OrdercityWeb:

[s]Lol!
It seems i struck a nerve right?

You can't dispute with what I've written and its obvious you have no logical rebuttal for it so you simply opted for the easy way out.
So intelligent of you. Lol[/s]

pcguru1:


guy too much english. besides OP wants attention so we are giving it to him, why you bothered, is this the OP's second account ?

Livefreeordieha:
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joeeee240:


ITS NOT GUILT

pcguru1:


am actually more interested in the font, how u take change am ?

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

AreaFada2:


Spirit wives ko, masquerade/egungun wives ni.

It is not at all unusual to feel such hate.

In fact it is one of the reasons some guys womanize a lot. Thinking they have now definitely found the girl they love. But same happens after sex.

Once you have "conquered" her, your hunter instinct is to get a "fresh" one.

Fact is that you have not really fallen in love with a girl. Not even the latest you are "planning future reference with", whatever that means.

I feared same feeling so much that I turned down two/three girls who were all over me. One as a teenager, and another was a work colleague years later. I confided in a female friend about the work colleague. That she was really pretty and most guys at work toast her but she refused them.
That as shapely & pretty she was, I had no feelings for her. Though because we were so close, everyone called us bf & gf. But we were NOT.
The female friend advised me not to date her or be intimate with her. That she'd could trap me with pregnancy.

I called her one day and told her the truth. That I had no feelings for her. She'd not even speak to me after that. She looked sick for a few weeks.
The second work colleague seemed like "donatus" in that she had two other guys, gleaned from talking to her. Maybe even more. She liked me but was not in love with me.

She had the most curvy shape you could find. And tall. ALL work colleagues toasted her. ALL. And she told me so. And asked why I never toasted her. Really, people yearn for something seemingly out of reach. It took the Grace of God not to bang her one day. Very close. Before I regained my composure. She was gagging for it and her disappointment was obvious on her face.

A few months later, I left the job. Thank God. Working with her had become very difficult.

@OP,
In essence, you can feel "dirty" after sleeping with a girl you should not have slept with. The hate you suddenly feel may be partly due to your own guilt. We all have conscience, no matter how hard we try to suppress it.

joeeee240:


I DON'T HAVE INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS WITH APES

OrdercityWeb:
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage.
Things like:
Guilt
Unwanted pregnancies
STDs
Lack of commitment
Possibility of cheating when married.
And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage.
I have said my own

OrdercityWeb:

Lol!
I see you have a problem with that word. But still whatever you choose to call it, he is feeling uneasy with himself and this translates to "hate" for the woman. So i think you should give me a definition of what that is? I await your definition.
...
Anyway avoiding sex b4 marriage would save you lots of stress like this and many more.
How many people are you going to have sex with before you know your right spouse because i see alot of you mention "compatibility"?

Evaberry:
You're just looking for attention

OrdercityWeb:

[s]Yes you can't. Its quite obvious you lack the mental wherewithal to engage an "Ape".
I'll give you one last chance to dispute all i wrote below. I should let you know i don't have high expectations as i can guess what your reply will be already. It's what happens when you're faced with fact and reality. [/s]

Livefreeordieha:
na app ғroм play ѕтore

fumiswtpusy:

Common shut up.you can liar ehn,the most curvy girl we could see.abeg I no want life.
Who u be self.brad Pitt or who

Unclebrutus:
U have a marine wife & u need a serious deliverance. Mind u if u continue having sex with different girls the possibility of u having a marine spirit is 99.9%

AreaFada2:

Lol. Surprisingly, not the most handsome guys marry the prettiest girls. If not look around you. Even if you are average looking, you can date a very pretty girl if you both see daily, such as in workplace. She gets to know you.

Baba Onikeke's wife might just look "prettier" than a banker's wife. I have seen many.

Guess what? The pretty girl has most likely "tasted" the very handsome guys. If you are solid, genuine and confident in your worldview, the babe who has "seen" those handsome guys could see things in you that she has not seen in those guys. Especially when she begins thinking about settling down.

joeeee240:


GUILT IS WHEN YOU FEEL YOU'VE DONE SOMETHING WRONG. AND YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH EVIDENCE TO PROVE GUILT. BUT FROM HIS STATEMENT IT'S NOT GUILT.

SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. YOU MUST NOT HAVE SEX WITH MANY PARTNERS, MAYBE 4 OR 5

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

joeeee240:


YOU MUST BE AN UNCIRCUMCISED IDÍOT TO THINK WHAT YOU WROTE HAS A SHRED OF RESEMBLANCE TO FACT AND REALITY

Lol! Well that's a subjective opinion. But you're still yet to prove the points wrong. Haven't you?
I await your answers on my other mention.

suremanpatriot:
...wet dream is the main symptom of spirit spouse. This manifest mostly from d beginning of puberty. Since u aren't havin wet dreams,it is not spirit spouse related.