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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chiraqDemon(m): 12:12pm On May 14, 2017
Jacobmanny:
not in the bible
Well i thought all folllowers of christ were meant to be fishers of men?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 12:14pm On May 14, 2017
missjane:
I am really surprised at all the hate comments coming from so called christians..Christianity is supposed to be a religion of Love y'all!! Not hate.. God didn't send you to bash a guy he loved so much and sent His son to die for whether he knows or believes it or not.
I'm sure God will be ashamed of your rash behaviors.. una attitude Is enough to make someone stop believing in God sef..
Besides I have discovered that for you to be an atheist in Nigeria.. I found out that somehow the bad lifestyles of christians contribute to it..when you cut corners and don't represent your kingdom well.. you are telling a realist (non hypocrite) not to bother serving your God.
Learn to show love, market it cos that's who our God is. LOVE. #okbye
May you never know sorrow all your life. Yes, the attitude of Christians can be very appalling but that's not the reason I am atheist. I am an atheist because the idea if a supernatural is just unbelievable! And all the so-called evidence are not anything close to the definition of the word evidence.

Again I say to you, may you never know sorrow
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by bencarson007(m): 12:15pm On May 14, 2017
TWOYANSH:
let her go bro.. .. She's simply shallow
. Ur moniker says it all...you are very DEEP... As in deeply stupid...why can't u just respect her choice without insulting her... See ur face like TWOYANSH
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by LaClicKLaBenDin(m): 12:17pm On May 14, 2017
chemystery:
one who cant determine right from wrong lacks empathy and not religion
for With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.
I'm sorry, you haven't answered my question.

Everyone who does good or bad has a moral compass, people do not do things for doing sake; a person who does good has his reasons and likewise a person who does evil and they're​ guided by their individual moral compass.

Your response is just a subtle attack on religion, and as much as I disagree, I won't make any attempt in defending religion, and that's because I do not practice religion; I am a Christian who seeks to emulate the lifestyle of Christ.

My question still stands: what is the moral compass of an atheist?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 12:19pm On May 14, 2017
2dugged:
humans need constant reminder to have empathy,first from religion another from the law,now if one fails the other takes over ,that is why I said we as Africans that lack strong laws and institutions are not ready for athiesm. Now if according to my logic which has been obviously influenced by my state of mind tells me to retaliate because a person has done me wrong, logically ,I am right ,but morally that is wrong, even to larger extent according to the gravity of the retaliation, you will be said to have taken the laws into your hands ,that is the different between logicality and morality
without religion or civil law, some people will be good naturally and those are the truly morally upright fellows. Others are just compelled to be good. It is not in them.
It looks impossible to you cos your mind has been programmed that one must be religious to have good morals
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 12:19pm On May 14, 2017
The knowledge that one is an atheist is the beginning of insults from theists. Tell them you are an atheist, and that bruises their ego and the ego of their created God who doesn't have ears and cannot hear; doesn't have eyes and cannot see; doesn't have mouth and cannot speak not to talk of apologizing for the genocide he ordered in the Bible as was recorded in the Bible.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by TWOYANSH: 12:20pm On May 14, 2017
bencarson007:
. Ur moniker says it all...you are very DEEP... As in deeply stupid...why can't u just respect her choice without insulting her... See ur face like TWOYANSH
grin grin.. . I won't engage u in an unwanton display in stupidity... tongue

That still dont change d fact she is SHALLOW
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 12:21pm On May 14, 2017
dapsonlou:
Na She married some other Guy from her Country and that was that. I stalked a on fb for a min then got over it. I miss the way she loved me more than I miss her, not sure if that make sense. Religion should have nothing to do with your relationship. Worship God your way and I will Worship him my way.
I agree
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 12:24pm On May 14, 2017
chemystery:
without religion or civil law, some people will be good naturally and those are the truly morally upright fellows. Others are just compelled to be good. It is not in them.
It looks impossible to you cos your mind has been programmed that one must be religious to have good morals
Thanks a lot. The truth is, religious doctrines are immoral in themselves. Some of the justice that have been brought to this world is oftentimes despite religion. It was brought about by the civil rights movement, LGBT movements, esoteric organizations the same ones that are referred to as satanic by the Christian Church, etc
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 12:25pm On May 14, 2017
LaExpert:
Humanism differs from person to person, place to place and it changes overtime.

Things that are humane to an individual or a group of people could be inhumane to another.

If your moral standards come from humanism, it is bound to be subjective and dynamic which may not be good enough.

Give me a better source...if you have any.
even religious believes within same sects differs.
Catholics honor mary but other doctrines abolishes that.
So there is bound to be difference. It is not somethng new
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by litaninja(m): 12:26pm On May 14, 2017
The sheer amount of stupi.dity you condensed into this single post if just amazing!

Can you even date yourself as an atheist?

She knows that nothing good can come out from such an atheist... and I give a good thumbs up to her for making a good choice!

Because Seu.n is an atheist and built Nairaland... every Tom... DICCK and Harry wants to become one!!

