rudeness is often a defence mechanism (in a psychology context), as they use that to vent out and repress their inner frustrations due to loneliness, failed relationships, inner emptiness, woeful love life, emotional void, et cetera.

A proud African man should never entertain such nonsense for any reason. Even if she is your boss, let her know the etiquette and boundaries of professional relationships and communication. You can't insult me or humiliate me publicly merely because you think you are my superior in the office. I will slap that rudeness out of your pancake face even if it means walking out on the damn job.

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Mar 09, 2015
efonat:
No matter d amount of money a woman has, a virtuous woman will always submit to her husband. It is ind Bible that the man is the head of a home and wives submit to Urr husbands! !!!

I rolled my eyes so hard, I think I saw my brain because of the bit about the Bible said blah blah blah. Men need to act like men then if they want the subservient kind of wife. Stop bitching about women liking materialistic things/money, keep those IPhones rolling & watch us purr at your feet as you so wish cheesy Something's gotta give.

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Emdeejay: 10:39pm On Mar 09, 2015
I am a little ashamed of our african men when they reference this from the bible. Both of my parent's are ministers (that doesnt automatically mean I'm a born again) but one thing I'm grateful for is the bible passage my parents shared with us. Eph 5:25. Husbands should love their wives the same way christ love the church-giving up his life. If a man loves his wife this way, i don't think any woman with common sense would not submit herself to her husband. This submission is not one way. My sister is getting married in five months and my parents told the husband's family, we don't want bride price. The only thing he required was to make ask continuously about the love they have. So please stop referencing that bible portion if you wouldnt talk about the role of men in marriages as well.

BTW: I accidentally reported you but I fixed it. I'm sorry

efonat:
No matter d amount of money a woman has, a virtuous woman will always submit to her husband. It is ind Bible that the man is the head of a home and wives submit to Urr husbands! !!!

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Forwetinnah: 10:39pm On Mar 09, 2015
PunkyBrewster:
The times are changing, so well, keep up or shut up.

I can't believe that some men are complaining about spending either cheesy

The woman of days long gone used to be submissive, docile etc because the man of that time took care of his responsibilities, so there was really no need for her to be bitchy or whatever. Some men today just whine & whine about the same things that their forefathers did without much coaxing. Who can not be bitchy to a bytch grin?

Women have taken more responsibility with the years eg.building careers of their own etc, while some of the men have become poor, pathetic nags who groan & moan about every single thing that the gentleman of the past would have done without the extra lip service given by some "men" today.

So deal. Or go find a boyfriend tongue

Gbam!!
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by cao(f): 10:39pm On Mar 09, 2015
I love how folks are always quick to quote the bible - especially the Old Testament, but it's funny how they conveniently forget about masturbation and lusting after a woman (remember just even thinking about it is a sin). Oh and let's not forget about pre-marital sex...
Folks spitting out or cutting & pasting scriptures like they are the true Lamb of God.

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by DollyParton1(f): 10:40pm On Mar 09, 2015
winner01:
its the only way relationships can work dear, ask your mother....the husband is the head of the home and anything that has two heads is a monster.
did u see the post I quoted? Or you just decided to jump on my post because??
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by sinaj(f): 10:42pm On Mar 09, 2015
Orijin101:

grin grin grin...... Bros, shebi you dey pay to watch movie for cinema? Oya, drop #1,500 recharge card if you want make we continue grin....... Isn't so @sinaj?
lol didnt knw dat someone wz eavesdropping. ThankGod we didnt mention where we get our supplies frm. smiley
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by DollyParton1(f): 10:43pm On Mar 09, 2015
Emdeejay:
I am a little ashamed of our african men when they reference this from the bible. Both of my parent's are ministers (that doesnt automatically mean I'm a born again) but one thing I'm grateful for is the bible passage my parents shared with us. Eph 5:25. Husbands should love their wives the same way christ love the church-giving up his life. If a man loves his wife this way, i don't think any woman with common sense would not submit herself to her husband. This submission is not one way. My sister is getting married in five months and my parents told the husband's family, we don't want bride price. The only thing he required was to make ask continuously about the love they have. So please stop referencing that bible portion if you wouldnt talk about the role of men in marriages as well.

BTW: I accidentally reported you but I fixed it. I'm sorry


Now that's it. These same men would expect their wives to share the bills 50-50 with them.
But will be the first to shout Kumbaya when it comes to Ephesians 5.....
You see your wife as your partner when it comes to paying of bills only because its a modern world innit?

