QueenSuccubus:




I was here ooo..but the thread is an e-book...

Taa!! Iffa hia

Lemme goan check up on d progress of that thread sha

Safiaa:
PLEASE LEARN TO COMPREHEND BEFORE WRITING YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS THREAD. READING IS KEY!

THERES NOTHING WRONG IN FEMALES BEING WITH A GUY THAT IS STRUGGLING. AS LONG AS HE HAS GOT A VISION AND IS WORKING TOWARDS DOING SOMETHING. YOU CAN'T BE SELLING A FAKE DREAM TO SOMEONE, AND EXPECT THEM TO STAY.

Are you concluding for sure that ''AS LONG AS HE HAS GOT A VISION AND IS WORKING TOWARDS DOING SOMETHING'' He will end up successful and wealthy? My dear, ''No man can receive anything, except it is given him from above'' (John 3:27 ) Not every man is destined to be wealthy. The battle is not to the strong nor the race to the swift. Time and chance happens to every man on earth. So ladies rather than looking out for riches and wealth, which can suddenly disappear even where they abound now; look out for a good man who complements you and live life to the fullest without comparison to other people.

There's nothing wrong in saying no to broke men. And there is nothing wrong when broke men become rich and start phucking every girl they come across whether young or old.

lefulefu:
e be like dis thread go sweet small
oyind18 or na oyind17
jodha u dey dere?
SINZ
KennyID17
Bumbae1
QueenSuccubus
Aderolah15
CuteJude
kimbra
alexialin

Hahahahaha.. Lolzz

ikp120:
Na wa for these cheap babes everywhere. Na this type we dey use for rituals.

you are very wicked.#lol

Safiaa:
Can you just email me please. Thanks.

sure

Santi69:
Say no to broke ladies, Guys be smart!!

LISTEN TO HIM,he speaks d truth

OK if I suffer finish without anybody sticking by me cuz I supposedly do not have vision and I am broke, when I eventually make it and people like you will be trying to get me to settle down. Do u really think I will be faithful to you cuz following ur line of tot am successful so a lot of girls who are thinking like you will be all over me and I guaranty u they won't mind that am hooked, do u think I will be faithful to u. This singular reason Is y a lot of guys cheat on their wives, and their wives will be complaining. How exactly do u want to enjoy alone something you did not help to build. I suffered alone and now am opening my bank account to you, y do u expect me to open it to only u Knowing fully well that if I was broke none of u wud even look in my direction. My point is if you want a ready made guy be ready to share him with other people, if you want to build up ur guy and stand by him broke or visionless as he might be he is all yours when he makes it because you worked for it. You can't eat you cake and have it you have to choose

LawdOfNairaland:


I don't know about others but I am not broke. I am a medical doctor and I give counselling sessions for fees. And I am not cheap.

Now, to the topic. You, sir, and the OP are missing underlying factors in relationships. Supposing she gets married to her financially stable fiance and he loses all. What happens then?

this is the same question I asked her and she has not been able to answer.

I got nothing to say.if u feel u can't marry a broke Ass,then go and marry a rich dude and leave us alone instead of disturbing is up an dawn.abi wwtrin gan seeef?

And the stupid fools will come back later to disturb person DAT their husband is cheating on them.y dem no go cheat,na u help me make my money?

LawdOfNairaland:


I don't know about others but I am not broke. I am a medical doctor and I give counselling sessions for fees. And I am not cheap.

Now, to the topic. You, sir, and the OP are missing underlying factors in relationships. Supposing she gets married to her financially stable fiance and he loses all. What happens then?

that is where her "money " comes in .....so you see, the two way thing helps

Safiaa:
Okay.
Did i ever state that a women is supposed to be a financial liability to a man?
Didnt i say that women should strive to be successful and make their own money?
Did you actually read my post before making this comment,.no offense.
I understand if you dont agree with me, but your questions were already answered in the first post of this thread. So it's not making sense to me.

I quite understand what you're saying it's just that your post contradicts itself. Like a part you said a girl should also be financially stable. Then another part you said a girl should use her beauty to "capture" a rich dude? In summary, the girl should be broke but use her v-jay to capture us? You see that you contradict yourself? Mind you don't generalize that it's broke guys that are coming after you.... Many of them reply here may be Rich guys who knows how it felt to had been dumped by a girl when there were not yet financially buoyant. I'm not Broke either.

