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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:50am On Aug 14, 2017 |
preccy69 com and carry your sister ooo b4 guys fall on her |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:51am On Aug 14, 2017 |
menwongo: Why are guys of nowadays so hard to manipulate. Fixed it for ya. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by marisdgreat(f): 9:51am On Aug 14, 2017 |
zeusdgrt:exactly |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by thesuave10(m): 9:53am On Aug 14, 2017 |
marisdgreat: When next I'm in Enugu, you'd now |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by zeusdgrt(m): 9:56am On Aug 14, 2017 |
marisdgreat:Then stay true to what you want and if a time comes for exceptions you will know. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by marisdgreat(f): 9:56am On Aug 14, 2017 |
tshege:if i should tell u what a fellow guy like u did to me on our first meeting eeh than to talk of what i hav passed through in the hands of guys |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by chezzy13(f): 10:21am On Aug 14, 2017 |
I keep asking the same thing.. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by EmmyDe25(m): 10:31am On Aug 14, 2017 |
chibaby1990: Don't blame we guys. I think you ladies should be equally blamed for this. Ladies are usually nice and warm during the friendship phase. But once relationship kicks in. They start showing their true self. I was involved in a "cameo-relationship" with a lady couple of months back whom i thought we had something strong together from the blast. We met at a workshop and the connection was unreal. Never felt so connected with anyone like that in the past. It was surreal!! We both wanted a relationship but i told her i needed to be sure the feeling wasn't all smokescreen so she should afford me sometime. She obliged but after one week. We decided to venture into a relationship - believing things can only get better. However, it's been a complete opposite of what i anticipated. She expects me to call her 20 times a day, allow her to drive my car around on major roads even though she's still learning, take her out to lunch every day( her office isn't so far from mine). Not like i have issues with all of that. Where i have issue is keeping to her own side of the bargain. She cancels on meetings without prior notice and expect me to understand even though she goes mad if i do same, wants us to be seeing week days during work but never deemed it fit for us to see during weekends - what if we don't work around the same area? The friendship phase was mind blowing, but now? I can't deal. Eventually had to tell her we should just be friends, because i can't be unhappy in my relationship. Had issues with that at first but i think she's fine now. I just don't understand why you ladies sorta magnify the guys' baggage in a relationship while sweeping yours under the carpet. Right now, i feel like all ladies come with the same baggage and to avoid those needless things, i better stay on my lane. Nothing beats having a peace of mind. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nomfanelo99(f): 10:33am On Aug 14, 2017 |
OrangeDream: Even ladies go through that . Finding out the person you thought could never do wrong in your eyes have impregnated someone. others even look pass that and forgive the guy |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by EmmyDe25(m): 10:48am On Aug 14, 2017 |
bezimo:More like you took these words out of my mouth man. Why are you in my head! |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 10:48am On Aug 14, 2017 |
Lots of drama is going on here!! |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by marisdgreat(f): 10:51am On Aug 14, 2017 |
thesuave10:tell me joor where r u now |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by thesuave10(m): 10:53am On Aug 14, 2017 |
marisdgreat: I'm in Lagos. Will send you a pm package when I arrive in Enugu |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nomfanelo99(f): 10:59am On Aug 14, 2017 |
The very same guys complaining are the same guys who wanna date the Kim K's . All they care about are looks . how much ass she got/boobs . If you don't wanna get burnt don't play with fire simple . Many average looking females are yet to get married. Until you look beyond physical appearance you will continue complaining about females being gold diggers. Most guys are after the Kim Ks . its a competition and the highest bidder always win . |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by EmpressT(f): 12:31pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Can't give a comment cos I never had one. So sad hmm.. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Angy55(f): 12:36pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
zeusdgrt: |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Gentlevin: 12:48pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Hmmmm what can I say? Some girls just have a brain reset in a sweet relationship and suddenly things go bizarre. I just pity d next girl I will meet cos I won't show DAT love anymore till marriage. I won't buy her things til marriage. Some immature girls make it hard for the mature and responsible ones to enjoy caring guys. OK tell me, what will make a girl wake up one morning and ignore her guys call for one month. And when she finally picks, and d guy ask for reasons for such action, she simply says NOTHING...so annoying. And next yr, she ignores again but for 2 months and next yr for 3 months...hmmm oboy na run I run oo. NO BE BY FORCE TO LUV... |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by IamAirforce1: 12:58pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
falconey:mumu |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by castro316: 1:25pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
chibaby1990: You need to be The kind of girl a caring guy wants to have as a girlfriend. Most girls don't understand that they think that once they slay, they get the blocs whereas, their bad character sell them out. 80% of what you say tells a lot about you. The bible says that the kingdom of heaven is like a piece of land with hidden treasures. A wise man finds it, sells all he has to buy it. Are you ready to become that piece of land? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by castro316: 1:27pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
EmpressT: Still a young girl hmm? |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by castro316: 1:29pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Nomfanelo99: It's not true. Most times it's. Just for sexx only but when we want a WIFE we become more cautious. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by castro316: 1:34pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
EmmyDe25: Aw! |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by zeusdgrt(m): 1:34pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Angy55:Only if u will want to,am not pushing cz u ladies can be funny in thought |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by EmpressT(f): 1:37pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
In my late 20's to be. Still young I can say
castro316: |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by castro316: 1:37pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8: Or why have guys stopped being mumus? They think it's the way nollywood paints relationships may girls dont have anything to offer and but all the relationship responsibility on guys |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by zeusdgrt(m): 1:40pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Nomfanelo99:Competition for a lady?only dumb guys will do that. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by zeusdgrt(m): 1:42pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
EmpressT:I laff at who believes you. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by EmpressT(f): 1:48pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Hmm... And I don't care either. zeusdgrt: |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by castro316: 1:49pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
EmpressT:this english strong o. I suspect you are 25 right? But why have girls thrown companionship away for material things. Girls have forgotten their roles and allow their friends do the thinking for them what advice do you expect from a girl who breaks up with anybody and tells you that's being independent |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by castro316: 1:52pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
EmpressT:and becos you haven't started. A journey doesn't mean you won't go thru it honey |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by marisdgreat(f): 2:00pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
thesuave10:and also good packages from lagos ooh |
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by EmpressT(f): 2:00pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Yes I am 25. Well, for me, I think some girls do these things for their own selfish reasons. Most girls base their love for men on materials. I admire friendship from serious men, but love, emm I can't say castro316: |
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