then use another girl to play games on her too, fvck boy

Chibydinho:


I did that the last time I noticed and she was like she can't choose any of us... She is confused blah blah blah.

She said that before? And you're still bringing this shii here... Take your time oh!

SorftWerk:
if you don't brake up with her, u are a "B"


I am really angry reading ur post... Dump her stupid!

Lol... Bro... For me..breaking up aint easy ooo... I will try.

kullozone:


She said that before? And you're still bringing this shii here... Take your time oh!

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I gave the full narration to see opinions on it... You know we all are not full of knowledge.

TrueHeart365:
guys these days are ultimate fcukboys and it's really annoying how you submit to these hoes whose love for you is only for the goodies you give them.

lemme tell you from my experience. i used to be this foolish for love until i learnt that humans will always take for granted what they can easily get.

my girlfriend of 8 months wanted to play that game with me and even though i fell for it at first, thank God for my mum and sisters who sat me down and thought me what i used to tame her.

bro, that you care about someone doesn't mean you have to give her your dignity and pride. she sees how submisive you are and will continue to take you for a ride until you become a side nigga.

invite her over(don't make the mistake of goung to her place), be a man and prepare for the worst while you ask her to chose between you and the new nigga(cos it's obvious she has developed feelings for him).

be the alpha male and set some rules in your relationship. which mumu love you dey talk about.

no woman, i repeat.. no woman will ever respect or stay loyal to a weak man. they want you to take control and the moment you can't they take you for a ride.

please enough of this silly "i love her so much" talk, it's no excuse to be the doormat in the relationship.

Not everyone is born an alpha male. We are few. Just sad that we have too many emotionally weak guys these days. Pathetic.

Chibydinho:


I did that the last time I noticed and she was like she can't choose any of us... She is confused blah blah blah.

you seem weak...which one is choosing bw u and the guy..the moment she told u that she was confused simply meant you have lost her.why not be a full man.is your choice to choose her not the other way round.

Chibydinho:



Lol... Bro... For me..breaking up aint easy ooo... I will try.

sincerely you don't have a choice cos I ain't giving you one, if I were your friend, you will definitely break up with her cos I can't condone evil... You will see the truth behind what I'm saying, if not now, maybe later.... Start dating someone else right now, someone better than she is, in all aspects, then you get more involved with ur new girl while showing the first girl little attention, with time U'll loose interest in ur first bae... She's a junk!

SorftWerk:
sincerely you don't have a choice cos I ain't giving you one, if I were your friend, you will definitely break up with her cos I can't condone evil... You will see the truth behind what I'm saying, if not now, maybe later.... Start dating someone else right now, someone better than she is, in all aspects, then you get more involved with ur new girl while showing the first girl little attention, with time U'll loose interest in ur first bae... She's a junk!

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See my point here... I need the truth behind these... besides it was incredible when she told me she never had sex with the guy.. the guy was clouding her with money.

murphyibiam15:

you seem weak...which one is choosing bw u and the guy..the moment she told u that she was confused simply meant you have lost her.why not be a full man.is your choice to choose her not the other way round.

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You mean threaten the new guy to back off or what... by choosing her..please, clarify.

Chibydinho:

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See my point here... I need the truth behind these... besides it was incredible when she told me she never had sex with the guy.. the guy was clouding her with money.

wait ooo bro... like assuming she had sex with the guy but decided to tell you that the said boy hasn't touched her;how would you know.don't always believe anything..besides why will you still be in this kinda rship.she has no respect for you

Chibydinho:



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You mean threaten the new guy to back off or what... by choosing her..please, clarify.

I meant to say that you are the boss...you should be the one left with the choice of staying with her or backing off BC she has already made her choice with the new guy.

Chibydinho:




That is what I'm thinking too... Just that its not been easy for me...

People will tell you to end the relationship but I think I know How tough that can be.

Have a heart to heart with her and ask her what she wants. If she wants to continue with you or not.

If she says she's done with you, Please maintain some dignity and self respect and leave her presence, get home first before crying or breaking down or whatever.

Then begin the task of cleaning her from your memory.

But If she says she wants to go on with you, then ask her to break it off with that other guy as she won't like it If you double date too.

Infidelity makes my skin crawl...yuck!

ElsonMorali:


People will tell you to end the relationship but I think I know How tough that can be.

Have a heart to heart with her and ask her what she wants. If she wants to continue with you or not.

If she says she's done with you, Please maintain some dignity and self respect and leave her presence, get home first before crying or breaking down or whatever.

Then begin the task of cleaning her from your memory.

