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Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 01, 2015 |
Yes, it is right. Please note that we do not monitor our partners only on a presumption that they might cheat, but we monitor them to make sure they are out of harms way and no one is attempting to steal our joy and destroy our long term emotional investments. Granted that the contents of messages might be factors in our moods swings but it is better to know that you are loved than to suffer disappointment and betrayal occasioned by "deciding not to care-to-know". Personally, I do not have time to check a woman's phone, but my wife's phone calls, texts and e-mails ? I dey check am at every spare time I have and I have over the time realized that it is a useless and pointless venture. I trust her more than I can ever trust myself. I don talk my own, talk una own. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 01, 2015 |
You are wrong..! Smart girls will never keep text messages that will implicate them on their phones. They delete them the moment they read them! A guy who feels insecure goes around monitoring his babe and that makes him a dog.! The reason is this, guys prefer a lady who already has plenty/many suitors. Then you join the queue in wooing her. The moment you win her, do you think others will back out? They will want to see d methods you used in winning her and they re-package and re-brand themselves and perform better than you. She gives in to the guy and double/triple date una.! She wouldn't want to lose both of you. She shuttle from his place to yours. The moment she leaves his place, she changes his name to a female name on her phone and even call him in your present if she's smart just to check on him. So, guys should stop forming as if they know ladies like the back of their hand! Mtcheeeeeeeew!!! WackyJ1: |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:07pm On May 01, 2015 |
Haba.. why monitor him when you can simply CPU him? The availability of stupidity on the part of Ladies account for their insecurity in a relationship... though I can't still fathom or understand the reason behind the reason why shit like this hit Frontpage and clueless Ladies waking up in the morning doing nothing than to set up a JAMB question for jobless people like them Meanwhile the poster below get sense |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by ifyalways(f): 10:07pm On May 01, 2015 |
Monitoring spirits are always the first to be "bound and cast out" Love is a free bird,life is short. No time to monitor or babysit anyone. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:09pm On May 01, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:Only clueless guys woo Ladies 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by thinkdip(m): 10:10pm On May 01, 2015 |
falconey:falconey, I heard you are the father of shares. ..is that true? |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:11pm On May 01, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:You're only deceiving yourself.
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Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by richidinho(m): 10:11pm On May 01, 2015 |
Twaci: U no get job?
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Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by chukwukamma(m): 10:13pm On May 01, 2015 |
Monitoring is a show of distrust and relationship without trust is a tragedy. pls don't forget to always visit my blog http://nelsonnwegbo..com/ to read. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:13pm On May 01, 2015 |
richidinho:Nice question |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:13pm On May 01, 2015 |
Really..? Please, you can throw more light to my comment. Why do you think I'm deceiving myself? AgapeCharis: |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by brownlord: 10:14pm On May 01, 2015 |
[size=15pt]I do monitor and i will do that again and again.[/size] Call me insecure, that's your business. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by babyfaceafrica: 10:16pm On May 01, 2015 |
I will like to know your opinion...in my own opinion...he who has no skeleton in his cupboard has nothing to fear.....my lady can check anything she likes..if she hinders me from checking hers..she is out..just like that!! |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Twaci(f): 10:17pm On May 01, 2015 |
richidinho:Help me ask ooh! |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 01, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:Don't worry. Remain cool with him cheating with the idea that he'll always come back to you until he starts getting more satisfaction outside. Until he starts sharing and giving you less attention. I've heard that word a couple of times. I wonder where it came from. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by jayedu108: 10:23pm On May 01, 2015 |
Lizabeth25:I neva knew dis is wat u do cheatin on ur man,step up ur game dis is nt dat close. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by brownlord: 10:26pm On May 01, 2015 |
babyfaceafrica: Your head is there. One Orijin for you |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by 0b1nna: 10:26pm On May 01, 2015 |
Twaci: You're a pretty girl. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by masqot(m): 10:27pm On May 01, 2015 |
No. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by babyfaceafrica: 10:29pm On May 01, 2015 |
brownlord:thanks ..I owe you one....barman na plastic origin go do...cold one |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by brownlord: 10:31pm On May 01, 2015 |
babyfaceafrica: Let's go there, One leg of fish for you |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Ogadtop(m): 10:31pm On May 01, 2015 |
Twaci:even if it is considered right,i wont do it because i dont wanna die young. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:34pm On May 01, 2015 |
rawpadgin: I have an award for you. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by queebeediva(f): 10:34pm On May 01, 2015 |
Except if I want my life to be complicated if not I mind my hand not to break the Golden rule which say; Touch not that phone else na big Gobe for you. Nah ! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by babyfaceafrica: 10:36pm On May 01, 2015 |
brownlord:lolz...leg of fish ke? |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by ifekayodee(m): 10:36pm On May 01, 2015 |
It is very wrong and childish,u'l suffer emotional trauma imagining things even when she's so true to u. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by brownlord: 10:37pm On May 01, 2015 |
babyfaceafrica: You prefer the lap? |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Tunnamania(m): 10:37pm On May 01, 2015 |
HaroldFinch:If u hadn't monitored her, u wouldn't av found those secrets that made u jilted her. so it's good to monitor at times, it lets u know where u stand in her heart. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:37pm On May 01, 2015 |
Eh eh..! Is that how you judge people.? Lol.....I pity you sha.! jayedu108: |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by babyfaceafrica: 10:38pm On May 01, 2015 |
brownlord:the boobs and nipples won't be bad |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by ROCKHARDDK(m): 10:39pm On May 01, 2015 |
I don't because I don't see her as a "must have possesion". I always keep off any choke on ma girls. Free world, u can go without uprooting ma heart, dats all Meanwhile; To Learn by urself and understand how to use "Power Point" even 2013release fully well without a one-on-one instructorn whatsapp or make / text me on 08167310666 |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by braine(m): 10:39pm On May 01, 2015 |
What if the partner is such a bloody liar? |
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