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Lala247:
Sooo true... He could have used condom the girl could have been protected
Now his asking for help
Did u create thread before u banged the girl @ Op .... No
In 2015 ur still making mistakes
Niw theres a poor child involved n u want to play God.

U guys wanna plsy with d big biys but cant deal with the consequences..... Shows ur a lil boy @ Op
U better go and find any work n support ur family ... I bet the gurl ain t even married

rokiatu:
girl I tell it like it is. The people quoting....me can all go to hell. I don't care. Hence the reason am not replying them.

Lala247:
Lol they are all as dumb as the Op instead of giving the guy goid sound advice ... They r licking his wounds

Lala247:
Lol they are all as dumb as the Op instead of giving the guy goid sound advice ... They r licking his wounds

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

Khabuqi:
dear, what was good about the advice madam ikebe gave? just asking o

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

Lala247:
It was a good advice ....

Dont want to go into it lol cnt b asked

Khabuqi:
It wasn't joo.

donem:
haha naso, was just scanning through comments, yours stood out.
very comical (church mind things).

UnimkeAk:
WHAT ARE THE ODDS; THAT CHILD COULD ALSO GROW UP TO BE THE "BANE OF HIS SOCIETY".

The OP is not ready and he should abort that cluster of blood while it is not yet late.

Or will u link him up or give him a job.

b0rn2fuck:
a guy called Mobuch has been telling everyone on nairaland that he slept with you, this is blackmailing or else he eventually did. I would have pm you but my pm iss not going anymore. This matter no concern but as per na rokiatu, the tin go pain me for body small

Justfollowit:
So everyone keep having unprotected sex and so not worry about having an unplanned pregnancy because somehow God will make provisions for the baby

There is a fine line between having faith and being stupid. My dear, you are the latter.

Lala247:
Lol they are all as dumb as the Op instead of giving the guy goid sound advice ... They r licking his wounds

Karlman:
Thanks!

wristwatch:
I see.. not in my family and d friends I know. Maybe u are referring to those agberos. But have u also realise there are more yoruba billionaires than other tribe?

InestamablJewel:
YOU ARE NOT GOD, YOU DONT HOLD THE FUTURE OF THAT "CLUSTER OF BLOOD" AS YOU WILL CALL IT. AND WHO TOLD YOU HE IS NOT READY? DID YOU READ HIS TEXT AT ALL? HE WANTS THE CHILD ( HE IS MENTALLY N PSYCHOLOGICALLY READY), THE ONLY PROBLEM IS MONEY(WHICH IF VIEWED FROM THE RIGHT PERSPECTIVE IS NOT A PROBLEM) , YOU ARE NOT GOD, SO PLS SPARE US THIS NARROW/ONE SIDED POINT OF VIEW. HE IS A MAN WHO IS NOT HANDICAPPED AND CAN WORK, CAN YOU BODLY SAY YOUR PARENTS WERE FULLY READY FOR YOU BEFORE YOU CAME? WHAT THEN HAS BECOME OF YOU NOW? HAS IT MADE YOU WORLD BANK PRESIDENT OR EVEN A NATIONS MINISTER OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT? (NO INSULT INTENDED PLS? JUST STATING FACT) MY POINT IS WE CANT DECIDE ANYONE'S FATE COS WE DONT HOLD THE FUTURE OF OURS TALK LESS OF ANOTHER.

Karlman:
I wish I have the strength to match ur harshness. Thanks all the same.

Ipledge:
please talk sense to the fvcking tribalist

sauceny:
,you sound like a dumb lazy yoruba boi....

jelraj:
...next time?
..it already happened

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

7footre:
If you put as much effort as you did in getting her pregnant in searching for a job, you won't be here talking about this... and she is not even the 1st to get pregnant for you! man find sometin doing toto no be permanent work!

jomile:
it takes one to know one,tanks for d compliment anyway

Lobolintin:
Don't ever terminate......
Stand up and do something dude...I hate it when men says unemployed..
Dude create a jab for ya self..
And raise that fetus angel

wristwatch:
Dear, the deed has been done. I am against what OP has done in the past and what he is about to do.

He asked for an advice and we need to advice him correctly.

This is not d time to insult him. Telling him the truth on what to do is d way forward.

If God can make rahab to be among d great grandmums in the geneology of christ, then who are we that God cannot re write our story.

I understand u & rokiatu are angry of what d OP has done. Everybody in these thread feel the same too.

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

jomile:
Don't tell me u r so broke to d extent dat u can't afford a condom,but if condoms are too expensive for u,den u should have tried abstinence,its cheaper and its free