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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:51pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Yes, it is. The only part I understand is that he is dead and he is never coming back and life has to move on and the marriage wasn't that great and people have the different ways of grieving and her escapades do not mean that she never loved him and I like to think with my brain not my heart.

You just "like the idea" that you think with your brain. I have read your comments You are empathic cos of her gender or you probably have the same personality as her,you will still have this same opinion if she started shagging other men after a month.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by teemy(m): 2:53pm On Oct 30, 2015

@iwaeda you can get mum to remarry if she needs the sex. while rebelling people go for what most they were limited from once the limiter is away and in this case a bad marriage = little or no sex. she listens to her party friend, start from there.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:55pm On Oct 30, 2015

Gaidenk:

You just "like the idea" that you think with your heart. I have read your comments You are emphatic cos of her gender or you probably have the same personality as her,you will still have this same opinion if she started shagging other men after a month.

If it were the father, I will have the same position. Oh! I love that I think with my brain. It makes things easy and simple howeber I will also remind you when i don't cheesy

You judge women based on norms and what you think a woman should be however with men you are always ready to think with your ass.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Saao(m): 2:55pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Did I say something is wrong with it? It creates as much problems as using your wife as next of kin

The court will not assume anything. The court will allow the mother to live in the home till she is dead, do you know the law more than I do?

I think u don't. Because now u go specific, when my mum live in my house which my father will to me, I indirectly or directly taking care of her end of story. Focus on ur discussion in thread. Thanks

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Mjshexy(f): 2:55pm On Oct 30, 2015

Hmm..mummy needs to be seriously and thoroughly spoken to, if she continues that way, your dad's family members may start assuming she killed their son that's if she didn't even do it..Shikena

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by FuckYou: 2:56pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Same to you

smh for your children.. But incase u are advice anybody or happens to u. A beg pity those kids. And do it somewhere else... I will kick that man out with hammer and chisel #myfathershouse

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:56pm On Oct 30, 2015

Saao:
oh I can see, is anything wrong with a man using his children as next of kin? Infact will settle it. Maybe u seems to support the lady with emotion just because she is a woman. But I need to remind u that, a man can use his children as next of kin and further will everything to his children. The law support it in entirety as the court will assume that the children will be the one to takecare of their mother.

Next of kin does not mean that you have a legal right to inherit the properties or use them the way you like cheesy

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by itsene: 2:56pm On Oct 30, 2015

Till death do us part!
The marriage to your dad was over on death my friend however mother's behavior so soon after dad's death makes you wonder.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:57pm On Oct 30, 2015

FuckYou:
smh for or children.. But incase u at advice anybody or happens to u. A beg pity those kids. And do it somewhere else... I will kick that man out with hammer and chisel #myfathershouse

Your father is dead so technically it belongs to your mum now. It is her home before it is yours. The court do consider 18 to be the legal age. That means she can send you out of her home to love someone else.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 2:57pm On Oct 30, 2015

sukkot:
since its a free world and its your daughters life you will not mind if she tells you she wants to be a paid prostitute for profession ? i mean it is her life right ? dont be a hypocrite now. its her life. she is free to do whatever she wants. its her toto. the feelings of her papa and mama who raised her is inconsequential. she is born free.

I can only advice and inform her of the repercussions of her actions. The ball is now in her court. Her private part is her private part not mine so I can't dictate to her what she decides to do with it however whether she chooses to listen to me or not is definitely up to her

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:58pm On Oct 30, 2015

Saao:
I think u don't. Because now u go specific, when my mum live in my house which my father will to me, I indirectly or directly taking care of her end of story. Focus on ur discussion in thread. Thanks

Are you a lawyer? If you are not, you should refrain from speaking about it?

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Saao(m): 2:58pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Next kf kin does not mean that you have a legal right to inherit the properties or use them the way you like

hmm, my sister enough, focus on the threat cuz u don't know it. Its my job ok. Thank u

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:58pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

If it were the father, I will have the same position. Oh! I love that I think with my brain. It makes things easy and simple howeber I will also remind you when i don't

You judge women based on norms and what you think a woman should be however with men you are always ready to think with your ass.

Lol you see,I feel the emotional outburst? ,that's the heart thinking. I understand but let's face it,in situations pertaining to love,relationships.. Telemundo.. Women are usually "heart thinking",you are wired that way,deny all you want ,its allowed.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:59pm On Oct 30, 2015

sukkot:
so the childrens feelings dont matter ? the only thing that matters is the feelings of your toto ?

Let's see....the children are sad that their father is dead. Ermmm....that is the only feeling I can see oo. Any other type of feeling is misdirected and unwarranted.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Handsomebeing(m): 2:59pm On Oct 30, 2015

I'm sorry but your mom is a bad woman. Won't say she killed your dad but she's very comfortable with his death. SAD.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by coogar: 3:00pm On Oct 30, 2015

SAMBARRY:
and what's her buisness with what people say and don't say? Is she committing any crime that the court will prosecute her for.

so adultery is morally correct?

