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I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 10:40am On Feb 27, 2016
Please how do I handle this situation??
I am in a fixed,and I need your help..
I have an old family friend,we have come a very long way,she's almost my dad's age,though my dad is late now.

This woman has been disturbing me for a long period of two years now,but I couldn't fall for her flashy gifts and her so called love.

I confided in my close friend,he said I should have sex with the woman,but by the grace of God I'm a disciplined person,and I refused...

A year ago before my father died,he always advice me that no matter how bad I become,I should never sleep with a married woman,and I know that's one thing I need to avoid in order to make my late dad happy wherever he is.

Right now I'm in my final year in University of calabar,things has not been easy with me and my siblings,since my dad died,I have been the bread winner of the family because my mom suffered from stroke after my dad passed on..

I need some amount of money to round up in school with my project,I have looked for money everywhere,but it seems God has turned his face on me and my family.

This woman who is my last hope,has promised to give me the money and even more if only I reciprocate her advances,and my friend is insisting I do it.

But I'm so confused now,do I sleep with a married woman in order to get money,or listen to my fathers dead wishes and my self discipline..?? Please what do I do??My life,family,education is at stake,I really need help and God's intervention.

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Chazzyboy: 10:42am On Feb 27, 2016
Listen to the voice of God not ur friends

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Nobody: 10:45am On Feb 27, 2016
Don't do it cos it will be difficult to stop

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Edwinmason(m): 10:46am On Feb 27, 2016
sleeping with a married woman...the implications and curses is too much

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by trybe(m): 10:53am On Feb 27, 2016
Pls. Don't u ever try to give in to the devils demand . Who knows maybe something better is around the corner waiting 4 u to scale 2ru

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 10:54am On Feb 27, 2016
Edwinmason:
sleeping with a married woman...the implications and curses is too much
But she is my last hope..I don't have anyway of getting income

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Nobody: 10:57am On Feb 27, 2016
God aint deaf hes just testing ur faith as a christain....dont do it and sure God will give you a way out

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 10:57am On Feb 27, 2016
trybe:
Pls. Don't u ever try to give in to the devils demand . Who knows maybe something better is around the corner waiting 4 u to scale 2ru
Hmm... submission of my project is a month's time,This is heart breaking
Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by swaggzo(m): 11:22am On Feb 27, 2016
WHAT IF THE MODS ASKS FOR SEXx TO MOVE THIS TO FP, WOULD YOU MAKE ANOTHER THREAD TO COMPLAIN ABOUT IT? ?

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 11:32am On Feb 27, 2016
swaggzo:
WHAT IF THE MODS ASKS FOR SEXx TO MOVE THIS TO FP, WOULD YOU MAKE ANOTHER THREAD TO COMPLAIN ABOUT IT? ?
Boss please stop asking such questions,I'm already in pains,I just need to be heard..

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Saladin25(m): 11:35am On Feb 27, 2016
Bro don't try it. Seek help from your Church or fellowship members. I knew students that once passed through such ordeal, we students had to contribute for them.

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 11:59am On Feb 27, 2016
Saladin25:
Bro don't try it. Seek help from your Church or fellowship members. I knew students that once passed through such ordeal, we students had to contribute for them.
Already tried that,but everyone is complaining of money...

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Nobody: 12:26pm On Feb 27, 2016
If yur church cant help u, after explaining to your pastor? Then its just too bad to have a deaf pastor, thats if indeed u truly explained to him.

Try and do some menial jobs to help u through school... Others have done it, so its not a new thing to do... Place pride aside and look out for small jobs that will fetch money.. When God sees yur hard labour , He will bring a good.samaritan your way to ease your struggles
..its well .

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 12:31pm On Feb 27, 2016
Amelian:
If yur church cant help u, after explaining to your pastor? Then its just too bad to have a deaf pastor, thats if indeed u truly explained to him.

Try and do some menial jobs to help u through school... Others have done it, so its not a new thing to do... Place pride aside and look out for small jobs that will fetch money.. When God sees yur hard labour , He will bring a good.samaritan your way to ease your struggles
..its well .
hehe...I do many jobs o,but were talking about 230k,I just need little more help

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 12:44pm On Feb 27, 2016
One of the places i work.7k every month..

