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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Lemonade01(m): 1:27pm On Mar 11, 2016
We cant even accomodate ourselves, and we will be busy wailing about white people being racist, Catastrophy!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by AreaFada2: 1:28pm On Mar 11, 2016
erico2k2:

Aha proper good luck

Abi o.

She even talked of cheating.

Several Durex research have shown that modern 9ja women are the most unfaithful in the world.

I first doubted but began to observe. An average 9ja girl has more bfs now than an average 9ja boy has gfs.

Reason is simple: materialism. IPhones, tablets, expensive Peruvian hair, Gucci bags, etc.

He who comes to equity must come with clean hands.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by banmee(m): 1:28pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
I'm waiting
This will be fun grin

You and Toks2008 should hook up. You both think alike.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by thywobab(m): 1:28pm On Mar 11, 2016
Op if you are married to or you eventually married a nigerian,you f'd up big time

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by dmexy33: 1:28pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him undecided. He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt angry Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

cool A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. smiley no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome smiley

I don't agree with the one concerning job and social media. that one is not always true. I have 3 jobs and I still manage to spend like 1-3 hours on social media daily.

and the part about being broke, YES many are broke but there are also many who are rich but misuse their money.
I personally need a woman to help me coordinate and motivate, and general help.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by cyprus000: 1:29pm On Mar 11, 2016
SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.



The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!
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Confirm!!!

You're the realest niggah with correct mentality I've come across on this fora. Infact, you're a true son of the soil making us proud

Thanks for saving me the stress of addressing shameless lowlife gold diggers.


Any bittch that calls a niggah broke, has no use except fvcking her right left front back and centre for fun, cos she's a financial soul-draining,life-sucking,vapid-emitting,_cunt-sharing cuntrage.

*spit*
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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:29pm On Mar 11, 2016
Diddyydiva:
A question I choose not to answer to you undecided

Moreover if you wanna be a dicck ridder , try it not with me. angry
No need being rude, answer the simple question with yes or no. After typing and forming team foreign guys you still get layd by a Nigerian student. take a chill pill miss and stop being rude. I can never be a dick rider cos we are not in same class

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by omoharry(f): 1:31pm On Mar 11, 2016
Babe thank you very much..give them back thier own bitter pill to swallow..you are sooooo on point about no 4, 7 and 9..God in Heaven. i have given up hope on these guys..honestly. Their naustiness is appauling..even when they meet women that would never bother them for anything, they will still misbehave and feel they are God sent....Secondly op..remember the matured and responsible guys are not here..they are busy with work and would never spend thier quality time to bash women..most guys here are are students from secondary schoool to polytechnic/ University ..We aslo have the guys that are employed with less task to do at thier work place & Unemployed..these guys are pretty immature ,fustrated, broke, insecured and heart broken..they lack respect for women that is why they always end up getting thier fingers burnt..you cannot be nausty to a girl and except her to give you joy and affection..it can never work. you must show a lady respect, love, &affection before she can commit to give you that joy and affection you ever wish for...you cannot be a dragon and be expected to be treated as a lamb..it does not work that way?..op you do well.every day you guys keep bashing women as if you all do not have your own flaws

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by tivta(m): 1:31pm On Mar 11, 2016
Lmao, yet so many women are OK being babymamas, the op is obviously a novice in the romance game, Holla at me when you really experience life...

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by AreaFada2: 1:32pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
@ bolded. According to WDI or National Bureau of Statistics?
Now, let me hit you with real fact. It has been proven that interracial marriages are more successful that same race marriages and experience low level of divorce especially when it involves a black girl and a man of another race.

What percentage of interracial marriages involves black women compared to black men?

Still fairly low.

In research, it is considered unreliable if low numbers are involved.

Another reason is that white guys typically pick the best female specimens of black ladies. Such black ladies probably would have made decent wives to black men too. But still, most still go after a black guy secretly, be it for sex or whatever.