#Bullshit!!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by banmee(m): 12:27pm On May 14, 2017
zealblinks:
omo see painment
only God can save us in 2pac's voice
Yes. Only God. See as e don save you. See as Nigeria be. E don really save una well well.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 12:28pm On May 14, 2017
LaExpert:
If I, as a person, don't mind being killed, is it okay for me to kill others?

If no, why?
I have never been in that state of mind before. My current state of mind is that i wouldn't like being kill and i wouldn't kill no one for that.
When this state of mind changes, i will definitely let you know and also answer your question
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part huh
I'm not an atheist but the way Nigerians hang on to Christianity and Islam, one would think they did not possess the original religion of all creation. Religion causes brain rot in Nigeria so I can understand why you have taken this stance. In regards to your romantic situation, forget the girl. She will always try to convert you and it may end in divorce. If you come into money, the same girl would be chasing you down and begging for a chance. You don't want fake people in your life. Search for a girl who is also an atheist. There are plenty in Nigeria but they may even be hiding in the church to avoid being harassed. Keep searching, they are there.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 12:33pm On May 14, 2017
LaClicKLaBenDin:
I'm sorry, you haven't answered my question.

Everyone who does good or bad has a moral compass, people do not do things for doing sake; a person who does good has his reasons and likewise a person who does evil and they're​ guided by their individual moral compass.

Your response is just a subtle attack on religion, and as much as I disagree, I won't make any attempt in defending religion, and that's because I do not practice religion; I am a Christian who seeks to emulate the lifestyle of Christ.

My question still stands: what is the moral compass of an atheist?
Doin good is from god, doing evil is from devil.
Atheist neither believe in god nor devil.
Hence, our moral compass is based on EMPATHY or HUMANISM
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 12:36pm On May 14, 2017
Splinz:
That's the price you have to pay for being an atheist. To each one his cross, please carry yours, and be strong. smiley
I wonder what your comment would have been if it were the reverse or if it was the lady who put up a thread about realising she's dating an atheist huh
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 12:36pm On May 14, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I'm not an atheist but the way Nigerians hang on to Christianity and Islam, one would think they did not possess the original religion of all creation. Religion causes brain rot in Nigeria so I can understand why you have taken this stance. In regards to your romantic situation, forget the girl. She will always try to convert you and it may end in divorce. If you come into money, the same girl would be chasing you down and begging for a chance. You don't want fake people in your life. Search for a girl who is also an atheist. There are plenty in Nigeria but they may even be hiding in the church to avoid being harassed. Keep searching, they are there.
What a sweet woman you are
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by goodguygonebad: 12:45pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
@ bolded


What impact has your existence made to the world if I may ask undecided

Modified

How i wish Nigerians especially ladies would realize that religion is a scam and that one must not be a religious person to be morally upright

Relate with people based on their individual characteristics and not based on their religious views.

@poster i am sure if God ever existed and we were to stand before a jury panel to be judged in heaven, you will be given a one way ticket to hell

It is not about being Christian or not, ]it is all about being morally upright
PS, you are a foôl to judge me like that undecided
@bolded What's your reference for what's morally right?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 12:46pm On May 14, 2017
Lilimax:
Who wants to follow a fool? Nobody! A fool says in his heart that there is no God. embarassed
You're a fool for making this statement
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by obataokenwa(m): 12:47pm On May 14, 2017
SavageGarden:
You don't know nothing. You clearly can't even comprehend properly. So your God tells You to go about predicting when folks you haven't seen to go mad? I really feel sorry for you that's the sad part.
It got u. check yourself and the way people complain about your reasoning, the madness is already settling on you. Repent Now you still have sanity.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 12:48pm On May 14, 2017
chemystery:
without religion or civil law, some people will be good naturally and those are the truly morally upright fellows. Others are just compelled to be good. It is not in them.
It looks impossible to you cos your mind has been programmed that one must be religious to have good morals
i wasn't basing it on religion rather on psychological compelling,in which religion has become a tool,that is why when it is used in the wrong way,it can be disastrous, hence the suicide bombers and religious fanatics don't misunderstand me
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 12:53pm On May 14, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I'm not an atheist but the way Nigerians hang on to Christianity and Islam, one would think they did not possess the original religion of all creation. Religion causes brain rot in Nigeria so I can understand why you have taken this stance. In regards to your romantic situation, forget the girl. She will always try to convert you and it may end in divorce. If you come into money, the same girl would be chasing you down and begging for a chance. You don't want fake people in your life. Search for a girl who is also an atheist. There are plenty in Nigeria but they may even be hiding in the church to avoid being harassed. Keep searching, they are there.
thanks a bunch wink
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Amberon: 12:55pm On May 14, 2017
Christianity is not by force. You are not expected to believe. It is entirely your choice.

