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Ademusiwa1:
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Don't run away . Open a means of communication. That if you find a woman.

I am personally a shy man. I am close to been melancholy
. I am not a bad talk if the topic interest me, I don't think I am that stupid, when I see fashola with his Mushin olosha English. I can't not do bad with public speaking.

At least I will not be speaking Mushin
I remember travelling from Canada to France on my way back to Canada , someone was on the board the plane that our conversation jam. By the time i came off the plane she rejected my number. So experience like this shy me away from women. Because women are not predictable.

I been to several cities like new york etc the women too are the same. They have this mood swings that is unpredictable
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santos2020:
i hate dating, hank GOD for my life,I DON'T HAVE GIRL FRIEND

teebillz:
Conductor, give this girl a kiss. She has spoken well.

Conductor, I never see the kiss oooo.... na back I dey sit

Cooleasy:
Caspisce!

Good Good

joseph1832:
Well I still maintain my earlier stand. Money that comes in constantly remains a constant source of money for women. Women are barely content as most always desire the finest things in life.

missyadorable:
And when is the wedding? Hope you are not turning her to Lord of the rings and permanent bed mate.
6months to 1 year after engagement and no marriage is scam.and the lady should consider other options, except she is a fool

sinaj:
at least dere is a sensible guy in diz thread.


Wen stuffs like diz happen de will just make it seem as if it's a girl thing.

chubbygal:
well my dad is late may his soul keep resting in the Lord's bosom. I miss my lovely dad so much and you just remained me.

banmee:
You still haven't learnt anything about women. A woman will only hook up with you permanently if you can provide comfort or have the potential of providing it. The only time a woman wouldn't care about it that much is when she is in her "growing up stage". Like when she is in college and partying. Once she graduates, all bets are off and her hunting begins. They don't like to admit it but that is the freaking truth. There is nothing bad about it though. It's just how women are built. I am married and totally in love with an amazing woman. We've been together for almost two decades but i don't kid myself by thinking that if i did not show potential when we were courting she would have married me. We all have our roles to play. I am supposed to provide; so i provide. Understand this fact and you will have any woman you want. Don't believe me? #Oshiomole. #OBJ. #Donald Trump.

olac21:
Mumu-it should be remind not remained!

banmee:
You still haven't learnt anything about women. A woman will only hook up with you permanently if you can provide comfort or have the potential of providing it. The only time a woman wouldn't care about it that much is when she is in her "growing up stage". Like when she is in college and partying. Once she graduates, all bets are off and her hunting begins. They don't like to admit it but that is the freaking truth. There is nothing bad about it though. It's just how women are built. I am married and totally in love with an amazing woman. We've been together for almost two decades but i don't kid myself by thinking that if i did not show potential when we were courting she would have married me. We all have our roles to play. I am supposed to provide; so i provide. Understand this fact and you will have any woman you want. Don't believe me? #Oshiomole. #OBJ. #Donald Trump.

Rexhenrex:
i don't doubt the fact that the guy loves the girl, but who knows he might never have told her anything bout marriage and perhaps the lady wasn't getting any younger in age and decided to find her way.

I loved my bae very much but when ever we are discussing and she mentions marriage or abt kids i become mute because (thats by the way)i won't really blame the girl till i here her version o what happened.

kevin25:
A guy in my neighborhood was dating a girl for a long time, I knew them as the best couple. The guy doesn't joke with anything that concerns the girl affair.

Today being June 11, this particular girl is getting married to one guy like that and the worst part is that not only that she breaks the guy's heart but she didn't let the guy know about her marriage plans Till today.

The guy in quote is very unhappy and was calculating how much he has spent on the girl since they started, not that he has a lot but he is trying his best to use the little money he has at his disposal to solve the girl's needs whenever they arise, no matter how big or small just to show the girl that he really lovers her.

guy, its ok to b sentimental bt unfair to generalise d situation, d same thing happened to my friend who is a lady, she saw d wedding invitation of her fiance marriage in d house after dating for more than 3 yrs. She almost landed in the psychiatrist hospital. So as it happens to guy so it happens to ladies.

I felt so bad for the guy but on a second thought I ask my self what is the need for dating? why do girls pretend they love you just to be with you for a while just to gain something from you and most of them know that they can't be with you for long still they persist on staying, by so doing l, they end up chasing away those that has the intention of staying with you forever..

