lefulefu:
e be like dis thread go sweet small
oyind18 or na oyind17
jodha u dey dere?
SINZ
KennyID17
Bumbae1
QueenSuccubus
Aderolah15
CuteJude

KennyID17:


Just as when ladies see d words Olosho, gold digger, liability, parasite, leech.......

bsideboii:
How do you define a fake dream? Its a dream right..... pessimism is all I see here.If u can't believe in your boyfriends dream don't comman be discouraging our potential wifes on nairaland. Tains

Alesandese:


Say no to lazy, unambitious,dumb guys. In fact no be vision we go chop! Say no to jobless broke guys!!! . I can't feed myself and a grown ass

KennyID17:


Me right now......

SINZ:



We the international observers have seriously arrived.

space007:
Y'all be looking for already made guys, good for you though, remember guys no longer want liabilities too.

space007:
where have you been na??

Safiaa:
PLEASE LEARN TO COMPREHEND BEFORE WRITING YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS THREAD. READING IS KEY!

THERES NOTHING WRONG IN FEMALES BEING WITH A GUY THAT IS STRUGGLING. AS LONG AS HE HAS GOT A VISION AND IS WORKING TOWARDS DOING SOMETHING. YOU CAN'T BE SELLING A FAKE DREAM TO SOMEONE, AND EXPECT THEM TO STAY.

I kind of support Op
I think She's not saying ladies shouldn't support a guy who is struggling but she meant guys who got dreams, but not struggling and working towards their dream

Eveezy:

i was going to agree with u, but i got confused wit "feed myself and a grown ass" are there really guys who expects u to feed dem?
I think the term broke has been misdused, a guy dt is capable of taking care of himself nd could even feed a lady, bt wen dt same lady asks for a phone nd d guy is unable to do so, some ladies would term this guy broke. But should dis really be d case?
So i have a question, WHO IS A BROKE GUY?

KennyID17:


Na feem i been dey watch oo

Eveezy:

i was going to agree with u, but i got confused wit "feed myself and a grown ass" are there really guys who expects u to feed dem?
I think the term broke has been misdused, a guy dt is capable of taking care of himself nd could even feed a lady, bt wen dt same lady asks for a phone nd d guy is unable to do so, some ladies would term this guy broke. But should dis really be d case?
So i have a question, WHO IS A BROKE GUY?

space007:
that your reply too sweet me for belle

FelixFelicis:
You don't even need to use the word broke, but as you want to instigate feminine emotions against men you had to. Sensible ladies know you're wrong and that your opinion doesn't count.

You could have said its better to date an industrious guy than a couch-potato. But you're just a manipulator, you want Ladies to come on your thread and say yes, hail you etc, and i can see few senseless and bitter ladies doing that. Matured ladies saw your thread and guess what? They read and moved on, reserving their opinion.

QueenSuccubus:



Aha...lemme read it first...this thread is quite long

lefulefu:
e be like dis thread go sweet small
oyind18 or na oyind17
jodha u dey dere?
SINZ
KennyID17
Bumbae1
QueenSuccubus
Aderolah15
CuteJude

Safiaa:
Ok sir. You can keep on convincing yourself, sugar coating your reality. When you log off this forum, you know what it is deep down. It really doesn't bother me. Of course most men will agree with you, because its an advantage to them. Some may agree with me, fine! Some may not, great. But I've spoken my truth, and i know a few individuals can relate to one or two things that I've said. A lot of women are scared to voice out their opinions due to the backlash.
I'm not one of them. A lot of women secretly agree with what I'm saying. Its clear to see that your comprehensive skills are on a all time low.

Bumbae1:


We don land o

SINZ:
The OP made some strong points though..

Either way, its vice-versa, a broke woman is as much a liability as a broke man. So guys should also avoid broke hungry girls.

KennyID17:


Welcome QueenSuccubus, ur Asian perspective would b invaluable here

QueenSuccubus:




Abeeeg, who be Asian here nau?

As u see, i dey yarn pidgin wella sha

FelixFelicis:
you sound like you want me to talk about my financial life but i won't, it's none of your business what I'm like out of this forum. You made a very instigating post and I'm correcting you, yet you're still trying to manoeuvre and manipulate your way out. I see you're a very stubborn and unsubmissive person, you think life after dating is about rights or wrong? Smh. May God help your life.

KennyID17:


Taa!!! U and that ya Imported pidgin like Tboss

FelixFelicis:
you don't know who they call broke? A guy that cannot buy them an unnecessary item their father can't afford

Amarabae:
NONSENSE. Must a lady be a financial liability to a man? Is Relationship a poverty alleviation program?
Ladies should dream of working to be financial independent, its brings respect to a woman.
If a guy is broke and you love him, as long as you as a lady is financial dependent, you can be in a relationship with him.
"Broke" is temporary, that he is broke today, does not mean He can't make it tomorrow.
Stay with him during rainfall, He will appreciate it when the sun shine.

KennyID17:



Ekabo ooo!!!

Lefulefu, pls popcorn and soda for Awa VIP guest

Bumbae1:
Op youmade some good points
But

These ladies need to work ! Work ! Work work work work
Yet they be singing Rihanna up n down

Please a lady too should have something to offer besides V jay jay
Personally if the lady doesnt work she should not even talk . 21st century we cry out for equal opportunity yet we expect guys to provide
Why can't we provide ? And then less financial stress on the guy

lefulefu:


abi oo .u hardly even see a richman getting married to a broke and lazy girl these days.even bianca ojukwu before getting married to ojukwu also came frm a wealthy family.and besides a lady hooking up with a millionaire is no guarantee to a stable marriage cos if dat were so then its only poor ppl that would have been getting divorced .

Bumbae1:

Una no well o

Chai wetin i go do Op
N i like her o
Bet she got the wrong idea yes women should be smart but .. they should also be financially stable too