menwongo:
Op just drop a sarcasm.
She actually meant "why are ladies of nowadays not caring for their boyfriend"



Who know wetin guys the suffer for women hand?

zeusdgrt:
You seem to know what you want.

marisdgreat:

i hope it s not the change of buhari u r talking about

When next I'm in Enugu, you'd now

marisdgreat:

exactly

tshege:


....and here I am thinking girls are dumb and selfish.
Girls are self serving, uncaring and out of touch with reality.

My girlfriend won't call me a throughout a week unless she needs something. When I even try to send whatever she needs, she never bothers to inquire how I came about such miracle. She doesn't get it to her head that I am young, just out of school, and that I need to hustle for a better future for myself, my family members who saw me through school.
No she doesn't understand these things. Same as MOST girls in Nigeria.
On the issue of sex: not all guys are fuckboys, some of us don't mind keeping one partner and staying loyal.
But why must you make sex an issue of money or material things.
Nigerian girls are only concerned about slaying, taking selfies and generally having things easy esp from the malefolk.
I can go on and on listing all the faults with our millennial girls, but that's not to say guys are saints.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

OrangeDream:
Can i tell you a honest brief story?. Twice in my life i have being too nice, supportive and caring to a fault to the only two women i truly loved. But twice have i being terribly disappointed by them.
Now, i hardly think of a relationship anymore. I just want to remain casual to the whole stuff. How do you explain a situation where a girl you had absolute trust on wakes up one morning to tell you that, she's pregnant when you know you never touched her nor suspected/got the tiniest clue from her eyes that she's into someone else?.
Anyway, no long story.

bezimo:
You want him to have 30 billion in the account..to be handsome, a giver, loyal, caring but you can't cook, you are arrogant, you've got empty brain and you are a broke ass girl. Humble yourself, it won't happen because. you cant ask for the complete package if you are an envelope.

thesuave10:

When next I'm in Enugu, you'd now

marisdgreat:

tell me joor where r u now

zeusdgrt:

I like to meet u

falconey:



The only thing that can be there for you is your BRA, it's caring,loving and supportive.

Guys got their life too remember?

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

EmpressT:
Can't give a comment cos I never had one. So sad hmm..

Nomfanelo99:
The very same guys complaining are the same guys who wanna date the Kim K's . All they care about are looks . how much ass she got/boobs . If you don't wanna get burnt don't play with fire simple . Many average looking females are yet to get married. Until you look beyond physical appearance you will continue complaining about females being gold diggers. Most guys are after the Kim Ks . its a competition and the highest bidder always win .

EmmyDe25:


Don't blame we guys. I think you ladies should be equally blamed for this. Ladies are usually nice and warm during the friendship phase. But once relationship kicks in. They start showing their true self. I was involved in a "cameo-relationship" with a lady couple of months back whom i thought we had something strong together from the blast. We met at a workshop and the connection was unreal. Never felt so connected with anyone like that in the past. It was surreal!! We both wanted a relationship but i told her i needed to be sure the feeling wasn't all smokescreen so she should afford me sometime. She obliged but after one week. We decided to venture into a relationship - believing things can only get better. However, it's been a complete opposite of what i anticipated. She expects me to call her 20 times a day, allow her to drive my car around on major roads even though she's still learning, take her out to lunch every day( her office isn't so far from mine). Not like i have issues with all of that. Where i have issue is keeping to her own side of the bargain. She cancels on meetings without prior notice and expect me to understand even though she goes mad if i do same, wants us to be seeing week days during work but never deemed it fit for us to see during weekends - what if we don't work around the same area? The friendship phase was mind blowing, but now? I can't deal. Eventually had to tell her we should just be friends, because i can't be unhappy in my relationship. Had issues with that at first but i think she's fine now. I just don't understand why you ladies sorta magnify the guys' baggage in a relationship while sweeping yours under the carpet. Right now, i feel like all ladies come with the same baggage and to avoid those needless things, i better stay on my lane. Nothing beats having a peace of mind.

Angy55:

castro316:

Still a young girl hmm?

TheLordIsGr8:


Why are guys of nowadays so hard to manipulate.

Fixed it for ya.

Nomfanelo99:
The very same guys complaining are the same guys who wanna date the Kim K's . All they care about are looks . how much ass she got/boobs . If you don't wanna get burnt don't play with fire simple . Many average looking females are yet to get married. Until you look beyond physical appearance you will continue complaining about females being gold diggers. Most guys are after the Kim Ks . its a competition and the highest bidder always win .

EmpressT:
In my late 20's to be. Still young I can say

zeusdgrt:
I laff at who believes you.

EmpressT:
In my late 20's to be. Still young I can say

EmpressT:
Can't give a comment cos I never had one. So sad hmm..

thesuave10:

I'm in Lagos. Will send you a pm package when I arrive in Enugu

castro316:
this english strong o. I suspect you are 25 right?

But why have girls thrown companionship away for material things. Girls have forgotten their roles and allow their friends do the thinking for them what advice do you expect from a girl who breaks up with anybody and tells you that's being independent