joeeee240:



I[s]T'S EITHER YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ENGLISH OR YOU'RE NOT A SMART PERSON. GUILT AND CONSCIENCE ARE NOT SEPERABLE. THE ISSUE IS THAT HE DOES NOT FEEL GUILT. IS THIS HARD TO UNDERSTAND? THERE'S NO ELEMENT OF WRONG DOING EITHER CONSCIOUSLY OR SUBCONSCIOUSLY. THIS IS THE EASIEST TO UNDERSTAND BUT AGAIN YOU'RE NOT SMART. THERE ARE OTHER PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS WHICH YOU CANNOT FULLY DETERMINE WITHOUT ENOUGH EVIDENCE [/s]

I READ THROUGH YOUR PROFILE AND YOU CALLED YOURSELF A RESEARHER AND THAT YOU ASK DEEP QUESTIONS LOL.. . I COULDN'T STOP LAUGHING. I DON'T THINK YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT RESEARCH IS.
NOW MY TAKE IS 4 OR 5 PERSONS BECAUSE YOU CANNOT SAY 4.6 OR 4.8 PERSONS SO I HAD TO ROUND IT UP. YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY ALL THESE QUACK RESEARCHERS DECEIVING THEMSELVES BECAUSE EVERYTHING WITH SCIENCE IS EITHER ROUNDED UP OR GIVEN A RANGE EXAMPLE AGE GROUPS OR TH VALUE OF PI. THIS 4 OR 5 IS A REPLICA. SO ONE DOESN'T SAY 4.6 PERSONS


YOUR QUESTION ABOUT CHANCES OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY IS ONE OF THE MOST STUPID QUESTIONS I'VE EVER HEARD(AND THERE'S A POPULAR SAYING THAT THERE'S NO FOOLISH QUESTION) LOL IF YOU THINK THIS IS ASKING DEEP QUESTIONS CHAI YOU HAVE BEEN DECEIVING YOURSELF. YOU KEEP MAKING FALLACIES [s] DO YOU KNOW THAT EACH TIME YOU DRIVE OUT OR LEAVE YOUR HOUSE, THE CHANCES OF YOU GETTING AN ACCIDENT IS HIGHER THAN IF YOU STAYED BACK AT HOME?[/s] (JUST SEE HOW STUPID THAT SOUNDED) THE AIM IS TO BE CAREFUL AND WEAR A FÛCKING CONDOMN. INFACT FOR YOU TO BRING THIS UP SHOWS YOUR NOT SMART AT ALL.

A PHYSICALLY DAMAGED PERSON CAN COPE BUT THIS ISSUE COMES UP WHEN THE BEST IS PHYSICALLY DAMAGED. DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SCIENCE AND RESEARCH IS. MOST LAWS AND RESEARCH WORKS ALWAYS AND ALWAYS HAVE AN "ERROR IN GRAPH" . BEANS IS GOOD FOR BODY GROWTH BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE ALLERGIC TO IT, SO YOU'LL NOW OPEN THAT YOUR MOUTH BECAUSE THERE ARE CHANCES OF PEOPLE BEING ALLERGIC TO BEANS THAT PEOPLE SHOULD NOT EAT BEANS ABEG RECEIVE SENSE! THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE IS NOT EVERYONE. I HAVE SPECIFIED THE NUMBER ALREADY

OrdercityWeb:

What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]

OrdercityWeb:

Lol! You didn't betray my expectations of you at all. I repeat for the last time, stop directing words at my personality and face the issue here. All what you wrote in bolded is unecessary and I'll do like i didn't see it. The first paragraph is out of our discuss.
For the third time please answer the questions @the bolded below. Thanks!

Randy91:

Active time for me

OrdercityWeb:

Lol! You didn't betray my expectations of you at all. I repeat for the last time, stop directing words at my personality and face the issue here. All what you wrote in bolded is unecessary and I'll do like i didn't see it. The first paragraph is out of our discuss.
For the third time please answer the questions @the bolded below. Thanks!

