HonPatrick:
Like what the Bleep is wrong with some ladies?


Okay, she's my official girlfriend and her birthday was yesterday, so I took her to a Boutique to get her some things she requested.
I told her I have just 30k to spend, cos I know she can buy things worth 80k if you're not careful.
At the end of the whole *Bae, am I beautiful?*parade the sales attendant calculated the total sum to be #29,500.

When I checked my pocket, I found out that I had only 29k on me. I forgot we bought fuel on our way.
So, I told my girlfriend to borrow me 1k...and I promised to return later in the day, but she said "Babe, I swear to god, I don't have any money on me at the moment"
So, to safe the embarrassment, I went to the ATM to get more money. We paid and left.

To cut the story short. When we got home, she went to ease herself in the rest room, while I was in the living room.
Then her phone began to ring so, I opened her bag to get the phone, but I was shocked by what I saw.
I saw 1thousand naira notes inside her bag. Na so I vex comot all the money put am for my pocket. Later, she come dey ask if I took any money from her bag and I replied "I thought you don't have any money on you"

I returned the money though, but I've been angry since yesterday.


If you were in my shoes, will you continue with this kind of relationship or not?

No responsible wife material or good lady will spend your money to ground zero when doing shopping. the fact that she lied that she didn't have money on her can be forgiven but when you told her you had 30k on you and she attempt to spend the whole money shopping for herself is unforgivable.



You can keep her as a sex partner if you wish but never ever try to marry her as your wife . She's in you for the money and never in love with you. dump her ass bro.

Marry her and watch how her money will be hers alone whilst you slave away to keep the family afloat

hahahah no way man.

She is your OFFICIAL girlfriend but are you are OFFICIAL boyfriend?

Already dating and she can't spare her purse for you what will happen when you're broke?

Give her a simple test: look unkempt for a particular weekend and on the Sunday ask her for 5k telling her you'll pay on Tuesday and watch what will happen

in a nut shell bros abeg park d bus and waka-away.
its over.

@ midehi2 ..u hav d mindset of a cheat..na ur kind der password dey long pass river niger..@ OP she is not stingy but a fool..for god's sake its her gifts not urs..even if u no want pay ha back ..its like gettin sometin of 29k for 1k..my advise is dat u cleanly dump her becoz nawadays killing pple is more easy dan toasting a babe..tnks

As much as her action is suspicious & reprehensible & disappointing, i assert that it is not enough reason to dump her, IF YOU LOVE HER. Except the don't.

Talk to her about it. Express your disappoint & observe her reaction & degree of remorse. You can pick up from there.

midehi2:

i know...next time, tell her 'you had a call'

Hmmmmmm.Guy you did nothing wrong.

@op, sorry to say this, the lady in question seem like the materialistic and i-want-i-want-it-right-now type. I'm sure have noticed some selfish attitude prior to this incident


Reason: She couldnt save you the embarrassment of #500 when she had multiple #1000 notes What if there were no options available @ the time
Question1: What if you had no ATM
Question2: shey you go rob to get the #500

Advice: Never let your emotional weakness overshadow the obvious

Question for you: Would you have done the same to her

If no, then there is a problem

cekhoe:

Hi

HonPatrick:
Like what the Bleep is wrong with some ladies?


Okay, she's my official girlfriend and her birthday was yesterday, so I took her to a Boutique to get her some things she requested.
I told her I have just 30k to spend, cos I know she can buy things worth 80k if you're not careful.
At the end of the whole *Bae, am I beautiful?*parade the sales attendant calculated the total sum to be #29,500.

When I checked my pocket, I found out that I had only 29k on me. I forgot we bought fuel on our way.
So, I told my girlfriend to borrow me 1k...and I promised to return later in the day, but she said "Babe, I swear to god, I don't have any money on me at the moment"
So, to safe the embarrassment, I went to the ATM to get more money. We paid and left.

To cut the story short. When we got home, she went to ease herself in the rest room, while I was in the living room.
Then her phone began to ring so, I opened her bag to get the phone, but I was shocked by what I saw.
I saw 1thousand naira notes inside her bag. Na so I vex comot all the money put am for my pocket. Later, she come dey ask if I took any money from her bag and I replied "I thought you don't have any money on you"

I returned the money though, but I've been angry since yesterday.


If you were in my shoes, will you continue with this kind of relationship or not?

Just forget that eediot, she is not supportive n she wl neva b

She will never be there for you.She gave out 29k and she could not bail out with ordinary 1k which was right inside her bag.Thats the highest level of selfishness.If you are fine with this kind of behavior you can continue,you haven't seen anything yet.The foundation of true love is rooted in giving.Dont be surprised to discover she has a boyfriend aside from you.She cares less about you.

midehi2:
she is a stingy girl, if it was me i will happily bring the balance out cos i know he will give me back double....but despite that, you were wrong going into her bag, na ur handbag?



dont dump yet, watch out for more lies, then you have concrete stand to dump her to where she belongs

The ways ladies think sef, na only God understand.

stonecoldcafe:


Pls search yourself. Perhaps she has borrowed you money like that before but you never repay her back. She may have decided not to give you again cos u have proven to be unreliable and she does not want to quarrel with you no more.

