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Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Gurgle(f): 8:46pm On Jun 30, 2015
IamLEGEND1:

ibadan is pretty nice
where i lived was serene.
but some places just too noisy.

and u want to see a marine spirit?
willingly?

for diz kyn matter, you're O.Y.O

try visiting jos too, if u ever get the chance. the town is getting a lil' congested diz days but the weather is to die for. absolutely lovely.

I think they only seduce men right? so I should be ok. I just want to see what everybodys talking about

ah jos undecided isn't BH there? they were blowing churches up there some time ago it really put me off...

do you have any folktales like that in the north?
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jun 30, 2015
Anambra. don't ask me y
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Gurgle(f): 8:47pm On Jun 30, 2015
obikirinoni:
Anambra.
don't ask me y

Why! grin
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 8:49pm On Jun 30, 2015
Rilwayne001:


Amin.

3 kids already. We are praying for more blessings smiley




grin grin Well, its not too late. Oya! where dem dey? grin

Mind you, I can speak fluent hausa cheesy
Wow really?

A ina ka koyi hausa?
Ko ka taba zama a arewa?
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jun 30, 2015
Z!!
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by IamLEGEND1: 8:52pm On Jun 30, 2015
Gurgle:


I think they only seduce men right? so I should be ok. I just want to see what everybodys talking about

ah jos undecided isn't BH there? they were blowing churches up there some time ago it really put me off...

do you have any folktales like that in the north?

most of the violence has been contained largely in the extreme North-eastern corner of the country.

but as always, u never know wetin those barbaric idiots dey plan.

so everyone's enjoying the peace & quiet for the time being. hoping it becomes permanent.

and every culture has a bunch of these kind of stuffs.. stories of the girl dat is found in boarding schools who literally pulls out her head and plaits herself in the bushes. spirits of the abandoned infants of earlier settlers coming back to disturb you.


ETC
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Fulaboy(m): 8:54pm On Jun 30, 2015
IamLEGEND1:

Hahaaaaaaaahahahahahahahaaaaa.


i nearly forgot about the akara and bread-loving part.


i luv bread to death mehn.




kuma gaskiya maganan yan sokoto nan ma haka ne.

kauyancin wassun su yana da yawa gaskiya. lolz
Lol gaskiane ai aradu duk wuraren dana pado ba wanda banje ba cheesy duk nasan halinsu
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Rilwayne001: 8:58pm On Jun 30, 2015
MuhdG:

Wow really?

A ina ka koyi hausa?

Ina da abokanai hausa dayawa a nan ibadan.

Ko ka taba zama a arewa?

Ba ntaba je arewa ba. ama na taba zauna chikin ungwa hausa a nan ibadan, suna ungwa shi ne sabo mokola. Akoi hausawa dayawa a nan oyo state. grin
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by IamLEGEND1: 9:00pm On Jun 30, 2015
Fulaboy:
Lol gaskiane ai aradu duk wuraren dana pado ba wanda banje ba cheesy duk nasan halinsu


yan zamfara ma ba a bar su a baya ba fa.

shirme da haukan su, da tsananin kishin addini shi yake jan su baya
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Gurgle(f): 9:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
IamLEGEND1:


most of the violence has been contained largely in the extreme North-eastern corner of the country.

but as always, u never know wetin those barbaric idiots dey plan.

so everyone's enjoying the peace & quiet for the time being. hoping it becomes permanent.

and every culture has a bunch of these kind of stuffs.. stories of the girl dat is found in boarding schools who literally pulls out her head and plaits herself in the bushes. spirits of the abandoned infants of earlier settlers coming back to disturb you.


ETC

lol what a story. waiting to catch a bus to jos! grin
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jun 30, 2015
Rilwayne001:


Ina da abokanai hausa dayawa a nan ibadan.



Ba ntaba je arewa ba. ama na taba zauna chikin ungwa hausa a nan ibadan, suna ungwa shi ne sabo mokola. Akoi hausawa dayawa a nan oyo state. grin

Wow! Gaskiya kayi kokari sosai

cheesy
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by IamLEGEND1: 9:22pm On Jun 30, 2015
Gurgle:

lol what a story. waiting to catch a bus to jos! grin

but i heard igbos have tonnes of dat kind of stuff.
u familiar with some?
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Gurgle(f): 9:29pm On Jun 30, 2015
IamLEGEND1:



but i heard igbos have tonnes of dat kind of stuff.

u familiar with some?

yeahh of course. my dad used to tell me them when I was a child but thinking about it now i'm forgetting how they went. I need to write them down...
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Rilwayne001: 9:52pm On Jun 30, 2015
MuhdG:

Wow! Gaskiya kayi kokari sosai
cheesy
wink
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Adaeze003(f): 10:28pm On Jun 30, 2015
Captainswag225:
when will nigerians ever promote inter-tribal marriages?

