refiner:


Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

amunkita:


Nwa baby!!
Come wiv me nah, I earn 1k above the 35k..

rosalieene:


Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

TheLordIsGr8:

Wake up from your sleep in Jesus name.

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

curvilicious:
I married my hubby 2yrs ago when his monthly take home pay was 30k, i was earning 70k then but today. I left my job a year later. Today we have a house & 2cars to our name.
A man can earn 35k as take home nd get millions doing other things aside(legit stuffs) his salary.

So, yes I can. I did it before nd can do it again

DouglasH92:


Rubbish. If your man was intelligent, he wouldn't propose to you with such financial state.

We aren't talking about dating, we are talking about marriage. How long would you have to manage his 35,000 salary before he attains his ambitious goals? What kind of house can he afford with such money? Let's face it, you both would be living a penurious and poverty stricken lifestyle. Most of your needs wouldn't be met. How about children? Would you wait till he becomes financially successful before you have children?

Please be honest and realistic and stop trying to sound like you are a "nice" lady.

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

islandmoon:
my dear friends, to be sincere, it not fun living on 35k per month, I have my own business , sold my car to start the business after losing my job, even at that, I dont earn more than that 35k per month after working like a jackal, infact a quit notice is here looking at me, from my landlord. life is really though, before buying diaper, airtime, food stuffs and pay house rent and bills, I dont even have a car now , its foundation of poverty! I cant even afford a shoe talkless of buying new clothes. how will you give your family a treat? but the only thing that is keeping me going is the love I have for my family, this is why some men run away, my dear dont try it!

poverty is really bad!!

falconey:




I don't have any sister.

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

refiner:

Chops heart!

Mariinee:
What happened to family planning?

Daeyou:
Am a young guy so i stand to be corrected......
To me it doesn't matter if a man is earning 35K for ladies to marry, What matter most is the love!!

islandmoon:


you want me to have half a child? I only have a child .

how do you manage 35k in a month? teach me.

Nwaoma198:
6inches what?

danniyal:
How many ladies are earning N35000 in Nigeria ?what if men decide not to marry ladies who earn less than 35k. A man has 2 hands, 2 legs & 2 eyes and you same. You expect a man to carry all your responsibilities and put on his head . you as d woman , can u carry all d responsibilities of a man and put on your head. 35k times 2 is 70k. Why can't you b thinking of contributing your own quota. Lazy women on social media. Common recharge card a man has to buy for you. Everything man... I tire for your lives

Mariinee:
What exactly are you trying to say?
You have to be a millionaire to get married?
Wait, in your own opinion...What should be the salary scale of a man wishing to get married?

Kenturkey048:
my guy no jonze abeg..make nobody deciev u with that love that matters thing..marriage on its own na institution wey consist of so many factors..love get only 15% to play other factors take up the rest 85%..money na d main love stimulant....

Wroxxane:

The average Nigerian 'boy' mentality is that they expect their women to be virgins while still knowing how to perform all types of styles in bed, look good without asking them for a dime, cook and go shopping every day with a budget of 2k and below. In a nutshell, they expect the women to spend their own money, cook and clean after them, give birth to baby boys while still maintaining an 8am - 5pm job.