Kind regards Safiaa

lilmax:
that is where her "money " comes in .....so you see, the two way thing helps

I thought they said say no to broke guys. How are you sure the girl won't start going after other rich dudes. If her money comes in when he is broke, why can't she marry a prospective broke guy and support him till he actualizes his dreams.

Gbemishile1:
And the stupid fools will come back later to disturb person DAT their husband is cheating on them.y dem no go cheat,na u help me make my money?

My ex whose marriage is just 2 years an with a daughter came running back to me I should marry her or sleep with her,she suddenly realizes in the best for her,told her leave me alone go sort your marriage out.

lefulefu:

thats why i like u .ur quotes are always on point .i am fine oo and u? happy easter in advance

thanks dear and I like you too.. ...
Am fine. Thank God for the holiday..
The weather. The atmosphere is soothing.. I love it!
Happy easter to u as well..

How is that a contradiction? If you're using your beauty to attract successful men initially, does that stop you from being financially independent yourself. Even if a woman has got her own money, it doesnt mean she shouldnt look for a comfortable guy. Be the whole package. Beautiful, financially secure and smart and along with that attract the right kind of men. Simple!

bstringz:


I quite understand what you're saying it's just that your post contradicts itself. Like a part you said a girl should also be financially stable. Then another part you said a girl should use her beauty to "capture" a rich dude? In summary, the girl should be broke but use her v-jay to capture us? You see that you contradict yourself? Mind you don't generalize that it's broke guys that are coming after you.... Many of them reply here may be Rich guys who knows how it felt to had been dumped by a girl when there were not yet financially buoyant. I'm not Broke either.

Kind regards Safiaa

All this noise about broke boys still speaks to one thing....dependant mentality...According to you, ladies should use their youth and beauty to attract a financially stable man....i pity your likes...boiz will toss and toss and hit dat shii till they are tired of you
...my dear, ladies should use there youth to advance themselves and position themselves for greater things in life....they should use dat time to get quality education, gr8 skills or start up an enduring business...All this coupled with beauty is the sustainable way to that stability you want....this is 2017 and nothing stops a woman from being successful as much as her male counterparts...stop this subconscious kitchen mentality

uchennaq:
I thought they said say no to broke guys. How are you sure the girl won't start going after other rich dudes. If her money comes in when he is broke, why can't she marry a prospective broke guy and support him till he actualizes his dreams.

when op said you can't comprehend, now I get her...... from her write up, she said a girl can date a broke guy with vision(prospective broke guy ),or you no read that one? so why are you stressing? only if you read what she wrote

Mayaa04:
Op u rock full time, over valid point 201%, don't make any one have to make you over explain yourself, ur points are clear enough. hello Ladies have self purpose, nd value too but don't settle for less or confuse yourself just to fit in someone opinion. guyz will stay or leave, adore or abuse u regardless, mingle right, grow in all aspect, develop u, keep learning, love money and make money, and still remain humble.

Everything you wrote there is crap

Safiaa:
How is that a contradiction? If you're using your beauty to attract successful men initially, does that stop you from being financially independent yourself. Even if a woman has got her own money, it doesnt mean she shouldnt look for a comfortable guy. Be the whole package. Beautiful, financially secure and smart and along with that attract the right kind of men. Simple!

I have issues with those words "Using your beauty to attract successful men" it sounds like something all these IG slay hoes would say. Beauty shouldn't be the only basis for attracting men. A woman who is financially sound would attract men like her, it's quite simple. Like terms attract.... Use her beauty to LOOK for comfortable guys? This sums up your whole post. The other things you added there like the woman trying to also be financially independent was just a plot by you to sound reasonable. You've finally spilled the true contents of your heart. I know girls who tried to use their beauty to attract me..... I quickly Side-chick them ASAP.

Im talking about instant attraction here. If a woman is beautiful with no substance, will any reasonable man stay with her?