Never... it actually kills culture... imagine me, all my life I've lived among ibos then I get married to a yoruba guy... when we have kids, what culture/tradition am I to teach them? knowing that I know little about yorubas and allot about ibos? What language will I teach them?

If I go with igbo, it'll cause friction between myself and his family so they might end up knowing only English.

Again, what if daddy wants the child to be kunle n mummy wants dozie? To appease the man, the woman will ask him to come up with an English or "bible" name... that's when you hear weird names like Evans, Elite and bla bla bla...

All in all, inter tribal marriages will not be "promoted" or advised but the emphasis on marrying from your tribe is becoming less by the day.


To the question, 1st choice has to be my tribe... 2nd choice.... uhm, same as the first grin but who knows rii?

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Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by henryblaze25(m): 10:34pm On Jun 30, 2015
Am Ijaw by tribe, would get married to akwa-ibom or yoruba

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Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by 4everGrand(m): 10:40pm On Jun 30, 2015
I am Yoruba, proudly so. Buh I really would marry any lady be it IBO, Hausa, Edo, Itsekiri, Arab etc but not a full Caucasian. It dont matter to me.
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jun 30, 2015
Captainswag225:
lol, i guess those tribes need to open up to other ethnic groups. Btw i hope u are also open to inter-ethnic marriages.

Of course.

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Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 11:51pm On Jun 30, 2015
This OLOSHO Mrs must post her trash as always like we care.
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Gurgle(f): 12:14am On Jul 01, 2015
Adaeze003:


Never... it actually kills culture... imagine me, all my life I've lived among ibos then I get married to a yoruba guy... when we have kids, what culture/tradition am I to teach them? knowing that I know little about yorubas and allot about ibos? What language will I teach them?

If I go with igbo, it'll cause friction between myself and his family so they might end up knowing only English.

Again, what if daddy wants the child to be kunle n mummy wants dozie? To appease the man, the woman will ask him to come up with an English or "bible" name... that's when you hear weird names like Evans, Elite and bla bla bla...

All in all, inter tribal marriages will not be "promoted" or advised but the emphasis on marrying from your tribe is becoming less by the day.


To the question, 1st choice has to be my tribe... 2nd choice.... uhm, same as the first grin but who knows rii?

Really? In the case of Igbo woman Yoruba man, although I wouldn't do it myself I have seen plenty of marriages that go well

Yoruba kids always have about 20 names so they can be both Kunle and Dozie as well as Raheem, Martin, Babatunde, Salisu, whatever.

if one parent speaks Igbo to the child and the other speaks Yoruba the child will learn both. Then when they get to school they will pick up English

but I get your point. inter-tribal marriages can be hard work in some cases. but mostly because of the families involved, not the two individuals

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Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Fulaboy(m): 5:10am On Jul 01, 2015
IamLEGEND1:


yan zamfara ma ba a bar su a baya ba fa.

shirme da haukan su, da tsananin kishin addini shi yake jan su baya
wollah abun sai a hankali some of them are very extremist
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Acidosis(m): 6:31am On Jul 01, 2015
Adaeze003:


Never... it actually kills culture... imagine me, all my life I've lived among ibos then I get married to a yoruba guy... when we have kids, what culture/tradition am I to teach them? knowing that I know little about yorubas and allot about ibos? What language will I teach them?

If I go with igbo, it'll cause friction between myself and his family so they might end up knowing only English.

Again, what if daddy wants the child to be kunle n mummy wants dozie? To appease the man, the woman will ask him to come up with an English or "bible" name... that's when you hear weird names like Evans, Elite and bla bla bla...

All in all, inter tribal marriages will not be "promoted" or advised but the emphasis on marrying from your tribe is becoming less by the day.


To the question, 1st choice has to be my tribe... 2nd choice.... uhm, same as the first grin but who knows rii?

shocked shocked
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Captainswag225(m): 7:09am On Jul 01, 2015
Adaeze003:


Never... it actually kills culture... imagine me, all my life I've lived among ibos then I get married to a yoruba guy... when we have kids, what culture/tradition am I to teach them? knowing that I know little about yorubas and allot about ibos? What language will I teach them?

If I go with igbo, it'll cause friction between myself and his family so they might end up knowing only English.