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Mar 09, 2015
Majority of independent african women tend not to give motherly care to their children when the get married.They rather employ the services of nannies and day care .They also dont take heed to their hubby's suggestion.Mostly when they earn more than him.

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by sinaj(f): 10:44pm On Mar 09, 2015
Rapmoney:
So u dey smoke kpoli? I go tell ya papa grin
lol my papa no go leave him farm work because of ur gossip grin
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Mar 09, 2015
sinaj:
lol didnt knw dat someone wz eavesdropping. ThankGod we didnt mention where we get our supplies frm. smiley
grin
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Mar 09, 2015
Forwetinnah:


Gbam!!

*waves*

You're so hard to find, you're like a male kindergarten teacher. Kikiki. Hope life's been good smiley

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 09, 2015
How many of them have you had a close personal experience with?

jadaugo:
i am not surprised that most independent women are not married...the truth is no African man can live with most of them. They are so rude, so bossy headed and bitchy and very mean. It's so bad that they think that no man can tell them what to do.

pls am i the only one who has noticed this?

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by winner01(m): 10:50pm On Mar 09, 2015
DollyParton1:

did u see the post I quoted? Or you just decided to jump on my post because??
yh I did...and I decided to quoted you like ill quote any other nairalander.
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Pamcrest(f): 10:51pm On Mar 09, 2015
Op, let me surprise u d more....many independent women ARE married....to real men who know n value their worth....not to some insecure inferior Lilliputian claiming to be a man. And yes, I am an independent career (office?) woman, n been married for long! grin
Don't get into a relationship with this kind of mindset....keep an open mind when dealing with a woman. See her as an individual n get to know d real her.. And by d way, that behaviour u detest also rings true for "non-independent" women, to quote u.
My humble submission

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Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Forwetinnah: 10:59pm On Mar 09, 2015
PunkyBrewster:


*waves*

You're so hard to find, you're like a male kindergarten teacher . Kikiki. Hope life's been good smiley

Yelse..life is good.
Lol at the bolded smiley
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Mar 09, 2015
CloneX:
No matter how independent, rude, disrespectful, bossy, bitchy, mean they are or want people to think they are, someone always fvcks them from behind, and they submit to him on bed.

That's right, a man.
It's only when they are desperate for a husband that's when they seem humble.Marry her put for house finish you go see fire.
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Mar 09, 2015
Forwetinnah:


Yelse..life is good.
Lol at the bolded smiley

Good smiley
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Edusouls(m): 11:14pm On Mar 09, 2015
foolish girl, and why should an african man, live with rude,bossy and bitchy women? you go and live with a man that beats u up regularly, abuse you and is very rude to you, cos u are an african woman, what kind of brain do you girls have, human own or dog.?
debolly:
They are arrogant cos they're independent now.....they don't give a damn!!! but not all possess those qualities anyway. I also think that a true African man should be able to live with any kind of woman whether bitchy, rude, bossy headed e.t.c
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Edusouls(m): 11:16pm On Mar 09, 2015
of course you end up single and unhappy in life...
PunkyBrewster:
The times are changing, so well, keep up or shut up.

I can't believe that some men are complaining about spending either cheesy

The woman of days long gone used to be submissive, docile etc because the man of that time took care of his responsibilities, so there was really no need for her to be bitchy or whatever. Some men today just whine & whine about the same things that their forefathers did without much coaxing. Who can not be bitchy to a bytch grin?

Women have taken more responsibility with the years eg.building careers of their own etc, while some of the men have become poor, pathetic nags who groan & moan about every single thing that the gentleman of the past would have done without the extra lip service given by some "men" today.

So deal. Or go find a boyfriend tongue
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Edusouls(m): 11:18pm On Mar 09, 2015
yes is very true in some cases..
sinaj:
most of dem are not mean within, de do that to command respect nd fear buh if u get close to dem u will notice dat de r rily soft nd kindhearted.
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by emeijeh(m): 11:20pm On Mar 09, 2015
sinaj:
lol didnt knw dat someone wz eavesdropping. ThankGod we didnt mention where we get our supplies frm. smiley




Eavesdropping indeed! on nairaland, with over 1 million members .
We dey watch the 2 of una closely with binoculars sef
#unatry
Abeg make the drama no end yet. @Orijin abeg continue
Re: Why Are Most Independent Office Women So Arrogant And Disrespectful? by Edusouls(m): 11:22pm On Mar 09, 2015
yes and that its why it is so difficult for an african woman to secure a man to marry,both here and abroad because their character is too repulsive and baad and it is getting worse nowadays,cos most ladies will end up single and still searching till age 70..

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