Oyinbo won't touch the riff raff with a barge pole. Poor black men have to endure those. grin cheesy

I'm talking from experience.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by greatbrian(m): 1:32pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him undecided. He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt angry Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

cool A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. smiley no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome smiley
What a delusional bastard u are.... u wanna start forming foreign ain't u of Nigerian origin u stupid brat thunder fire u

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by noblegrex: 1:33pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
I did not generalise. Read the disclaimer smiley
if you claim not to generalized,that means you're a dumbo wishy washy. If your husband represents all you just posted,does that signifies that 'NIGERIAN MEN' are like that.if you're yet to marry,to hell with you if you don't marry a british,spanish,turkish or anyone who's not a Nigeria man and damn you if the MAN is not as rich as having 1B even 50m in his account. Mind you. That means your mum did a good Job.if you know what I mean.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by blackprowler: 1:33pm On Mar 11, 2016
No doubt this was written by a born-and-bred Nigerian female, less than 30 years of age with their typical warped view of life. My wish for you is that you never find a Nigerian male to be your partner, ever!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by thywobab(m): 1:33pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him undecided. He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt angry Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

cool A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. smiley no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome smiley

And yet a nigerian man(ur father) raised u and this how you appreciate him.kudosss

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:34pm On Mar 11, 2016
I wonder how some backwater people will just come and make all sorts of assumptions about you like they know you. undecided
I know it's very painful when you're faced with the reality of the truth, and it's only natural for you to lash out. That's why I decided to accept insults on my person. It will make the guilty ones feel better. Go on boy, if you still feel angry, you're free to lash out some more. It will get better. smiley
Bloggz74:
Nooooo not at all.
Guys are never pissed by ladies like u saying this cos;
We know u don't v a lover
U are a lisbian
U r okay with your dido
U live the telemundo life
No man can get attracted to u cos ur egocentric
U must be from a dirty and uncultured background.
Somuch more dear cos we aint missing people like u

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:34pm On Mar 11, 2016
Angelberry:

No need being rude, answer the simple question with yes or no. After typing and forming team foreign guys you still get layd by a Nigerian student. take a chill pill miss and stop being rude. I can never be a dick rider cos we are not in same class
I have no dick that you may ride, so think twice before using the statement ' we are not in the same class'.



Moreover you should have taken your prescribed pill , gone through the thread , get to known I neither support or oppose the thread.


My comment you picked on was when I corrected someone about his comment.


So madam 'not in the same class and take a chill pill , Don't make me lose my respect for you.

Cos you have little left.


I hate dissing my kind , so just bleep off . undecided

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Eminentsaint(m): 1:36pm On Mar 11, 2016
pucelle:

My dear sir,I joined nairaland January 10 2016 after been an observant of the site for close to a year,I actually joined because I see a lot of misconstructions about women or rather girls,and trust me I have been made to believe that Nairaland is anti women,even a new moniker "stupedinluv" created a thread on that.

and all she got was a reply from the owner of the site "seun" for her to list links of thread that are anti women making FP,threads that are very obvious even to a stranger like me a year ago, and monikers with (m) attached to it throwing jabs and insults at the op.

if the media cannot respect the female gender I wonder how they want to influence the ready backlash females face from their male counterparts outside the media instead they help compound the problem at hand angry
You see Pucelle, i'm not going to repeat what i posted earlier. Nairaland may be 'anti-women' but that doesn't mean all male users are. I have a sister i adore, i have an NYSC official that took me as her own son during and after my service year, i have a friend that when i look at her, i have hope that i'll find someone like her for a wife someday. So sweetheart, not everyone here is 'anti-women.'
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by erico2k2(m): 1:36pm On Mar 11, 2016
Zelex9:
I don't see why anyone should feel offended by the OP's post. It is an obvious and intentional exaggeration of today's stereotypical Nigerian man (I personally find assuming).
From where did you get or perceive that sense of steriotyping? ??
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by ourchoice(m): 1:36pm On Mar 11, 2016
Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him undecided. He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt angry Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

cool A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. smiley no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome smiley
When a lady expect too much from men, she will only end up disappointed and heartbroken many times.

As a lady, always expect little or nothing from any man....be it Aliko Dangote, Bill Gates or Drake and you will never be heartbroken.

The reason why men don't cry much about heartbreak is not because men don't get heartbroken by women, but it's because men don't expect much from women....the highest thing majority of men expect to get from a woman is SEX....and that's why they hardly get worried or heartbroken.

But ladies expect:

1. Financial support from men - when the man don't meet this expectation, she gets disappointed

2. Emotional support from men- when she doesn't get enough of the emotional support she crave for, she cries heartbreak

3. Material support from men - when she doesn't get this to the fullest like most of her friends are getting, she feels disappointed.

etc, etc....

So dear ladies, learn to expect less from guys and you won't ever be heartbroken or disappointed by any man, even your husband!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:37pm On Mar 11, 2016
That's why i added " of today" in the topic because I knew some smart ass will tow this line of argument. My father is definitely not a nigerian man of today.
thywobab:


And yet a nigerian man(ur father) raised u and this how you appreciate him.kudosss

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by theGistsonline: 1:37pm On Mar 11, 2016
SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.


