jornie:
i'm suspecting you

Oliviaarims:

Lol...so sorry bout that...This girl's just been taking u 4 granted and stringing u along coz she feels u'd always be there and overlook her nasty attitude....Time to move on...get going..U've loved her enough!

Hannysmilez:
Buhahahahahari. Why? Innocent lady like me.

all4naija:

You don't look innocent to me.

tellwisdom:
Push her into the gutter

femcruz:
wey Oga tai2 o

tosyne2much:
is that what you think ?

tai2:


I dey here. This man is not a serious man. He is rationalizing the behavior of the woman at the same time he is not happy with it.

The girl gives him attitude because she knows she has him in the palm of her hand. He is in a bottle, when she says dance left, he dances left, when she says move to the right, he moves.

These type of women when they have their fill of you, they will leave you for a guy who won't do 1/10 of what you do for them.

OP has no liver and no control. The woman has the control and when she is done she will spit him out like worthless orange seeds.

Put your foot down, no matter what she says. If she wants to walk let her walk. Chop two or three babes to gain perspective and see what you're missing. If she wants to go let her go, because your first fear and source of loss of control is that you want to be good so she does not leave.

Women will stay with a man who maltreats them and leave a man who waits on them hand and foot. Does that seem logical to you?

You better behave to stop her misbehaviour. All these pussycat men sef.

Hannysmilez:
Buhahahahahari. Why? Innocent lady like me.

jornie:

oh come on,u know being innocent is far from u...your post looks exactly like what the lady would write

Hannysmilez:
Haha. I'm just trying to be fair. Isn't that nice of me?

jornie:

tosyne2much:
You show love and affection by being caring, tolerant and spending money yet they will still play chess with your life


You refuse to spend and show affection, they tag you a stingy (Baba Ijebu) and an uncaring creature


I doubt if God Himself understands ladies

wasak:
We started dating in 2011 after a year of asking her out. I just love her naturally not for anything. Admittedly, her stubbornness might be partly due to my over pampering at the initial stage of our relationship, I was naive but I think 4 years is actually a long time for the love to be balanced. At every point in time she claims she loves me more, but no evidence whatsoever to show for it. I don't want to venture into crazy things I've done for her, that's a story for another day.
It appears she takes delight in frustrating me due to my simple nature, actually I can be stubborn too, but not with regards to relationship because I believe it's all about compromise. She's inconsiderate and selfish, always wants to have her way at all time even though I have to sacrifice my convenience for her umpteen times. I'm scared of settling down with a woman who'll finally kill me, I love her no doubt. But it appears love is not enough. Someone talk to me pls

Hannysmilez:
Yeah,really.

meetfrank:
Bro you are not alone in your experience. All you need to do is to take things easy and allow her to drive the relationship. Pay her by each coin she brings. I bet you ,she will start complaining , then you can give her your conditions. I still believe love is not enough for two persons to marry each other.

ebonflex:
I have said this before and I will say it again...

The natural configuration of a relationship between a man and a woman is that the woman loves or cares more about that relationship than the man.
Anything else, is a relationship that won't work or won't be enjoyed by both parties (no matter how long you claim you have been together).
Women don't enjoy it when they can walk over their men.
Men don't enjoy it when they are walked over.
As to WHY women TRY to walk over their men? Leave that matter. First ask why the sky is blue. Some things just are and will always be. Just expect that no matter how nice a girl seems, she will one day test your boundaries and your expectations of her, and you will have to be very rigid about these as these will be the foundation upon which your relationship is built on....not "love".
It is up to YOU as the man to setup this configuration in your relationship and build the life you want.

Again, She must show more care in that relationship than you. Why? because women are naturally more nurturing than men so it balances out in an equal sense. If she is incompatible with the configuration, you must make sure there is this semi-unspoken understanding in the air that "the door is always open for her to leave". You are not being cruel, you are actually giving her freedom. Freedom to leave if your requirements do not connect with the way she intends to live her life with a man....but your requirements remain unchanged. To be changed only if YOU want to, not because a woman wants you to.

What I am saying, feminists will come and fight me for it, as well as their manginas and fellow weak men. But the REALITY of life has proven that what I am saying is the truth if you want to actually enjoy your life on earth with womenfolk.

Personal example: I cannot court a woman who feels it demeaning/ to cook sometimes while visiting her boyfriend (upon all the outings he might take her out to). To me that's just a woman who doesn't give a damn about her man, which is highly unacceptable.

tai2:


I dey here. This man is not a serious man. He is rationalizing the behavior of the woman at the same time he is not happy with it.

The girl gives him attitude because she knows she has him in the palm of her hand. He is in a bottle, when she says dance left, he dances left, when she says move to the right, he moves.

These type of women when they have their fill of you, they will leave you for a guy who won't do 1/10 of what you do for them.

OP has no liver and no control. The woman has the control and when she is done she will spit him out like worthless orange seeds.

Put your foot down, no matter what she says. If she wants to walk let her walk. Chop two or three babes to gain perspective and see what you're missing. If she wants to go let her go, because your first fear and source of loss of control is that you want to be good so she does not leave.

Women will stay with a man who maltreats them and leave a man who waits on them hand and foot. Does that seem logical to you?

You better behave to stop her misbehaviour. All these pussycat men sef.

ronald4lif:


Good day Sage. Thanks for the notch and I read microbiology. Currently running a PG on pharmacology though.

malonephill:
been wanting to asks same question thank God someone eventually asked.......now I know

Candis009:
I swear I was angry to know you created this topic. .. so you're still dating that Funk of a girl(abi wetin b her name), kaaaiii.. you fall my hand
Did you ever want to be sincerely happy in your life?

ronald4lif:


Hehe. How come y'all wanna know what I read. Does what a person studied have effect in their reasoning and approach to issues

zoelife:

He does. Lol
Thing is ladies are not 'one-way minded' like men.
To tame a woman, u need a mix of constant love and firmness. How do we do dat?
We're a bit complex. Sowie

wasak:

Admittedly I emotionally weak, but is that a crime? I mean, I didn't create myself that way. As for my age I'm in my early 20s she's my first love actually. Thanks

b0rn2fuck:
abeg wetin be the babe name, sound like similar girlfriend I have too, mine name start with FU..., wayahoo, her stubbornness no get part 2,but I think distancing myself has let her show respect a little and gift reduction as let her know I do not cares as before but use that instrument to let her known,you cannot be frustrating and still be expecting to attend to every of your needs, her body don calm a little since then.she is still with me till today but I like this babe, no bi small.infact I like her pass my baby Mama.

Mobuch should quote me this baby mama talks anyway, thunder go fire ham! Chiefokonkwo of igboland.