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Edwinmason(m): 1:08pm On Feb 27, 2016
Dohmeenick:
But she is my last hope..I don't have anyway of getting income
then choose between temporarily challenge or eternal life curse...........and beside why dont u ask ur GOD

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 1:11pm On Feb 27, 2016
Edwinmason:
then choose between temporarily challenge or eternal life curse...........and beside why dont u ask ur GOD
Its not as easy as you think.its hard
Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Nobody: 1:15pm On Feb 27, 2016
I wonder oo. Ask God about it... My God has never failed me sha , when it comes to money.. It might take a little while but one way or the other i will get it.. And i dont need to sell my body for it.. The married woman u said wants to help u, do u think after having sex with u she will dole out so much money? Shes just making mouth .. After collecting the good fortune God has bestowed upon u, she will measly change , saying shes expecting one of her buisness deals to pay in next week, just be patient.. One week more i will credit yur account...
All na lies... One week, she stops answering yur calls and who wil u tell that u slept with another man's wife?
Think , use yur brains and pray to God for a way out..

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Nobody: 1:17pm On Feb 27, 2016
Dohmeenick:
Its not as easy as you think.its hard


Its hard to ask God and place yur burdens on his feet shocked
I wonder what type of christian u are?

Even me wey no regular for church, God answers my calls ... How.much more u?

Smmhhhh... U r not serious..
Lemme leave this thread.. No time to waste this weekend

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Edwinmason(m): 2:38pm On Feb 27, 2016
Dohmeenick:
Its not as easy as you think.its hard
i knw...hav being in a similar situation before.......GOD grace and my vision of my future help me

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Kondomatic(m): 2:51pm On Feb 27, 2016
Amelian:
If yur church cant help u, after explaining to your pastor? Then its just too bad to have a deaf pastor, thats if indeed u truly explained to him.

Try and do some menial jobs to help u through school... Others have done it, so its not a new thing to do... Place pride aside and look out for small jobs that will fetch money.. When God sees yur hard labour , He will bring a good.samaritan your way to ease your struggles
..its well .
Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Dohmeenick(m): 5:16pm On Feb 27, 2016
Amelian:



Its hard to ask God and place yur burdens on his feet shocked
I wonder what type of christian u are?

Even me wey no regular for church, God answers my calls ... How.much more u?

Smmhhhh... U r not serious..
Lemme leave this thread.. No time to waste this weekend
I didn't say its too hard to pray to God....God4bid that

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by CertifiedFreak(m): 7:05pm On Feb 27, 2016
Dude, do the deed. Your dad may his soul R.I.P would definitely turn in his grave if you passed up the opportunity of completing ur education because of a dying wish. In the meantime, be a man and man up to your task. Your family's counting on you.

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Feb 27, 2016
folo ur hrt...u knw wats b£st for u...

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by kodedbis(f): 8:34pm On Feb 27, 2016
Nairalanders surprises me for the first time, everybody that hv commented on the thread hv said it all but it seems the op as made up his mind he just needed little encouragement from nairander which his not getting, @op, u can follow ur mind

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by rihzon(m): 8:55pm On Feb 27, 2016
talk to people in ur church and stop giving excuses. there are people around u who can help. naijas are good people.

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Motherfucker2: 11:27pm On Feb 27, 2016
You have been having sex for more than 20 years without being paid or getting gifts from women, You have been giving out free sex.

Why not have the same sex but this time you will be getting paid.
Opportunity comes only once.

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Funjosh(m): 11:27pm On Feb 27, 2016
Please don't do it, their is something your dad saw before he died which you are not seeing. Just hold on, help is on the way smiley



Nairalanders somebody seriously needs your help, check my signature for more details

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by Miracle4Sure: 11:28pm On Feb 27, 2016
DON'T DO IT......

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Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by joliyp(f): 11:29pm On Feb 27, 2016
bible say flee it means your favour is about come

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