tosyne2much:
[i] This article is flawed in every aspect and I know that it will mislead many young girls.. This write-up will do nothing but breed laziness in ladies.

It's disheartening that the OP only put up this hogwash to demean those who find themselves in broke state. OP, I want you to know that we are in a world of mystery where nothing guarantees riches. Not even vision, goals and education guarantee riches.

Only if you know that not everyone will be rich in this life no matter how much he or she strives.. If you ride your way to riches, just thank God for your own life because they're so many people with better goals, visions and dreams yet they're roaming the street living a life of mediocrity

FelixFelicia:
safiaa is deceitful, I said it, she was trying to instigate ladies against guys, only the discerning will see the aim of the article

Safiaa:
Of course, im not expecting anything less.
Because they obviously fit into that category of what I'm talking about. So it hits them.

tosyne2much:
[i] This article is flawed in every aspect and I know that it will mislead many young girls.. This write-up will do nothing but breed laziness in ladies.

It's disheartening that the OP only put up this hogwash to demean those who find themselves in broke state. OP, I want you to know that we are in a world of mystery where nothing guarantees riches. Not even vision, goals and education guarantee riches.

Only if you know that not everyone will be rich in this life no matter how much he or she strives.. If you ride your way to riches, just thank God for your own life because they're so many people with better goals, visions and dreams yet they're roaming the street living a life of mediocrity

Sector16:
op, this shit is very simple... Get yourself a rich ass nigger, be his bitch for the rest of your life and shut the Bleep up...let me not hear affirmative action from these women again...feminist bullshit

Safiaa:
What is your definition of success? Is it to be ranking in millions? Thats not mine, and i clearly stated that on the first page of this thread. I understand that not everybody is destined to be rich, however there's nothing stopping you from being comfortable except from excuses. People from nothing have made it to today, what stops you? If men in nigeria continue to use their environmental factors as an excuse, they will never see progress in their life. God gives you a purpose on this earth, and fulfilling that and being comfortable enough to take care of your family is my definiton of success. So stop using your pessimistic thoughts to comfort yourself.

tosyne2much:
Hahaha did you just say pessimistic though lt to console myself? Lmao

My dear you don't know me to talk about me... So the fact that someone flaws your ill-thought write-up automatically turns that person to a broke person?

You are a kid and your opinion holds no water.. The earlier the better for you to work towards building a career and future for yourself rather that looking for a random man that will you put your burden on.

Wake up from your slumber and stop being lazy.. There's dignity for a lady that gives no damn if man is rich or not.. This is 2017.. No man wan put person like you for house

Women are busy out there doing all they can just to make sure they help their men attain greatness, here you are advising gullible ladies never to consider any broke guy

I just hope you change your orientation about relationship or else, those rich men you throw yourself cheaply at, will continue to shine your congo and drift away

Cc
Naijaboiy

FelixFelicis:
Smh, don't marry broke guy don't marry broke guy, you know what? Go back to some 20 years ago and warn your mother you're obviously venting on your dad's incapability to provide you the luxury you didn't work for or need.

FelixFelicis:
Only an immature person will reason with you, you don't even know that vision + work isn't guaranteed success. Oluwa ni shola

Safiaa:
Sorry, where did i imply that you're broke? Is that your guilty conscience running through your head? I have nothing agaisnt people countering my thread, just make sure you read thoroughly and digest what i'm trying to say.

You don't know me either, so who are you to tell me that im a kid? Im currently working, earning a salary. I'm also pursuing my dreams to become a marketing executive for a company. What is now your point? Im far from lazy and unfortunately if you read my first paragraph in my first post, you would understand that im not promoting laziness in women.

Instead of worrying about what man i attract, worry about yourself and maybe you wont feel the need to be so unnecessarily defensive.

Why are you tagging naijaboiy, is he your bodyguard or teacher? I just dont understand.

Bye bye now.

mrphysics:

Tosyn2much, come and see this kid that just registered on Nairaland this year talking trash. OMG, what did I just read you say. I feel pained, imagine this kid, a student talking trash.

Illiteracy at the highest peak. This is a shame to womanhood

Safiaa:
Lool. Are you feeling intimidated?

I'm not moved, not even the slightest by your words. Im secure in myself and i know who i am offline. I just find it entertaining to respond to your type. So please keep on entertaining me,
Im bored at the moment

FelixFelicia:
if he starts engaging you now you'll be crying "he's obsessed with my moniker"

Safiaa:
No that was simply directed at you. You're jumping from thread to thread about my opinion. Did my thread tramatise you in your sleep? Just let it go hun & move on.

FelixFelicia:
no, btw its traumatize

Safiaa:
Always quick to point out a grammatical error when the brain is empty. What's your point? Traumatise is the british spelling of traumatize which i was supposed to type initially. Ive got your time today.

FelixFelicia:
well just act like you inserted the "u" in your initial spelling. Btw I've no reply for you again, just saw the error and I mentioned.

Have a good day

Safiaa:
Lool. Are you feeling intimidated?