This men WILLINGLY walked into her home. She didn't invade their houses to FORCEFULLY DRAG THEM TO HER HOUSE TO SLEEP WITH HER.theyrr adults with a functional brain who know what they're doing

just because you are an adult does not always mean you would make the right decisions every time . stop assuming that all adults have a functional brain.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:01pm On Oct 30, 2015

Gaidenk:

Lol you see,I feel the emotions,that's the heart thinking. I understand but let's face it,in situations pertaining to love,relationships.. Telemundo.. Women are usually "heart thinking",you are wired that way,deny all you want its allowed.

Oh! Women are wired to think with their hearts yet we have men on this forum claiming that she shouldn't be bringing any man home whatsoever. I don't know what that is if it is not thinking with your ass (not even with your heart). Who knew men can be so sentimental? SMH

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:02pm On Oct 30, 2015

Gaidenk:

Lol you see,I feel the emotions,that's the heart thinking. I understand but let's face it,in situations pertaining to love,relationships.. Telemundo.. Women are usually "heart thinking",you are wired that way,deny all you want its allowed.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by sukkot: 3:02pm On Oct 30, 2015

SAMBARRY:
I can only advice and inform her of the repercussions of her actions. The ball is now in her court. Her private part is her private part not mine so I can't dictate to her what she decides to do with it however whether she chooses to listen to me or not is definitely up to her

Well thats how you have to live your life all across the board. dont pick and choose what aspect you want to be ' we are born free to do whatever we want '. if your daughter decides she wants to be a porn star you just have to go with it cuz its her life. well thats your cross that you have to carry bro. its a heavy cross to carry and i hope you have a strong back cuz complete freedom and hedonism has been the downfall of many.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by FuckYou: 3:03pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Your father is dead so technically it belongs to your mum now. It is her home before it is yours. The court do consider 18 to be the legal age. That means she can send you out of her home to love someone else.

not after I chase him out wen am around d rest go learn fast undecided

.so u don't even care about d kids feeling,let's assume u are strong to handle urs. embarassed

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:03pm On Oct 30, 2015

Saao:
hmm, my sister enough, focus on the threat cuz u don't know it. Its my job ok. Thank u

There is no way on earth you are a lawyer undecided

It sounds condescending but it is the truth.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by sukkot: 3:05pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Let's see....the children are sad that their father is dead. Ermmm....that is the only feeling I can see oo. Any other type of feeling is misdirected and unwarranted.

so the guy who made the post who is traumatized and devastated that his mum is bringing a man into his dead dads bed >> that is misdirected and unwarranted feelings ?

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:05pm On Oct 30, 2015

FuckYou:
not after I chase him out wen am around d rest go learn fast .so u don't even care about d kids feeling,let's assume u are strong to handle urs.

What feelings?

Who knows I might be grieve till I die, I might move on a month after or six months or a year or five years or ten years. Who knows? undecided

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Dbrainiac1(m): 3:06pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

Op, have u ever read a book titled "Out of His Mind"?...I think there's an analogy with this post

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by FuckYou: 3:06pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

What feelings?

Who knows I might be grieve till I die, I might move on a month after or six months or a year or five years or ten years. Who knows?

I say children. They can't b happy t o such

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:07pm On Oct 30, 2015

sukkot:
so the guy who made the post who is traumatized and devastated that his mum is bringing a man into his dead dads bed >> that is misdirected and unwarranted feelings ?

Yup!

The reason for his sadness is his dad's death not his mum readingness to move on. In fact he should be happy that she has moved on so quick.

Men are supposed to be the non-emotional ones now undecided

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:08pm On Oct 30, 2015

FuckYou:
I say children. They can't b happy t o such

Well, they are selfish. Would you they prefer their mum grieve to death for someone that is never coming back.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by sukkot: 3:09pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Yup!

The reason for his sadness is his dad's death not his mum readingness to move on. In fact he should be happy that she has moved on so quick.

Men are supposed to be the non-emotional ones now

so a man will end up marrying someone like you ? lmao. i pity the man. grin

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 3:09pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

Oh! Women are wired to think with their hearts yet we have men on this forum claiming that she shouldn't be bringing any man home whatsoever. I don't know what that is if it is not thinking with your ass (not even with your heart). Who k ew men can be so sentimental?/SMH

Yes she shouldn't be shagging on her late husband bed with grown kids in the house,in this case she is a bad and foolish "heart thinking" woman,and if you say it sentiment ok na,I sense feminism in you so I fit gettit. Uphold una movement.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Ahyourity(m): 3:13pm On Oct 30, 2015

it is a pitiable disma pisma grin

but,body no be firewood..
go and give your mom a reorientation wink

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Saao(m): 3:14pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

There is no way on earth you are a lawyer

It sounds condescending but it is the truth.

we must not fight before u give up, so do have a blissful weekend ma'am. Bye

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by NickiRoman: 3:15pm On Oct 30, 2015

[quote author=DukeNija post=39517104][/quote]how do you know that?DukeNija and i never typed that undecided

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