But If she says she wants to go on with you, then ask her to break it off with that other guy as she won't like it If you double date too.

Infidelity makes my skin crawl...yuck!

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You see I've tried this when it first happened (I believe you read the whole post), and she said I should give her time to easily get the guy off...but damn... I still see her chats with this dude... I LOVE her but she is using it on me... I am already concluding on what to do...Time to be BRAVE... and Save myself some sh*ts

Chibydinho:


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You see I've tried this when it first happened (I believe you read the whole post), and she said I should give her time to easily get the guy off...but damn... I still see her chats with this dude... I LOVE her but she is using it on me... I am already concluding on what to do...Time to be BRAVE... and Save myself some sh*ts

Well then bro, be brave and break it off with her.

Relationships are meant to make you happy and fulfilled and not sad and miserable.

If she feels she's found someone else, then leave her be.

If she tries to come back, make sure you're nowhere to be found for her.

Chibydinho:

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See my point here... I need the truth behind these... besides it was incredible when she told me she never had sex with the guy.. the guy was clouding her with money.

this won't end well.. I assure you, and..... I've warned you! No cry reach my dummot when the time comes.

SorftWerk:
this won't end well.. I assure you, and..... I've warned you! No cry reach my dummot when the time comes.

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Lol... thank you, Sir.

Chibydinho:




That is what I'm thinking too... Just that its not been easy for me...

u are a weak guy....your girlfriend knows this...that is why she is taking advantage of your weakness...She know u can't live without her

Man up & prove her wrong, let her know u can live without her...but i know u can do the bold, because u are weak...Sorry bro. It's gonna be like this till she eventually dump your sorry as$..

Chibydinho:


I did that the last time I noticed and she was like she can't choose any of us... She is confused blah blah blah.

@bold...what was your response?
how old are u?
to flog u just dey hungry me...

SorftWerk:
if you don't brake up with her, u are a "B"


I am really angry reading ur post... Dump her stupid!

op is a pu$sie niga...

Chibydinho:
This is my first time to share a problem here and I will appreciate everyone's opinion please.
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I have a gf that I've been with for some years now and everything has been going real fine. It was all merry going, though we've had few fights, but we always made up and the relationship continued.
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The real problem started some time last year when we had misunderstanding and was not on talking terms for few days. I dogged deep and discovered that my gf is hooking up with another guy and from findings, I noticed it was just a fresh talk which now evolved because of our little quarrel.. I kept calm and waited for weekend to visit her and make up things with her and also to know why she acted that way..
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When I went, I noticed she went out with this guy and even she came back..she didn't felt remorseful rather blamed everything on me and the issue we had during the week. I didn't loose my anger because of the love I have for her and tried working things up to make up with her...which was successful coupled with the fact that the guy later went back to school.
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From then till now, she kept contact with the guy, but I wasn't bothered because our love was flourishing and rationally, I never expected them to be sudden enemies... but the issue began recently when I failed on a promise to visit her at her place and considering stuffs I was doing.
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That was some days ago and since then she has been acting funny on phone and chats and I recently noticed that the guy is back from a romantic Fb post she made and tagged him.
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Honestly, I am tired of my gf using the guy as a bait or threat to me and needs advice on what to
do to end that...

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Thanks as you help a bro out of this emotional stress... I just love this Lady.

She obviously doesn't love or respect you anymore and any relationship without mutual love and respect is gone.

Dump her asap and try and keep what's left of your ego before she breaks your heart. The lady ain't matured and definitely not ready to be tied down.

Free the girl and never accept her back under any circumstances because she'll continue with such behavior even with another man. You're obviously not in total control of your relationship and you seem to love her more.

johnson232:

u are a weak guy....your girlfriend knows this...that is why she is taking advantage of your weakness...She know u can't live without her

Man up & prove her wrong, let her know u can live without her...but i know u can do the bold, because u are weak...Sorry bro. It's gonna be like this till she eventually dump your sorry as$..

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Love weakened me.. lesson learnt.

stubornnn:


She obviously doesn't love or respect you anymore and any relationship without mutual love and respect is gone.

Dump her asap and try and keep what's left of your ego before she breaks your heart. The lady ain't matured and definitely not ready to be tied down.

Free the girl and never accept her back under any circumstances because she'll continue with such behavior even with another man. You're obviously not in total control of your relationship and you seem to love her more.

She has shown on countless occasions with numerous actions how much she loves me... maybe I'm becoming too soft for that.

greatnaija01:
get another girl

tag her in your romantic posts on facebook.

take the other girl out and snap it as you dp

then find a third girl to be friends with you.. BE THE PLAYER...

