ZeeAfrica:
Babe, i feel yah, bt if i may give my 2 cents worth. Number 1 - dnt ever ever date anyone who works in de same company as u, unless u wil b ready to deal wit shit wen things go wrong. Den number 2 - try a different method. For 6 months, move to a middle class surbab and leave yo cars at yo original place. Use public transport n b humble. If u have to, lie to any guy who will approach u. Dnt let anyone in yo new circle find out who u r or wat u r worth. Den de lie u can b tellin yo new guy is dat u r a village girl who came to lagos to find a better life. Watch de kind of guys who will b sticking around. Dey r the ones who want de person inside u, n who wana protect u. Den later on, once u have found yo soul mate, u can reveal yo true identity, and explain dat de reason u went into disguise was for u to find yo true self, witout any disturbance from yo material world

Wonderful! What an interesting Nollywood script.

PM me

I will love 2 chat wit u 1 on 1.Add me up on bbm 30C3EE22.And I promise u by d grace of God u will get d bone of ur bone.

fotadmowmend:

Prayer is the key to everything. Pray for the ryt man to come.
Your own part you must take is that you must not say yes to any man becos u thk he is well to do. Also do not see this as a problem becos it becomes a problem only when you see it that way.

Oh my God, no, no, no, not Again, No!

Prayer. Prayer. Prayer.

How come that's only what you Africans know?

There's a prayer for any type of situation.

Prayer for Nigeria in Distress. Prayer Against Bribery and Corruption in Nigeria. Prayer for this... prayer for that! Prayer against this... prayer against that!

Ahn ahn, abeg una no dey ever tire for all diz una prayers

iPopAlomo:
Scam 101...

Anyone that believes this cooked up story can believe anything...

I think I agree with you that this is a cooked up story. @Mizlolar, is that you in the dp or your younger sister? Because, the person in that picture is in her early twenties at best and you said you're in your early thirties.

DragonReborn:
Cheap popularity. The craze for FP has addled some people's brain

human nature bro

You are looking for tall dark and handsome.they come with a price.

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

Na lie lie you dey lie. How did you turn from being 23 years in this post https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right
to being in your early 30s?

D only thin wey fit kill man 4 dis country na woman.na person like u go send flight ticket money giv babe wey u never see b4.A lawyer wey nor fit identify scam

ted1741:
As a legal practitioner, we thrive in confidentiality and my advice will be strictly in confidence if that is ok by you. Email me at ceziefule@gmail.com or call +(519) 562-4127. Cheers.

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

Are you really talking about yourself or that of your friend

@op stop being a dishonest hoe, one thread you are 23, the next you are in your early 30s.

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

1. You claim not to be rich, but later said you stopped driving big cars and settled for Matrix (that could be the 2016 model). With the level of comfort i see in your post, you are far above average, it is suitable to say rich. In fact, nobody becomes a gold digger to date a broke girl.

2. You have a good job, but i dont think you have close friends or you are withdrawn from friends. It means most men cant access you. Am sure you will not give your mobile no to a random guy in the mall, gym or airport. Since you dont walk the street, no guy can hail you. You dont have friends to go to a bar, party or socialize.Only if you work in a bank or something of sort will you meet different people every day. In summary, where will you meet a guy if you run you life like a triangle? These days, guys dont dig even church girls.

3. You went to the university, that is the best place to hook guy.

4. Most rich girls like you desire to be given a treat, that means no broke guys. Girls like you dont take risks, and so, no pain, no gain. You own big cars and houses, how do you expect a broke guy to approach you. If he does, everyone will say he is a gold digger no matter how good his intentions are. Am sure by now, you think that all broke guys are gold diggers, the one who isnt, is lost in the lot. I guess its normal for you to want to keep your things to yourself, infact matters such as these often lead to divorce. I had the opportunity to marry a rich girl but i passed it up to marry my class because of this. I was sure i wasnt a gold digger but i knew the gold is too heavy for me to carry. I wasnt ready to sell my manhood to the highest bidder, so its really complicated to date or marry a rich girl.

If i were you, i will start eating in a fast food joint or buka. Keep an eye for a lonely nice man eating quietly on his own. Ask to join his table, notice his phone or wrist watch and ask him about it. After the meal, if he doesnt ask for you contact, ask his. Am sure you cann handle that, you have to start a relationship with your head then later your heart.

When you fix a date, you have to find out the most important things about him before you become friends on any social media. So give a number that is not on whatsapp. Remember, you have to know the most important things about him on or before the first date.

Most people look at the wrong places for partners. Sorry your dad is not alive to make arrangee for you, sometimes it works.

I trust NL guys..Her PM will be flashing RED by now, despite the fact that she has been exposed.

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

U need Jesus

Mutuwa:


you should thank the almighty that men even approach you,there are girls out there,that dogs don't even smell.
thing is you have to continue your search with abundant efforts,the right man will come.you cannot change the fact that you are well to do,even if you try to hide it just to get a descent man,it may only take a while for him to discover and switch to gold digging mode.

why don't you try dating a poor boy for a change?

Beautiful idea. And ah b poor boy oo... Y u no try me?

A Life without Jesus is lifeless. Remember Jesus died for our sin .

Abeg make una free this girl, Na popularity stunt she just did Here, that is if actually she is a girl cos me I no believe anything she yarn here @ all

Funny Funny

But your signature say otherwise
vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv

Signature: Learn how to make anyone fall in love with you www.nairaland.com/mizlolar
but why are you not honest with our life.
You see ur look life

ideology:
i didn't even need to read the entire gist, just the first few lines raised enough suspicion.

