MojAyo:
isn't it good,must u suffer all in d name of marraige.

Bbella:
I cannot,i have done in the past but,What was my reward at the end of the day.No man is worth suffering for.Make he stay the self contain when he get beta house we go,date..#icantform

malonephill:
As a guy I can't marry in a self contain, never

ghetto101:
do ur father have a duplex ?

Iamsynord:
lemme Watch as the Lies flows in ..
Some will start saying it love DAT matters yet That can even patiently wait for Airforce1 album
Self contain kor Double Release

Adaeze003:


So, if I have a bf/fiancé that strikes off and makes huge cash before we settle down, I must insist on self con then
So that I can be a home maker as described by the bible? What version, book, chapter and verse abeg?

Not tryna soil anyone's mind but it's just wrong to attempt to elevate yourself and look like some sweetheart on here n @ the same time paint others that disagree with you black...

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

wristwatch:


So self Con na suffer?

Am not belittling myself becos I knw I will start from a good shelter but imagine places like lagos, FCT and PHcity where accommodation is expensive compare to some states. 600k will get me a manage self con in lag esp @ lsland and some mainland. Meanwhile in ogun, OYO, etc 600k will get me a bedroom flat and if possible I will purchase land from it.

So u can see what's invoke here. Money is not easy to get and depending on where u wana stay, don't think ur husby about 2 start life with u will rent a 3bedroom or mansion @ lekki.

2dice:

hmnn what if he has to get married first before he start making it

mirexxx:
a parlor,bedroom,bathroom,kitchen n store

Aflowz:


All men aren't the same ma.

emusmith:
Would you agree to "start life" with him in a self contain?

Be sincere.
Open up.

Edusouls:
self contain is the type of accomodation with a parlour,a room,kitchen. The type i know ur dad couldnt build all his life, and am sure maybe u live in squatting one room, with u very wretched parents in the village,lavishing, you horribly greedy girls of nowadays....

malonephill:
my fate don't speak bad, I didn't say self con is bad, it may not be duplex, but something better to self con, hope you get.

Bbella:

i used to think so,but not anymore..

mima247:
To b honest dere are self containeds and dere are slums. I've lived in nice apartments all my life n I thank God for dat. But wot would u say about a grown man who lacks judgment n goes to get a 2bedroom apartment in an old unfinished building in a slum close to the suburbs when he could hv managed a 1bedroom in gud condition in central Lagos for a gud price....that tells me a lot about d person....1. He lacks a sense of gud judgement. 2.i cannot trust him to make gud decisions than I make on my behalfbecause I hv no intentions of raising my kids in a horrible environment.you should see how proud d guy was of his apartment which he couldn't get a decent paintjob done on. Which means I cant marry him cos he doesn't know what he's doin.aint nuffin wrong wit marrying someone whose struggling....if hes got brains and is an excellent planner with great life plans .just dat very few of dem use their brains properly... You end up having to mother them thru d process ... Which is so annoying.

InestamablJewel:


AM ABOUT AND GUESS WHAT! HE'S LIVING A ONE ROOM APARTMENT, AND AM VERY COOL WITH IT. ITS NOT ABOUT THE ROOM

Shezhawt:
No... I won't comment...

Edusouls:
shut up, poorest dude, how much do u make a year, what is ur job now? U cant marry in self contain, u may even end u marrying in face me i face u miserable one room...poor noisemaker...

prettyJoy22:
Like starting a family in a self contain?? Wahlahi I can't......I love space,it would be too tight.

Adaeze003:


Nope! It's just room kitchen and toilet...


Mehn... I aint asking for too much but self contain we can as well join resources n get a proper apartment...

Some people just wishing hardship on themselves just to look good on nl... and telling fairy tales up and down. yes, I know people who rose from grass to grace but some didn't too! It's life, that you're poor today doesn't give you license to be rich tomorrow... lets tell ourselves the truth sometimes...

If you go into such with the mindset of "self con today, duplex tomorrow" and the duplex doesn't come you will get frustrated! #fact so before you go ahead to wish yourself hardship, you better tell yourself that it may stay that way forever then if duplex comes, fine.

Lemme not forget to say that women now work(for those still living in 1914). Work and try to get the things you want biko. And if his ego is too huge that he won't let you contribute, he's adviced to use that huge ego and refuse to live in a self con as well.

mimiejacobz:


Lmao,babe chill,not evry1 is born with ur type of poverty mentality,cos u live in a batcher evry1 u meet online should be living dia too?

popcykaylah:

no hard feelings but..what type of building do you live in at the moment ?and whats your annual income?its not a bad idea if you provide money for your man to get a duplex somewhere in nicon town..real women don't dictate but rather make changes..