Everyday is a lesson I have learnt my own today...I hope your learnt yours, is better to define any relationship to avoid the stories that touches the heart.. Define it so that you don't spend your hard earn money on a girl that doesn't value it..spend because you have not because your thinking that the girl will be your future wife where as she sees you as an ordinary friend..if you don't have, don't try so hard to impress because no matter what you do on this earth, you can never impress a girl...

felix281:
The wedding is coming up by September, mind u she is never going to be fooled cos she is damn wise.

Kondomatic:
@OP, this is how it works.




Bad boys spoil good girls and they revenge on good guys.

kevin25:
I pity the guy because of the way he looked today so down and depressed he was lamenting and blaming his God for not giving him money, he was talking on how he dried his account just to make this girls happy by providing all her needs .. its so painful when you do things for love and it came back to hurt you in the end...to me I love with my brain

girl4rmspace:
i never do that, not all girls are the same so that's a flawed logic

ALAGA1:
I know your friend might have said to his Ex GF that they were soulmates. Well, guess what? There are a million guys that walked that path before HIM my friend. There are literally millions of guys out there who thought some girl was ‘the one’ and who got hit by reality. Just like HIM. Yeah, I was one of them.

But you know what? It’s okay to have thought that. I know I did. It’s the natural thing to do, especially if it’s your first love, it feels like the only person in the world that can make you happy. But, that’s just not true. Most guys end up with some other woman, and again they’ll have the same feelings of her being the one. But the second time around they’ll have some more perspective, and they’ll realize that it might feel that way, but that doesn’t make it accurate. The truth is, most guys need to cut their teeth on a couple of relationships before they settle down.

49cents:
I am 99% sure that the girl in question is one over-fine yellow pawpaw with the so-called 'assets'.....

The signs will be always there:
1. She never called as much as the guy called (don't tell me that 'ladies dont have money on thier phones, when a lady loves she can will ensure she calls regualary and will even lament to the guy that he doesn't call as much)

2. She wasn't shy to ask the guy to solve her material needs like making hair, fixing nails, buying phones etc): to her that is the real reason why she is with the guy besides the remote possibility of 'managing' him as husband when Plan A to E fails

3. She sleeps with him every now and then especially in anticipation of a favour: she does this just to appease her own conscience and to extort more from him

4. Other signs includes:
* not picking up his calls always with flimsy excuses; she will try to fool you and your friends by cleaning the house, cooking and all that, is just a front to keep the maga paying....

You will be shocked that the guy she married was also tricked by her playing the wife material card: she didint ask him for money since has a mugu who drained his account for her.....

The only way to avoid these kind of heartbreaks is to ensure you build relationships from friendships; sacrifice the immediate reaction of attraction; try to be the person's friend, letting them know your true self...and since its only about friendship there isn't any pressure to impress rather it will improve everything in you!

He that has ears let them hear

Lotechi:
it pains me so much when I hear stories like this!!!! I dnt normally pity the guyz cos we are naturally supposed to be wiser!!! and I ask ''does this guy in question try so hard to carter for his parents and siblings''??

jashar:
Conductor, I never see the kiss oooo.... na back I dey sit

teebillz:
This conductor is one hell of a slacker. I guess I will have to step forward and get the job done myself.

jashar:

optional1:
JehanEddy07 check ur mail box

chubbygal:
it takes castrated gay like you to identify his fellow mumu. Noted !. you rotten and stinking anus.

olac21:
God-jesus!who gave birth to this Nuthead?you're one useless thing that needs to visit the sanitarium!omo ale..

EscobarSnipes:
. Exactly what they say at the start. Here it's never her initial intention to act that way in the end, it comes SUBCONCIOUSLY! When girls admit to how sometimes misleading their inner feelings can be, tell me if its advisable to commit one's feeling into her hands knowing fully well that sanity temporarily leaves when she suddenly does, giving way to frustration. I know this cause I've been there before. Good evening And reply soon. Hope to................"

dacovajnr:
I no understand Why Nigerian guys never know our girls pattern of play...They Date 3 guys @ a Tym..No1(Future Hubby) the One Who is Academically Inclined and also intelligent in other aspects..He can either be financially buoyant or notNo2(Maga) the Maga that pays for the money that's been spent on No1 whose future is bright..No3(The Shield ) This one is only needed to fight for her and Defend her whenever he's been called upon hence she's always Save from any form of Harassment..all da same the 3 guys get to service same kittykat