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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by thunderbabs: 4:25am On Sep 03, 2017 |
boman2014: Then he marries, bleeps hz wife nd d hatred worsens. Not the best advice. Go n seek help from Satghuru Marhaji |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by petitejolie(f): 4:41am On Sep 03, 2017 |
hmmmn! continue Mr sexer until u sex ogbanje den u will know wat is doing u. stop fornicating. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Originalsly: 5:07am On Sep 03, 2017 |
This is normal....very normal....happens all the time.... when a guy finds the one ....all is well.. until it comes to having sex... then he finds out she is ehmmmm ..... |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Origin(f): 5:09am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Normal... After the conquest, what next.... A bigger Everest! |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by ademusiwa3r: 5:10am On Sep 03, 2017 |
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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by shevon: 5:16am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by mykel25(m): 5:46am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Seems everyone ignored the OP moniker..... Educative thread Tho it's a formed lie |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by DrHighchief(m): 5:48am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Go to River Niger and use black soap to wash your heard....#solutiontoproblem |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Niceiroko: 5:52am On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:its because it his sin and you can't continue bcux God is nt happy wit it |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by quickabel123: 5:53am On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by crownson(m): 5:59am On Sep 03, 2017 |
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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Amberon11: 6:03am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Lol, my bro did the this too. Machiavelli1: |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by JustAPhase(m): 6:04am On Sep 03, 2017 |
lol...when I tell people sex isn't love. They say no. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 6:08am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Change your mentally toward females. Try to be in a long relationship without sex and see what happen . |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Onliie(m): 6:12am On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:It's because you're still a kid. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Sike(m): 6:12am On Sep 03, 2017 |
How I Wish the OP knows what is good for him. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Josephamstrong1(m): 6:14am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Reason because you have sex with random girls you don't love. There's what is called love making. Love making goes with affection before and after. Sometimes doesn't end up in sex. If I don't love you, forget sex. If sex is what you can offer, forget me. Sex is not love. Love breeds respect even and after the sex. Love is in the heart not by actions which can be faked. Search yourself and know if you have true genuine love for this girls. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Amberon11: 6:16am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Dont mind that guy. You are very right. OrdercityWeb: |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Iamzik: 6:18am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Op your conscience is still alive! Congratulations Are you a Christian? If yes I want to bet you were thought that premarital sex is a sin. And that is true IF you are really a Christian. The guilt you feel after sex turns to hatred for the girl after a while (a kind of cognitive dissonance where your believe contradicts your actions) At 24 what is your present focus in life? Studies, working,.....? You have a whole life ahead of you. Don't ruin it! I will tell you the bitter truth. You need to stop sleeping with more girls. Having this experience over and over again will eventually mess up your emotions. Try having a platonic relationship and tell the girl upfront to not expect sex from you. See if you can focus on appreciating the qualities that really matter : trust, empathy, care, team building, bonding, conflict resolution etc. Sex is overrated and you are at an age where you are so under pressure to impress your peers by having multiple sex partners. Don't impress. Disapoint them happily. If you are able to do this, you will achieve the ability to show love and care, emotional maturity and stability without necessarily involving sex. Sex is best in the context of marriage despite all the hype of premarital /extramarital sex adverts. I wish you the very best |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by yahmohy27: 6:24am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Tonythriller:Good one |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by yahmohy27: 6:24am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Tonythriller:Good one ,you have said it all |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by FromZeroToHero(m): 6:28am On Sep 03, 2017 |
I don't have any advise to give to a MUMU. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by joepentwo(m): 6:29am On Sep 03, 2017 |
But like seriously,
they are so many girls can offer guys more dan sex |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 6:29am On Sep 03, 2017 |
make Jesus Your Lord, Serve Him Faithfully, Dont Fornicate Again Till U Marry, Have It Then, U Will Even Love Her More When U Do It |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OLUWASOGOABIOLA: 6:35am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Nonsense post......Can't you post a reasonable thing? Nawa for you ooooooo |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Adebowale89(m): 6:40am On Sep 03, 2017 |
op, in your own case, reverse is mine. I easily got struck with any lady I tend to flirt with somewhat of getting jealous whenever I see them with male frds when I knew all this, I ve to back off from being flirt and concentrate on one bae you don't have any issues, the only thing is state of mind adjustment and value for female gender. if there is value, you can never get tired of her after sex.....values predate continuity in all forms |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Gbethel: 6:44am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Then keep your "Joystick" to yourself and go for special deliverance before marriage. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Trustworthiness: 6:47am On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: No it won't happen. pre marital sex comes with God's cause and wrought. While sex after you both got married comes with God's blessings. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by bayulll011(m): 6:54am On Sep 03, 2017 |
motun2017: Lol u can fall into his trap also. He wants a solutions that's why he's here. Don't crucufy him. I think for me he should grow up first and understand that relationship is more than sex,sex just and element of it 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Chukabiz1961(m): 6:56am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Ask your parents and get the correct answer period. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by bayulll011(m): 6:58am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Sfateema: Why re u interested in his name. Profer a solutions to his woes |
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