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Fabulocity:
I was almost congratulating you for understanding my post
But thank goodness I read to the end of your long post and I didn't. Sorry the points aren't "intellectual" enough for you. I just stated very basic that a lot of girls can relate to.
And what intellectual points do you want me to raise concerning Nigerian Men? Isn't that Laughable?

hey miss ( or Mrs) you see, I don't have a problem with you or what you wrote coz from where I'm standing it is not something that can be argued or supported on most formal levels( I chose formal coz u seem to have a problem with my choice of the word INTELLECTUAL) .
Please don't confuse intellectual for intelligent. my use of intellectual is to point out that anyone who would argue these points without emotional sentiments would not have valid points to arouse valid points and facts vis-a- vis counter points. I have not implied that you aren't intelligent. No! I won't do that. so please understand my points. I'm cool with whatever you write coz really some of those things above really really can be said about the foreign guys this post is favoring (so what's the point?)

This Op sound like a pained heartbroken gold digger

Like I said, feel free to insult and get mad
You're all exposing yourselves
But which one of the point describes You? Are you Broke? Do you stink to the high Heavens? Or a you a frustrated fůck boy Lmao!

boolieWoskie:
op, either u met the wrong guy and woefully allow ur pants down for him and he usurps ur girlhood, left u devastated and frustrated to the conclusion that all ur brothers are pigs and the likes of what u mentioned above!!!!!!

Stupedinluv:
You generalised but its true for so many. Me am tired of them already, i want a foreign/European partner.

Funny thing is that 75% of 9ja girls married to oyinbo that I know still have a 9ja bf.

Some years back, a 9ja boy died on top one 9ja girl married to oyinbo. Here in Europe.
Although marriage to the Oyinbo began in Africa.

I'm sure someone reading this story will know this case.
The worst case of domestic violence I have personally witnessed was an oyinbo husband battering our own 9ja sister.

He only stopped when we 9ja guys went to warn him seriously.

We all see things daily. Judging all from your narrow angle is rather myopic.

OP, we have heard all these before.

Don't forget that 9ja boys are among the people who marry oyinbo & other Africans the most.

9ja guys have been looking elsewhere since long time. They will hardly miss you.

Good luck with the foreign bf/hubby.

Ugly looking Op with face like that of a hyena

Diddyydiva:
Nigerian guys aren't the only ones in this world if I may remind you

How many foreign guys have you dated?

Alright
Noted sir !

Doubleagent008:
hey miss ( or Mrs) you see, I don't have a problem with you or what you wrote coz from where I'm standing it is not something that can be argued or supported on most formal levels( I chose formal coz u seem to have a problem with my choice of the word INTELLECTUAL) .
Please don't confuse intellectual for intelligent. my use of intellectual is to point out that anyone who would argue these points without emotional sentiments would not have valid points to arouse valid points and facts vis-a- vis counter points. I have not implied that you aren't intelligent. No! I won't do that. so please understand my points. I'm cool with whatever you write coz really some of those things above really really can be said about the foreign guys this post is favoring (so what's the point?)

cosby02:
You wrote all these without providing an alternative You are married to a man from a village close to yours and you are inciting our young girls against Nigeria men... Are you a woman or a sex dolly recently made in china

Dnt dis china plz
Made in Bangladesh

Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him . He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome

and u think this bad qualities are peculiar with only Nigeria men?and foreign men are devoid of them?BTW how many men have u dated that are non Nigerian?just wnt to knw how u arrived at this conclusion.

It is only lunacy that will bring this wanton show of pusillanimity

AreaFada2:
Funny thing is that 75% of 9ja girls married to oyinbo that I know still have a 9ja bf.

Some years back, 9ja boy died on top one 9ja girl married to oyinbo. Here in Europe.
Although marriage to the Oyinbo began in Africa.

I'm sure someone reading this story will know this case.
The worst case of domestic violence I have personally witnessed was an oyinbo husband battering our own 9ja sister.

He only stopped when we 9ja guys went to warn him seriously.

We all see things daily. Judging all from your narrow angle is rather myopic.