NICE GUYS GET THE WORST GIRLS.... NICE LADIES GET THE WORST GUYS


So switch the game... dont ask her about her guy o... dont sleep with her or buy her anything....JUST MOVE ON without break up...This makes the girl feel guilty after some time... but now i can assure you that the other guy is giving her better sex, money or fun more than you and the other guy too aint a nice guy.... she is only his side chick.

PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT PLAYERS CREATE BETTER PLAYERS.... its nt usually the first to cheat that wins... but the revenge cheat thats d one that SLAYS...


Let this your lady visit you and meet the third or second girl in your crib

let her call you and one of the two girls tell her you are busy... change her contact name to KID-SIS or DAYO MOTHER or somthin no one will hesitate to reply.

GIVE IT 3-6 MONTHS BRO.... she will be running back to you... BUT ONCE SHE COME BACK.. DUMP HER.

This is the assassins way to deal with such ladies... YOU LOVE HER TOO MUCH IS SIMPLY INSECURITY THAT YOU MAY NOT FIND ANOTHER BETTER GIRL... thats not true... FOLLOW THIS AND YOU WILL DO THANKSGIVING IN CHURCH SOON.

bad guy

Chibydinho:

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Love weakened me.. lesson learnt.

is she your first love?
If yes...it's natural. All u need do is to dump her & move on...the moment a woman discovers a man loves her too much, she begins to act strange & d relationship becomes uncertain...that is why as a man, u must always put your emotions under check in subsequent relationship...

TrueHeart365:
guys these days are ultimate fcukboys and it's really annoying how you submit to these hoes whose love for you is only for the goodies you give them.

lemme tell you from my experience. i used to be this foolish for love until i learnt that humans will always take for granted what they can easily get.

my girlfriend of 8 months wanted to play that game with me and even though i fell for it at first, thank God for my mum and sisters who sat me down and thought me what i used to tame her.

bro, that you care about someone doesn't mean you have to give her your dignity and pride. she sees how submisive you are and will continue to take you for a ride until you become a side nigga.

invite her over(don't make the mistake of goung to her place), be a man and prepare for the worst while you ask her to chose between you and the new nigga(cos it's obvious she has developed feelings for him).

be the alpha male and set some rules in your relationship. which mumu love you dey talk about.

no woman, i repeat.. no woman will ever respect or stay loyal to a weak man. they want you to take control and the moment you can't they take you for a ride.

please enough of this silly "i love her so much" talk, it's no excuse to be the doormat in the relationship.

love ur mom ND sis for buying u a new set of brain......... I say kudos to them....... If there's one thing I have learn is try getting rich ND u will see them running after u............so for now it's just me ND me dreams.

Chibydinho:



She has shown on countless occasions with numerous actions how much she loves me... maybe I'm becoming too soft for that.

You need to be a man. She sees you as a pussssy and believe me every woman hates such behavior.


Up your game.... Bone her totally...I mean bone her finally. Get another girl or find olsoho to keep yourself company and get your mind off her.

If you need olosho i will give you. Just dump that babe

stubornnn:


You need to be a man. She sees you as a pussssy and believe me every woman hates such behavior.


Up your game.... Bone her totally...I mean bone her finally. Get another girl or find olsoho to keep yourself company and get your mind off her.

If you need olosho i will give you. Just dump that babe

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I'm laughing my Tommy off . . . I got to try it ooo

johnson232:

is she your first love?
If yes...it's natural. All u need do is to dump her & move on...the moment a woman discovers a man loves her too much, she begins to act strange & d relationship becomes uncertain...that is why as a man, u must always put your emotions under check in subsequent relationship...

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I've been fvcking but she is my first real love... maybe... that's the issue.

Chibydinho:

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I've been fvcking but she is my first real love... maybe... that's the issue.

e be like say u go like fvck well well o...fvcking just full everywhere for your post...

Just try to break up with her & u will always be happy u did very soon...i can guide u tho...if it seems unbearable for u...make u no go commit suicide, because na first love dey mostly dey cause suicide cases...

Let go.

johnson232:

e be like say u go like fvck well well o...fvcking just full everywhere for your post...

Just try to break up with her & u will always be happy u did very soon...i can guide u tho...if it seems unbearable for u...make u no go commit suicide, because na first love dey mostly dey cause suicide cases...

I really need guide...you whatsapp?

comedynaija:
Let go.

. lol . . .I like to...but...will be take me online?