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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 5:50pm On Mar 07, 2016
evegran:
OP well said. smiley
Spotted! another wh@re has been spotted.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 5:51pm On Mar 07, 2016
Same old story, Op said male undergraduates shouldn't be in a relationship because they can't finance it,so wrong. Using my sister as an example in her 200 level in UNEC she had a boyfriend, haa the Op talked about the guy living on #5000 and soaking garri, my sister's boyfriend fits that scenario. It still didn't make my sister to leave him, there are times she's going back to school and she will package beans, rice, garri, yam and palm oil which she will give the guy.Mind u she wasn't sneaking it out of the house my mum was aware of it. Fast forward this 2016 on 29th March she will be getting married to her university boyfriend, The guy was in the same class as her ( ACCOUNTACY). We still don't treat him bad because of his background. The same guy is presently working in Dubai, his relationship with my sister still didn't disturb his studies as portrayed by the Op in her post.
I also know of a guy that's a bookworm, he graduated from UNN in 2010, he still kept a girlfriend and that didn't deter him from been the best graduating student from Electronics department and overall best graduating in UNN that year. There are still people who are not in relationship that are not passing well in school,someone also said guys should focus on their books since is what they came for. Whether you choose to have a girlfriend or not, it doesn't justify the grades u will graduate with.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nyceguy92: 5:51pm On Mar 07, 2016
[quote author=Jadekitana post=43552004]

Nothing could be more true. I totally agree with you.
Relationship, NOT friendship, in the real sense of it is not for a dependent student.

Often, the flow of pecuniary benefits is from guy to girl.
A student whose parents struggle to pay his school fees has no business being in a "relationship", not at least until final year.

Knowing how my school fees came about and the need to make the best if it, I dared not indulge in the extravagance of nights out and times in choice restaurants with babes. Those came after school.

Some readers may now call for my head.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 5:51pm On Mar 07, 2016
HardMirror:

At least this thread help in identifying the runs girls we have here. Now I can use my other account I use for business on nairaland to send pm to them. They will reply immediately after seeing the business I do. Many of them will end up being used for blood money with this their mentality
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by vickvilles(m): 5:52pm On Mar 07, 2016
relationship has nothing to do with success while in school. In Nigeria 2day, relationship comes with responsibility. do it if u av d resources to meet up d demands of school and ur affair. d OP has to understand that student abroad go into relationships while in school. so while not in Nigeria? den nor be guys
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by esonuu(m): 5:53pm On Mar 07, 2016
KashyBaby:



Lol u wanna "cum" u say? grin are u mad?

My parents live in the Philippines..
dirty mind..come i meant...ehm,philippines? Dats great cos i also live there,so hw do we proceed?
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by HardMirror(m): 5:54pm On Mar 07, 2016
osedvgirl:

go and read your books to have good grades, leave little girls alone; and stop disgracing your olosho sisters here
Disgracing my sisters? You mean you and the op?
Ehya, I did not mean to spoil business for you my sisters. My dear olosho sister, e ma binu cheesy
I am not a student anyway. I only use this moniker to catch fun. Seems you would be lot of fun. Love slime girls. I'm based in Lagos, hope we can have a little fun together

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by HardMirror(m): 5:55pm On Mar 07, 2016
osedvgirl:

go and read your books to have good grades, leave little girls alone; and stop disgracing your olosho sisters here
Disgracing my sisters? You mean you and the op?
Ehya, I did not mean to spoil business for you my sisters. My dear olosho sister, e ma binu cheesy
I am not a student anyway. I only use this moniker to catch fun. Seems you would be lot of fun. Love slime girls. I'm based in Lagos, hope we can have a little fun together. Let me help u and ur family in my own little way

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 5:56pm On Mar 07, 2016
esonuu:
dirty mind..come i meant...ehm,philippines? Dats great cos i also live there,so hw do we proceed?


Lol..u live there? Where? there is no street called "Philippines" in ur area.. grin nawa for u ooo...
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by samross(m): 5:57pm On Mar 07, 2016
love is built on sacrifice not money,girls be digging gold since the days of Adam and Eve
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Agu87(m): 5:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.
so true love now depends on material status....i agree with u tho but I think ur write up is more subjective than objective....are u a feminist

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 5:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
kinginvalhala4:

Spotted! another wh@re has been spotted.