I ran to her profile, just the topics of her previous threads are enough to prove it is fake account, fake dp, fake personality.

No wealthy man calls another broke, only the broke ones, looking for security

Don't mind her. I still wonder why some dodgy folks will make up stories to deceive people.

adanny01:



1. You claim not to be rich, but later said you stopped driving big cars and settled for Matrix (that could be the 2016 model). With the level of comfort i see in your post, you are far above average, it is suitable to say rich. In fact, nobody becomes a gold digger to date a broke girl.

2. You have a good job, but i dont think you have close friends or you are withdrawn from friends. It means most men cant access you. Am sure you will not give your mobile no to a random guy in the mall, gym or airport. Since you dont walk the street, no guy can hail you. You dont have friends to go to a bar, party or socialize.Only if you work in a bank or something of sort will you meet different people every day. In summary, where will you meet a guy if you run you life like a triangle? These days, guys dont dig even church girls.

3. You went to the university, that is the best place to hook guy.

4. Most rich girls like you desire to be given a treat, that means no broke guys. Girls like you dont take risks, and so, no pain, no gain. You own big cars and houses, how do you expect a broke guy to approach you. If he does, everyone will say he is a gold digger no matter how good his intentions are. Am sure by now, you think that all broke guys are gold diggers, the one who isnt, is lost in the lot. I guess its normal for you to want to keep your things to yourself, infact matters such as these often lead to divorce. I had the opportunity to marry a rich girl but i passed it up to marry my class because of this. I was sure i wasnt a gold digger but i knew the gold is too heavy for me to carry. I wasnt ready to sell my manhood to the highest bidder, so its really complicated to date or marry a rich girl.

If i were you, i will start eating in a fast food joint or buka. Keep an eye for a lonely nice man eating quietly on his own. Ask to join his table, notice his phone or wrist watch and ask him about it. After the meal, if he doesnt ask for you contact, ask his. Am sure you cann handle that, you have to start a relationship with your head then later your heart.

When you fix a date, you have to find out the most important things about him before you become friends on any social media. So give a number that is not on whatsapp. Remember, you have to know the most important things about him on or before the first date.

Most people look at the wrong places for partners. Sorry your dad is not alive to make arrangee for you, sometimes it works.

She made up the story. You can take a cursory look at her profile.

This story is SCAM !!! Pls read her other stories and pls dont fall pre to this !!! Pls Mizlola, or whatever your name is, you better go and look for work to do. 419 is no longer in voug pls.

Eyaa sorry dear, honestly talk to your God, let him senf the right man your path. But please dear don't be in a haste, cos men can pretend for long

Scam 101. 419 IS NO LONGER IN VOUGH. Go and look for a job and do pls. Pls read other stories by Mizlola and you will understand what i am saying.

iPopAlomo:
Scam 101...

Anyone that believes this cooked up story can believe anything...

spirit of lie mohammed in action

damn...the niggress got exposed hahahajaahahahahaha...how have the mighty fallen ...panda panda panda panda panda...credit card and scammers hss hahahahahhaha

ladycomfort:
There are many gold diggers in this country waiting to milk you dry. awon ole okunrin

You called guys too gold diggers?I have never seen any young guy in this our present generation depending on ladies for living.stop insulting guys.awon ni Ade ori re.

Let me give you a story so every one reading it will learn from it.there was lady in portharcout who got a job with elf @ 25,she got her self 2bedroom apartment,pinn alround(everything she got in that house)she was rich,as a direct staff,she drive expensive car,cos she got the money,were expensive clothes,does not cook again always buying food.her life style change.she was rolling with the big boys in town,but nor want to take her seriou,why,if she invited them to her house,the men will think twice.even many of them,thier houses are not as beautifull like hers.she has money,houses,car no seriou man was coming,until she was 29.then someone advice her,as you are seeking for advice now,she said let me try it.

First of all she gave that two bedroom to her brother to leave why she pay the rent,and went to a selfcontain,only matress and tv in the room,she also kept her car in thier family compand,and now walk to work,she started cooking,she stop rolling with the big boys,and fit herself in the church for evening serives and any other church activity,she start doing moderat hair,change all her fone to smaller one,her expensive clothes to moderate one to see if her net will caught the big fish.

Not up to five month she met a guy,she lie she is a cleaner wit elf(total) her salary not up to 50k,before that year runs out,she was married to that man.On her wedding day,her own car was presented to her as wedding gift,the husband didt know.its really help her to adjust.
You too can adjust,stop taking men home,and stop opening up to them too soon.take your mother word,park the car one side first.bring urself very low.ur God given husband will locate you soonest

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

It is not by your power, but by the Grace of God. Please, cast your burden upon the Lord. He will help you in this time of your need.
Pray to God fervently, for He will not forsake you. Come closer to Christ. He has something great for you!

Come to benue! Forget lagosians! Hope ur not rude? Don't lik rude! Are u humble? Do u love God? Can u cook? If u are all this things halla at me on fb david anebi

You obviously need God. Commit all to Him through prayer and stay off premarital sex, you will the miracle God will do for you.

ideology:
just read through and see the number of people that believed op, hahaha, i will call seun, lalasticlala, mydn44, who brought this poo to front page should take it down, it is a fake story

Wise man!