If that is not the case then I'll be weary of such girl. She prove she does not have your back, cannot support you or cover your shame (where such times call for it) I would dump such a woman perhaps not now but on the long run. She simply cannot be relied on and I can't deal!

What do you think/reason with what amount could he borrow and never return that can be greater than what he spends on her

You will soon hear talk to her--one on one talk bull shit.She is what she is. Dont expect any change.She could not even drop part of what you guys bought to reduce the bill.She made you jump out to ATM to go and withdraw more money just to satisfy her selfish lot.I know you know your result already.

The bottom line is that she does not love you one bit. So it's up to you. A normal guy will not seek for anyone's opinion before dumping her.
I know Your type anyway. Your type do the spending while she ends up in another guy's arms.

midehi2:

i know...next time, tell her 'you had a call'

Just shut up ur mouth if u dnt v any gud contribution to make.

That is what happens when men like OP Fall mugu to runsgirl aka prostitute. She know say you go ask for sex na why she dey save the small one she hold! No b only official girlfriend na corporate lover. Gbagbe jare!

hmm, o boy u just carry 30k go spend for woman head? how much have u given to ur mother or siblings since u were born? I think the devil is having a vigil on your head.

God has been so good to you.... For God to have shown you this before anything formal happens, He deserves your Thanksgiving. "Abor oroo lansor fomoluabi, toba de inu e, adi odidi....

Lol.

jmichlins:
Let those gifts be your parting gift to her. first you told her you have 30k to spend and she made sure you spent all. a good woman will spend and make sure she leaves you with good balance knowing that the economy is not looking good. secondly she could not help you out even when she made sure zeroed your budget meaning that evening if your in help, no call her cause if she can not help you offset her bills, do not expect her to help you settle yours. and worst of all she is a liar. am no saint but i am sure to do better

You are smart bro. Some salient points you exposed.

HonPatrick:
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I will continue if she has other things i want in my a lady.
But i will warn her to desist from being stingy, and teach how it will end the relationship some day if not curbed.

Melahou:


I think you are not only dumb but also silly to comprehend...and who is talking about phone here.
Go and take your pills

Whatever...it only shows hu U are

Cutehector:
First of all, why would I spend 29k on a babe's head just in one day?

U r a broke ass!

what is 29k?

WTH? She couldn't lend you just 1k?

midehi2:
she is a stingy girl, if it was me i will happily bring the balance out cos i know he will give me back double....but despite that, you were wrong going into her bag, na ur handbag?



dont dump yet, watch out for more lies, then you have concrete stand to dump her to where she belongs

"NA UR HANDBAG" SEE UR LIE LIE MOUTH. U GALS ARE ALL THE SAME. LIARS AND PRETENDERS. OP, GIVE HER RED CARD. SHE HAS BEEN LAUGHING AT UR STUPIDITY RECENTLY.

Na dumping things........ That girl is wicked

pattybf:


U r a broke ass!

what is 29k?

I reserve my comment

This one can't help ur career ooo. There is nothing u can do to someone who is stingy. Since u are not married it better u let her go. if u set her up with a business she will continue to tell u no money even when she has millions in the bank. Stingy people don't always think that they will die one day. Vanity upon vanity.

sakabe:
my candid advice, dump her for good, she can't be trusted... what am I saying sef ? ladies generally can't be trusted!

but op, I want you to dump her in a romantic way, call her over one day... have a hot s** with her, the kind dat she won't forget, as soon as you don cum, tell her ur mind.. kiss her on the forehead then stand up...


my opinion tho!

This is what happens when you watch too much American film.

It's not enough reason to dumb her, except if she has been unfaithful in other area apart from money,
she might just be stingy and be good in other aspect.
Talk to her and make her realize the implication of her action.
But search your heart to know you really want to live with her forever.

ammyluv2002:
Her hand na superglue


Don't dump her but make sure that will be her last shopping all through the relationship

OP DNT LISTEN TO HER. STRAIGHT RED OP. BY THE TIME U PARDON HER, SHE WIL START PETTING U, CALLING U AL SORT OF SEXY NAMES EVEN WEN URE NT SEXY JUST 4U TO TAKE HER OUT 4 SHOPPING. THIS TIME WIL BE AROUND 70K AND U AV ONLY 40K AND WITHOUT ATM. ABI U WAN ASK HER 2 BORROW U 30K? I JUST DEY LAUGH U.