Rapmoney:
So u have first-hand knowledge of what some girls are up to...though, the painful aspect is that I don't think u knew what the other guy was passing through! It is an emotional torment!

It is just a reality we have to understand and live with......

Its not nesseserly true ...although i been there done that it ran out in the sand ..however i met someone new..but im in las vegas usa ..hes a musician in Lagos .. We talk every day on the phone ..we video chat ..message eachother ..there has to b trust ...and ofcause make plans to see eachother as soon as possible ...and making plans ..it can work ..but u gotto trust eachother ..and comunicate ...for me is a big issue because he got fans ... Preformans ...can i handle that? I voiced my fears and he has put me to ease ..but we shall see .

Every relationship will sooner or later bcom a distant relationship, even if u guyz ar in dsame skul,what if u want 2 go 4 ur NYSC&she's still in 200l,300l or 400l,what ar u gonna do abt dat?..or maybe u guyz stay in dsame location @home&she's studying in a different higher institution, wont u guyz eventually go 2 ur respective skuls?.I'm in a long distance relationship(although nt dat long) bt i'm nt passing tru any emotional torment cos "babe wey go Bleep anoda guy go Bleep am,even wen u dey dsame hostel"&even in dis 21st century,most relationship is just like u're playing a game.I have my future 2 focus on than thinking if one babe is cheating on me,if she like,make she cheat&wen i'm ready 2 marry,i knw what 2 do.Guyz,just make sure u ar nt a loser in any relationship u engage in,datz d REAL DEAL.

Couldn't agree more with the op. All his points I subscribe to in toto. The dude who said that his parents lived apart for the first 16 yrs of their marriage didn't understand that the op wasn't talking about marriage!
The other guy can still ask to find how many relationships NYSC has killed even as a temporary separation. Distance..

mylora:
Couldn't agree more with the op. All his points I subscribe to in toto. The dude who said that his parents lived apart for the first 16 yrs of their marriage didn't understand that the op wasn't talking about marriage!
The other guy can still ask to find how many relationships NYSC has killed even as a temporary separation. Distance..

Some persons who don't have the slightest experience of it do not know the unnecessary pains and wasting of time this situation can bring until they experience it. Thanks!

aktem:
Every relationship will sooner or later bcom a distant relationship, even if u guyz ar in dsame skul,what if u want 2 go 4 ur NYSC&she's still in 200l,300l or 400l,what ar u gonna do abt dat?..or maybe u guyz stay in dsame location @home&she's studying in a different higher institution, wont u guyz eventually go 2 ur respective skuls?.I'm in a long distance relationship(although nt dat long) bt i'm nt passing tru any emotional torment cos "babe wey go Bleep anoda guy go Bleep am,even wen u dey dsame hostel"&even in dis 21st century,most relationship is just like u're playing a game.I have my future 2 focus on than thinking if one babe is cheating on me,if she like,make she cheat&wen i'm ready 2 marry,i knw what 2 do.Guyz,just make sure u ar nt a loser in any relationship u engage in,datz d REAL DEAL.

Thanks for your opinion. Now the issue is not overruling cheating from a relationship where both of you are physically present. People cheat even if they are physically present but what am saying in essence is that the high level of jealousy, cheating and lack of trust that distant affairs bring is not worth it! You will soon realize it!

I came all d way to say.. Thumbup

Nina4u:
Its not nesseserly true ...although i been there done that it ran out in the sand ..however i met someone new..but im in las vegas usa ..hes a musician in Lagos .. We talk every day on the phone ..we video chat ..message eachother ..there has to b trust ...and ofcause make plans to see eachother as soon as possible ...and making plans ..it can work ..but u gotto trust eachother ..and comunicate ...for me is a big issue because he got fans ... Preformans ...can i handle that? I voiced my fears and he has put me to ease ..but we shall see .

'You have voiced your fears and he has put you to ease' Really? Let's just hope he has really 'put you to ease' because people misbehave when the other person is not physically present!!! After all, why are they not physically present? Out of sight is out of mind my dear!

blezzy080:
I came all d way to say.. Thumbup

Thanks! May God replenish your pockets for embarking on the journey to this thread! What means of transportation did you use? Airplane, car, bus or keke? Anyway, na joke I dey. Thanks

Rapmoney:
'You have voiced your fears and he has put you to ease' Really? Let's just hope he has really 'put you to ease' because people misbehave when the other person is not physically present!!! After all, why are they not physically present? Out of sight is out of mind my dear!

we r making plans ..thing is we never met face to face ..but we video chat every day ..talk on the phone every day ...we want to be together and when u feeling r that deep ..nothing can stop you from beeing together ....thanx though i aprishiate ..

Rapmoney:
Can you give me a good reason why you are taking this so personal? Nobody mentioned your name! I don't even know you or know whether you are in a distant affair or not!!! See problem o! Abeg, dey your lane!