Lol! You successfully evaded my questions again and cherry picked on a non-issue (conscience and guilt ) which you and i know they are in separable.
I repeat please answer these questions directly @the bloded portions.
You didn't want to give a probability? Lol
Probability comes in Mr when you're making predictions or speculations. So there is a possibility of you sleeping with more than 10 people just to find out "sexual compatibility" which can still be according to your words "COPE" with in the event of a disability in marriage.
You have successfully admitted it is not very important like oxygen that cannot be done without.
Lol! Fallacious? Why can't we look at things been "unequal", because there is a possibility of that right? i will appreciate it if you stop being evasive and answer the questions. Don't let's derail the discuss. Stick to the questions and the point I've raised. Thanks
I have more questions but let me stop here and let you attend to the bolded portions that you succesfully evaded.

joeeee240:



IT'S EITHER YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ENGLISH OR YOU'RE NOT A SMART PERSON. GUILT AND CONSCIENCE ARE NOT SEPERABLE. THE ISSUE IS THAT HE DOES NOT FEEL GUILT. IS THIS HARD TO UNDERSTAND? THERE'S NO ELEMENT OF WRONG DOING EITHER CONSCIOUSLY OR SUBCONSCIOUSLY. THIS IS THE EASIEST TO UNDERSTAND BUT AGAIN YOU'RE NOT SMART. THERE ARE OTHER PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS WHICH YOU CANNOT FULLY DETERMINE WITHOUT ENOUGH EVIDENCE

I READ THROUGH YOUR PROFILE AND YOU CALLED YOURSELF A RESEARHER AND THAT YOU ASK DEEP QUESTIONS LOL.. . I COULDN'T STOP LAUGHING. I DON'T THINK YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT RESEARCH IS. NOW MY TAKE IS 4 OR 5 PERSONS BECAUSE YOU CANNOT SAY 4.6 OR 4.8 PERSONS SO I HAD TO ROUND IT UP. YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY ALL THESE QUACK RESEARCHERS DECEIVING THEMSELVES BECAUSE EVERYTHING WITH SCIENCE IS EITHER ROUNDED UP OR GIVEN A RANGE EXAMPLE AGE GROUPS OR TH VALUE OF PI. THIS 4 OR 5 IS A REPLICA. SO ONE DOESN'T SAY 4.6 PERSONS


YOUR QUESTION ABOUT CHANCES OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY IS ONE OF THE MOST STUPID QUESTIONS I'VE EVER HEARD(AND THERE'S A POPULAR SAYING THAT THERE'S NO FOOLISH QUESTION) LOL IF YOU THINK THIS IS ASKING DEEP QUESTIONS CHAI YOU HAVE BEEN DECEIVING YOURSELF. YOU KEEP MAKING FALLACIES DO YOU KNOW THAT EACH TIME YOU DRIVE OUT OR LEAVE YOUR HOUSE, THE CHANCES OF YOU GETTING AN ACCIDENT IS HIGHER THAN IF YOU STAYED BACK AT HOME? (JUST SEE HOW STUPID THAT SOUNDED) THE AIM IS TO BE CAREFUL AND WEAR A FÛCKING CONDOMN. INFACT FOR YOU TO BRING THIS UP SHOWS YOUR NOT SMART AT ALL.

A PHYSICALLY DAMAGED PERSON CAN COPE BUT THIS ISSUE COMES UP WHEN THE BEST IS PHYSICALLY DAMAGED. DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SCIENCE AND RESEARCH IS. MOST LAWS AND RESEARCH WORKS ALWAYS AND ALWAYS HAVE AN "ERROR IN GRAPH" . BEANS IS GOOD FOR BODY GROWTH BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE ALLERGIC TO IT, SO YOU'LL NOW OPEN THAT YOUR MOUTH BECAUSE THERE ARE CHANCES OF PEOPLE BEING ALLERGIC TO BEANS THAT PEOPLE SHOULD NOT EAT BEANS ABEG RECEIVE SENSE! THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE IS NOT EVERYONE. I HAVE SPECIFIED THE NUMBER ALREADY

joeeee240:



[s] A SMART PERSON WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THE ANSWER. I USED YOUR WORDS AND STUPID QUESTION TO KNOW YOUR PERSON. YOU ARE DAFT. IT'S QUITE SIMPLE[/s]

OrdercityWeb:

And condoms are 100% safe. They don't fail?
Why do you have to use a condom? It shows you're avoiding the responsibility and consequences that comes with your actions. Isn't it?
I await your answer to my other mention.