Had to check your profile.
A faceless NONENTITY Who registered this month. Let me guess too UGLY for the world to see? So you remain faceless and attack girls like me. Girls you can only dream of but will never touch. smiley.
Aww.
It's a sad situation we have here. smiley


Ps: if I'm not a LovePeddler and I have never sold my body before, may all the females in your family be useless forever. Especially your unborn kids. Since its easy to call other people's children such names, now your seeds will function as such.
Amen! smiley

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Oche211(m): 6:00pm On Mar 07, 2016
vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm undecided

100% wit u man...
This thread is pure nonsense

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by HardMirror(m): 6:01pm On Mar 07, 2016
kinginvalhala4:

Spotted! another wh@re has been spotted.
This evegran try small. She sabi marketing. See as she flaunt her goods well for prospective customers.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Emekus999(m): 6:01pm On Mar 07, 2016
Those that run afta sugar daddies,are dose once that stay's lng befr mariage leta dey'll b very serious goin to church for a Mr right..forgettin dat their supos husband has bein sein dem runnin afta material tins

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Agu87(m): 6:02pm On Mar 07, 2016
vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm undecided

bro abeg collect one bottle of orijin for my head...u nailed...African mentality killing us since 24AD

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 07, 2016
HardMirror:

This evegran try small. She sabi marketing. See as she flaunt her goods well for prospective customers.
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Agu87(m): 6:05pm On Mar 07, 2016
vizkiz:


please can you show me the part where I typed "a lady should spend cash on me"

I only typed about a man not being the only one responsible for all the bills. Sighs... You have a low IQ

fatality.....finish her...kitana u r soo dead....Lolz

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 07, 2016
HardMirror:

This evegran try small. She sabi marketing. See as she flaunt her goods well for prospective customers.

Same curse goes to you.

If I've never sold my body before, may all the females in your family be useless forever and may all your unborn kids bring you nothing but pain and sorrows. Amen! smiley

I will not reply you again. You're just another pathetic Nigerian loser, once a pretty girl like me rejects you. You start calling her names.

Grow up! Actually don't! Remain retarded forever and keep showing the world how rejected you are. smiley

*catwalks away*

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by temmydee181(m): 6:07pm On Mar 07, 2016
[quote author=Doxie69 post=43563715]Same old story, Op said male undergraduates shouldn't be in a relationship because they can't finance it,so wrong. Using my sister as an example in her 200 level in UNEC she had a boyfriend, haa the Op talked about the guy living on #5000 and soaking garri, my sister's boyfriend fits that scenario. It still didn't make my sister to leave him, there are times she's going back to school and she will package beans, rice, garri, yam and palm oil which she will give the guy.Mind u she wasn't sneaking it out of the house my mum was aware of it. Fast forward this 2016 on 29th March she will be getting married to her university boyfriend, The guy was in the same class as her ( ACCOUNTACY). We still don't treat him bad because of his background. The same guy is presently working in Dubai, his relationship with my sister still didn't disturb his studies as portrayed by the Op in her post.
I also know of a guy that's a bookworm, he graduated from UNN in 2010, he still kept a girlfriend and that didn't deter him from been the best graduating student from Electronics department and overall best graduating in UNN that year. There are still people who are not in relationship that are not passing well in school,someone also said guys should focus on their books since is what they came for. Whether you choose to have a girlfriend or not, it doesn't justify the grades u will graduate with. [
Maazi Dozie.. U av spoken wel... May d qodz be wit u
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by HardMirror(m): 6:08pm On Mar 07, 2016
evegran:


Had to check your profile.
A faceless NONENTITY Who registered this month. Let me guess too UGLY for the world to see? So you remain faceless and attack girls like me. Girls you can only dream of but will never touch. smiley.
Aww.
It's a sad situation we have here. smiley


Ps: if I'm not a LovePeddler and I have never sold my body before, may all the females in your family be useless forever. Especially your unborn kids. Since its easy to call other people's children such names, now your seeds will function as such.
Amen! smiley
Hehehehehe.
And why should he put his picture?
We understand why you uploaded your picture, flaunting ur tiny bum. We know you are looking for customers. But why shld he upload his picture?