To each his own, but do not tell me that Christians expect you to conform to our beliefs. The whole world knows that is false.
Herrmes:
I don't even know why I'm replying you when you think the God in that your book of stories has a monopoly over his throne and expecting another person to believe that, ,the only law in life is choice, the rest is a truckload of bullshit.
I'll only like you to give me an answer to why you dismiss the Muslim and other Gods, when you understand that then understand why another person dismisses yours.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by pweetiedee(m): 12:55pm On May 14, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I'm not an atheist but the way Nigerians hang on to Christianity and Islam, one would think they did not possess the original religion of all creation. Religion causes brain rot in Nigeria so I can understand why you have taken this stance. In regards to your romantic situation, forget the girl. She will always try to convert you and it may end in divorce. If you come into money, the same girl would be chasing you down and begging for a chance. You don't want fake people in your life. Search for a girl who is also an atheist. There are plenty in Nigeria but they may even be hiding in the church to avoid being harassed. Keep searching, they are there.
You are very correct. You spoke my mind
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 12:56pm On May 14, 2017
missjane:
I am really surprised at all the hate comments coming from so called christians..Christianity is supposed to be a religion of Love y'all!! Not hate.. God didn't send you to bash a guy he loved so much and sent His son to die for whether he knows or believes it or not.
I'm sure God will be ashamed of your rash behaviors.. una attitude Is enough to make someone stop believing in God sef..
Besides I have discovered that for you to be an atheist in Nigeria.. I found out that somehow the bad lifestyles of christians contribute to it..when you cut corners and don't represent your kingdom well.. you are telling a realist (non hypocrite) not to bother serving your God.
Learn to show love, market it cos that's who our God is. LOVE. #okbye
wow, you're really marvelous, only few people like you in this world you know wink
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Obi1kenobi(m): 12:58pm On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part huh
I've encountered the same problems as you. A girl I had something going with during my NYSC days was the same. We met at camp and she initially thought I was just joking when I relayed by unbelief and we were still going out. When she actually realized I was serious, she started avoiding me.

Nigerians are very religious (more so women) and I'm resigned to the fact most girls looking for a "god fearing" husband would be frightened by an atheist. Telling many people in Nigeria that you're atheist has about the same connotation in their mind as telling them you're some kind of occultist.

If you're really serious about a girl, might be best you just pretend to be a "normal" christian and avoid religious discussions. Other than a sister of mine in the UK, none of my family know I'm atheist afterall. My parents would probably have heart attacks, so I just keep it locked away.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 1:00pm On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:
actually, it is the theists here on NL that have a vile filled mouth. You only need to go through this thread in order to see it! Stupid people everywhere!
its the same thing we are saying na grin grin and yes i have seen some of their posts cheesy.anyway this thread is unnecessary.op should go look for a Fellow atheist to marry.abi women no dey attend their atheist temple? cheesy
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by IAmAmbrose(m): 1:01pm On May 14, 2017
justiniyke29:
LOL i go warm d pepersoup
9 days pepper soup
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 1:03pm On May 14, 2017
Obi1kenobi:
I've encountered the same problems as you. A girl I had something going with during my NYSC days was the same. We met at camp and she initially thought I was just joking when I relayed by unbelief and we were still going out. When she actually realized I was serious, she started avoiding me.

Nigerians are very religious (more so women) and I'm resigned to the fact most girls looking for a "god fearing" husband would be frightened by an atheist. Telling many people in Nigeria that you're atheist has about the same connotation in their mind as telling them you're some kind of occultist.

If you're really serious about a girl, might be best you just pretend to be a "normal" christian and avoid religious discussions. Other than a sister of mine in the UK, none of my family know I'm atheist afterall. My parents would probably have heart attacks, so I just keep it locked away.
yeah, I guess you're right
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Amberon: 1:04pm On May 14, 2017
You really do have a way of dodging facts.

Christianity speaks extensively on fear and how a fearful person WILL NOT inherit the kingdom of God. When God said fear not, he wasn't mincing words. God never double talks. Christ never feared the Pharisees and Jewish leaders and that was he spoke his mind everytime. The disciples were not cowards or weaklings. They spoke their minds even though they knew their lives were as take. So don't give me that rhetoric, it is laughable.

The bolded is pure fallacy. It is not the fear of hell that keeps one from it. It is the love of Christ. If you have the love of Christ in you, you will not steal, cheat, backstab, kill, etc because the same selfless unconditional love Jesus Christ demonstrated on the cross would be living in you.
Herrmes:
Lol, a predator could tell it's prey to "fear not. If most of you weren't threatened with hellfire you probably wouldn't have ever been a Christian, it's not just an "if" it's a fact.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Funkybabee(f): 1:04pm On May 14, 2017
better for her to made her own decision before it's too late!!!!
how I wish u should accept Jesus as ur lord and savior because am enjoying great benefits in him.

you are going to enjoy peace,blessing,gifts, freedom, healing,salvation etc in free,can u get all this in ur believe #atheist !!!!!!
May God clear your eyes.
if u think religion blind us can't you taste it or give it a try,one food seller will say taste it and begin to share its testimony.
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