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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by daclemx: 10:33am On Oct 08, 2017

Bros, if the husband catches you, then you are in trouble. Stop now before it is too late. Unless the husband is aware

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Nobody: 10:34am On Oct 08, 2017

boostdom:
Give her if you have but there is the possibility of your benevolence snowballing into something unintended. When she asks consistently and you give, you support a dependence behaviour in her that makes her indebted to you. The problem this creates is that it makes her less inhibitive to you, which is compounded by the pleasant memories both of you might have shared. This is the psychic fuel that will ignite the passion.

I know how that story goes, bruh. She will be tossing her vows out the window with the quickness.

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Ssalk: 10:34am On Oct 08, 2017

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

My ex once beg me for money to support her marriage and I assisted her. Even not long ago another of my ex who is married called me for financial assistance which I promised her to do when I have the money. Nothing wrong with it so long nothing attached.

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Truckpusher(m): 10:35am On Oct 08, 2017

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

Just tell them point blank they shouldn't ever contact you for any monetary assistance ever. That shiit will land you in serious problem and you'll look like a fool when the shiit hits the fan.

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by WowSweetGuy(m): 10:35am On Oct 08, 2017

bettercreature:
There is nothing wrong about asking your ex for money! Marriage is not a death sentence.My exs does that often and i dont have problem helping if i have spear money

Bettercreature...i know who u r o...do sunday fr me or i expose u in nairaland grin

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by ahmg001(m): 10:35am On Oct 08, 2017

pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...

. Lolz,dt hanging of leg on d burglary proof actually remind me of sumfn,most especially wen d bed is by d window

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by bettercreature(m): 10:36am On Oct 08, 2017

Mrkumareze:
Op. We 're having same experience. Mine even borrowed some cash from me to support her husband during the traditional, promised to pay back . Now she's asking for money again when she haven't paid d previous one.
For me, I can be of help if I notice she has enough reason to beg. Afteral she's married does not mean we are enemies. You just have to delete that old thought of friendship and see her as your casual friend.

Don't mind them they actually believe a married lady should not talk to any man or ask for help.What you are doing are very normal.Help the needy
There was a time i got husband of my ex arrested simply because he beats her and sent her out at the middle of the night

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by zutu(m): 10:36am On Oct 08, 2017

My married ex too is bugging me with same thing, hers is
School fees for her children.

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by daramolanas1(m): 10:36am On Oct 08, 2017

crazygod:
Exporting as in international trade? or u meant extorting

BADT GUY[b][/b] grin

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Lomprico2: 10:37am On Oct 08, 2017

ResponsibleG:
You are still interested in him then. Why is he your ex?

Dude, op is not gay!

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Diso60090(m): 10:37am On Oct 08, 2017

siraj1402:
It happened to me and I gave her with pure intentions. In as much you do it without any hidden intention, surly you will be rewarded for it. She might need it to support her family.

only You talk wetin God fit use bless person take one beer for my care with pure intention

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by danieljessy: 10:37am On Oct 08, 2017

boostdom:
Give her if you have but there is the possibility of your benevolence snowballing into something unintended. When she asks consistently and you give, you support a dependence behaviour in her that makes her indebted to you. The problem this creates is that it makes her less inhibitive to you, which is compounded by the pleasant memories both of you might have shared. This is the psychic fuel that will ignite the passion.

I know how that story goes, bruh. She will be tossing her vows out the window with the quickness.

Literatus I carry dictionary dey read ur post

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by favourmic(m): 10:38am On Oct 08, 2017

Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me

exporting you to which country?

you be cargo that she is exporting you grin

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by sulakishop(m): 10:38am On Oct 08, 2017

We are in the same shoe bro

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Truckpusher(m): 10:38am On Oct 08, 2017

Ssalk:
My ex once beg me for money to support her marriage and I assisted her. Even not long ago another of my ex who is married called me for financial assistance which I promised her to do when I have the money. Nothing wrong with it so long nothing attached.

I hope you know the mindset of their husbands when he finds out you've been a Santa Claus to their wives.

Quit doing shiit all in the name of being a good person - It might hurt you tomorrow . Responsible women or men don't beg each other money behind the backs of their respective partners. What's not normal isn't just normal .