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by HardMirror(m): 6:10pm On Mar 07, 2016
evegran:


Same curse goes to you.

If I've never sold my body before, may all the females in your family be useless forever and may all your unborn kids bring you nothing but pain and sorrows. Amen! smiley

I will not reply you again. You're just another pathetic Nigerian loser, once a pretty girl like me rejects you. You start calling her names.

Grow up! Actually don't! Remain retarded forever and keep showing the world how rejected you are. smiley

*catwalks away*
E pain am cheesy
Pele. Your market go sell my dear. No mind me, just catching fun

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 6:12pm On Mar 07, 2016
evegran:


Had to check your profile.
A faceless NONENTITY Who registered this month. Let me guess too UGLY for the world to see? So you remain faceless and attack girls like me. Girls you can only dream of but will never touch. smiley.
Aww.
It's a sad situation we have here. smiley


Ps: if I'm not a LovePeddler and I have never sold my body before, may all the females in your family be useless forever. Especially your unborn kids. Since its easy to call other people's children such names, now your seeds will function as such.
Amen! smiley
YAWN!

*evegran, dont cry anymore, dont shed any tears, God understand, evegran dont cry*

Me "QATARPLAYBOY/KINGinVALHALA4" Ugly? hehehehehe, i laff you babe. Create a tread and ask those that have seen my pics to tell you how i look and my personality. You would be amazed by what you would be told. Better still, ask the op how i look, she is gonna tel u bcus she has seen my pics before. Hehehe

Take Heart, Babe!

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by esonuu(m): 6:12pm On Mar 07, 2016
KashyBaby:



Lol..u live there? Where? there is no street called "Philippines" in ur area.. grin nawa for u ooo...
swt,i live at m.v de los santos street in manila,capital city of philippine,u can call the mayor for confirmation..
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by adbokus(m): 6:13pm On Mar 07, 2016
vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm undecided

bless you man...
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by oluwaemmanuel: 6:14pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.
I'v neva seen a serious relationship in school, it always ends up at d gate but their r ladies dat do not demand a dine from u, until u force dem to take.. so nt all ladies carry ur definition, well me still dey find business idea.. wu wnt to sell one to me

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Laveda(f): 6:15pm On Mar 07, 2016
vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm undecided

Orijin for you grin grin

But the way girls go about this ish these days ehn embarassed
Guys would have to start stealing for them.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by adbokus(m): 6:17pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


So you call yourself a man, and u waiting for a woman to spend on you? What the difference between you and a gigolo? I'm ashamed of this your comment.
you are not smart at all. not even a modicum of substance in your fatuous delivery...

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by H2Ossss(m): 6:17pm On Mar 07, 2016
vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm undecided


I love dis guy #nohomo

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by goldfish80(m): 6:19pm On Mar 07, 2016
Many prominient men in the world today met and started dating their spouse while in school. From the obama's to the Clintons even recently I saw the pictures of Rivers State governor with his wife back in law school. I could go on and on and give examples, even some of our parents actually met and started dating while in school.
Listen, Op I would suggest you do a little digging or fact finding before opening a thread like this. The way you presented your case is childish and myopic to be honest.
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Gerrard59(m): 6:25pm On Mar 07, 2016
Doxie69:
km someone also said guys should focus on their books since is what they came for. [/b]Whether you choose to have a girlfriend or not, it doesn't justify the grades u will graduate with[b].

That's because it worked for them, which most time for majority of people is 2/10. Being in a relationship while in school and aiming to be the very best is tedious and distracting.

Ayodele Dada said it, research has gone to show that majority of students that have high grades and come out successful don't indulge in any relationship.

At the bolded, it should justify. Distraction should be avoided at all cost. The end justify the means.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by H2Ossss(m): 6:26pm On Mar 07, 2016
osedvgirl:

most relationship while schooling is always lies, cheat, the babe must sneak out for other men to take care of her needs where the student lover fails to provide for her

her neeeds? gehs no get parents again? ... wish kain broke ass whors do we have for girls this days?

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