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| Advice needed by Rajjah(op): 2:49pm On Jul 19, 2015*. Modified: 11:30am On Oct 16, 2015 |
Modified : thanks alot frnds, I put my trust in God, knowing n hoping He will do whats best for me. 1 Like |
| Re: Advice needed by Adeyeancah(m): 2:49pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Thank God ur not married yet 3 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by kossyablaze(m): 2:50pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Call me...or on FB 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Advice needed by lative(m): 2:50pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
hmmmmmm..*takes deep breath* |
| Re: Advice needed by archangel101(m): 2:51pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
u guys can have a party 2 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by goodmorning40: 2:51pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
If u can't loose him let him loose u 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advice needed by etiosa97(m): 2:52pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
4 post and 1 views.. How is dat possible 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Advice needed by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
I still dnt understand why u wanna meet d said girl on wednesday... U guys wanna negotiate?  11 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by Gurgle(f): 2:54pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Sorry my sister So are you planning to confront him at his place on Wednesday or have you already done it and all 3 of you are going to meet there |
| Re: Advice needed by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
You know within yourself that the best thing for you is to leave him, but you won't until the worst happens and you probably hang yourself out of 'love'. 13 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by Chibuhealth(f): 2:55pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Men?? Very stupid set of species... This time around, u av to love with ur head and not with ur hrt, do me a favor, forget that flirt, better person will locate u afterwards. Just give it a trial if he can do such now, he wil do it in marriage also. Its too early to cry, just leave the f0ol 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advice needed by mschubby: 2:56pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
hmmmmm., this is a serious issue. |
| Re: Advice needed by Rajjah(op): 2:57pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
mordtonia:I know he loves me. I know with the way he treats me. He tell me all his secrets. This particular girl started it all but how do I get the girl out. |
| Re: Advice needed by Chibuhealth(f): 2:58pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:i tire oooo! Mumulicious girl she is 2 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
| Re: Advice needed by YemziAdez(m): 3:01pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
No love lost,no love found. |
| Re: Advice needed by whytepawn1(m): 3:01pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
the word "marriage " make some ladies throw common sense into the waste bin. Its over already, unless you are too blind to see it. 2 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by midolian(m): 3:02pm On Jul 19, 2015*. Modified: 5:19pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
As you are typing in tears, so am I commenting with fears. Cos I can smell desperation from this ya post. You want the guy by all means. And I seriously fear you don't cause an incorrigible problem for yaself in the future. E b like say u think say marriage na 1yr contract. My advice? RUN! If a man can deceive you for 2good years in this manner, my sister RUN! RUN for ya life. I don't know what that thing is that attracts him to you but be very careful not to make decisions b4 thinking. All that glitters iz not gold 10 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by ellapius(f): 3:02pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
he told u lies comfortably for 2 wholes year ? it would av been 3 or 4 or 5 even for a whole life time if u av not found out. the answer my dearest is just behind ur heart look deeper u ll see it. let me ask u somtin.Do u tink he cares if he looses you? what if by wednesday u re the one to excuse both of them in the relationship. from ur talk I tink u re the weaker one in the trio and its easy to flush the weak ones out. see girl u av to be strong and bold to face him. u re not an option for him there re many good guys out there that ll love and treat u well.call it over with him an get busy fixing ur life . 1 Like |
| Re: Advice needed by nedum87(f): 3:02pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Pls sweetie, liv dat guy cos he is only using u n nt ready 4 marriage, try n 4get abt him n move on, turn 2 God in prayers am vry sure he has better plans 4 u. 1 Like |
| Re: Advice needed by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
I understand how u feel right now but this is the time u need to let your head control your mind and not otherwise. If he caught u like u did, he wouldn't think twice before showing u the exit door. What amuses me is the part that you and your rival arranged to meet at his house on Wednesday  .What will u guys do? u wanna consolidate? Or u wanna debate on who he should choose? You are a girl though, maybe he had your virg.inity and considering how many guys u had rejected because of him, I can't blame u that much. 2 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by wahles(m): 3:04pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:advice positively nah# must u insult her? 6 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by powerfulsettingz: 3:05pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Sometimes some loves are at the detriment of our happiness.......at this point I understand the second lady is like a devil to ur love...... Anyway my advise is this when u both meet at his place on Wednesday ask him to choose btw her and you..... Whatever he chooses is the final Goodluck |
| Re: Advice needed by beiges: 3:05pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
You know he loves you...... Then why did he cheat I can't call it cheat sef. So who is he having an affair with. hmmmm. I'll advice you to let him be he's not worth it. |
| Re: Advice needed by Rajjah(op): 3:05pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:So my so called fiance will know he's been caught red - handed. I just cant leave him like this cos actually I once cheated on him when we just started dating, 9months into our relationship bt he caused it. We settled our differences n I broke up with the other guy immediately. Maybe God is punishing me but its just dat I got to know now that he was with this lady then. Thats why I just dont want to walk out. I did stopped it immediately I came back to my senses cos den we had issues n it almost led to breakup. I want him to leave her n be with me ALONE. |
| Re: Advice needed by Rajjah(op): 3:07pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
powerfulsettingz:thanx alot dear. I wil write this down. |
| Re: Advice needed by Chibuhealth(f): 3:07pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
wahles:u re a moda fucker! |
| Re: Advice needed by olumaxi(m): 3:08pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:i tell u.......d guy must av a swit sugarcane...anyway,al men r polygamous |
| Re: Advice needed by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Rajjah:Ask him to choose between you and the girl, then make your decision from there. |
| Re: Advice needed by defendedvictim(m): 3:11pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
All of u saying she Shud walk out of d relationship, I shake my head for u people sha...its not as easy as it sounds. Now let's be real, d guy is quite indecisive. U can give d relationship a break, in order to think n make a final decision for urself. Even if u decide to continue, n he chooses u on Wednesday, U'd still have to give d relationship some time to grow again...so dnt expect an automatic bliss. Offences of dis nature r quite difficult to live with anyway; but if he forgave u, u might as well want to give him a chance if he is willing to work with u. #n if he chooses d other gal, sorry. 4 Likes |
| Re: Advice needed by espn(m): 3:11pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:silly? NO No No 1 Like |
| Re: Advice needed by fuckluv(f): 3:15pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Rajjah: If he truly loves you, why then is he cheating on you with this said girl? He tells you all his secrets but keep this particular one  Girl stop deceiving yourself. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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