Leave that frustrated goat.

Rapmoney:
Don't expect me to provide an answer to such worthless question.

If the question I asked is worthless that also makes ur post a worthless one.

StephanieEzeh:
If the question I asked is worthless that also makes ur post a worthless one.

Ok. I know you on NL as a controversial person who open threads and make comments to ridicule the male folks...please yourself!!!

malele:



Leave that frustrated goat.

Hehehehe I wonder for am o!

Nina4u:
we r making plans ..thing is we never met face to face ..but we video chat every day ..talk on the phone every day ...we want to be together and when u feeling r that deep ..nothing can stop you from beeing together ....thanx though i aprishiate ..

You are welcome!

Lalasticlala, rocktation...

Rapmoney ma nigga, nice one...

Rapmoney:
Ok. I know you on NL as a controversial person who open threads and make comments to ridicule the male folks...please yourself!!!

Controversial? Don't make me laugh pls

People just go into rships nowadays just to ease boredom..


I was askn a frnd of mine who "got so used to chattin with me" this question, what do u want frm me? Cuz ur always wantin to chat wit me and all that... Why done we get to see, u knw, get physical and all dat, na him d babe refuse oo... I had no other option dan to terminate the frndship cux I was startin to like her so much already... No matter what, chats and phone calls will always end up becomin boring...

Rapmoney:
You are welcome!

Lalasticlala, rocktation...

Wetin u dey una sabi ehhnn? Wetin b lalasticlala ? First time i hear am ..lol

Cutehector:
Rapmoney ma nigga, nice one...

I see you my guy

Nina4u:
Wetin u dey una sabi ehhnn? Wetin b lalasticlala ? First time i hear am ..lol

Na person name na!

Rapmoney:
Na person name na!

whos nane?

aktem:
Every relationship will sooner or later bcom a distant relationship, even if u guyz ar in dsame skul,what if u want 2 go 4 ur NYSC&she's still in 200l,300l or 400l,what ar u gonna do abt dat?..or maybe u guyz stay in dsame location @home&she's studying in a different higher institution, wont u guyz eventually go 2 ur respective skuls?.I'm in a long distance relationship(although nt dat long) bt i'm nt passing tru any emotional torment cos "babe wey go Bleep anoda guy go Bleep am,even wen u dey dsame hostel"&even in dis 21st century,most relationship is just like u're playing a game.I have my future 2 focus on than thinking if one babe is cheating on me,if she like,make she cheat&wen i'm ready 2 marry,i knw what 2 do.Guyz,just make sure u ar nt a loser in any relationship u engage in,datz d REAL DEAL.

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you just made a massive point man !

Cutehector:
People just go into rships nowadays just to ease boredom..


I was askn a frnd of mine who "got so used to chattin with me" this question, what do u want frm me? Cuz ur always wantin to chat wit me and all that... Why done we get to see, u knw, get physical and all dat, na him d babe refuse oo... I had no other option dan to terminate the frndship cux I was startin to like her so much already... No matter what, chats and phone calls will always end up becomin boring...

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could that be estherfabian, (I can be blunt sometimes)

op u couldn't have typed it better meeeeeeehn so many truths/facts listed there bro, remain blessed and for the male youngin's out there FOCUS on your future and goals because you might realize that the times and efforts you invested in a girl might later turn out to be a waste of time. Have your fun, have your love or gf but NEVER lose your focus because of her.

it's more intense for My type that loves like crazy !

PrimeMinisterr:

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could that be estherfabian, (I can be blunt sometimes)

ha! Pls oo... Abeg... I duno wat ur talkn abt...

Cutehector:
ha! Pls oo... Abeg... I duno wat ur talkn abt...

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I've seen you a couple of times getting all lolly polly with her here.

PrimeMinisterr:

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I've seen you a couple of times getting all lolly polly with her here.

lol I don't thrive in distant friendships.... And I'm so tired of chats.. They become so boring. Recently I stopped chatting with some cool chics I met on nairaland because I figured out that they don't have any plans of meeting in person...


One thing I noticed in life nowadays is this, people only chat because they are bored, not because they wish to see you in person. Even if one party plans to meet the other in person and hopes things will get to the next level from there, the other person may not feel the same way.. So it just gets useless...


Nwadays, I prefer meeting more of real ladies dan makin female frnds online...

Rapmoney:
I never said that! I only said observations clearly show that women are more likely to cheat due to romantic pressures and what love has degenerated to.

Just gerraout here mehn with dis shit u wrote!so men don cheat abi?dey cheat pass devil self

Distance relationship rock i am used to it&i will never cheat on my boo even tho i do giv him go ahead to fuvk !!!It's a matter of understanding&trust!