OrdercityWeb:

I'll just ignore this and await your answer to my other mentions. Lol

HMZi:
Thats cold....

after sex i just want total silence,its when she talks that i get annoyed...

RETIREDMUMU:



this thing will surely happen when i got married

Effiezynews:


Selfish creature...If you can't hold a conversation, have no erection..

joeeee240:



CHAI MAY GOD HELP YOUR BRAIN SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE BECAUSE IT'S EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. SO BECAUSE OF THOSE PROBLEMS, YOU SHOULD NOW AVOID IT. THE PROBLEM WITH THIS IS THAT YOU DON'T SEE IT AS IMPORTANT AND YOUR POINTS TO PROVE IT ARE FALLACIOUS. LET ME TEACH YOU HOW TO BE SMART.

YOU: YOU'RE MAKING A PROPORTION THAT MARRIAGE IS THE BEST TIME FOR SEX. NOW THIS IS WHERE YOU BRING THE STD ARGUMENT WHICH I WIL STILL DEBUNK i never mentioned only std, i mentioned unwanted pregnancies, then you mentioned condoms.
Isn't that funny? Comdoms are not 100% safe and you opting for condoms show you are avoiding the comsequence and responsibility of your choice and action. Right?

ME: I'M MAKING A PROPOSITION THAT SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS IMPORTANT BEFORE MARRIAGE FOR VARIOUS REASONS. You said it can be "coped" with. That makes it not as important as oxygen that means its not the most important deciding factor for getting married. Because it could change. Get?

THE PROBLEM YOUR MAKING IS BY BRINGING STD TO THE ARGUMENT. I SEE SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY AS VERY IMPORTANT WHICH YOU DON'T. THE BENEFITS I GET FROM SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY OUT WAY THE RISK PLUS THE RISK HAS BEEN GREATLY REDUCED. YOU ON THE OTHER HAND FEEL THAT SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS NOT IMPORTANT. AND YOUR REASONS ARE BECAUSE OF THOSE SAME RISKS I FEEL ARE NOT IMPORTANT. SO THE BEST WAY FOR YOU TO HELP YOUR CASE IS EITHER YOU ARGUE WHY I SHOULD PUT MORE IMPORTANCE TO THE RISK OR YOU TELL ME WHY SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS NOT SO IMPORTANT WITHOUT USING THE RISKS( This is a lie, i never said sexual compatibility is not important. You said it can be "coped " with. Right? So this means its not the most important factor in a marriage. Right?
And i asked a question, do you have to keep sleeping with everyone you meet to prove sexual compatibility? Does that not increase the chances of contacting STDs, and resulting in unwanted pregnacies? LET ME EXPLAIN MY LAST LINE. [s]IF I WANT TO BECOME A DOCTOR AND THE RISKS INVOLVED TO BECOME A DOCTOR INVOLVES ME JUMPING OF A PLANE, IF YOU AGAINST THE DOCTOR THING IT WILL BE STUPID MAKING YOUR ARGUMENTS BY SAYING YOU'LL HAVE TO JUMP OF A PLANE AND THEREFORE YOU SHOULDN'T BE A DOCTOR BECAUSE IN MY MIND THAT RISK WHICH IS VERY VALUABLE TO YOU IS NOT AS VALUABLE TO ME. YOUR ARGUMENT SHOULD BE ONCE YOU BECOME A DOCTOR, HOW IMPORTANT IS IT? WHAT ARE THE CHALLENGES? WILL YOU GET EMPLOYMENT? ETC. SO IN THIS CONTEXT WHAT YOU SHOULD BE ASKING IS, ONCE I HAVE ALL THE SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY I'M LOOKING FOR HOW WILL IT HELP IN MY RELATIONSHIP? NOT ALL THESE STUPID QUESTIONS YOU'RE ASKING [/s]Becoming a doctor doesn't involve jumping on a plane. Stop formulating scenarios to butress your point. Use logical scenarios. So therefore this doesn't hold. Answer my questions at the bolded above. Thanks!