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by adriftonmemories(m): 10:39am On Oct 08, 2017

daclemx:
Bros, if the husband catches you, then you are in trouble. Stop now before it is too late. Unless the husband is aware

It's even worse if the husband is aware... You become a prime suspect embarassed

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by bettercreature(m): 10:39am On Oct 08, 2017

WowSweetGuy:
Bettercreature...i know who u r o...do sunday fr me or i expose u in nairaland

Lol its been long.How is everything

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by highchief1: 10:39am On Oct 08, 2017

pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...

ewe!that was harsh

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by sonature1: 10:39am On Oct 08, 2017

Ikebesupa:
Please I want to know if it's right for a married woman to keep asking for money from her Ex.. I'm having this experience now and don't know if I should stop or keep doing it...

People beg people they are close to in confidence...it's very normal. But make sure bygones stay bygones because if u sleep with her now, you are definitely going to earn curses.

Pls help her if she has genuine financial challenges

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Pope22(m): 10:40am On Oct 08, 2017*

Ikebesupa:
.. I suppose she is exporting me

Exporting, extorting or exploiting? Which one please?

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by kenex4ever(m): 10:40am On Oct 08, 2017

xreal:
If your wife does same, will you be pleased with that?

If NO; then STOP.

Else; KONTINU.

OP, think about this.

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by idu1(m): 10:40am On Oct 08, 2017

She's in need. Help her

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Brojimmydada77: 10:41am On Oct 08, 2017

Sharing the same experience. She gets upset each time I turn down an appointment with her due to the monetary demands

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Nobody: 10:41am On Oct 08, 2017

Truckpusher:
I hope you know the mindset of their husbands when he finds out you've been a Santa Claus to their wives.

Quit doing shiit all in the name of being a good person - It might hurt you tomorrow . Responsible women or men don't beg each other money behind the backs of their respective partners. What's not normal isn't just normal .

You're right. The spouses are usually not aware of the begging or giving. An ex once asked me for money _I didn't waste my time lying. I just told him my husband won't support such benevolence. Giving him without my husband's support/awareness is cheating!

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by highchief1: 10:41am On Oct 08, 2017

DeadRat:
There are certain things guys do here i do not find funny... A girl askes u out and u come out to tell the world (girls dont do that) dont be foolish, you are not the only guy who girls ask out... U have sex with women u come to tell us, are u that low; real men dont do tha shiit... Now this one comes here talkin shit abt ex, if u want to help her then do and dont come here askin us stupid questions, are u not a man? Why are most guys here too childish... Its sunday, go to church abeg...

u are really a dead rat what's wrong with sharing ideas?he wants more light

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Nobody: 10:42am On Oct 08, 2017

frenzyduchess:
Don't you have a woman in your life?, or siblings to take care of?, when it's a one time thing that's different but when she makes it habitual, you are setting yourself up.
You even said she makes advances at you OK o, keep playing with fire

Wot is there.....
Has he not Fvcked her severally b4?
A Fvck that was well fvcked can be refvcked provided the fvckee and the fvcker agreed that the previous Fvck was well fvcked.... Cyril law of refvcking

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by Viccur(m): 10:43am On Oct 08, 2017

Karma is waiting on u OP. Continue oo

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by adriftonmemories(m): 10:43am On Oct 08, 2017

[quote author=Truckpusher post=61216976]I hope you know the mindset of their husbands when he finds out you've been a Santa Claus to their wives.

Quit doing shiit all in the name of being a good person - It might hurt you tomorrow . Responsible women or men don't beg each other money behind the backs of their respective partners. What's not normal isn't just normal .[/quote

My brother Truckpusher, no mind the mum. When shii happens now he will still run to Nairaland in tears

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by sanandreas(m): 10:44am On Oct 08, 2017

I was in same shoes. Thanks to my friends advice. I stopped it. She was even saying if na my babe I nor go give her, I laughed hard.

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Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by WowSweetGuy(m): 10:44am On Oct 08, 2017

bettercreature:
Lol its been long.How is everything

im glad u remember me sir....everything is sad like seriously sad. I need spiritual cleansing to be happy

Re: MARRIED Woman Asking For Money From Her Ex... by highchief1: 10:45am On Oct 08, 2017

shurley22:
All these women without pride, self respect or dignity!!
What is it sef

u never c any thg u don't have sence sef so if u once dated a gov u can't go and and for contract or other benefits some of u are babies must u be enemies with an ex?someone I dated before helped me get a contract of over 16m u guys are eating ur mums Eba and think life ends there...I am married but I update all my exes cos if e better for them e don better for me and pls don't think it I'm a successful man by all standards

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