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Considering the mentality of an average Nigerian girl, the economy and every other thing involved, do you prefer to have a wife or a baby mama?

Baby mama





Come and beat me

Slay queen = baby mama








Reasonable Lady = wife

baby mamas

Ole

Running away from responsibilities I see

Jacksparr0w127:
Baby mama





Come and beat me

So being a baby mama is a vocation now?

Quinn22:
Ole

Running away from responsibilities I see

Most of these present age ladies are only good for baby making.

I'm not ready to father anybody's baby

So which do you prefer?

whitebeard:
Slay queen = baby mama








Reasonable Lady = wife

Baby mama is the way forward.

Help me ask them oh!

professorfal:
So being a baby mama is a vocation now?

No it's not normal, it's not part of the African culture, it's very westernised. We too like copy copy, we copy everything from the west, is it inferiority complex or what?

KissChrixx:
So, baby mamaism is now a normal thing

Quinn22:
No it's not normal, it's not part of the African culture, it's very westernised. We too like copy copy, we copy everything from the west, is it inferiority complex or what?

Ask laura ikeji

Quinn22:
So which do you prefer?

obviously a reasonable lady.

He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18 vs 21.

Wife o....baby mama is not a wife...thats why they are called baby mama...

Quinn22:
No it's not normal, it's not part of the African culture, it's very westernised. We too like copy copy, we copy everything from the west, is it inferiority complex or what?

nice one...africans are blind....we believe we cant see so we depend on the western world to see, person wey blind no dey see when them tney lead go gutter

Yay!

whitebeard:
obviously a reasonable lady.

Quinn22:
Yay!

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Quinn22:
Yay!

are u a reasonable lady

Yes I am

whitebeard:
are u a reasonable lady

i kinda like both...
my ex go born one for me..

Quinn22:
Yes I am

lol

topscorer:

Quinn22:
No it's not normal, it's not part of the African culture, it's very westernised. embarassed We too like copy copy, we copy everything from the west, is it inferiority complex or what?

nice one...africans are blind....we believe we cant see so we depend on the western world to see, person wey blind no dey see when them tney lead go gutter

Boys wanna knock up chics and pay for child upkeep, free to roam around as randy dandy-dads and chikcs wanna receive any c0ck, from Jupiter to Jake's, as long as car-keys and easy-life's hanging from the balls!

But "wifeing up" is the only reasonable way to go. Most pple haven't seen the damage multi-parent families do so the idea of 'breeding' women around and littering the whole place with babies seems to hold some novelty for them.
I'm all for sowing your wild oats if you dare but once you're talking kids, don't intentionally sire kids-out-of-wedlock, and if you're wedding the lady, plan to be as faithful as your nuptial bands.

We grew up hearing of the horrors of polygamous homes, seems the curse of our time is baby-mamaism and both guys/chicks are falling for it, fancying themselves as some hood/ghetto Tyga/blac chyna, amber rose/wizkhalifa etc forgetting that traditional white families and celebs would rather divorce and remarrying than whelp babies all over the place doing that kinda ghetto ratchet crap that seemed to have found roots, first, in the Black lower-class communities. Am not putting any kid thru that much less mine.
Plus, the whole package smells like sh!t & smacks of kids in adult bodies wanting to do adult stuff and enjoy adult privileges without paying due adult prices like loyalty, making choices-living by them, owning ur sh!t and working your reality till it's your fantasy.

Spot on

IdeyFindWife:
Boys wanna knock up chics and pay for child upkeep, free to roam around as randy dandy-dads and chikcs wanna receive any c0ck, from Jupiter to Jake's, as long as car-keys and easy-life's hanging from the balls!

But "wifeing up" is the only reasonable way to go. Most pple haven't seen the damage multi-parent families do so the idea of 'breeding' women around and littering the whole place with babies seems to hold some novelty for them.
I'm all for sowing your wild oats if you dare but once you're talking kids, don't intentionally sire kids-out-of-wedlock, and if you're wedding the lady, plan to be as faithful as your nuptial bands.

We grew up hearing of the horrors of polygamous homes, seems the curse of our time is baby-mamaism and both guys/chicks are falling for it, fancying themselves as some hood/ghetto Tyga/blac chyna, amber rose/wizkhalifa etc forgetting that traditional white families and celebs would rather divorce and remarrying than whelp babies all over the place doing that kinda ghetto ratchet crap that seemed to have found roots, first, in the Black lower-class communities. Am not putting any kid thru that much less mine.
Plus, the whole package smells like sh!t & smacks of kids in adult bodies wanting to do adult stuff and enjoy adult privileges without paying due adult prices like loyalty, making choices-living by them, owning ur sh!t and working your reality till it's your fantasy.

Quinn22:
Yes I am

your forehead can nail a nail into a concrete .

Wife.



Nothing beats that.


I wanna be privileged to say: "that's my wife, & im all hers, & she, mine"

Baby mama1
Baby mama2
Baby mama3
Making 3 baby mamas
Until I see a descent gal to marry. Naija gals don spoil fa.

Baby fucki*g mama..
Maybe wife in mi late 40s

Jacksparr0w127:
Most of these present age ladies are only good for baby making.

I'm not ready to father anybody's baby

Gbam!

wife