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Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Temidayo9(m): 4:51pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mynd44:Since you never married, you don't know how it will look like to have a tree without fruit. Bible said : children re the heritage of the lord. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nobody: 4:52pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mynd44: Repeat this statement 10 years after marriage 1 Like |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Icecream4U(m): 4:53pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
monsterseo:Who are the "we"? 1 Like |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Empiree: 4:53pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mynd44:Lol...dont take it personal. My post was rather conventional as commonly known amongst nigerian mums. You no dey watch them on tv how they victimize their daughter in-laws over this? |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Temidayo9(m): 4:54pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
nedu2000:Or player that has never score goal in his career lifetime |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:56pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
IffaCatchYouEhn: a footballer's abilities on the fields are not in question (as no footballers would ever be approached if he was crap) but even the best of the best like Neymar had a medical check up before joining PSG. any woman can become a wife (duh), but only a healthy one can become a MOTHER... which is what is important to these guys. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Mynd44: 4:56pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Temidayo9: Tell this to a non Christian. What is your point again? |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Mynd44: 4:57pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Empiree:Victimize wives or men who dont cant seem to draw the line between their parents and wife. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Icecream4U(m): 4:58pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas:Actually, They are both waiting... If I can't have a child then, I shouldn't be married. That's my own o! I just can't stand the feelings of not seeing those little boys and girls playing around me, scattering the house and annoying me sometimes. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nobody: 4:59pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
LordKO: Such scenario happened to a colleague. Her fiance got her pregnant, until belle reach 6months, before he paid her bride price, with church wedding. On the 7th month, she had a miscarriage. She had to be operated on through CS. The baby didnt survive, her fiance now husband is so bitter. He stopped checking up on her in the hospital until she was discharged. He called his sister to go keep his wife company and he needs to travel for buisness. They all know he is so unhappy with all the Monies he spent making the wedding come through. Just too bad. Is that love? |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by muller101(m): 5:00pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mynd44:only if pressure from parents and relatives are not forth coming. In some homes if pikin no come u don die be that o |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by jericco1(m): 5:00pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Never |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by muller101(m): 5:01pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
I only need baby mama that's all. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by chiamaka4g: 5:02pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Who caused the damaged womb? Men like you and you definitely sound like one who have pushed young women into abortion. MrBrownJay1: |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Temidayo9(m): 5:02pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mynd44:. Does it mean God is only for Christians?. What is not in the capacity of mankind is how the pregnancy form in the womb. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Ngokafor(f): 5:03pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas: Its a serious issue..An older male cousin of mine has one child,a girl who is about 12years old..The last time i was in Abuja,i spent some time in their home,only for his wife to confide in me with tears in her eyes that they rarely make love anymore..He touches her once in a years in the last three years..Those times were nothing to write home about cos he manhood was borderline flaccid the whole time. She has tried all sorts to make him come around and tell her what the problem is...They had gone to see a doc last year only for him to be diagonised with extremely low sperm count..Now the problem is not the low sperm count,but his complete disinterest in doing something about it..He hardly takes the drugs his wife runs around to get for him..yet from all indications,he wants more children as well. She says she knows people think the problem is with her..some pastors keeps telling her to fast and pray for more Children,but she wonders if its possible to get pregnant without her husband sleeping with her..She wonders how long she can hold up cos she is too young to live like that(she is 37) I felt so bad for her and my cousin as well..really sad. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Empiree: 5:03pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mynd44:Now you begin to sound funny. If your mum understands, fine. Not really particular about her. Most mothers, if you try to interfere and curb her, yourself will pay the price. She go threaten you that she go go naked and swear for you if you dont get another wife She go tell you your wife don wash her private area in your food and you ate it |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by LordKO(m): 5:03pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
alexialin: That's ironical. His action showed that he was hypocritically disingenuous with whatever love he professed to her from the inception of their relationship. As I said earlier herein, mind games is only for small-minded people. 1 Like |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Ngokafor(f): 5:04pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Temidayo9(m): 5:04pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mynd44:Are you currently married? |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Skillfullulu(m): 5:04pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
kuchikau1:Shey no be human being him be? |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Skillfullulu(m): 5:05pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Temidayo9:answer us o |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:07pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
chiamaka4g: but of course, because i FORCED these women into having unprotected sex with me, and also FORCED them into not taking the morning after pill... and later FORCED them to go see some quack doctor to have abortions, right?! ARRANT NONSENSE from deluded women! if a babe has a damaged womb then SHE (and only she) is solely to be blamed for that. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by SydneyBrown(f): 5:08pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Thats absurd.....it doesn't make sense at all �� |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Martin0(m): 5:09pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Ngokafor:You finish matter oooo,even lefulefu come note am down.. |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Ngokafor(f): 5:10pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Martin0: |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Pearllait(f): 5:10pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
LordKO: GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY.... 1 Like |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nomfanelo99(f): 5:15pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
last time I checked children were a gift from God . why ask her to marry you if you still going to wait for her to reproduce before marrying her ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Femsyn(m): 5:16pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
I take it that some us here are either biased, selfish or basically ignorant. Yes! Children are one of the blessings of marriage, but you cannot get your would be spouse pregnant first before marriage just to confirm if she's fertile or not. I will state some scenarios that negate this common practice among relationships nowadays. 1. Highlighting your quest for children says a lot about how much you value your so-called spouse and marriage. 2. Like others have opined, miscarriage, spontaneous abortion, still births can still occur after pregnancy. 3. Pregnancy is not achieved by the contribution of the egg and a viable womb alone, it also requires a viable sperm and penis. 4. You can both be certified OK by medical practitioners and still not be able to conceive. 5. You can have your children, but not grow old with them. Still ends as barreness. 6. You can have the children and not enjoy them for one day. Havent you heard parents say "it would've been better being barren than have these children"? 7. Virginity or sexual purity does not guarantee conception, neither does serial abortion guarantee barreness. There are much more scenarios that negate this unpopular practice, but I will stop here. Bottom line, you can't play God! |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by bentuzene(m): 5:17pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
Once she's married I pay all I must... No comma just marriage. Must I wait? Can't I Adopt? It's only people who have fears that do that tho! |
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nomfanelo99(f): 5:22pm On Aug 15, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: Those very same morning after pills are not good for women . |
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