Thank you for opinion though.

bstringz:


I have issues with those words "Using your beauty to attract successful men" it sounds like something all these IG slay hoes would say. Beauty shouldn't be the only basis for attracting men. A woman who is financially sound would attract men like her, it's quite simple. Like terms attract.... Use her beauty to LOOK for comfortable guys? This sums up your whole post. The other things you added there like the woman trying to also be financially independent was just a plot by you to sound reasonable. You've finally spilled the true contents of your heart. I know girls who tried to use their beauty to attract me..... I quickly Side-chick them ASAP.

lilmax:
when op said you can't comprehend, now I get her...... from her write up, she said a girl can date a broke guy with vision(prospective broke guy ),or you no read that one? so why are you stressing? only if you read what she wrote

You don't get her because her topic to this thread is "SAY NO TO BROKE GUYS" I have read this over and over and seen so many contradictory statements. Life is not as easy as she described. Let's not forget that this advise, which kind of ladies does it apply to? Working class girls or Liabilities? I really find it difficult to believe that most guys out there are not hustling. I know guys that their parents did most things for them, ranging from getting a good job for them and even marrying for them by providing most of the cash used for marriage. I think you guys are looking at life from the mirage point of view.

Safiaa:
At the end of the day, a guy who has a vision and who is working hard to be successful will not be offended by what I've said. The lazy, unambitious boys will vent their anger out of frustration. Empty vessels make the loudest noise. Only a matured level headed man will understand where I'm coming from. That's the painful truth.

hmmmm (minister for golddigger and olosho affairs) spotted,,,,,

Venom247:
broke guys full this thread.

On a serious note, it's nothing but a waste of time dating a guy who doesn't have the financial ability to take care of you. Every woman deserves the Queen's treatment. Guys, double your hustle and stop looking for girls who will stay with you in your broke state.

Double our hustle, you mean I should go rob a bank for you or I should venture into money ritual because you want me to provide for you what your old man couldn't?

So far you're not the kinda girl who stay with a guy in his broke state as you said, I believe people like that end up being used for ritual, end up being someone's 3rd or 4th wife or a single mum.

Safiaa:
At the end of the day, a guy who has a vision and who is working hard to be successful will not be offended by what I've said. The lazy, unambitious boys will vent their anger out of frustration. Empty vessels make the loudest noise. Only a matured level headed man will understand where I'm coming from. That's the painful truth.

Hey..

All you said made sense and still makes sense.. .

Just relish in the humor...some will like you and some won't.

Such is life..

Like you said... Settle with a broke guy who has a vision and not a broke guy who's got fantasy.. .


Also, anything can be term "success"

bstringz:


I have issues with those words "Using your beauty to attract successful men" it sounds like something all these IG slay hoes would say. Beauty shouldn't be the only basis for attracting men. A woman who is financially sound would attract men like her, it's quite simple. Like terms attract.... Use her beauty to LOOK for comfortable guys? This sums up your whole post. The other things you added there like the woman trying to also be financially independent was just a plot by you to sound reasonable. You've finally spilled the true contents of your heart. I know girls who tried to use their beauty to attract me..... I quickly Side-chick them ASAP.

Lol.. .if you are handsome, please use it to get what it could fetch you.

This thread sef...

Amarabae:
NONSENSE. Must a lady be a financial liability to a man? Is Relationship a poverty alleviation program?
Ladies should dream of working to be financial independent, its brings respect to a woman.
If a guy is broke and you love him, as long as you as a lady is financial dependent, you can be in a relationship with him.
"Broke" is temporary, that he is broke today, does not mean He can't make it tomorrow.
Stay with him during rainfall, He will appreciate it when the sun shine.

Holy moly! Like seriously? I mean could this be coming truely from a lady? Question of the night i guess. What an independent lady u are. May Chineke continue to bless ur hustle... Mehn, have just gotta do everything humanly possible to find & kiss u

bros nawa for you o , no be everybody go get money o... if your brother end up being poor despite all the hustle(just an instance) will you advice him to remain single for the rest of his life?

Ugosample:
see as pained niggas are ranting on this thread
E pain una well well.

Whether you like it or not, the OP has a point.
And before you talk rubbish and insult me, ask yourself honestly whether you want your sister to date and get serious with a guy just like you (in the same financial condition with you? )

I will never marry a girl because of her so called beauty because I have tasted the so called beautiful girls. I rather marry a presentable lady that was there for me during my trying times. No matter your beauty, na for your pocket.

Safiaa:
How is that a contradiction? If you're using your beauty to attract successful men initially, does that stop you from being financially independent yourself. Even if a woman has got her own money, it doesnt mean she shouldnt look for a comfortable guy. Be the whole package. Beautiful, financially secure and smart and along with that attract the right kind of men. Simple!

sense... Awesome reasoning.