Again, what if daddy wants the child to be kunle n mummy wants dozie? To appease the man, the woman will ask him to come up with an English or "bible" name... that's when you hear weird names like Evans, Elite and bla bla bla...

All in all, inter tribal marriages will not be "promoted" or advised but the emphasis on marrying from your tribe is becoming less by the day.


To the question, 1st choice has to be my tribe... 2nd choice.... uhm, same as the first grin but who knows rii?
lol i get u but when inter-tribal marriages are given a chance it will help reduce many inter-ethnic frictions.... I some know ethnic groups are scared that they will lose their culture, their blood will be mixed with that of other ethnic groups but the thing is inter-ethnic marriages promotes respect, tolerance and appreciation of eachother's tribes. Lets say u marry a yoruba man and have children, it wont be bad for the kidz to learn yoruba and igbo languages and cultures. they can have both yoruba and igbo names with their surname being that of their father. I know inter-ethnic marriages arent easy but they can work when its given a chance. Its requires love, sacrifice and tolerance though. look at peter okoye and lola omotayo, isnt that lovely?
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by IamLEGEND1: 7:54am On Jul 01, 2015
Fulaboy:
wollah abun sai a hankali some of them are very extremist

true talk.

top of the morning to you bro.
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Demmzy15(m): 2:05pm On Jul 01, 2015
Fulaboy:
the pre dominance of kanuris are found in borno state and some part of yobe, you can easily distinguish them from Fulani's cox of their thick accent and heavy tribals marks and moat of them are very dark.



lemme this into your ear ""most boko harams are kanuris in fact they were the founders of the sect""

god please no let them catch me embarassed
Stop that jor! embarassed My mom is kanuri and she no black, dem born her for Lagos so she get yoruba mark! grin grin
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Demmzy15(m): 2:12pm On Jul 01, 2015
I bin dey reason Egbira, but I no wan near that level o. One Egbira girl burst my guy head with stabilizer when she vex and the worst part, the guy sabi Kung fu! Me wey no kon sabi anything nko?! shocked
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 01, 2015
Adaeze003:


Never... it actually kills culture... imagine me, all my life I've lived among ibos then I get married to a yoruba guy... when we have kids, what culture/tradition am I to teach them? knowing that I know little about yorubas and allot about ibos? What language will I teach them?

If I go with igbo, it'll cause friction between myself and his family so they might end up knowing only English.

Again, what if daddy wants the child to be kunle n mummy wants dozie? To appease the man, the woman will ask him to come up with an English or "bible" name... that's when you hear weird names like Evans, Elite and bla bla bla...

All in all, inter tribal marriages will not be "promoted" or advised but the emphasis on marrying from your tribe is becoming less by the day.


To the question, 1st choice has to be my tribe... 2nd choice.... uhm, same as the first grin but who knows rii?
I be Yoruba guy but na white or Ibo girl I MUST marry

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Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Adaeze003(f): 9:05pm On Jul 01, 2015
jimmy4x:

I be Yoruba guy but na white or Ibo girl I MUST marry

Lol... ok oh.
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Fulaboy(m): 12:38am On Jul 02, 2015
Demmzy15:

Stop that jor! embarassed My mom is kanuri and she no black, dem born her for Lagos so she get yoruba mark! grin grin
your mum is born is lagos and she had yoruba's tribal mark so ogah your mumcy is yoruba gbam no dogon turanci grin

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Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by tonychristopher: 8:11am On Jul 02, 2015
jimmy4x:

I be Yoruba guy but na white or Ibo girl I MUST marry

but wait why do Yoruba men detest marrying their women... I have noticed this trend


but to be honest Yoruba women are mouthy
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by Nobody: 8:20am On Jul 02, 2015
tonychristopher:


but wait why do Yoruba men detest marrying their women... I have noticed this trend


but to be honest Yoruba women are mouthy
There are very sweet Yoruba girls, very nice ones, mine is just my love for other tribes, I dont wanna marry from my tribe....I wanna experience something different from what I'm used to.
Presently, I love my ibo gf way more dan I loved my 2 Yoruba exes.
Re: Which Ethnic Group Would You Prefer To Marry From by tonychristopher: 8:34am On Jul 02, 2015
jimmy4x:

There are very sweet Yoruba girls, very nice ones, mine is just my love for other tribes, I dont wanna marry from my tribe....I wanna experience something different from what I'm used to.
Presently, I love my ibo gf way more dan I loved my 2 Yoruba exes.

if it's other tribes like igbo date other tribes and marry their own people but yours is opposite

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