Dyt:


Oya wiggle for me

Guys don't wiggle
My behind is not brighter than my future

My irawo is ever before me shining

pickabeau1:


Guys don't wiggle
My behind is not brighter than my future

My irawo is ever before me shining

Are u a bald man?

Dyt:


Are u a bald man?

nope..

pickabeau1:


nope..

Dyt:

you think baldness is attractive?

pickabeau1:


you think baldness is attractive?

Very attractive
Am day dreaming already
*I am weird in my own way jor*

Dyt:


Very attractive
Am day dreaming already
*I am weird in my own way jor*

not weird.. just human

I hope I don't get bald sha

pickabeau1:


not weird.. just human

I hope I don't get bald sha

U hope?
I sense u already getting there?
Can I see a picture of ur head?

Dyt:


U hope?
I sense u already getting there?
Can I see a picture of ur head?

lol..... nope

its just a prayer as you never know how life can turn out

pickabeau1:


lol..... nope

its just a prayer as you never know how life can turn out

Nature
U can't cheat that

Jumping up and screaming
Beau beau is going bald

Dyt:


Nature
U can't cheat that

Jumping up and screaming
Beau beau is going bald

egbedore:
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes at one time or the other. And as the adage says "To sin is human,but to forgive is divine"

But I have noticed that it is always difficult for ladies that have issues out of wedlock to get a man that will love and marry them. After all,having a child isn't a disease.

Why is this so?

personally, I think it is more of a complex thing. Some single mothers allow society to define them and strip them of some self worth, so first they see themselves as "unmarriageable" even before they get a man.

2. They don't allow themselves go through the process of falling in love either because they are being to desperate or being too conscious.

3. Some men could get the thinking whatever was responsible for them not marrying the father of their child could be as a result of their own inadequacy which they might not be patient enough to ascertain themselves because they don't want to make mistakes.

4. Lastly is the erroneous belief that they are the most promiscuous

Dyt:


U hope?
I sense u already getting there?
Can I see a picture of ur head?

You mean this?

Making marriage a priority IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!

kaboninc:


You mean this?

No

Dyt:


No

That's the best you know...

And BtW, you've been active today.

kaboninc:


That's the best you know...

And BtW, you've been active today.

I am jobless

Dyt:


I am jobless

Lol.

You actually have a job.

Being active on nairaland.

Kpele

kaboninc:


Lol.

You actually have a job.

Being active on nairaland.

Kpele

Because men don't like to deal with other men's kids.
Tsk tsk

I think Nigerian men are just hypocrites.

I used to be friends with a man who hated abortion like hell. He would call abortionists murderers and claim they carry badluck wherever they go.

Then his friend married a woman with an 8-yr old baby (victim of teenage pregnancy) and he was one of the people who made mockery of him and called him 'f00lish'.

So I asked him, which is better, having and abortion or having a child outside wedluck. Cos the truth is that any woman who has engaged in pre-marital sex is exposed to pregnancy, even when you use contraceptive. Condoms have been known to fail in some situations. Some withdrawl methods have failed even morning after pills still fail.

So this friend of mine, sleeps with women and probably have dodged a bullet or two in getting them pregnant, and yet think he has the right to judge single mothers and deride abortionsts

We women, we NEVER catch a break with Nigerian men!!!

Wedon:
I think Nigerian men are just hypocrites.

I used to be friends with a man who hated abortion like hell. He would call abortionists murderers and claim they carry badluck wherever they go.

Then his friend married a woman with an 8-yr old baby (victim of teenage pregnancy) and he was one of the people who made mockery of him and called him 'f00lish'.

So I asked him, which is better, having and abortion or having a child outside wedluck. Cos the truth is that any woman who has engaged in pre-marital sex is exposed to pregnancy, even when you use contraceptive. Condoms have been known to fail in some situations. Some withdrawl methods have failed even morning after pills still fail.

What is the wisdom in marrying a woman with an 8yo child? What makes that one a hypocrite for telling his friend the truth. Why marry a single mother when you can have your pick of a better demographic. I'm afraid, that guy was right. A new car has more value than second, third, or fourth hand. It's simple logic, really.

Timbuktou:


What is the wisdom in marrying a woman with an 8yo child? What makes that one a hypocrite for telling his friend the truth. Why marry a single mother when you can have your pick of a better demographic. I'm afraid, that guy was right. A new car has more value than second, third, or fourth hand. It's simple logic, really.

Ur opinion dude
Ur post irks hatred
They don't need men like u
Stick with ur single ladies
Hian


*I read some of ur previous posts
I now get the picture
Sorry I quoted u*

Dyt:


Ur opinion dude
Ur post irks hatred
They don't need men like u
Stick with ur single ladies
Hian


*I read some of ur previous posts
I now get the picture
Sorry I quoted u*

I don't hate, sweety
Just speaking da troof.
I didn't tell you to go have babies outta wedlock.
Truth is men who know their value know to avoid single mothers.
The pansies though, they'd do anything to get some puscy.
So, eventually, you get what you want, right?


Good for you then.
Ciao.

Timbuktou:


What is the wisdom in marrying a woman with an 8yo child? What makes that one a hypocrite for telling his friend the truth. Why marry a single mother when you can have your pick of a better demographic. I'm afraid, that guy was right. A new car has more value than second, third, or fourth hand. It's simple logic, really.

So it's better to marry an abortionist than a single mother?

Isn't that hypocrisy of the highest order?

jaybee3:
It's not an issue and the challenge is certainly not restricted to single mothers

The fact of the matter is, available single men are fast becoming an extremely rare commodity.

Uhmmmm. Pls expantiate

egbedore:
Uhmmmm. Pls expantiate

Self explanatory

Nursy:
Cos the men don't want extra liability

Extra liability you said! When does children become liabilities? They are blessings from God!

jaybee3:

Self explanatory

Available single men are becoming scarce was your comment. Does that mean ladies can go for non-single men? That's what I need you to help explain?

Wedon:


So it's better to marry an abortionist than a single mother?

Isn't that hypocrisy of the highest order?

By logic, any woman without children is an abortionist? Bros, which schools did you attend? They have failed to teach you comprehension and logic. Go get your money back.

egbedore:
Available single men are becoming scarce was your comment. Does that mean ladies can go for non-single men? That's what I need you to help explain?

Why are you trying to confuse yourself Sir/Ma?

The OP is concerned about getting married not necessarily having someone warm her bed.

If an attached (unmarried) man makes himself available then why not?

mcdokwe:
personally, I think it is more of a complex thing. Some single mothers allow society to define them and strip them of some self worth, so first they see themselves as "unmarriageable" even before they get a man.

2. They don't allow themselves go through the process of falling in love either because they are being to desperate or being too conscious.

3. Some men could get the thinking whatever was responsible for them not marrying the father of their child could be as a result of their own inadequacy which they might not be patient enough to ascertain themselves because they don't want to make mistakes.

4. Lastly is the erroneous belief that they are the most promiscuous

Whao! This just nailed it for me. The first point you mentioned is a major one. The self esteem has been eroded and there is little or no self believe.

I know of one that she is practically being used to beg men. And if you meet her today,na so she go fall for you like pack of cards!