dante300:

If I was 25 I for no boder if woman cheat on me......dude I am 35 and if I getwoman wit such potential my case is as good as LVG.

egedem:
baba, I gree with you till I saw the part of "I never spend pass 1k ontop gal" its either u still dey secondary skul or you are a liar....

Temmytea70:




How old are you?

kaziblake:
So you want to throw away a5yr relationship cos of this small problem?

adonbilivit:
prophet kor. u just predict and it enter u come dey form prophet. na three games u pick o, come even make am cutting 2. that is, even if two of the options u picked are wrong u still get to win.

PastorAji:
u tink say a 32 year old woman will wait 4 someone who is not ready? My wife is 32 and almost had complications in delivery 2months ago.
Even if he visits her in school methinks she had dumped his sorry bottom

pcguru1:

hehehe i don't give people hope most times esp in relationship advice, i prepare them for the worst, too much hope breeds dissappointments

Bushesbae:
You want the guy's attention or what You call this a small problem? Nairalanders can be annoying sometimes

taryur:

I like ur suggestion but I still think he shld pay her a surprise visit.

Anonylander:
Dating her for 5 years. Is she an engineering course? Oloshi U!

dante300:

I wasn't drunk when I clearly wrote every evening....when she is with me in her 4lines are consistently active like cr7 but when she returns to school her line is inconsistent like memphis depay.

dante300:

I am contemplating taking a hidden camera to her apartment fix it and study her every move from my phone....don't care how much it would cost me.

pcguru1:


Power outage, laziness the reasons are much and also clearly there's some form of exaggeration

iAmCharis:
Her phones are switched off every night.
Each time you ask why, it leads to quarrel.

That's a clear handwriting on the wall bro.

SANDOSKI:
Op no vex ooo,



Dey truth be say she dey stay with person, e fit be her relation{strict Uncle/Aunty/Brother/Sister_____} or friend...
Nothing like school stress na go make her switch off her phone every evening not to talk to you, she fit send text to you if she dey busy...

Op no worry yourself too much, you need beta sleep.....

ronald4lif:


Pal, if she was doing it once in a while that should have been understandable but every night is suspicious. She could be cohabbing with some other dude.

I have been in distance relationships and whenever I have someone visiting either weekends or longer I never make or take night calls from bae, sighting flimsy excuses or atimes switch off my phones.

Nothing can keep one busy so much that her phones are always off at nights, something is fishy. Why not pay her a surprise visit or tell her you want to come spend time at her place?

Mhen....

Greenbullet:
muturu na u be . I dey service all the pekus for my local government area,no gf,I don't eat out,come over to my apartment. we Bleep ,u go home.lobatan.

dante300:
Dating her for 5years now..contemplating marrying her..currently doing her phd..she's just 32yrs ,am 35 .I love her so much....no longer sure if all this will work out....she schools in a neighboring state and every God given evening her cell is swicthed off.

Wenever I ask why, we end up quarelling. I don't know how long all this will end. Almost thinking of joining that school of thought where I will just have children and forget marriage. I haven't made up my mind though. Just thinking.

Trust issue is choking me. I don't care if people think am insecure but I have bought her 3 different phones, powerbank etc just so I can get her on atleast one of her 4lines....all switched off....maybe I am crazy....I don't know I need advice....castigate me or abuse me nairalanders I don't care...coz trolls nogo do me anything....n my relationship matter to me now but I know better people go answer me wisely...sorry for the typing error...I dey vex.

P.s_ I am using a friends nairaland acc in my quaters...call me....nanle.

lastpage:


Well, that was my second post!
If you read the first one, you will see that l did not insult him.

But at times, you need to "give a brother, A WHACK in the face", to reset his brain and bring him "into reality"
That is what l am trying to do.... when he was consoling himself about not being a Magician!


BTW: Thank you for confirming what we all said:
If l am not at home, l feel like calling my wife every moment that l am free. Ditto her too, she will talk with me on phone into the dead of the night until the phone starts feeling hot or battery just run down!

That is how it should be.
But to ALWAYS switch your phone-of, even with a battery bank, EVERY NIGHT?

Haaaba! Dearis God Ooooo!




Lastpage!

dante300:

I hardlygo to her school coz am alwaysbusy with work....uknow na I have to hustle...5k every 2weeks for just hairstyle no be akara....I need to get a tip off or something...truth is I nolonger trust her.

ronald4lif:
She could be living with some other guy and can't talk with you at night hence switch off her phones. That should be the only reason.