The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!
Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving
end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for
favours!

Very true! You also forgot "hoeism" (even the richest biggest Nigerian girls expect money for sex) even after you've spent over N2million in the course of getting to know one of these whorez!! The op wrote a clear perception of herself & most Nigerian women! Ranked number 1 Most promiscuous among cheating married women in the universe! Lord, please forgive Nigerian women!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:37pm On Mar 11, 2016
Diddyydiva:
I have no dick that you may ride, so think twice before using the statement ' we are not in the same class'.



Moreover you should have taken your prescribed pill , gone through the thread , get to known I neither support or oppose the thread.


My comment you picked on was when I corrected someone about his comment.


So madam 'not in the same class and take a chill pill , Don't make me lose my respect for you.

Cos you have little left.


I hate dissing my kind , so just bleep off . undecided
Oh sorry then! I was thinking you were in support when I saw the post. Lol, what will I do with respect on social media?
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:37pm On Mar 11, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
how am i going to put you in your place and stay calm when i marry u? its one hell of a job, but im up to the task.
tongue
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:37pm On Mar 11, 2016
what is the purpose of this post?? *confused

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by ewizard1: 1:38pm On Mar 11, 2016
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@smoothcruiz I see you bruv!
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by omoharry(f): 1:38pm On Mar 11, 2016
Maxi112:
some body should call this op to order,

Am not just in a good mood this morning
ooo my God grin grin grin grin grin..so ee dey pain abi?..when you guys were busy bashing on we ladies..it was like fun but we didn't find it funny and amusing.....now you guys should take some of the bitter pills that you have been giving us to swallow...honestly...95% of what the op said is true..i have dated men. these are the traite..always feeling they are God sents to who ever is dating them...even when you are independent and you dont ask them for anything.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by erico2k2(m): 1:38pm On Mar 11, 2016
blackprowler:
No doubt this was written by a born-and-bred Nigerian female, less than 30 years of age with their typical warped view of life. My wish for you is that you never find a Nigerian male to be your partner, ever!
40 plus and looking for husband.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Leriebloom(f): 1:38pm On Mar 11, 2016
Jonathan2787:
make you no shut up untill i give you cyberslap, preeq
Lolz. Na u get my mouth. mumu. Arrogant thing.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by ourchoice(m): 1:40pm On Mar 11, 2016
theGistsonline:
Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving
end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

Very true! You also forgot "hoeism" (even the richest biggest Nigerian girls expect money for sex) even after you've spent over N2million in the course of getting to know one of these whorez!! The op wrote a clear perception of herself & most Nigerian women! Ranked number 1 Most promiscuous among cheating married women in the universe! Lord, please forgive Nigerian women!
Unfortunately, this is how every man (Nigerian and foreigners) view Nigerian women....and please Nigerian ladies, try and change this perception men have about you ladies....its not about arguing that you are different, bla bla bla....practice to stop asking men for one favor or the other....be it money, gift, academics, career...and encourage fellow ladies like you to stop it too and you will see Nigerian men bring back the much respect and value they placed on you pretty ladies smiley

Stop begging or asking men for favor.....let the man do it on his own without you asking....its more honorable!

Nigerian ladies should also learn to be contented with what they have....being greedy has led so many ladies into repeated heartbreaks and sometimes death!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:41pm On Mar 11, 2016
You're a confused and a pained NIGERIAN man smiley
Can't make sense of the bullshit you just typed
Well, I'm not sorry for hurting you this hot Friday afternoon because the truth must be told kiss
noblegrex:
if you claim not to generalized,that means you're a dumbo wishy washy. If your husband represents all you just posted,does that signifies that 'NIGERIAN MEN' are like that.if you're yet to marry,to hell with you if you don't marry a british,spanish,turkish or anyone who's not a Nigeria man and damn you if the MAN is not as rich as having 1B even 50m in his account. Mind you. That means your mum did a good Job.if you know what I mean.
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Nobody: 1:41pm On Mar 11, 2016
Angelberry:

Oh sorry then! I was thinking you were in support when I saw the post. Lol, what will I do with respect on social media?
Apology accepted. smiley





What you see affects you no matter how invisible the writer may be.


Wonder why some people deactivated ?


Bye all the same smiley
Re: 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Guy Of Today by Olaosebikan1: 1:41pm On Mar 11, 2016
Hmmm i reserve my Comment

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