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Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by mrjojo: 9:49am On Oct 21, 2015 |
aktem:word!! Even couple sleeping on the same bed sef, dey cheat... 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Cutehector(m): 9:51am On Oct 21, 2015 |
blessedly:I"v always wanted to meet d female frnds I chat wit online, buh dey all neva felt d same way.. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by jesuspikinjp(m): 9:53am On Oct 21, 2015 |
GahtU: Why are you so hurt? I don't think the op is forcing anyone to quit his or her long distance relationship, only giving his opinion. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Manweysabi(m): 9:54am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Different strokes for different folks... Op, you may be right, but there are exceptions. What is to one a goad, is to another a load. It works for some and it doesn't work for others. The downside about distance relationships is that, it's expensive to maintain. It's a work on it's own. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Iamthoney(m): 9:54am On Oct 21, 2015 |
prettythicksme:Women are most likely to cheat and women cheat are two different thing ma'am...hope you now understood berra...remain blessed 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:54am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Wetin concern long distance and marriage? The same thing applies even wen u r dating a girl right across your street. Dating can be fun...If u play it right...no matter the distance between u two. Keep the pressures of marriage aside and enjoy the fun of dating/courtship..marriage will only come wen u two r in sync. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 9:55am On Oct 21, 2015 |
naughtynaughty:Thanks! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by NiRfreak(m): 9:56am On Oct 21, 2015 |
[quote author=AreaFada2 post=39197096] 50% of first born kids don't belong to supposed biological dad. 30% of all kids don't belong to supposed biological dad .[/quote Another shocking revelation. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by sisqonite: 9:57am On Oct 21, 2015 |
AreaFada2: Damn!!!! I work with facts. My plan is to secretly get all my kids tested, no matter how sure i am of my wife. Call me paranoid but only the paranoid survive 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Kassidy90(m): 9:57am On Oct 21, 2015 |
well like someone said it depends on both party, i live in Lagos she lives in Ekiti and we are planning to tie d knot latest 6 -7months time, though am nt disputing what the OP said coz sometimes i have this urge but all i do is call her talk about it and schedule....smiles, anytime she has d same feeling i either i go der or she travel down to Lag. what am saying is everyone knows that distant relationship is a gamble but all we need is TRUST n UNDERSTANDING... besides what is the assurance that the girl/boyfriend that lives in the same street with u wont or cant cheat on u...as i said it all boils down to TRUST n UNDERSTANDING every relationship needs it 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by raywise17(m): 10:01am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Men op who told u about me....i'm in a long distance relationship..i call her she calls me and we tell ourselver how we miss each other....notin more |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by loomer: 10:02am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Not seen my babe for sometime now, but e no mean say we no dey grow stronger by the day. When u know wetin u want distance no be problem 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Namzy(m): 10:04am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Kai this guy you are spot on. Send me your number make i apply some grease to your elbow 1 Like |
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Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Revolva(m): 10:05am On Oct 21, 2015 |
I was banging one babe one day like dat na so her fone rang she picked it as I de give her doggy.....na her BF de feel sorry for her say he will send her money for medicine...shaa haba dis babe don lie...oo omo na so I pra increase my hiting kpa kpa kpa....she scream her fone fell from her hand...lol 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by yorex2011: 10:07am On Oct 21, 2015 |
When you have long distance plus a girlfriend in medical school... The patience required is stuff of legend |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by yorex2011: 10:08am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Revolva:Bros why you dey lie like this na 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Revolva(m): 10:12am On Oct 21, 2015 |
yorex2011: Lie for wat naa...wtf do u no how many I ave smashed even oloshos...dat day even told me they have serious BF omo cool down not to talk of a gal with a distance relationship wit a guy...even gal wey get BF koro koro..i de bang dem |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Stevez32(m): 10:17am On Oct 21, 2015 |
GahtU: Never have I seen such an immature post like this. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by hoebamaa(m): 10:32am On Oct 21, 2015 |
I'm in a long distant relationship and i enjoy every bit of it.#teamlongdistantrelationship# |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by AreaFada2: 10:34am On Oct 21, 2015 |
sisqonite: Well some women are still faithful sha. But these days lots of people get married because the babe is pregnant. Often the most eligible guy gets the baby. But it can also belong to her boss or some 60 years old Alhaji somewhere. Some babes develop the multiple dating habit in higher institution days. Some habits can be hard to break. In the West, most countries don't allow fathers to do DNA test on kids without the woman's consent. And sure enough most women don't consent. With cheap DNA test just years away, many dads will be in for a shock if they secretly do tests. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by SexyStrawberry(f): 10:37am On Oct 21, 2015 |
I like this post, but i really don't get the part where OP said women are more prone to cheat in a distant relationship due to pressure, Abeg that English too high for me unto say I never go school, but are the women not the more faithful ones? especially the determined ones? Men are moved by what they see while women are moved by what they hear, now in a distant relationship, the guy must have come across more good looking and sexy ladies than his GF, and one thing may lead to d Oda, and he cheats! does it not count? but it takes a lot for a determined and well mannered girl to sit down n listen to the bullcrap of another guy bearing in mind that she's got a lover out there who claims he loves her......... Meeehn! Me sef don dey confuse, I hope the scholars here can understand me n help me out. Op, long and short be say, its the guys who are prone to cheat more often, under "sight" pressure. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 21, 2015 |
This topic just hit me like lightening. It is frustrating, I must confess. My babe is based in Ibadan while I'm in Lagos. Another thing is that she's a virgin and a spirit koko. The last time she visited me in Lagos, she wouldn't even kiss me, let alone allow caressing- a thing we do regularly when we were in school. Her spirit koko level has gone up higher. I even wanted to visit her in Ibadan, but her work schedule wouldn't allow it; even on weekends, she's not chanced because she will attend church stuffs and she's this homely daddy's girl(that is one of the reasons I love her), not like normal social oriented babes. The distance na d wahala |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Koats14(m): 10:45am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Had no choice than to comment and concur on what the OP has just said..... Broke up 3days ago after spending 5months apart, she just stopped CARING and started nagging! #Distant Relationship Sucks.. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by viktor01(m): 10:46am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Sincerely speaking and from experience, I concur to all the points listed by the op. He is as correct as the word 'correct' |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 10:47am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Namzy:Correct man! Send me mail. Na kelvin.ukachukwu.nwosu@gmail.com. Cheers!!! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Charles4075(m): 10:50am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Well, some of the facts the op listed might be true but it all plays down to the determination, trust, good communication and honesty between both partners and I have a question for you Op. How many successful close relationships have you had Op |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by raphroye: 10:53am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Lol, na me and one gal be that.. she dey complain say my love for her has reduced and we live in diff state... abeg after 'have u eaten? Hw was your day and so on' wetin make I talk again o when e don reach 3 months weh I see her last. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Charles4075(m): 10:54am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Well, some of the facts the op listed might be true but it all plays down to the determination, trust, good communication and honesty between both partners and I have a question for you Op. If Long Distance Relationships don't work out, Please tell me how many successful face to face relationships you've had Op
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Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by mikedimeji(m): 10:57am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Seriously speaking I appreciate this write up, it really capture everything about distance relationship, not taking side while giving room for the exceptional case if given a proper interpretation. |
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