I'm not moved, not even the slightest by your words. Im secure in myself and i know who i am offline. I just find it entertaining to respond to your type. So please keep on entertaining me,
Im bored at the moment

mrphysics:

I was about telling God to bless this food (you) which am about to eat out of the abundance of my heart. But I realized its a waste of time and energy. If you have advanced far in life and human endeavour, I would have responded to you well this great Easter. But talking to a second year or first year empty headed student makes me sick. Responding to someone who lacks wisdom and understanding of what the woman role is in the society makes me feel weak. And to think I am talking to someone who should be reading her books in other to graduate with perhaps a better grade rather than come to Nairaland and be talking about relationship makes me think twice. You know what? You don't know what relationship is all about and you might have been into at most two and which all of them failed. You lack the personality to talk to some persons who you have spoken to because of this your topic.
Your mates are in Education and Career section of Nairaland helping themselves and improving their lives while you are here telling people how irresponsible and illogical you are. I doubt if you attended a quantitative and verbal reasoning class.

mrphysics:

I was about telling God to bless this food (you) which am about to eat out of the abundance of my heart. But I realized its a waste of time and energy. If you have advanced far in life and human endeavour, I would have responded to you well this great Easter. But talking to a second year or first year empty headed student makes me sick. Responding to someone who lacks wisdom and understanding of what the woman role is in the society makes me feel weak. And to think I am talking to someone who should be reading her books in other to graduate with perhaps a better grade rather than come to Nairaland and be talking about relationship makes me think twice. You know what? You don't know what relationship is all about and you might have been into at most two and which all of them failed. You lack the personality to talk to some persons who you have spoken to because of this your topic.
Your mates are in Education and Career section of Nairaland helping themselves and improving their lives while you are here telling people how irresponsible and illogical you are. I doubt if you attended a quantitative and verbal reasoning class.

Safiaa:
LOOOOOL

I'M DEAD BRUHH

Im not surpirsed that your empty brain insinuated that im in second/first year of uni. You can assume what you like lol. Im currently working and im studying. Is that something you've done? I highly doubt, and I'm quite proud of myself. My mates are on the education section but where are you?

Are you not here with me? Your mates are on the business/investment section. You could learn a thing or two about investing. Maybe investing your time in more productive things, rather than spewing nonsense in my mentions. How about that?

God bless you and chop that food well well. I hope it doesnt make you sick, like 'talking to a student' does At least this student knows how to construct her paragraphs and sentences properly. I'm happy about that

Bye honey x

mrphysics:

Others have given up on you and I have to do same at this juncture.
You are working and studying? Maybe you have written your name in the Guinness book of record and became the first Nigerian to do that.

BTW, while I was a student, I was comfortable and there was no need to work and study so I gave my book all the attention it needs. Same time about four years ago I came to Nairaland and established myself on the science section with two of my science inclined post hitting front page. I went on to NYSC section, helped people there during service and left about four topics there which made front page. Before relaxing on the business section. While I was at your age, about two of your age mates called me their mentor. I was not lazy as you are, I had purpose, I wasn't living in delusion like you are. When I come to Nairaland, I new they are elders here and I don't go on insulting them like you are. You are just fool of yourself. You insulted tosyne2much with many followers on Nairaland. You have got nothing. A little background check on you revealed you got registered here last month, so how come you are quick to land yourself in the romance section. I don't comment on Nairaland but your comment was forced me when you assumed you are the only intelligent person on Nairaland.

Finally, I urge you, to spend time building up yourself, people already know your moniker and there will always make reference to it.

Ngokafor:




...There are more women and ladies who feed men/husbands these days than the other way round... Lots of men i know have confessed that their mom was the pillar that rescued them from hunger and illiteracy..Their Dads were no where to be found most times,and never bothered about their well-being...Nigerian men are becoming less and less financially responsible towards their family,and thats a shame.

...It is only on nairaland Nigerian males foot bills that are not theirs...Real life is a differnt thing altogether.

Lies from the pit of sambisa!

You can only lie to yourself not everyone around.

tosyne2much:
I'm telling you bro

queency11:
Tnx to the Op, this is nothing but the truth nd to ladies out there it wl be better for you to take to this advice. Don't and never date a broke guy.

Only broke girls are scared of dating broke boys.

SIMPLE TRUTH!

Safiaa:
Yawns. I didnt ask for your autobiography. You're trying too hard to prove something to yourself. I honestly don't care sir.

You're right, I'm not the first do it. But I will not have individuals like you lecturing me about laziness. Is that understood? It's very irritating.

Build myself on what? Build myself on nairaland? You're joking right? I really couldn't care less. I know who i am when i log off and that keeps me secure.

tosyne2much:
Hahaha did you just say pessimistic though lt to console myself? Lmao

My dear you don't know me to talk about me... So the fact that someone flaws your ill-thought write-up automatically turns that person to a broke person?

You are a kid and your opinion holds no water.. The earlier the better for you to work towards building a career and future for yourself rather that looking for a random man that will you put your burden on.

Wake up from your slumber and stop being lazy.. There's dignity for a lady that gives no damn if man is rich or not.. This is 2017.. No man wan put person like you for house

Women are busy out there doing all they can just to make sure they help their men attain greatness, here you are advising gullible ladies never to consider any broke guy

I just hope you change your orientation about relationship or else, those rich men you throw yourself cheaply at, will continue to shine your congo and drift away

Cc
Naijaboiy

My man don't mind these subtle gold diggers.

All they do is sit in a corner and wait for a ready made man. A woman who is comfortable can never be scared of dating a broke man. In fact, she will have the chance to decide if she should go into that relationship or not and that's when you'll know she truly loves him.

But these broke girls have no choice so they just have to look for a rich guy to cover their brokenness.

If you had money would you be looking for someone else to help you financially? No!

Only broke girls get scared of dating broke guys and I don't have a problem with that. Everybody should learn to hustle and create their own legacy.

I wonder how some people feel feeding off from someone else's wealth without contributing nothing to improve on it.

Selfish girls everywhere!