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.

i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)

i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found

i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

Bluffly:
He is also lazy and lack self esteem.

Billyonaire:
Have you tried being with a man ? May be you are gay

boman2014:




then stop having sex with them. focus on the relationship

Effiezynews:


Selfish creature...If you can't hold a conversation, have no erection..

Lol!
Joeeee240 and his gang of "testing" girls to determine "sexual compatibility " as if that's the most important factor. Sexual compatibility can change anytime so what would you now do?
So you'd keep sleeping with every girl you meet until you prove who is "sexually compatible".
Lol!!
You say you use condom that is not 100%safe and you could contact STIs or she could get pregnant and yet you would not want to bear the consequence or responsibility of that action. So aren't you been irresponsible by avoiding the responsibility of your action?
...
It's girsl i should advice to shun all these "testing" guys like joeeee240 so they don't "dump" you after checking "sexual compatibility".

OrdercityWeb:

Lol!
Joeeee240 and his gang of "testing" girls to determine "sexual compatibility " as if that's the most important factor. Sexual compatibility can change anytime so what would you now do?
So you'd keep sleeping with every girl you meet until you prove who is "sexually compatible".
Lol!!
You say you use condom that is not 100%safe and you could contact STIs or she could get pregnant and yet you would not want to bear the consequence or responsibility of that action. So aren't you been irresponsible by avoiding the responsibility of your action?
...
It's girsl i should advice to shun all these "testing" guys like joeeee240 so they don't "dump" you after checking "sexual compatibility".

Effiezynews:



What on God's green earth are you saying?

OrdercityWeb:

[b]What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?

EMMAUGOH:
happened to me twice, i stop attaching sex to relationship.. cant be hating people i should be loving.

some girls think am a mumu by doing so

OrdercityWeb:

And condoms are 100% safe. They don't fail?
Why do you have to use a condom? It shows you're avoiding the responsibility and consequences that comes with your actions. Isn't it?
I await your answer to my other mention.
Joeeee240 I'm waiting for answer to these questions. Thanks!

OrdercityWeb:

Thanks for being honest. Joeeee240 shey you see this guy now.

OrdercityWeb:

Lol!
Joeeee240 and his gang of "testing" girls to determine "sexual compatibility " as if that's the most important factor. Sexual compatibility can change anytime so what would you now do?
So you'd keep sleeping with every girl you meet until you prove who is "sexually compatible".
Lol!!
You say you use condom that is not 100%safe and you could contact STIs or she could get pregnant and yet you would not want to bear the consequence or responsibility of that action. So aren't you been irresponsible by avoiding the responsibility of your action?
...
It's girsl i should advice to shun all these "testing" guys like joeeee240 so they don't "dump" you after checking "sexual compatibility".

joeeee240:

[s]

WHAT IS YOUR POINT. THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT EAT SHÎT SO I SHOULD JOIN THEM AT EAT IT. THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT GIVE MouthAction to hookers so I should join them. Swerve jare /s]\

OrdercityWeb:

[b]What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

joeeee240:



BLOOD OF JESUS? I'M IRRESPONSIBLE BY TRYING TO AVOID PREGNANCIES AND STD WITH A CONDOM? YOU ARE STUPID

OrdercityWeb:

Lol. I wasn't talking to you. I was reffering to someone else. I only used your comment as an anchor. Maybe you should follow the thread you'd get where I'm coming from.
And yes my posts are self explanatory.
Abstaining from sex before marriage saves you a lot of headache and stress

Joeeee240 you successfully avoided this question also

joeeee240:



[s]I SAID THERE ARE OTHER PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES WHICH CANNOT BE SPECIFIED GIVEN THE AVAILABLE EVIDENCE OR PREMISE[/s]