OP, we have heard all these before.

Good luck with the foreign bf/hubby.

Aha proper good luck

E pain Am!
*That's not my real face oh*

Emmytrill:
Ugly looking Op with face like that of a hyena

Fabulosity, opinions are like noses, everybody got one. But any human being that makes his opinion to be sacrosanct to everyone is simply not being smart. You are meeting the wrong type of guys because of how you comport yourself and because of your value system. Pull your thumb from your mouth and grow up my dear and stop calling everyone a devil because of one or two experience.

Estharfabian:
I could see some Pained Niggaz Ranting like Animals On heat!


If the title was "Reasons Why You shouldn't Date Nigerian Women". You'd see 'em clapping, jumping, bashing, making derogatory remarks to women..Screaming #Team foreign girls# at the top of their diseased lungs!
Brazil Mexican kwaaa? ?U wan carry zika virus ni??

Lubbish! Brazilian/Mexican Guys all the way!

Notwithstanding, Op You shouldn't have Generalised. it's something I frown against. Coz that would include my Junior brothers and all... and I ain't taking that!

All Hope isn't lost..We still got some good, Smoking hot, Pink-lipp'd, 6-packed, polite, Well-trained guys In 9ja!! And Ayaff proof!

Zika virus Loading

Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.

where I come from in europe, hot black men ( HOT being the operative word ) are the first pick of every women. jus sayin

Eminentsaint:
Nairaland isn't 'anti-women' it is being taken over by people or users who have the hearts and minds to cause unnecessary problems of all kinds.

My dear sir,I joined nairaland January 10 2016 after been an observant of the site for close to a year,I actually joined because I see a lot of misconstructions about women or rather girls,and trust me I have been made to believe that Nairaland is anti women,even a new moniker "stupedinluv" created a thread on that.

and all she got was a reply from the owner of the site "seun" for her to list links of thread that are anti women making FP,threads that are very obvious even to a stranger like me a year ago, and monikers with (m) attached to it throwing jabs and insults at the op.

if the media cannot respect the female gender I wonder how they want to influence the ready backlash females face from their male counterparts outside the media instead they help compound the problem at hand

Maxi112:
some body should call this op to order,

Am not just in a good mood this morning

Take 2 shots of acid. u wil feel better

Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.

In what country? ??

Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him . He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome

1. You must be a lesbian. 2. you must be 40 of age or above and still single. Now you are advising the "sweet sixteen" to loose their chances and end up like you abi? So who do you want them to date? Jamaican Guys I abi.

Angelberry:
How many foreign guys have you dated?

A question I choose not to answer to you




Moreover if you wanna be a dicck ridder , try it not with me.

Fabulocity:
Alright
Noted sir !

thank you ma.

I don't see why anyone should feel offended by the OP's post. It is an obvious and intentional exaggeration of today's stereotypical Nigerian man (I personally find assuming).

My sister he don break ur heart.. wtf is diz post all about.. deal with da bullshit.
naija ladies sha

Nooooo not at all.
Guys are never pissed by ladies like u saying this cos;
We know u don't v a lover
U are a lisbian
U r okay with your dido
U live the telemundo life
No man can get attracted to u cos ur egocentric
U must be from a dirty and uncultured background.
Somuch more dear cos we aint missing people like u

SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.


The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!

You really nailed it. Please Op should stop spoiling the minds of our innocent naija babes who still appreciate the little we can offer. We're getting wiser everyday. -8

@ bolded. According to WDI or National Bureau of Statistics?
Now, let me hit you with real fact. It has been proven that interracial marriages are more successful that same race marriages and experience low level of divorce especially when it involves a black girl and a man of another race.

AreaFada2:
Funny thing is that 75% of 9ja girls married to oyinbo that I know still have a 9ja bf.

[size=28pt]and what about the women?


show N 5000 and they ready to suck you till last drop or am I lying my bros? [/size]

2,3 and 7 are true...

fireforfire:
Take 2 shots of acid. u wil feel better

a terrorist spoted

Op so wats the solution? Who shld they date?